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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they underestimate me in any way.. most extreme form would be negging I guess.
When they are full of themselves and openly convinced I must be lusting after them. Arrogance isn't sexy mate.
When they talk crap about ALL their exes. That's a turn off and a red light. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Poor spelling and grammar.
It’s important to a geek like me! 
No hope for me then…
Why wouldn’t there be? You’re lovely  "
You used ‘you’re’ correctly, I was testing you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poor spelling and grammar.
It’s important to a geek like me!
U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?
I wil mak a excepshun 4 u
I think someone is getting their mucking fords wuddled"
Don’t you mean ‘there’? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poor spelling and grammar.
It’s important to a geek like me!
U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?
I wil mak a excepshun 4 u
I think someone is getting their mucking fords wuddled
Don’t you mean ‘there’? "
No, he’s right. I can’t help myself lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know this might sound rude and not come across well, but not sure how else to put it.
But, people being totally unrealistic. I'm sure this could cover many things, and I know it sounds a little strange on a site that covers fantasies on a daily/hourly basis.
A for instance is needed.......
From looking at our pictures and profile.....what would possess a 60+ year old to send us a "trying my arm" message with a horrible British bull dog neck looking crumpled up penis peeking out a greying hedge of pubic hair attached to entice us in!
It just wastes so much time, and we like to reply with at least a no thanks to anybody that messages us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poor spelling and grammar.
It’s important to a geek like me!
U dnt fmacy a fuk thn?
I wil mak a excepshun 4 u
I think someone is getting their mucking fords wuddled
Don’t you mean ‘there’?
No, he’s right. I can’t help myself lol x"
He was indeed right. I was joking  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Poor spelling and grammar.
It’s important to a geek like me!
Totally this 
And also a lack of sense of humour. If someone is dead serious and boring in their messages I lose interest quickly"
I am totally with you there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bad teeth, its the first thing I would notice and If I dont want to even kiss them, its a non starter!
On here, any of the 'isms', poor attitude, lack of good humour in the messaging or posts they make x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When chatting…
People who have really, really long profiles, especially ones with the percentages on or the Sydney University disclaimer.
Pics of men in women’s underwear.
“Big Cummer”
People who describe themselves as Kinky and only want to talk about very taboo stuff.
Meeting in reality:
Body odour.
Dirty houses. |
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"I know this might sound rude and not come across well, but not sure how else to put it.
But, people being totally unrealistic. I'm sure this could cover many things, and I know it sounds a little strange on a site that covers fantasies on a daily/hourly basis.
A for instance is needed.......
From looking at our pictures and profile.....what would possess a 60+ year old to send us a "trying my arm" message with a horrible British bull dog neck looking crumpled up penis peeking out a greying hedge of pubic hair attached to entice us in!
It just wastes so much time, and we like to reply with at least a no thanks to anybody that messages us!"
If you don't ask you don't get |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nit picking and 'rules lawyering' attitudes. I like to speak freely with the person listening knowing me well enough to know my intent and then not taking things out of context. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any type of mess or uncleanliness, poor hygiene, uneducated, intoxicated, no sense of humour, boring, being common, acting like a child…… Other than that I’m quite easy going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dirt (not to be confused with filth  ). I was once really keen on a girl and we'd been flirting for weeks. After a good night out she invited me back to hers. It wasn't a Palace and not up to my expectations in the cleanliness department, but she was young and I thought maybe she had better things to do than clean. Anyway, I went to use the bathroom and good god I've never seen anything like it in my life. I actually spewed. It was disgusting. That was a big turn off and I made a sharp exit!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few things for me:
Hygiene
Presentation for a meet - I've made an effort (= overdressed compared to following descript) and the fella arrives in shorts, tee shirt and sliders.
Pushy behaviour - actually pushes me in the opposite direction.
There are others I'm sure.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !
That's squirting. They're not pissing themselves and it's involuntary."
How annoying is it when they still think we're peeing ourselves? I'm not into watersports AT ALL (done it, didn't like it), but gushing and squirting is an amazing feeling. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all like being turned on…but what makes it all come to a stop? What’s your biggest turn off that makes you say - ‘nope, not gonna happen now!’? "
Fake moans. I was in a gangbang once and I knew the lady was tired but wanted to keep up the bet, so she was moaning fake moans and that's how I started laughing while doing it. Passed her off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all like being turned on…but what makes it all come to a stop? What’s your biggest turn off that makes you say - ‘nope, not gonna happen now!’?
Fake moans. I was in a gangbang once and I knew the lady was tired but wanted to keep up the bet, so she was moaning fake moans and that's how I started laughing while doing it. Passed her off "
Pissed* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here, inability to send a message I might want to read. Text speak, lack of sentences, calling me pet names instead of my actual name, sending pics of your private parts before I've even said hello.
Off here, smoking, drugs, excessive alcohol, swearing, general rudeness, bad hygiene, finding out your photos are 20+ years old. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
When you know someone hasn't bothered with what their first impressions will be ...shabby or worn clothes, or stinky work wear (couldn't be bothered to change attitude  )  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !
That's squirting. They're not pissing themselves and it's involuntary.
How annoying is it when they still think we're peeing ourselves? I'm not into watersports AT ALL (done it, didn't like it), but gushing and squirting is an amazing feeling. "
I don't like it at all but fair play to you! Being shamed for something that your body does without your control is not nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !
That's squirting. They're not pissing themselves and it's involuntary.
How annoying is it when they still think we're peeing ourselves? I'm not into watersports AT ALL (done it, didn't like it), but gushing and squirting is an amazing feeling.
I don't like it at all but fair play to you! Being shamed for something that your body does without your control is not nice. "
No, it's not nice. I'm lucky to have two regular guys who love it when I gush and they can't get enough of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !"
Oh my good God!!!!! I'm so bored of reading this sort of thing. If it felt like I was there peeing myself, I'd die of embarrassment. I've taken a break during sex and gushing to go to the bathroom for a wee because the urge to wee felt so different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !"
No, it's not. Perhaps listen to the women who know - this isn't something women have control over. To shame someone for it is, I repeat, not very nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !
No, it's not. Perhaps listen to the women who know - this isn't something women have control over. To shame someone for it is, I repeat, not very nice "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !
Men who shame women's bodily functions.
Its only shaming when she lies about enjoying watersports "
So if a woman gushes/squirts/cums (whatever you want to name it) you put this in the same category as some would call watersports? Ie peeing on you?
I’m just trying to clarify what you said
We all have that thing that turns us off. For me, when she fuma like that, it’s a massive turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !
Men who shame women's bodily functions.
Its only shaming when she lies about enjoying watersports "
it could be her first time too. It didn't happen to me until I was in my 30s and quite unexpected. Did I lie? No. And it's not same as urine. Even if contains traces of it. Stop spreading myths. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Its watersports at the end of the day , if the lay admits their into that then i decline their offer to play , just find it a huge turn off when im covered in piss !"
So you’re saying that you know better than a woman does about her own body? That you’re willing to contradict anyone’s personal experience, just because you think that you can’t be wrong?
Arrogance is a huge turn off for most people, just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rude and or ignorant people, there’s no need for it.
Also I can go off someone very quickly just by something they say or do.
It doesn’t happen often but it has made me distance myself in the past |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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Poor hygiene, bad manners, excessive swearing during conversation.
A person that comes across as though they are better than others is such an unattractive trait in any gender, I really don’t like that.
Feet. It’s a big no to the feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loud
Arrogant
Calling me babe
Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You, OP.
I'm just kidding 
Lack of humour/sarcasm.. I know it's such a trivial thing but if whit and jokes go over people's heads then I feel like the unattractive one in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You, OP.
I'm just kidding
Lack of humour/sarcasm.. I know it's such a trivial thing but if whit and jokes go over people's heads then I feel like the unattractive one in the end. "
If people don’t get you, then they don’t get you!! ? |
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100% agree with you, poor grammar and bad spelling is a turn off. If they can't even use a spell check then I suspect that they can't be bothered to put some effort into meeting me so I DELETE them. Maybe not fair but those are my rules and I'm going to stick to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loud
Arrogant
Calling me babe
Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!"
"I'm gonnna make you squirt all nite babe" (I've paraphrased ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loud
Arrogant
Calling me babe
Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!
"I'm gonnna make you squirt all nite babe" (I've paraphrased )"
Yes, that as well!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loud
Arrogant
Calling me babe
Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!
"I'm gonnna make you squirt all nite babe" (I've paraphrased )
Yes, that as well!!! "
better to make em squint |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loud
Arrogant
Calling me babe
Telling me you're going to make me cum really quickly and over and over again by finger blasting me. Actually that makes me laugh!
"I'm gonnna make you squirt all nite babe" (I've paraphrased )
Yes, that as well!!! better to make em squint "
Gotta be the finger blasting innit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women who piss themselfs when they orgasm and then swear its cum !
Men who shame women's bodily functions.
Its only shaming when she lies about enjoying watersports
it could be her first time too. It didn't happen to me until I was in my 30s and quite unexpected. Did I lie? No. And it's not same as urine. Even if contains traces of it. Stop spreading myths. "
I was 50 when it first happened to me. And, it doesn't happen every time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has to be seeing how bad a home is. If you turn up and it isn't clean, sorry may sound judgmental but if you can't take pride in where you live what's your intimate areas going to be like  |
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"It has to be seeing how bad a home is. If you turn up and it isn't clean, sorry may sound judgmental but if you can't take pride in where you live what's your intimate areas going to be like "
Fanny before Floors is my motto! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know a lady who had to stop seeing a nice guy because his shower curtain was minging.
 Severe!
Depends how minging it was I guess!"
It's an easily solved problem tbh but each to their own |
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Arrogant people who want everything on their terms.
Narcissists who believe they are god's gift.
Fake friends.
The ones who open the conversation with, "are you free now" and disappear or block if you say, "well sorry but not right now"
These are a few of my least favourite ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys who think a session in the back of their filthy work van is a winner.
Bad personal hygiene
Smokers
Drug users
Scruffy clothing
Arrogance
Theres loads more but thats enough lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It has to be seeing how bad a home is. If you turn up and it isn't clean, sorry may sound judgmental but if you can't take pride in where you live what's your intimate areas going to be like
Fanny before Floors is my motto!"
Thanks, made me chuckle reading that |
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That would so change everything! 
