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Last week a man i hadnt met up with since my accident arranged a meet with me tonight. All was sorted (or so i thought) i contacted him yesterday (got no reply)and today,and finally he told me.he had made arrangements with mates to go out for drinks with them and had forgotten about it.do i block him? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he can’t be arsed taking 10 seconds out of his day to let you know he can’t make it then I wouldn’t waste any more of your time on him. Sack him off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say get rid  I live by my calendar for the purposes of not making the mistake of double booking anything and I’d fail to imagine someone would “accidentally” forget a drinking session with mates 
Live and learn sweets  |
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Entirely up to you, but to me sounds like you're arrangement was an afterthought.
As someone mentioned already though, if you do like they guy, then by all means give him the benefit of the doubt, but i'd only do it once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn’t sound like he had any intention of giving you forewarning…I’d not be entertaining him in any which way Darl, there is no way he didn’t know/remember until that point! It’s just common courtesy of which he seems to have none! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Last week a man i hadnt met up with since my accident arranged a meet with me tonight. All was sorted (or so i thought) i contacted him yesterday (got no reply)and today,and finally he told me.he had made arrangements with mates to go out for drinks with them and had forgotten about it.do i block him?"
I'd marry him  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT |
"If you like him and think it is a one off / he genuinely got it wrong (it happens) then give him the benefit of the doubt. If you don’t like it he does it again then just block and move on."
Strongly disagree with this. I would assume that he wasn't that interested and therefore is not worthy of my time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah, Mate. I have no patience for that kind of behaviour.
Plenty of cocks in the Fab sea who would jump at the chance to meet you and not just treat you as an option. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbf this is something I’d be up doing forgetting it was a long weekend. He messaged with plenty of time to spare and not 15 minutes before you were meeting and didn’t lie.
Not ideal granted but it could have been worse |
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Forgive him, message him and arrange to meet him with all the heightened expectations and anticipation.
Then just don't turn up.
Blocking is just a slap on the wrist for him and he still won't remember what he did to you.
Payback, however, and he won't forget. |
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"Last week a man i hadnt met up with since my accident arranged a meet with me tonight. All was sorted (or so i thought) i contacted him yesterday (got no reply)and today,and finally he told me.he had made arrangements with mates to go out for drinks with them and had forgotten about it.do i block him?"
Yes. |
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By *uckurcumMan
over a year ago
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In today's world sadly,arrangements along with people are deemed disposable should a better offer come along ...
Until someone actually turns up arrangements count for nothing ...
The internet ....has many good aspects but it allows people to totally have no moral compass ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say his priorities are great. Friends or family should always come first.
However, he's an asshole for not letting you know. I'd personally block him. Time wasters always do it again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say his priorities are great. Friends or family should always come first. "
This is true however his priority should’ve been to let her know straight away and either apologise or rearrange
But as you said, defo block lol
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You do what YOU want to do. Don't feel pressured or guilty or shame in giving a second chance. If that's what you want to do.
I have been stood up again this evening (That's 3 from FAB this week) My opinion is that if we have agreed a time, place and then you ignore my message and call after a 15-30min grace period... You are blocked. End of.
If someone cannot make time for me, agree to the most basic part of a 'date ', they are showing that they don't respect me, don't want to follow expectations and boundaries that have been set. And that gives me all the red flags considering we are meeting relative strangers for sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hugs on that yip don’t give him a chance at all
And funny this post has came up
Not funny on what happened to you just funny in a way that’s very quince that I had the same thing this week well technically didn’t happen this week happened years ago but they re contact me this week told them no
We chat on fab arrange to meet phoned him to confirm and tell him whare I stayed
When I told him he told me that’s to far and I am in the pub anyway and hug up
But he did try and re contact me this week for a meet
Let’s just say I sed no and sed aren’t you to busy in the pub anyway |
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