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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It’s generally recognised and known that part of the curse of the forums and fab in general is making connections and sharing attraction across vast distances, not dissimilar to the ancient Roman Empire or the current Fab East Midlands.
In those terms and to make life easier, where would you move to and at the danger of 175 entries of “they know”, who are you moving for? |
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Distance and time are a problem, time being the worst because even though we are spoiled rotten for people very close by, work and various vanilla commitments make actual meets difficult.
That's where clubs come in, no need to worry about accommodation with teenagers in the house, or getting a hotel, or freezing your ass off dogging in February.
Everyone meets in the club, sometimes it's one set of friends, sometimes another, or when the stars align several groups and it all descends into an orgy.
Sadly, if someone is more than 50 miles away though, realistically you may meet one time only, or once a year at most. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel like London and the surrounding area has loads going on so would probably move there.
Distance is always the biggest problem for me but I guess the advantage of being central is that for the right person, nowhere is too far away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest distance between 2 people is not the miles between them if they really like each other.
I’ve never been attracted to convenience, and I’m in the middle apparently, so it’s easy to get anywhere.
I’m not moving right now. Lonely in Manchester.  |
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The biggest distance between 2 people is not the miles between them if they really like each other.
I’ve never been attracted to convenience, and I’m in the middle apparently, so it’s easy to get anywhere.
I’m not moving right now. Lonely in Manchester. "
Easy to say when you don’t have responsibilities you cannot leave though. |
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I love living where I am. I wouldn't move unless it was to a bigger house. And that would be the only reason.But it would be the same area.
I moved to this area 24 yrs ago.. 125 miles away for love. |
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This will come across as an evasive response but anywhere other than London. 95% of all my 'connections' have been (significantly) away from the City.
Mind you... Edinburgh and Belfast are worthy candidates.
London — you continue to disappoint and frustrate me.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ha. Erm. They can move. I'm good.
I might be weird but I like my little adventures to see people. I like the excitement of packing. I don't want people to be closer, I don't want to move closer to them. I like the anticipation and excitement of seeing them, I don't want to overindulge in their cock/quim or have it become routine. |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
I'm happy where I'm at now and there's some lovely people within an hours drive .
You know who you are 
Close enough to London for easy access, far enough away if the bomb goes off.
I can still hear sparrows coughing in the morning and rabbits farting in the back garden at night.
As for them bloody mating foxes!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest distance between 2 people is not the miles between them if they really like each other.
I’ve never been attracted to convenience, and I’m in the middle apparently, so it’s easy to get anywhere.
I’m not moving right now. Lonely in Manchester.
Easy to say when you don’t have responsibilities you cannot leave though. "
Sorry, I don’t know what you mean?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Derby is boring  
Miss S x
Hey! ...Yeah  "
Literally!
But with the second part of your comment is very true being somewhat in the middle, it isn't too far to others.
Miss S x |
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I'm born and bread in London and would move to Amsterdam for the BDSM scene.
Don't move to London as its very EXPENSIVE, Travel down, make a weekend of it enjiy your event then you can escape at the end probably £500 lighter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest distance between 2 people is not the miles between them if they really like each other.
I’ve never been attracted to convenience, and I’m in the middle apparently, so it’s easy to get anywhere.
I’m not moving right now. Lonely in Manchester.
Easy to say when you don’t have responsibilities you cannot leave though.
Sorry, I don’t know what you mean?! "
I imagine she means that it's not easy or even possible to travel to see someone an age away when you have responsibilities at home. I'd say the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Derby is boring
Miss S x
Hey! ...Yeah
Literally!
But with the second part of your comment is very true being somewhat in the middle, it isn't too far to others.
Miss S x"
Exactly! Boring city, excellent transport links |
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"This will come across as an evasive response but anywhere other than London. 95% of all my 'connections' have been (significantly) away from the City.
Mind you... Edinburgh and Belfast are worthy candidates.
London — you continue to disappoint and frustrate me. "
Living in London is like being in the sweet shop buy you can't have the sweets. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
I’d move back to Manchester. Have a house and my darling fwb there, makes sense. 
Lots of sexy fabbers round that area too.
It’s on the cards once youngest child finishes secondary school here in Surrey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The biggest distance between 2 people is not the miles between them if they really like each other.
I’ve never been attracted to convenience, and I’m in the middle apparently, so it’s easy to get anywhere.
I’m not moving right now. Lonely in Manchester.
Easy to say when you don’t have responsibilities you cannot leave though.
Sorry, I don’t know what you mean?!
I imagine she means that it's not easy or even possible to travel to see someone an age away when you have responsibilities at home. I'd say the same. "
Yeh, just talking about that. So it more time available than distance.  |
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I always have a bugout bag on the ready.
Do we enjoy each others company?
Is it warmer than England?
I'd move thousands of miles to meet those criteria.
There's plenty of time for staying in the same place when I'm dead.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Derby is boring
Miss S x
Hey! ...Yeah
Literally!
But with the second part of your comment is very true being somewhat in the middle, it isn't too far to others.
Miss S x
Exactly! Boring city, excellent transport links "
100%, tbf we like to travel, nice to make a night/weekend of it 
P.s Derby is still shit though
Miss S x |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
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If it wasn't for damp weather definitely Scotland. I'd love to do some serious walking round the lovely countryside vistas. Never done that.... That goes to the top of me bucket list!
Either that or North Yorkshire. Walked along butter tubs & Yorkshire Moors. Brilliant!!! |
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The biggest distance between 2 people is not the miles between them if they really like each other.
I’ve never been attracted to convenience, and I’m in the middle apparently, so it’s easy to get anywhere.
I’m not moving right now. Lonely in Manchester.
Easy to say when you don’t have responsibilities you cannot leave though.
Sorry, I don’t know what you mean?!
I imagine she means that it's not easy or even possible to travel to see someone an age away when you have responsibilities at home. I'd say the same. "
Yeah this. Sorry I thought I may have misinterpreted what he meant. But yes that’s what I meant |
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"Derby is boring
Miss S x
Hey! ...Yeah
Literally!
But with the second part of your comment is very true being somewhat in the middle, it isn't too far to others.
Miss S x
Exactly! Boring city, excellent transport links
100%, tbf we like to travel, nice to make a night/weekend of it
P.s Derby is still shit though
Miss S x"
Used to live in a village in Derby, moved to Leicester, much more central for people and clubs |
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I have moved around the country for work a lot over the past decade but recently realised I missed my home area and being close to my good friends. I’ve now settled where I’m very happy, London is only 40 minutes on the train and the south coast and midlands are within striking distance.
Always happy travelling reasonable distances for social events and meets if I feel it’s worth it. |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Derby is boring
Miss S x
Hey! ...Yeah
Literally!
But with the second part of your comment is very true being somewhat in the middle, it isn't too far to others.
Miss S x
Exactly! Boring city, excellent transport links "
I grew up near Derby, Theres a reason I now live in Manchester |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Derby is boring
Miss S x
Hey! ...Yeah
Literally!
But with the second part of your comment is very true being somewhat in the middle, it isn't too far to others.
Miss S x
Exactly! Boring city, excellent transport links
I grew up near Derby, Theres a reason I now live in Manchester "
I get that
I'd rather live abroad mind...
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t move, I like living in Scotland.
If there was someone I really wanted to meet i think I could make it work and travel to see them. "
Exactly, it's all about convenience and ease of travel. That being said, is it easier to get to Fife by train or plane?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t move, I like living in Scotland.
If there was someone I really wanted to meet i think I could make it work and travel to see them.
Exactly, it's all about convenience and ease of travel. That being said, is it easier to get to Fife by train or plane? "
Plane, Joe! Plane! Let me know when you’ve booked it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a few guys in Manchester that I think to
But actually the smart move would be to pick a point in England where most places are decent drive, a central point if you will that makes more places accessible to maximise your travel possibilities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where I am is pretty good.
London not too far….. south coast not too far…. North west only a few hours…. Midlands only a couple of hours…. I’d say I’m fairly well placed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"London is not as good as you think
I think London is amazing 
It’s more amazing with you in it.
Smooth "
You think that’s smooth, you should feel my ballsack. |
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"There's a few guys in Manchester that I think to
But actually the smart move would be to pick a point in England where most places are decent drive, a central point if you will that makes more places accessible to maximise your travel possibilities."
Leicester/Derby/Nottingham , most central points. Might be cheaper to live there too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"London is not as good as you think
I think London is amazing
It’s more amazing with you in it.
Smooth
You think that’s smooth, you should feel my ballsack.
In my mouth obvs  "
Obvs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"London is not as good as you think
I think London is amazing
It’s more amazing with you in it.
Smooth
You think that’s smooth, you should feel my ballsack.
In my mouth obvs
Obvs
My man "
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"It’s generally recognised and known that part of the curse of the forums and fab in general is making connections and sharing attraction across vast distances, not dissimilar to the ancient Roman Empire or the current Fab East Midlands.
In those terms and to make life easier, where would you move to and at the danger of 175 entries of “they know”, who are you moving for? "
The East Mids is fab I hear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean wouldn't it be ironic if everyone moved to be closer at the same time.... And you ended up in the same situation 
Like Fab musical chairs!"
Who gets the soggy patch |
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"Scotland or the south!
London right?
I'll come for a visit
so many opportunities in Scotland "
I'm pleased to see that as I'm planning to visit Scotland more often this year - but it must depend on where, surely. I've just come back from near Inverness where some quick Fab research showed zillions of single guys and no compatible couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean wouldn't it be ironic if everyone moved to be closer at the same time.... And you ended up in the same situation "
But not Manchester. It’s wet enough. |
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"It’s generally recognised and known that part of the curse of the forums and fab in general is making connections and sharing attraction across vast distances, not dissimilar to the ancient Roman Empire or the current Fab East Midlands.
In those terms and to make life easier, where would you move to and at the danger of 175 entries of “they know”, who are you moving for? "
Birmingham and Manchester. Knowing my luck I’ll be in the wrong place each time though. |
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