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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

It comes down to attraction bud.

That's it.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"It comes down to attraction bud.

That's it."

okay then there's always hope.

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By *r John WickMan 3 weeks ago

The Continental

All the same answers as in thread one.

End of thread 2

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple 3 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

The short answer of no we don't that you got on all the other threads not twigged yet?

Most of us aren't bothered whats in their wallet

Tinder

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By *ex HolesMan 3 weeks ago

Up North

Good Socio demographic situation follow up discussion OP

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By *ot to giggleWoman 3 weeks ago

Coventry

we doing it again !!!

can the size 8 - 12 ladies answer pls - we all to fat

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By *ansoffateMan 3 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Be a whiner.

Or is it a winner?

Fuck that misconception has set me back for 30 years. FML

Oh well.

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By *oody BMan 3 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"It comes down to attraction bud.

That's it."

But Is she attracted to his money and the ability to support her and her possible family?

I reckon some are, but I don’t reckon percentage is very hard on the swinging site. I think it will be much higher when people are looking for a relationship that could possibly turn into something more.

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By *ovetoplay.Couple 3 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation.."

Couldn't care less what's in your wallet or what your social standing is.

How you are as a person means everything.

That and attraction is needed

S

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By *alcon77Man 3 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Gotta go with interactions the real world.

I think you might be investing too much in online stuff.

Even on here you see, if u are serious about being a swinger, you should be going to clubs really.

-View this website as a bonus.

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By *ycanNightsMan 3 weeks ago

Workington

Seriously...if you've not had a date in 12 years.

Maybe you should also look at yourself why that is?

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri

When we were kids all the british girls got taken into a separate room to be told about periods and instructed not to date any man who earns less than 170k (I've adjusted for inflation) so unfortunately you're luck in this country is limited to non-British or non-educated.

Hope you enjoy your new country and the women who inhabit it

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By *esparate danMan 3 weeks ago

glasgow


"Seriously...if you've not had a date in 12 years.

Maybe you should also look at yourself why that is? "

12 years a sl@ve to your cock?

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By *oyoteUglyWoman 3 weeks ago

somewhere

I care about the penis as well.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 3 weeks ago

Wirral.

OP, I replied with a few constructive criticisms of your assumptions, along with many others, which you arent taking on board.

So I'll just give you the bald truth: if the hotties don't fancy you, you're clearly punching

*I'm not a hottie, nor am I in your required demographic, and I don't fancy you.

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"When we were kids all the british girls got taken into a separate room to be told about periods and instructed not to date any man who earns less than 170k (I've adjusted for inflation) so unfortunately you're luck in this country is limited to non-British or non-educated.

Hope you enjoy your new country and the women who inhabit it "

There's always immigrants who missed that talk. He might get lucky.

I'm still broke.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"It comes down to attraction bud.

That's it.

But Is she attracted to his money and the ability to support her and her possible family?

I reckon some are, but I don’t reckon percentage is very hard on the swinging site. I think it will be much higher when people are looking for a relationship that could possibly turn into something more. "

Some women are.

Not all.

It's not uniquely British by any means.

When it comes to casual dating I think more are more interested in physical and mental attraction.

And for many that holds true for serious dating too.

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"

I'm still broke.

"

How broke? If I toss you 50 pence would you strip for me

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago

Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time.

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"

I'm still broke.

How broke? If I toss you 50 pence would you strip for me "

It depends. How much change are you expecting from your 50p?

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time. "

I don’t even have a big dick. I’m not even that much of a nice person.

Women don’t care about social standing or money.

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time.

I don’t even have a big dick. I’m not even that much of a nice person.

Women don’t care about social standing or money. "

I’m also fat. Like I don’t even have abs. I have boobs bigger than some women.

Basically- there’s hope for you yet

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time. "

You are rich in love my friend. And you've got bags of whatever that thing is you said the cool folks say.

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By *reggSausageMan 3 weeks ago

derby

So if you are to rule out anyone over a size 12 can we throw out Beyoncé (I know her album needs trashing) Christina Hendricks and Scarlett Johanssen? No why not? It’s because we have seen them at their worst and at their best and when you hear all humans are beautiful then it’s easy to scoff but the majority of humans are incredible, have stories to tell, have minds that can captivate, ruling anyone out on dress size height hair etc seems ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time.

You are rich in love my friend. And you've got bags of whatever that thing is you said the cool folks say.

"

Tbf I am a rizzGOD

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time.

You are rich in love my friend. And you've got bags of whatever that thing is you said the cool folks say.

Tbf I am a rizzGOD"

That was it.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 3 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation.."

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time.

I don’t even have a big dick. I’m not even that much of a nice person.

Women don’t care about social standing or money.

I’m also fat. Like I don’t even have abs. I have boobs bigger than some women.

Basically- there’s hope for you yet "

That’s enough Steve

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By *nnCeeWoman 3 weeks ago

East Surrey

Also buddy... if you say you can bench 110kg, you can bench me. And I'm size 18.

Go put your back out over that.

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"So if you are to rule out anyone over a size 12 can we throw out Beyoncé (I know her album needs trashing) Christina Hendricks and Scarlett Johanssen? No why not? It’s because we have seen them at their worst and at their best and when you hear all humans are beautiful then it’s easy to scoff but the majority of humans are incredible, have stories to tell, have minds that can captivate, ruling anyone out on dress size height hair etc seems ridiculous "

There is no way scarlet is near size 12 let alone over it , (don't know a out the other two) she is so slim

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By *oozleMan 3 weeks ago

high wycombe

It’s not all about how you look, it’s how you treat and interact with people also.

Sending nice messages and relating to people in how you speak to them also plays a big part on here.

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr "

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

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By *irtydevil666Man 3 weeks ago

bristol

Great Mass Debate everyone....

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake "

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake "

A salad costs just 50 pennies from Tesco.

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By *nnCeeWoman 3 weeks ago

East Surrey


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

"

Would you???

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Great Mass Debate everyone...."
I love it

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By *nnCeeWoman 3 weeks ago

East Surrey


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake A salad costs just 50 pennies from Tesco."

And not being a complete tw@t is free, but it seems you ballsed that up...

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By *ovetoplay.Couple 3 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake A salad costs just 50 pennies from Tesco."

Well you sound fun

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"So if you are to rule out anyone over a size 12 can we throw out Beyoncé (I know her album needs trashing) Christina Hendricks and Scarlett Johanssen? No why not? It’s because we have seen them at their worst and at their best and when you hear all humans are beautiful then it’s easy to scoff but the majority of humans are incredible, have stories to tell, have minds that can captivate, ruling anyone out on dress size height hair etc seems ridiculous

There is no way scarlet is near size 12 let alone over it , (don't know a out the other two) she is so slim"

I'm sorry to break it too you but miss Scarlett is closer to an 8 than a 12

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake A salad costs just 50 pennies from Tesco."

Yeah it really doesn't.

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By *bxanfCouple 3 weeks ago

Bilston / Dudley / Anor Londo


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time.

You are rich in love my friend. And you've got bags of whatever that thing is you said the cool folks say.

Tbf I am a rizzGOD"

Check out the Rizzler over here

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Also buddy... if you say you can bench 110kg, you can bench me. And I'm size 18.

Go put your back out over that."

I'll leave it thanks.

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By *oody BMan 3 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"It comes down to attraction bud.

That's it.

But Is she attracted to his money and the ability to support her and her possible family?

I reckon some are, but I don’t reckon percentage is very hard on the swinging site. I think it will be much higher when people are looking for a relationship that could possibly turn into something more.

Some women are.

Not all.

It's not uniquely British by any means.

When it comes to casual dating I think more are more interested in physical and mental attraction.

And for many that holds true for serious dating too."

Probably, it’s someone’s mindset. I’m a romantic, I fall for people and their ideas and dreams.

I’d say if the op (I hope is reading this) I’d finding they’re all gold diggers, there’s obviously a common denominator, and obviously needs to look at his type as the problem. …maybe.

*not a relationship expert.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake A salad costs just 50 pennies from Tesco.

Yeah it really doesn't."

okay 75 pence.

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By *bxanfCouple 3 weeks ago

Bilston / Dudley / Anor Londo


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake A salad costs just 50 pennies from Tesco.

Yeah it really doesn't."

I dislike the implication fat people are salad dodgers. As if I got fat by avoiding food.

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you??? "

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"So if you are to rule out anyone over a size 12 can we throw out Beyoncé (I know her album needs trashing) Christina Hendricks and Scarlett Johanssen? No why not? It’s because we have seen them at their worst and at their best and when you hear all humans are beautiful then it’s easy to scoff but the majority of humans are incredible, have stories to tell, have minds that can captivate, ruling anyone out on dress size height hair etc seems ridiculous "
sorry to break it too you but Miss Scarlett is closer to an 8 than a 12.

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By *hrek101Man 3 weeks ago

Herts


"Seriously...if you've not had a date in 12 years.

Maybe you should also look at yourself why that is? "

Agreed, I'm neither good looking or rich and have had more dates than I can remember. But I'm nice and I actually like women so.....

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time.

I don’t even have a big dick. I’m not even that much of a nice person.

Women don’t care about social standing or money.

I’m also fat. Like I don’t even have abs. I have boobs bigger than some women.

Basically- there’s hope for you yet

That’s enough Steve "

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"Mate I’m going to be so real- I’m attractive and I’m poor. I have sex all the time.

You are rich in love my friend. And you've got bags of whatever that thing is you said the cool folks say.

Tbf I am a rizzGOD

Check out the Rizzler over here"

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By *ovetoplay.Couple 3 weeks ago

Yorkshire


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake A salad costs just 50 pennies from Tesco.

Yeah it really doesn't. okay 75 pence."

Hope your 75p salad has kept you company these last 12 years

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By *nnCeeWoman 3 weeks ago

East Surrey


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

"

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

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By *alcon77Man 3 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Have you tried speed dating?

I have.

I think it's impossible not to come out of that with further dates.

In terms of efficiency you will meet 50 people in like an hour or 2..

(Imagine how long that would take through message ping pong on an online dating website..)

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By *alcon77Man 3 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon


"Have you tried speed dating?

I have.

I think it's impossible not to come out of that with further dates.

In terms of efficiency you will meet 50 people in like an hour or 2..

(Imagine how long that would take through message ping pong on an online dating website..)"

I not sure the issue is perceived hypergamy.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 3 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake A salad costs just 50 pennies from Tesco."

To open the door on your way out is free, go figure

Mr

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 3 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake "

I make a banging lemon drizzle cake

Mr

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!! "

I like your way of thinking.

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

I like your way of thinking.

"

I'll bring the wine

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman 3 weeks ago

your head


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

I make a banging lemon drizzle cake

Mr"

Did someone say cake?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 3 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

I make a banging lemon drizzle cake

Mr

Did someone say cake? "

Cake brings all the girls to my yard

Mr

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

I like your way of thinking.

I'll bring the wine "

Cake and wine. Sounds like a party.

Let's hope we don't gain too much more weight or else we'll be shunned by some people.

Actually, who gives a fuck if we're having fun.

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

I like your way of thinking.

I'll bring the wine

Cake and wine. Sounds like a party.

Let's hope we don't gain too much more weight or else we'll be shunned by some people.

Actually, who gives a fuck if we're having fun.

"

The OP is healthy weight and just eats salad and has zero luck in over a decade, therefore we should all be overweight, eat nothing but cake, and we'll be screwing like rabbits on Viagra

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By *electableicecreamMan 3 weeks ago

The West

I'm so broke I go on coffee dates for the coffee

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple 3 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

I like your way of thinking.

I'll bring the wine

Cake and wine. Sounds like a party.

Let's hope we don't gain too much more weight or else we'll be shunned by some people.

Actually, who gives a fuck if we're having fun.

The OP is healthy weight and just eats salad and has zero luck in over a decade, therefore we should all be overweight, eat nothing but cake, and we'll be screwing like rabbits on Viagra "

What if I like cake and salad though?

Where does that leave me? Bereft of love and affection, adrift in a sea of melanchonic lonliness.

Sad day for me.

MrsAbz

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By *uenevereWoman 3 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation.."

Most women don't care about a potential partners financial situation, unless it's likely to cause problems.

I and many others, especially on here, find positivity, humour and a fun personality attractive. You maybe need to be a bit more positive in your approach on here.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman 3 weeks ago

Wales

I don't even know what socio demographic or hypergamy mean amd no I can't be arsed to Google

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I don't even know what socio demographic or hypergamy mean amd no I can't be arsed to Google "
well you naturally do Hypergamy if that helps.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

After all that..still no logical answers from any Women whatsoever.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman 3 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If you haven't had a date in 12 years it could be you and not them

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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"After all that..still no logical answers from any Women whatsoever."

Are you reading the same comments on both threads as the rest of us?

Because there's been no end of logical answers so far.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"After all that..still no logical answers from any Women whatsoever.

Are you reading the same comments on both threads as the rest of us?

Because there's been no end of logical answers so far. "

When I eventually meet a good Woman,if and when I'll agree with you.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Seriously...if you've not had a date in 12 years.

Maybe you should also look at yourself why that is?

Agreed, I'm neither good looking or rich and have had more dates than I can remember. But I'm nice and I actually like women so....."

I used to be a nice guy, but society has messed me up and years of rejection,I love women, they just don't like me.

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By *bi HaiveMan 3 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"After all that..still no logical answers from any Women whatsoever.

Are you reading the same comments on both threads as the rest of us?

Because there's been no end of logical answers so far. When I eventually meet a good Woman,if and when I'll agree with you."

But you meeting a woman (good or otherwise) isn't relevant.

You asked a general question, not specific to you.

Hypergamy isn't gender specific. Men can look to marry someone in a so called 'superior demographic' as much as women.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman 3 weeks ago

Essex

Yay. I am in a demographic to answer this one.

I’m a British size 8 woman.

Yeah I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. I have no idea how much you earn or your social standing. But I can read…

You’re just offensive.

So women apparently look for a certain 20%

You are searching for the same. Preferences are fine. Insulting those outside of those, publicly is not fine.

Have fun (alone) for the next 12 years.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

I like your way of thinking.

I'll bring the wine

Cake and wine. Sounds like a party.

Let's hope we don't gain too much more weight or else we'll be shunned by some people.

Actually, who gives a fuck if we're having fun.

The OP is healthy weight and just eats salad and has zero luck in over a decade, therefore we should all be overweight, eat nothing but cake, and we'll be screwing like rabbits on Viagra

What if I like cake and salad though?

Where does that leave me? Bereft of love and affection, adrift in a sea of melanchonic lonliness.

Sad day for me.

MrsAbz"

everything is good in moderation.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"It comes down to attraction bud.

That's it."

well that's logical, thanks.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"The short answer of no we don't that you got on all the other threads not twigged yet?

Most of us aren't bothered whats in their wallet

Tinder"

yeah you are.

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By *ex HolesMan 3 weeks ago

Up North

I know someone who has a gamy leg

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By *osey WalesMan 3 weeks ago

Surrey

Is all the advice from two threads not logical to you OP because you cant understand that you being single for 12 years may be actualy down to you.

As some have said, your profile isnt very pleasant or appealing. Its very entitled and quite rude.

I would suggest that if you havent had a date for 12 years that this self entitlement may be also present in the real world too.

It is not an attractive trait. I do not know which part of the world you have come from, maybe it is a cultural thing.

I think an attitude adjustment is needed.

Its you. Not them.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Is all the advice from two threads not logical to you OP because you cant understand that you being single for 12 years may be actualy down to you.

As some have said, your profile isnt very pleasant or appealing. Its very entitled and quite rude.

I would suggest that if you havent had a date for 12 years that this self entitlement may be also present in the real world too.

It is not an attractive trait. I do not know which part of the world you have come from, maybe it is a cultural thing.

I think an attitude adjustment is needed.

Its you. Not them.

"

duly noted

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation.."

Missed part 1…

The world is simple. Some do, some don’t. Some will, some won’t.

Find your crowd or find your peace.

Moan about life or live it.

The only thing for sure is you make you’re own karma in this life

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Yay. I am in a demographic to answer this one.

I’m a British size 8 woman.

Yeah I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. I have no idea how much you earn or your social standing. But I can read…

You’re just offensive.

So women apparently look for a certain 20%

You are searching for the same. Preferences are fine. Insulting those outside of those, publicly is not fine.

Have fun (alone) for the next 12 years.

"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 3 weeks ago

Wirral.


"Yay. I am in a demographic to answer this one.

I’m a British size 8 woman.

Yeah I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. I have no idea how much you earn or your social standing. But I can read…

You’re just offensive.

So women apparently look for a certain 20%

You are searching for the same. Preferences are fine. Insulting those outside of those, publicly is not fine.

Have fun (alone) for the next 12 years.

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive."

Mate, you have absolutely no self-awareness do you?

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By *uby StarCouple 3 weeks ago

Durham

I don't give a damn about a guys social standing or his money.

It's about him as a person and if there's an attraction.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"After all that..still no logical answers from any Women whatsoever.

Are you reading the same comments on both threads as the rest of us?

Because there's been no end of logical answers so far. When I eventually meet a good Woman,if and when I'll agree with you.

But you meeting a woman (good or otherwise) isn't relevant.

You asked a general question, not specific to you.

Hypergamy isn't gender specific. Men can look to marry someone in a so called 'superior demographic' as much as women.

"

I thought I was clueless, us Men don't care about how much a Woman earns or what her Social standing is,we simply don't care.

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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago

I'll know it when I find it.

No.

Really not that complex if it can be answered in one word.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I don't give a damn about a guys social standing or his money.

It's about him as a person and if there's an attraction."

of course you do, it's been happening since the beginning of time.

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By *mf123Man 3 weeks ago

the space between spaces

Birds dont like gamey meat

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive."

This comment is a fucking disgrace

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"After all that..still no logical answers from any Women whatsoever."

I feel like missed a lot of things (part 1, mainly )

We've been together 20yrs, since we were 17/18. At that point, neither of us had any money of our own and neither of us came from families with much money. We had no idea what we'd do as a career because the things we THOUGHT we'd be doing, we actually didn't do. I was in possession of a small child aged 18 months at the start of our relationship (but we'd known each other way before our relationship started).

I call bullshit from my sample size of 1.

I also call bullshit because my maternal Grandparents, two people who were married for nearly 60yrs, were also examples of where there was zero "social capital" that went into the decision for them to marry. Grandad was so impoverished it was Victorian. Grandma's family were not wealthy but definitely of a better financial standing than Grandad's. Yet, they were incredibly happy, worked well as a team of 2 and had a long marriage and long lives.

So, my new sample size of 2 calls bullshit and I shall be publishing this in the University of Sydney's sociological studies journal very soon

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"I know someone who has a gamy leg "

I think it's two 'm's. Gammy.

And yes, I feel seen

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple 3 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"The short answer of no we don't that you got on all the other threads not twigged yet?

Most of us aren't bothered whats in their wallet

Tinder yeah you are."

Most of us actually aren't! I am self sufficient and work full time to provide for myself. When I met him he was trying to get a new business off the ground and had no profits to show as yet and was living month to month. Did that stop me continuing our relationship....no.

When things got tough and it looked like he had to give it up which devastated him emotionally and impacted financially did i walk....no.

I supported him emotionally to get back on track.

Because most of us don't care about money the way you seem to think we do because the women you want don't want you

And with that I'm out

Tinder

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West

Oh! Oh! I forgot the bit where I'm the main income earner. Not him

I don't know what social capital that is.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Oh! Oh! I forgot the bit where I'm the main income earner. Not him

I don't know what social capital that is."

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By *ealMissShadyWoman 3 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation.."

Are you referring to women globally or just British women?

I can only answer for myself because I am woman not women....and the answer is no, could not care about a man's standing or financial situation, this is why I like clubs....shit like that is unimportant

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Are you referring to women globally or just British women? Specifically, British and US Women.

I can only answer for myself because I am woman not women....and the answer is no, could not care about a man's standing or financial situation, this is why I like clubs....shit like that is unimportant "

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace "

mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever."

Check

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever."

Who in the name of feckity feck do you think you are?!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 3 weeks ago

Wirral.

So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple 3 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers "

I thought to "do a solid" is what folks do in your snazzy new(ish) bathroom

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers "

Great tits

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 3 weeks ago

Wirral.


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers

I thought to "do a solid" is what folks do in your snazzy new(ish) bathroom "

No! Only I can do that

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 3 weeks ago

Wirral.


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers

Great tits "

Cheers LB, love ya x

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers

Great tits

Cheers LB, love ya x"

Loves ya too. Motorboat when we meet up yeah?

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

They're must be some logical, common sense kind of Ladies in the World.. somewhere, I'll find her.

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By *eroLondonMan 3 weeks ago

Mayfair


"A date free guy of over 12 years..."

·

Is that by choice, dear chap?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"They're must be some logical, common sense kind of Ladies in the World.. somewhere, I'll find her."

They're all size 16

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers

Great tits

Cheers LB, love ya x

Loves ya too. Motorboat when we meet up yeah? "

I prefer a canoe to an oil tanker.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple 3 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers

Great tits

Cheers LB, love ya x

Loves ya too. Motorboat when we meet up yeah?

I prefer a canoe to an oil tanker."

you just can't help yourself can you

Tinder

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"So, OP.

I'm a fatty, yet you keep checking out my profile - methinks you like a bit of chub,on the down low.

Do me a solid, though? Next time drop a fab or two on my photos. Cheers

Great tits

Cheers LB, love ya x

Loves ya too. Motorboat when we meet up yeah? I prefer a canoe to an oil tanker."

Oh come on. It'd be ace to pilot one of those giant tankers. Think of the POWER at your fingertips. Petrol heads' wet dream, that is.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

They're must be a Logical Woman out there somewhere.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"They're must be a Logical Woman out there somewhere."

One that can drive a spreadsheet?

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By *nnCeeWoman 3 weeks ago

East Surrey


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

I like your way of thinking.

I'll bring the wine

Cake and wine. Sounds like a party.

Let's hope we don't gain too much more weight or else we'll be shunned by some people.

Actually, who gives a fuck if we're having fun.

The OP is healthy weight and just eats salad and has zero luck in over a decade, therefore we should all be overweight, eat nothing but cake, and we'll be screwing like rabbits on Viagra

What if I like cake and salad though?

Where does that leave me? Bereft of love and affection, adrift in a sea of melanchonic lonliness.

Sad day for me.

MrsAbz"

Bring the cake, bring the salad, bring the wine. Everyone over a size 14 welcome. We'll roll around in the food and have lots and lots of happy sex.

OP definitely not invited.

He can carry on fucking himself (over).

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"They're must be a Logical Woman out there somewhere.

One that can drive a spreadsheet?"

Vroom vroom

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

I like your way of thinking.

I'll bring the wine

Cake and wine. Sounds like a party.

Let's hope we don't gain too much more weight or else we'll be shunned by some people.

Actually, who gives a fuck if we're having fun.

The OP is healthy weight and just eats salad and has zero luck in over a decade, therefore we should all be overweight, eat nothing but cake, and we'll be screwing like rabbits on Viagra

What if I like cake and salad though?

Where does that leave me? Bereft of love and affection, adrift in a sea of melanchonic lonliness.

Sad day for me.

MrsAbz

Bring the cake, bring the salad, bring the wine. Everyone over a size 14 welcome. We'll roll around in the food and have lots and lots of happy sex.

OP definitely not invited.

He can carry on fucking himself (over)."

like a wild life documentary.

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"They're must be a Logical Woman out there somewhere."

*There*

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"They're must be a Logical Woman out there somewhere.

One that can drive a spreadsheet?

Vroom vroom "

=CONCATENATE

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Bring the cake, bring the salad, bring the wine. Everyone over a size 14 welcome. We'll roll around in the food and have lots and lots of happy sex.

OP definitely not invited.

He can carry on fucking himself (over)."

Can there be an allowance for a size 12 if she's blatantly too much of a money hungry cunt to appeal to OP anyway?

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By *ou only live onceMan 3 weeks ago

London


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation.."

OP, you're wrong. I'm filthy rich and devastatingly handsome (narrator: he wished) and neither has made a blind bit of difference.

It's actually all to do with penis size and cars.

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By *ambertMan 3 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"It comes down to attraction bud.

That's it. okay then there's always hope."

Hope is the first step on the road to disappointment

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By *cottish guy 555Man 3 weeks ago

London


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Not the wallet, but if you mention cake, fuck all hell is gonna break loose...

Mr

You got cake what type where is it I like cake

Would you dance naked for cake? I'd just need to find a cheap one.

Would you???

This was a lighthearted comment based on one the delightful _ello said earlier.

Can't imagine anyone would want to see me dance naked, but if they did it wouldn't cost them a cake.

I would of course bring a biscuit for their guide dog.

Let's both bring a cake, and some dog biscuits and have a dance off!!

I like your way of thinking.

I'll bring the wine

Cake and wine. Sounds like a party.

Let's hope we don't gain too much more weight or else we'll be shunned by some people.

Actually, who gives a fuck if we're having fun.

The OP is healthy weight and just eats salad and has zero luck in over a decade, therefore we should all be overweight, eat nothing but cake, and we'll be screwing like rabbits on Viagra

What if I like cake and salad though?

Where does that leave me? Bereft of love and affection, adrift in a sea of melanchonic lonliness.

Sad day for me.

MrsAbz

Bring the cake, bring the salad, bring the wine. Everyone over a size 14 welcome. We'll roll around in the food and have lots and lots of happy sex.

OP definitely not invited.

He can carry on fucking himself (over)."

That sounds like a party. Can I come?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman 3 weeks ago

Wirral.


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

OP, you're wrong. I'm filthy rich and devastatingly handsome (narrator: he wished) and neither has made a blind bit of difference.

It's actually all to do with penis size and cars."

Or thighs in your case, YOLO

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By *ou only live onceMan 3 weeks ago

London


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

OP, you're wrong. I'm filthy rich and devastatingly handsome (narrator: he wished) and neither has made a blind bit of difference.

It's actually all to do with penis size and cars.

Or thighs in your case, YOLO "

Thank God for good genes. And good jeans.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

I can apologise for the disgraceful, vile, unladylike language that has been used on this thread.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"I can apologise for the disgraceful, vile, unladylike language that has been used on this thread."

Can you? Why?

Some Mens used bad language too. Tsk tsk.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I can apologise for the disgraceful, vile, unladylike language that has been used on this thread."

How can you apologise for something entirely out of your control that you can do absolutely nothing to prevent happening again?

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"I can apologise for the disgraceful, vile, unladylike language that has been used on this thread.

How can you apologise for something entirely out of your control that you can do absolutely nothing to prevent happening again?"

Someone has to take the moral high ground

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


" because Women using certain language is absolutely vile and disgusting, what would you're Nan say?"

Why is appropriate language determined by the contents of someone's underpants?

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


" because Women using certain language is absolutely vile and disgusting, what would you're Nan say?

Why is appropriate language determined by the contents of someone's underpants?"

it's not very lady like at all, highly unattractive.

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By *ou only live onceMan 3 weeks ago

London


"I can apologise for the disgraceful, vile, unladylike language that has been used on this thread.

How can you apologise for something entirely out of your control that you can do absolutely nothing to prevent happening again? Someone has to take the moral high ground "

You tell 'em, OP. I actually think we need to revert to a system where women's posts are vetted BY A MAN before being allowed on the forum. Would save us all a lot of bother.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple 3 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"

Fuck, fuck, fuckity, fuck because Women using certain language is absolutely vile and disgusting, what would you're Nan say?"

My nans are from East London and Glasgow they swear more than a navvy does

Tinder

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I can apologise for the disgraceful, vile, unladylike language that has been used on this thread.

How can you apologise for something entirely out of your control that you can do absolutely nothing to prevent happening again? Someone has to take the moral high ground "

It's not a moral high ground.

It's a bizarre kind of white Knight virtue signalling that does nothing but make someone look like a fool.

It's not your place to apologise for the actions of other people. They are not your responsibility. They are not your minions. And the apology is so abjectly without value that it is borderline obscene.

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


" because Women using certain language is absolutely vile and disgusting, what would you're Nan say?"

Most nans would say 'who let that cunt on the interweb, these new thangled gadgets bring out the mother fucking nutters'

nanas can swear too you know

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

The Absolutely Vile Language that has been getting thrown around tonight,oh my word, absolutely disgraceful and disgusting.. Ladies, seriously, what would you're Nan say, I can only apologise, goodness me.

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By *nnCeeWoman 3 weeks ago

East Surrey


"Bring the cake, bring the salad, bring the wine. Everyone over a size 14 welcome. We'll roll around in the food and have lots and lots of happy sex.

OP definitely not invited.

He can carry on fucking himself (over).

Can there be an allowance for a size 12 if she's blatantly too much of a money hungry cunt to appeal to OP anyway?"

Of course gorgeous. TBF, everyone BUT the OP is invited, as he's proven he doesn't play well with others.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


" because Women using certain language is absolutely vile and disgusting, what would you're Nan say?

Most nans would say 'who let that cunt on the interweb, these new thangled gadgets bring out the mother fucking nutters' wash your gutter mouth out right now, absolutely vile.

nanas can swear too you know "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"The Absolutely Vile Language that has been getting thrown around tonight,oh my word, absolutely disgraceful and disgusting.. Ladies, seriously, what would you're Nan say, I can only apologise, goodness me."

But the Mens swore too. Are they allowed?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 3 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


" because Women using certain language is absolutely vile and disgusting, what would you're Nan say?

Why is appropriate language determined by the contents of someone's underpants? it's not very lady like at all, highly unattractive."

Now, I may be misintreting the data and jumping to conclusions here, but I'm pretty sure not a single one of these foul mouthed women is remotely interested in being attractive to you.

And there are plenty of exciting and interesting people who don't give a solitary shit if the person they're into swears

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"I can apologise for the disgraceful, vile, unladylike language that has been used on this thread.

How can you apologise for something entirely out of your control that you can do absolutely nothing to prevent happening again? Someone has to take the moral high ground "

I think your chance to take the moral high ground sailed away about 300 comments back when you started making vile remarks about women.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"The Absolutely Vile Language that has been getting thrown around tonight,oh my word, absolutely disgraceful and disgusting.. Ladies, seriously, what would you're Nan say, I can only apologise, goodness me.

But the Mens swore too. Are they allowed? "

yes

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"The Absolutely Vile Language that has been getting thrown around tonight,oh my word, absolutely disgraceful and disgusting.. Ladies, seriously, what would you're Nan say, I can only apologise, goodness me.

But the Mens swore too. Are they allowed? yes "

Why?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 3 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever.

Check "

Thats you told LB, know toddle off to finishing school, to please Op...manners and ettique are attractive to him, it a shame he has none himself, but yet demands it from others

Mr

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West

Soz.

Why the fuck can men swear but women not? And where do non binary people fit into this hierarchy of coarse language?

Ta

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells

Ladies, I'm going to give you a minute or two to think about your actions and comments tonight,a simple sorry would be greatly appreciated. I'm not angry just disappointed.

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By *ambertMan 3 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Wait is this serious?

I genuinely can't tell anymore

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Soz.

Why the fuck can men swear but women not? And where do non binary people fit into this hierarchy of coarse language?

Ta "

a Man has a penis a woman has a vagina.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Wait is this serious?

I genuinely can't tell anymore "

deadly serious.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"Ladies, I'm going to give you a minute or two to think about your actions and comments tonight,a simple sorry would be greatly appreciated. I'm not angry just disappointed."

If you think this is attractive, it's not. It's downright weird and just a tad sinister, tbh.

Have you considered taking vows and entering a monastery?

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By *rLothbrokMan 3 weeks ago

Lancs


" because Women using certain language is absolutely vile and disgusting, what would you're Nan say?

Why is appropriate language determined by the contents of someone's underpants?"

If this were the case, I’d imagine the OP shits himself regularly based on his recent forum contributions.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"Soz.

Why the fuck can men swear but women not? And where do non binary people fit into this hierarchy of coarse language?

Ta a Man has a penis a woman has a vagina.

"

No, this doesn't answer the "why" bit of the question.

Thanks all the same.

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever.

Check

Thats you told LB, know toddle off to finishing school, to please Op...manners and ettique are attractive to him, it a shame he has none himself, but yet demands it from others

Mr "

I know right. Shame about my high IQ, EQ and smol body….

Calling someone a cunt who acts like a cunt is apparently unattractive. Who knew? Oh well nevermind. Back to having le sex…

Ps. Easiest block of the day

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever.

Check

Thats you told LB, know toddle off to finishing school, to please Op...manners and ettique are attractive to him, it a shame he has none himself, but yet demands it from others

Mr

I know right. Shame about my high IQ, EQ and smol body….

Calling someone a cunt who acts like a cunt is apparently unattractive. Who knew? Oh well nevermind. Back to having le sex…

Ps. Easiest block of the day "

you're still not a lady.

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By *elloWoman 3 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Wait is this serious?

I genuinely can't tell anymore "

Yes its serious, this guy is a fuckwit

He would be king of the trolls but even the trolls won't take him

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 3 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Ladies, I'm going to give you a minute or two to think about your actions and comments tonight,a simple sorry would be greatly appreciated. I'm not angry just disappointed."

Aww sweet cheeks you need a fuck off big fucking cuddle, come here cupcake let's hug that, disappointment right out of you....

We live you

Mr

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 3 weeks ago

North West


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever.

Check

Thats you told LB, know toddle off to finishing school, to please Op...manners and ettique are attractive to him, it a shame he has none himself, but yet demands it from others

Mr

I know right. Shame about my high IQ, EQ and smol body….

Calling someone a cunt who acts like a cunt is apparently unattractive. Who knew? Oh well nevermind. Back to having le sex…

Ps. Easiest block of the day "

Sunblock for the burns, methinks.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman 3 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"Ladies, I'm going to give you a minute or two to think about your actions and comments tonight,a simple sorry would be greatly appreciated. I'm not angry just disappointed.

If you think this is attractive, it's not. It's downright weird and just a tad sinister, tbh.

Have you considered taking vows and entering a monastery? "

He might as well not having had a date in 12 years.....I wonder why that could be?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 3 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever.

Check

Thats you told LB, know toddle off to finishing school, to please Op...manners and ettique are attractive to him, it a shame he has none himself, but yet demands it from others

Mr

I know right. Shame about my high IQ, EQ and smol body….

Calling someone a cunt who acts like a cunt is apparently unattractive. Who knew? Oh well nevermind. Back to having le sex…

Ps. Easiest block of the day "

Call me a cunt I wanna be called a cunt too

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago


"Wait is this serious?

I genuinely can't tell anymore

Yes its serious, this guy is a fuckwit

He would be king of the trolls but even the trolls won't take him "

I loved the trolls in frozen

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By *ambertMan 3 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Wait is this serious?

I genuinely can't tell anymore

Yes its serious, this guy is a fuckwit

He would be king of the trolls but even the trolls won't take him "

This is why we can't have nice things

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple 3 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Ladies, I'm going to give you a minute or two to think about your actions and comments tonight,a simple sorry would be greatly appreciated. I'm not angry just disappointed."

Aww shucks, I've thought about it and nope

Tinder

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By *aribbean King 1985Man 3 weeks ago

South West London


"It comes down to attraction bud.

That's it.

But Is she attracted to his money and the ability to support her and her possible family?

I reckon some are, but I don’t reckon percentage is very hard on the swinging site. I think it will be much higher when people are looking for a relationship that could possibly turn into something more. "

Most women are attracted to it

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever.

Check

Thats you told LB, know toddle off to finishing school, to please Op...manners and ettique are attractive to him, it a shame he has none himself, but yet demands it from others

Mr

I know right. Shame about my high IQ, EQ and smol body….

Calling someone a cunt who acts like a cunt is apparently unattractive. Who knew? Oh well nevermind. Back to having le sex…

Ps. Easiest block of the day

Call me a cunt I wanna be called a cunt too

Mr "

I'm more scared of your missus

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By *ittlebirdWoman 3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"

you're attitude is very poor, manners are lacking also, which I find highly attractive.

This comment is a fucking disgrace mind your language, absolutely disgraceful! Not very lady like whatsoever.

Check

Thats you told LB, know toddle off to finishing school, to please Op...manners and ettique are attractive to him, it a shame he has none himself, but yet demands it from others

Mr

I know right. Shame about my high IQ, EQ and smol body….

Calling someone a cunt who acts like a cunt is apparently unattractive. Who knew? Oh well nevermind. Back to having le sex…

Ps. Easiest block of the day you're still not a lady."

That’s laydeee…

Get it right

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By *ou only live onceMan 3 weeks ago

London


"Wait is this serious?

I genuinely can't tell anymore

Yes its serious, this guy is a fuckwit

He would be king of the trolls but even the trolls won't take him I loved the trolls in frozen"

I've never seen Frozen.

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By *ambertMan 3 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Wait is this serious?

I genuinely can't tell anymore deadly serious."

I mean....you do you I guess

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By *aribbean King 1985Man 3 weeks ago

South West London

Why do you think women tend to go for men who are stronger, more competent, smarter, taller then themselves. They never date down like men do

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By *electableicecreamMan 3 weeks ago

The West


"Why do you think women tend to go for men who are stronger, more competent, smarter, taller then themselves. They never date down like men do"

This is such a warped view of how women choose men.

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By *naswingdressWoman 3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation.."

Women, like men, are people. People have lots of reasons why they do what they do, which can't be simplified into saying "fifty percent of the human population only care about wealth and class".

There are internet gurus in every field, including male loneliness, exploiting vulnerability and telling people appealling rubbish to make them angry. It's very lucrative, apparently.

Rather than seeking simple answers that promote grievance, it might be worth listening to the kinds of people you want to meet, and engaging in a little introspection.

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"Why do you think women tend to go for men who are stronger, more competent, smarter, taller then themselves. They never date down like men do

This is such a warped view of how women choose men."

it's true, completely and utterly true.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman 3 weeks ago

your head

If you really believe women are these evil, awful creatures that should sit down and do as their told and be seen and not heard OP, why are you here looking for them? Would you not be better off cherry picking the ones who fit your 'views' in every day life?

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By *eecount1815 OP   Man 3 weeks ago

Tenbury Wells


"A date free guy of over 12 years, searching for simple answers in complicated world, do women only care for a guy's social standing and Money, or is there more to this complex Socio demographic situation..

Women, like men, are people. People have lots of reasons why they do what they do, which can't be simplified into saying "fifty percent of the human population only care about wealth and class".

There are internet gurus in every field, including male loneliness, exploiting vulnerability and telling people appealling rubbish to make them angry. It's very lucrative, apparently.

Rather than seeking simple answers that promote grievance, it might be worth listening to the kinds of people you want to meet, and engaging in a little introspection."

you simply cannot change 1000's of years of Evolution it's ingrained into the oldest most reptilian part's of your brain. You will never change.

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By *naswingdressWoman 3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why do you think women tend to go for men who are stronger, more competent, smarter, taller then themselves. They never date down like men do

This is such a warped view of how women choose men. it's true, completely and utterly true."

Why don't you try listening to women, given we're the ones who have what you seek? Rather than listening to the kind of stories that seem to be keeping you in the position where you can't find a date (according to your own description) in over a decade?

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By *naswingdressWoman 3 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

If I will never change from what you believe me to be, OP, then why are you asking this question? Are you expecting pity?

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