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Okay so who thinks I’ll be stood up?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Whatever happens I’m cool. My house has been proper tidied and I wouldn’t have done that had I not been having a new guest over.

Only it’s 16:16 now and not heard a peep. I know we both work nights and he finishes a lot later than me but still, you’d be up by now wouldn’t you? WhatsApp shows last online at 5:30am which was when he would’ve finished work and he messaged me at 5:29 saying see you later. His ETA is supposed to be 6pm but not heard anything.

This is why I didn’t want all this meeting stuff cos of the anticipation, the will they won’t they and checking your phone bollocks.

PLEASE don’t say his loss because the loss is mine. I wanna fuck! Just logical answers based off the info given.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Probably still asleep, in the gym etc.

If he was out and about he surely would have shown up online even if he was blanking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He’ll be there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll be your plan B my lovely. Hell, I’ll even be your plan M, N or O.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He's a man, men don't think to "check in". I wouldn't panic just yet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're not meeting for over an hour and a half. Unless he's got that far to travel, I wouldn't worry at the moment. Maybe send him a cheeky message to say you're looking forward to seeing him soon and hope he is too?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Probably still asleep, in the gym etc.

If he was out and about he surely would have shown up online even if he was blanking. "

Sounds like this. Not worth fretting about until he’s late. Hr might be out buying some tinstle for your tree

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I hope not, I’m looking forward to hearing all about his bum hole.

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Do people have a habit of not turning up ?

Why don’t you message him and see if it’s delivered , read or replied to.

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

"He's a man, men don't think to "check in". I wouldn't panic just yet. "

This exactly

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m guessing he won’t show but really hope I’m wrong. Only been stood up once myself but it was like that zero Comm’s on the day, she was obviously avoiding going on what’s app,

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

I wouldn't panic when I do regular night I don't sleep till about 0800 and wake up about 1730...

Also he could be fretting or just playing it cool and making you anxious so when he arrives you pounce in him like a girl possessed..

Which sounds like you will.

Have a greet meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would expect a message at 1745 saying "Running late ... be there soon"

He'll turn up. 10 mins late but he'll be there

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By *adbury girlWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

I’m sure he will show up if he messaged when he had finished work, it will take him 10 minutes to jump in the shower then he will be ready to leave

Enjoy your night

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By *urplechesterCouple over a year ago

chester

Positive vibes, he’ll be there! Enjoy

Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do keep us posted

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I messaged at half 3 saying are you awake yet?

It’s two grey ticks so delivered just not read but he’s not been online either since half this morning. Now is the time I’d be getting in the shower. Do I do it, do I shave my fanny or what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I messaged at half 3 saying are you awake yet?

It’s two grey ticks so delivered just not read but he’s not been online either since half this morning. Now is the time I’d be getting in the shower. Do I do it, do I shave my fanny or what? "

Go for it.

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By *ottom charlieMan over a year ago

strensall

maybe you kickboxing tee shirt has scared him off but if he doesnt turn up with an arm full of prezzies you can always use him as a punchbag,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I messaged at half 3 saying are you awake yet?

It’s two grey ticks so delivered just not read but he’s not been online either since half this morning. Now is the time I’d be getting in the shower. Do I do it, do I shave my fanny or what?

Go for it."

Okay. At the very least I’ll be clean as a whistle to get into my fresh clean bedding

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I messaged at half 3 saying are you awake yet?

It’s two grey ticks so delivered just not read but he’s not been online either since half this morning. Now is the time I’d be getting in the shower. Do I do it, do I shave my fanny or what?

Go for it.

Okay. At the very least I’ll be clean as a whistle to get into my fresh clean bedding

Or for your Plan B? Yes? Yes!?

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Deffo get ready and shave and if he does prove you Wrong and turns up and blows your mind post your beautiful shaved pussy as a forfeit XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's a man, men don't think to "check in". I wouldn't panic just yet.

This exactly

The plan has been made. Further comms are needed if the plan changes. There’s no need to check in every 5 mins. He knows he’s onto a sure thing. We know there’s attraction. We know that there’s no expectation of anything more. Them’s the facts presented. So what purpose would it serve to ‘check in’?

Now if he’s late without advance apology that speaks volumes of his integrity, thoughtfulness etc. but that’s a “what if” at 16:42 so lets give him benefit of the doubt in the meantime

OP hope you have a wonderful evening!

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By *irtydevil666Man over a year ago

bristol

I have consulted the oracle and everything will be fine give or take 10 mins of ETA.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do people have a habit of not turning up ?

Why don’t you message him and see if it’s delivered , read or replied to."

Yes.... being stood up happens quite a bit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plan b send up the meet now flag take a picture insta shag

If plan a shows his head tell him he just need to have seconds

The old saying if your not fast your last

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Last online at 530 am means I'd still be holding out hope.

He's probably getting his sleep in so he has 100% energy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I messaged at half 3 saying are you awake yet?

It’s two grey ticks so delivered just not read but he’s not been online either since half this morning. Now is the time I’d be getting in the shower. Do I do it, do I shave my fanny or what? "

Yes! Get ready, and don't stress, he's not due for over an hour yet

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By *eau and ArrowCouple over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I have faith. Not online since he finished work is my clincher

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

And if he doesn't show up post a pic of your shaven pussy to show what he's missed.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

It's my experience in meets.. that when it's getting near to the meet if you stop hearing from the person it ain't gonna happen.. for instance.. I'm meant to be having one this evening.. last I heard from the person was over 24 hours ago.... been on this site long enough to realise I'll probably be spending the night on me own watching the porridge box set I picked up from the charity shop in the week..

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Leave the fanny with a bit of fuzz though

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By *ancelot1633Man over a year ago

weybridge

"I messaged at half 3 saying are you awake yet?

It’s two grey ticks so delivered just not read but he’s not been online either since half this morning. Now is the time I’d be getting in the shower. Do I do it, do I shave my fanny or what? "

Yes, he’ll be there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd brake out the electric vibrator Anne and make the fucking street lights dim outside

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe his wife asked him to bring a takeaway home for tea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He really should be there, if he knows what's good for him!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"It's my experience in meets.. that when it's getting near to the meet if you stop hearing from the person it ain't gonna happen.. for instance.. I'm meant to be having one this evening.. last I heard from the person was over 24 hours ago.... been on this site long enough to realise I'll probably be spending the night on me own watching the porridge box set I picked up from the charity shop in the week..

I’ve got that!

It’s a great laugh , you won’t be disappointed.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

If you agreed 6p.m. then there's no more to be said unless 1. He's going to be late or 2. He can't make it.

Go and fluff the cushions

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I’ve got that!

It’s a great laugh , you won’t be disappointed.

I've actually cheated and watched a few already.. forgotten how funny it was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get yourself ready better to be prepared. I'm pretty confident he will show. I know I would.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

Don’t waste the makeup, no contact no show. Good choice in box sets I also have it as well. Maybe watch the film it’s aged quite well.

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By *EAT..85Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

Hmm. That's leaving it late for a last conformational check in.

Least the house is tidy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right I’m going in the shower then. Still haven’t heard anything. Still hasn’t been online.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hedge your bets. Shave half.

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Looks like the Fab community is here for you and sat waiting to find out will he won't he....

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Getting a bit weird with still contact then.

Surely by now he'd be checking you were still on, then saying, ok jumping in the shower now etc.

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire

Hopefully he'll msg to say he's on his way.

We're all in this with you!

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

"Right I’m going in the shower then. Still haven’t heard anything. Still hasn’t been online. "

Keeping everything crossed for you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be honest, I’d wait until after 6 before you start to wonder properly.

He might just have the habit of not checking in, he may just turn up at 6 as planned and you’ll have fret over nothin’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He will turn up! Why wouldn’t he?

He’s probably still asleep or something and will message you saying he over slept and he’s gonna get ready and be there in 10 .

I wouldn’t worry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell

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By *rMojoRisinMan over a year ago

nottingham

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell "

Someone shot Phil Mitchell, oh no!

Who’s Phil Mitchell?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has it crossed anyone's mind that he is probably fictitious?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has it crossed anyone's mind that he is probably fictitious?"

The story arc is too polished for it to be a work of fiction.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Has it crossed anyone's mind that he is probably fictitious?"

Not when you know what Annie is like no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has it crossed anyone's mind that he is probably fictitious?

Not when you know what Annie is like no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell "

thinking the same thing. Rooting for the happy ending just like when we watched Finding Nemo!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Big reveal in 6 minutes

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Must confess I’m wondering what’s happening and hoping it goes well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he's had a wank after work then I'd say he's dusted you off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Annie isn't online so hopefully that is a good sign that he has messaged on en route

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"If he's had a wank after work then I'd say he's dusted you off. "

Well let’s hope you’re wrong! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell

thinking the same thing. Rooting for the happy ending just like when we watched Finding Nemo! "

I’m going to be so disappointed if she says tomorrow that she didn’t get porked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he's had a wank after work then I'd say he's dusted you off.

Well let’s hope you’re wrong! X"

I hope so, as that would be rude. X

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Anytime now

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By *uck-RogersMan over a year ago

Radstock

Who in their right mind would stand you up.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell "

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell

thinking the same thing. Rooting for the happy ending just like when we watched Finding Nemo!

I’m going to be so disappointed if she says tomorrow that she didn’t get porked. "

Especially after all the effort decorating that tree...

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

I'm sure he'll be there Annie.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Annie isn't online so hopefully that is a good sign that he has messaged on en route

That is a good sign ..heres hoping

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Police Squad.

It's 1803 is he there yet.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell

thinking the same thing. Rooting for the happy ending just like when we watched Finding Nemo!

I’m going to be so disappointed if she says tomorrow that she didn’t get porked. "

She should be ok, the Polish are renowned for their pork sausage

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Police Squad.

"Annie isn't online so hopefully that is a good sign that he has messaged on en route

That is a good sign ..heres hoping

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just had a thought. Maybe worth checking under the mat for a note. He could be next door?

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Whatever happens I’m cool. My house has been proper tidied and I wouldn’t have done that had I not been having a new guest over.

This is why I didn’t want all this meeting stuff cos of the anticipation, the will they won’t they and checking your phone bollocks.

PLEASE don’t say his loss because the loss is mine. I wanna fuck! Just logical answers based off the info given. "

We're all waiting Annie....

Is he isn't he ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

Or the one I want to do, do nothing no text or anything. If he messages in the next 45 mins cos I’ll still set and straighten my hair then he can come down. After 7 if he messages I’ll say I’m over my friends now sorry cos I didn’t hear anything.

Or if he doesn’t message at all and I see him next in work I’ll just be polite as normal and if he asks again I’ll obviously say nah actually it’s not a good idea but still be friendly and polite?

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By *ost SockMan over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Just had a thought. Maybe worth checking under the mat for a note. He could be next door?

Was he going to be delivered by Hermes, or something?

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"It's 1803 is he there yet."

I'd put money on he's there...otherwise Annie would possibly be on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Taking my status down cos I feel like a knob!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Taking my status down cos I feel like a knob! "

Oh no

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

"Taking my status down cos I feel like a knob! "

Hurray that means your getting laid tonight...

Now fuck his brains out

And post your forfeit...

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By *rangesmartieWoman over a year ago

Devon

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"Taking my status down cos I feel like a knob! "

Awwwe fuck, sorry Annie

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Police Squad.

Never keep a woman waiting.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

o o OO o o

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

I wouldn’t do anything. Not message him, not reply (if he texts and it’s a shit excuse) and just act nonchalant in work.

Act like you weren’t expecting him to show.

Although, he could be late. He may have stopped off at Asda for wine/chocolates/flowers/condoms.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"Taking my status down cos I feel like a knob! "

What no show...no contact?

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

I'd do nothing, the ball has been in his court since your last message, i'd personally wait and see if he gets in touch x

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

o o OO o o

He might be lost. It’s a bit early to be too disappointed. Wait until 9pm and then make a voodoo doll of him and put the pins in the bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

Shit! Gutted for you. How rude of him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell "

Who shot him - I cant remember

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Police Squad.

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

I wouldn’t do anything. Not message him, not reply (if he texts and it’s a shit excuse) and just act nonchalant in work.

Act like you weren’t expecting him to show.

Although, he could be late. He may have stopped off at Asda for wine/chocolates/flowers/condoms."

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"Taking my status down cos I feel like a knob! "
such a shitty thing to do - what is wrong with blokes?

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM) over a year ago

Loughborough

I would crawl over broken glass, to spend a couple of yours in your company!

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By *rangesmartieWoman over a year ago

Devon

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

Polite and distant at work. But don't up another offer gets my vote.

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire

See... And single men wonder why we whinge about them!! They can't turn up for a guaranteed shag with a super hot lady.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

o o OO o o

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

I wouldn’t do anything. Not message him, not reply (if he texts and it’s a shit excuse) and just act nonchalant in work.

Act like you weren’t expecting him to show.

Although, he could be late. He may have stopped off at Asda for wine/chocolates/flowers/condoms.

Well he might have….. men do do that.

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Police Squad.

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell

Who shot him - I cant remember"

Well hard, I think.

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

Oh no Annie...

Taking my status down as I feel like a knob...

I didn't she that when posted Hurray...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Christ I haven’t been this gripped since waiting to find out who shot Phill Mitchell

Who shot him - I cant remember"

Lisa his ex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And don’t rule out that he may have seen all this already?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And don’t rule out that he may have seen all this already? "

I don’t think he’s on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

Shit! Gutted for you. How rude of him

Totally unacceptable that you haven’t heard a peep and it’s like 6pm. Us girls need to get ready so unless he’s dead. He should say whether he’s gonna be late.

He could still be asleep but if that’s the case, I’d be WELL PISSED OFF. Because some men need to get their shit together !

RUDE

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’m alright like. I don’t feel like drying my hair now and then straightening it though. Rather just stick my jammies on now.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Somewhere Only We Know

"And don’t rule out that he may have seen all this already?

I don’t think he’s on here?"

He may be on in stealth ninja mode. Not everyone is who they say they are.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. Hopefully he turns up. I'd say continue getting ready as you're not even ready anyway. And then I'll once you're ready , text him to ask is everything okay. If he doesn't reply an hour after that then leave it.

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By *egvisir71Man over a year ago

Derbyshire

Unless there’s an unbelievably good reason for not turning up then the guys a knob and not you Annie. Hold your head high and move on as he’s not worth it, but you are

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By *J52Man over a year ago

chessington

"I’m alright like. I don’t feel like drying my hair now and then straightening it though. Rather just stick my jammies on now. "

I would imagine you look hot and sexy in your jammies...xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seriously! Who stands up a stunner like you?

Bloke needs his head checking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And don’t rule out that he may have seen all this already?

I don’t think he’s on here?

He may be on in stealth ninja mode. Not everyone is who they say they are.

Lou x "

I very much doubt he’s on here. He’s a guy from my works.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m alright like. I don’t feel like drying my hair now and then straightening it though. Rather just stick my jammies on now. "

Sending virtual hugs Annie.

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By *arneygumbleMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Anni multiple glasses of wine chocolate and a rompcom.. followed by some perving on here and the use of your favourite toy before bed..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s why you should always headge your bets and have a plan a b c d and f

So that If one dosent turn up on to the next

If a turns up then b just going to need to deal with seconds and c will need to deal with 3rds and so on if your not fast your last in line

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

"See... And single men wonder why we whinge about them!! They can't turn up for a guaranteed shag with a super hot lady."

Crazy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not heard anything he hasn’t been online either. Right damage control now cos I gotta see this dude in work. I’m not even ready myself. Hairs still wet and I’ve got my turban on it still.

Do I message and say not heard anything so I’ve made other plans now.

That's very mature of you. I'm sorry it didn't pan out the way you had hoped but at least you know it's not because of anything on your side. It's not his gain

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Don't text him. You already text him once. Just leave it.

If he texts you back just judge it from whatever he says.

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Police Squad.

"And don’t rule out that he may have seen all this already?

I don’t think he’s on here?

He may be on in stealth ninja mode. Not everyone is who they say they are.

Lou x

I very much doubt he’s on here. He’s a guy from my works. "

That going to be awkward Monday morning.

For what it's worth I'm sorry. No one deserves it, but that people for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seriously! Who stands up a stunner like you?

Bloke needs his head checking."

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't message ... His fault ... Do what makes you happy tonight. ..there is no excuse for lack of communication on his part.

It would be inexcusable for anyone.

You look great too though. So do stuff that makes you happy.

I'd love to chat ... Wish I lived closer lol

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

Being ghosted can happen to anyone.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"I’m alright like. I don’t feel like drying my hair now and then straightening it though. Rather just stick my jammies on now. "

I take it you have child care arrangements in place anyway, so make the most of it.

The nights still early, get out there and enjoy yourself.

Don’t sit on your arse at home feeling pissed off.

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By *illiamMeetsMan over a year ago

manchester

"And don’t rule out that he may have seen all this already?

I don’t think he’s on here?

He may be on in stealth ninja mode. Not everyone is who they say they are.

Lou x

I very much doubt he’s on here. He’s a guy from my works. "

Sack him . No verbal warning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rude. Inconsiderate. Time waster who I would report if he's on here.

Girl, do not give him another chance, don't be a mug.

There's no excuse in this day and age for not keeping in touch.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Have you got any friends that might fancy a night out? You're half way there to being ready anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m alright like. I don’t feel like drying my hair now and then straightening it though. Rather just stick my jammies on now. "

I can't help thinking there must be several blokes on this thread who'd happily shag you in your PJs with wet hair.

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By *hubby CoupleCouple over a year ago

Essex

Sounds like he was all talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’m gonna go get pizza and chips and a can of full fat cocacola (I know it’s spelt wrong).

Honestly I’m fine. I promise. You’d know if I was upset because I’d say I was upset. I feel nothing, not even pissed off. He will ask me again, they always do only this time I have boundaries so this really was his only chance. I’ll be polite and friendly. He could be thinking all sorts, he’s higher than me in work, he could be thinking of repercussions.

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By *EAT..85Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

Sorry to hear this Annie.

Perhaps this puts things a bit into perspective for many. Annie is perceived as stunning and kinky. But people are flaky and stand anyone up. People live in their own little worlds where other's feelings don't matter as long as they've collected the photos, pulled the person, ticked the box, humiliated someone... Fab is renowned for such people and results in people becoming distant, wary and jaded.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m alright like. I don’t feel like drying my hair now and then straightening it though. Rather just stick my jammies on now. "

Still do your hair so it’s nice for tomorrow.

Enjoy your fresh sheets tonight. There will be other faces to sit on. Hopefully a face thats even more handsome will come your way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That sucks. He’s had his chance.

Move on, don’t give him a second thought.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

He was just a shag, and it's lovely getting in a clean bed after a bath.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m gonna go get pizza and chips and a can of full fat cocacola (I know it’s spelt wrong).

Onwards and upwards. His loss. He’s proven himself as being inadequate. He could have been a ‘man’ and called to explain. He’s a coward. Not worth your time to worry about him. Enjoy the pizza

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, Plan B? I can get there in an hour or so?

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Police Squad.

"I’m gonna go get pizza and chips and a can of full fat cocacola (I know it’s spelt wrong).

That's it you make the excuse for him. Enjoy the pizza, I'm sure we'll find out what the "reason" is. Hugs, cuddles and kisses on all your pink parts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wanna message him and say this was your only chance. Don’t ask me again. Cos he has been asking me to meet him since end of July. But that’s just ego talking. Best thing is to say nothing. Right my pizza should be ready to pick up now.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

"I wanna message him and say this was your only chance. Don’t ask me again. Cos he has been asking me to meet him since end of July. But that’s just ego talking. Best thing is to say nothing. Right my pizza should be ready to pick up now. "

Say nothing he blew it.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

I think that's the best thing

Enjoy your pizza and fresh sheets!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Annie he is off his head not showing up, you are stunning.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Enjoy your pizza and put him out of your mind, if you can.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a line ready in your head. Last night ? Oh yeah, no worries, I got chance to catch up with the girls, we pigged out and pizza.........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, Plan B? I can get there in an hour or so? "

Saddle up Rudolph!

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By *3xymamaWoman over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"He might be lost. It’s a bit early to be too disappointed. Wait until 9pm and then make a voodoo doll of him and put the pins in the bollocks."

I vote make a voodoo doll of him and stick lots of pins in his bollocks too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't message him, wait and see what he says. He may have had a family emergency.

If he doesn't say anything just smile and act normal and change the subject to something about work.

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

I don’t wanna completely sevens him, but why didn’t you just message asking if things were still happening?

It’s 2021. Guys get labelled a pushy creep over nothing these days. Maybe he was waiting for you to confirm? Maybe he didn’t wanna get labelled and mess up the situation at work?

I know it breaks “girl code” or whatever, but things are different now. You gotta be a little more forward these days if you want to me certain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Okay so on the plus side we have an end to this saga. (I was genuinely worried!).

Glad you’re not cut up over it. Enjoy your pizza. Clearly the guy is all mouth no trousers.

Just makes me sad that guys still do this shit to women.

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By *egvisir71Man over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I don’t wanna completely sevens him, but why didn’t you just message asking if things were still happening?

It’s 2021. Guys get labelled a pushy creep over nothing these days. Maybe he was waiting for you to confirm? Maybe he didn’t wanna get labelled and mess up the situation at work?

I know it breaks “girl code” or whatever, but things are different now. You gotta be a little more forward these days if you want to me certain. "

She did message him and no reply.

Sorry but no excuses for not turning up and not messaging.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"I don’t wanna completely sevens him, but why didn’t you just message asking if things were still happening?

It’s 2021. Guys get labelled a pushy creep over nothing these days. Maybe he was waiting for you to confirm? Maybe he didn’t wanna get labelled and mess up the situation at work?

I know it breaks “girl code” or whatever, but things are different now. You gotta be a little more forward these days if you want to me certain. "

It's not girl code, it's decency plain and simple.

If he has a good reason then he has the chance in work to explain and see what comes of it but with how things are when people get ghosted so often and for so many reasons, Annie has every right to believe that this is what has happened as there aren't usually that many excuses now not to let them know you can't make it.....as you've said, it's 2021 and everyone can send a message via so many platforms.

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By *wistedTooCouple over a year ago

Frimley

Contact is important. Up to the last moment we are very specifically conscious about staying in contact. We wouldn’t treat someone any other way. Jesus fuck, especially not you! Haha. Whew!

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

"I don’t wanna completely sevens him, but why didn’t you just message asking if things were still happening?

It’s 2021. Guys get labelled a pushy creep over nothing these days. Maybe he was waiting for you to confirm? Maybe he didn’t wanna get labelled and mess up the situation at work?

I know it breaks “girl code” or whatever, but things are different now. You gotta be a little more forward these days if you want to me certain.

She did message him and no reply.

Sorry but no excuses for not turning up and not messaging. "

Maybe I missed something, felt like they were both playing a game of “I won’t txt first”

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

"I don’t wanna completely sevens him, but why didn’t you just message asking if things were still happening?

It’s 2021. Guys get labelled a pushy creep over nothing these days. Maybe he was waiting for you to confirm? Maybe he didn’t wanna get labelled and mess up the situation at work?

I know it breaks “girl code” or whatever, but things are different now. You gotta be a little more forward these days if you want to me certain.

She did message him and no reply.

Sorry but no excuses for not turning up and not messaging. "

Actually scrolled the thread, I did miss the “are you up yet text”.

Yeah, sounds like the usual. All talk, no balls

Maybe it’s an emergency, a family matter, all possible. But I wouldn’t bet on it.

Tough talk until it’s time to act. Then to make things worse, not even tough enough to message saying they aren’t coming

You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

I’m so, so sorry my lovely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a fool he is.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Wow...he must be mad ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he didn't turn up he needs his head testing.

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By *yron69Man over a year ago

Fareham

Perhaps he’s still down The Blue Oyster Club…?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It’s fine. I’ve ate half my pizza. Got half for the morning. I don’t really know much about this guy, we’re friends on Facebook and he’s listed as single there. I don’t really wanna go full detective mode on it either cos that’s old me stuff. I don’t really care. If he had come down I would’ve shagged him but maybe it’s a good thing and it wasn’t meant to be. He’s not my department but he is still a boss in his department and higher than me.

When I saw him last night he was full of it. When I finished work this morning he messaged me to come to come see him before I left. When I got home he was messaging till I fell asleep and then said see you later but I was asleep for that.

I think messaging at half 3 this afternoon asking if he was awake was enough to indicate I was still interested in meeting.

Just see what happens when I’m in work next. He has got the option to whip me over to another department completely over the other side of the warehouse Amazon is massive. I’d never see him then. See if he does that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well it was obvious from the thread title how it was gonna pan out. You couldn't write this...oh wait...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably a good thing not to crap where you eat anyway.

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By *egvisir71Man over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Contact is important. Up to the last moment we are very specifically conscious about staying in contact. We wouldn’t treat someone any other way. Jesus fuck, especially not you! Haha. Whew!"

I had a meet on Thursday night and we were constantly in contact. Mainly because of the pure unadulterated filthy messages that resulted in us both being horny as hell, but also to reassure each other that it was happening. I will go out of my way to ensure the op is totally confident that I will turn up or be in as I know how horrible it is to be ghosted or stood up. She also did the same and it all went amazing and an awesomely filthy night was had. There’s just no excuses for no contact in my opinion. Barr major incidents obviously

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Honestly I’m fine. I promise. You’d know if I was upset because I’d say I was upset. I feel nothing, not even pissed off. He will ask me again, they always do only this time I have boundaries so this really was his only chance. I’ll be polite and friendly. He could be thinking all sorts, he’s higher than me in work, he could be thinking of repercussions. "

That sounds very positive, you have in the past let this sort of thing get to you.

He either lost his bottle or all the checking in texts freaked him out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That sounds very positive, you have in the past let this sort of thing get to you.

He either lost his bottle or all the checking in texts freaked him out

All the checking in texts? I text him once at 3:30pm asking if he was awake yet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You might of scared him guys can be ever so full of bravado, but when a attractive woman really does let a guy know it's a definite some tend to start flapping it.

He will say he just woke up in a text an hour or so from now, that means he has had another emotional flip and is now regretting not nailing you to the bed.

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By *yron69Man over a year ago

Fareham

Maybe he was tipped off the night was broadcast on FabSwingers?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"All the checking in texts? I text him once at 3:30pm asking if he was awake yet. "

Sorry, I misread it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well it was obvious from the thread title how it was gonna pan out. You couldn't write this...oh wait..."

I'd call you a cynic, but then I don't want to be up half the night debating the definition of a hypocrite.

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

"Maybe he was tipped off the night was broadcast on FabSwingers?"

You might not be wrong here. Huge company, I’m sure people there know.

Genuinely might be this.

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By *wistedTooCouple over a year ago

Frimley

"Maybe he was tipped off the night was broadcast on FabSwingers?

You might not be wrong here. Huge company, I’m sure people there know.

Genuinely might be this. "

That doesn’t make any sense. She didn’t name him. He probably just got cold feet or was being a lazy ass. It happens. It’s also the most likely scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe he was tipped off the night was broadcast on FabSwingers?

You might not be wrong here. Huge company, I’m sure people there know.

Genuinely might be this. "

I always think that but even people who may know the site I’d say an even smaller proportion would read the forums or even know about them.

The most annoying thing is I could have done overtime tonight. My daughter is with her Dad till tomorrow afternoon, this was my free weekend.

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By *ancslad22Man over a year ago

Lytham

Have you heard from him yet?

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire

"Maybe he was tipped off the night was broadcast on FabSwingers?

You might not be wrong here. Huge company, I’m sure people there know.

Genuinely might be this.

I always think that but even people who may know the site I’d say an even smaller proportion would read the forums or even know about them.

The most annoying thing is I could have done overtime tonight. My daughter is with her Dad till tomorrow afternoon, this was my free weekend. "

That's the most annoying thing, as a single mum when you don't get much time to yourself.

I just got told to get off my high horse because I wouldn't give someone a second chance. I'd rather stay up here!

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

"Maybe he was tipped off the night was broadcast on FabSwingers?

You might not be wrong here. Huge company, I’m sure people there know.

Genuinely might be this.

That doesn’t make any sense. She didn’t name him. He probably just got cold feet or was being a lazy ass. It happens. It’s also the most likely scenario."

It makes zero sense that someone that works with her spotted her on here with her face pictures, saw the post and knew about the giant polish guy bragging about his hot date tonight?

Zero sense?

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By *irth VaderMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"I’m alright like. I don’t feel like drying my hair now and then straightening it though. Rather just stick my jammies on now. "

I’m fuckin’ raging for you. What a coward. He obviously shat himself.

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By *irth VaderMan over a year ago

Glasgow

So Christmassy too.

And all you wanted was to empty his sack and play with his baubles.

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By *ustme34Man over a year ago

Bingley

"It’s fine. I’ve ate half my pizza. Got half for the morning. I don’t really know much about this guy, we’re friends on Facebook and he’s listed as single there. I don’t really wanna go full detective mode on it either cos that’s old me stuff. I don’t really care. If he had come down I would’ve shagged him but maybe it’s a good thing and it wasn’t meant to be. He’s not my department but he is still a boss in his department and higher than me.

I think messaging at half 3 this afternoon asking if he was awake was enough to indicate I was still interested in meeting.

Hes a fool

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Taking my status down cos I feel like a knob! "
the man’s a fool

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By *olam2Man over a year ago

Glasgow - Hamilton

I thought your profile was say: I DO NOT MEET! lol Mebbees is why no heard!?

Am sure you could find a another from the many out there as is a nice profile!

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By *azylivingMan over a year ago

random location

"Maybe he was tipped off the night was broadcast on FabSwingers?

You might not be wrong here. Huge company, I’m sure people there know.

Genuinely might be this.

I always think that but even people who may know the site I’d say an even smaller proportion would read the forums or even know about them.

The most annoying thing is I could have done overtime tonight. My daughter is with her Dad till tomorrow afternoon, this was my free weekend. "

I don’t give up my child free time for anyone.

(Selfish that it may be)

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By *ornucopiaMan over a year ago

Bexley

"...

Although, he could be late. He may have stopped off at Asda for wine/chocolates/flowers/condoms."

What's wrong with Poundworld condoms?

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