Sorry being a bit facetious there.
I was once told by a couple (much later on) one night at the Attic - that I had been talking to that if I’d asked I could have played - but I just didn’t get ‘that’ vibe from them…
Kicked myself aplenty that night.. lol. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly.  |
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Frequently so. I am always genuinely surprised when someone shows an interest in me in that way so I rarely pick up on it.
I'm chatting to someone on fab at the moment and I am uncertain whether our chatting has progressed to flirting.
This is purely due to my difficulty in thinking that she might be interested in me beyond chatting.
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"Sorry being a bit facetious there.
I was once told by a couple (much later on) one night at the Attic - that I had been talking to that if I’d asked I could have played - but I just didn’t get ‘that’ vibe from them…
Kicked myself aplenty that night.. lol. "
This has happened to me frequently. I have been chastised on many a club night for not making my interests clear.
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"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.
That happens a lot."
You mean people show interes in you then go cold? |
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"Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly. "
Jesus, your voice  |
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"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.
That happens a lot.
You mean people show interes in you then go cold?"
Yep |
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"Yes and I've been told so subsequently. I tend to approach it all from the point of view of no, they're not really interested unless it's from a) my fiancé and b) a person. I'm not hint friendly.
Jesus, your voice "
Ha, thank you.  |
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"I think people are showing interest but then it becomes evident they aren't interested at all.
That happens a lot.
So many time wasters on this site"
True that so true. Say they interested then no show. |
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"how would I.know if I am.too dumb to realise?"
As I added they later tell you or you realise later, oh yeah they were flirting, at least that's what I get. I'm too dumb in the moment. |
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"I might need you to elaborate on that, I don’t know if that’s clear enough for me. I don’t want to get the wrong idea "
I’d have to shift to DMs to give you more detail. Don’t want to get told off (again) for being graphic in public … |
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On here? Don't really have to second guess, to be honest. Most men just say they want to sex here - couldn't be easier.
Unless.. they approach in a friendly chatty forumite way. Then it's an auto-friend zone.  |
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Many times.
This extends to other areas of life too. .
I remember walking in Australia years ago with a girlfriend and a car slowed down and the driver asked if we were going to "x" (can't remember the town)..& I replied no & we were going to a slightly different location. He smiled and said ok & drove away.
The girlfriend was flabbergasted-and explained he was offering us a lift...
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Yes at parties or clubs it can be difficult to read other.Toyah would be happy for a guy to say I want you more openly and I guess even us girls should be able to do this.And a no thanks wouldn't offend it's can be a long night trying to read peeps. |
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Maybe they have but I’m not sure as I wouldn’t have noticed lol
