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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago

Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!".

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By *dam1971Man 48 weeks ago

Bedford

It depends what you’re looking for, but I hope so, yes

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!". "

Eh up OP 😉

My answer too would be yes x reasonings are few but simply because I’m no maintenance and very relaxed about most things as well as, IMO, I’m a good lover 😉x

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By *icecouple561Couple 48 weeks ago
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East Sussex

No I wouldn't. I like to be with people who are opposite to me in many ways

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By *mmaleiaWoman 48 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Jesus no, I’m too aloof for my own liking

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Honestly...no.

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By *eordieJeansCouple 48 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Fuck no! I’m moody, out of shape, lazy and shit at everything. I can do better than me.

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By *ristol_nicolaTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

I totally would! I’m very much like the people I seek.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"It depends what you’re looking for, but I hope so, yes "

You hope you'd date you?

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By *naswingdressWoman 48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Hell no

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago

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By *parkle1974Woman 48 weeks ago

Leeds

Nope, as they say...opposites attract x

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By *aizyWoman 48 weeks ago

west midlands

No, I'm too laid back verging on lazy, if I was with someone like me we'd never get anything done!

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!".

Eh up OP 😉

My answer too would be yes x reasonings are few but simply because I’m no maintenance and very relaxed about most things as well as, IMO, I’m a good lover 😉x"

So easy going is something you value highly in others. Would highly-strung put you off?

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By *eliWoman 48 weeks ago

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Oh Nell, now I've got to decide if I go down the self-deprecating route or not.

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By *eordieJeansCouple 48 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’d like another me for a gym buddy though. We’d be the ultimate gym bros.

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By *ymman12Man 48 weeks ago

darlington

I would have to say no as i have my head too much in my business and travel the country trying to make it for early retirement, i have 0 time for a relationship at this moment in my life, so i suppose i wouldn't be the best person to date

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"No I wouldn't. I like to be with people who are opposite to me in many ways"

A counter-balance of personality traits is definitely useful at times.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!".

Eh up OP 😉

My answer too would be yes x reasonings are few but simply because I’m no maintenance and very relaxed about most things as well as, IMO, I’m a good lover 😉x

So easy going is something you value highly in others. Would highly-strung put you off?"

Not necessarily put me off because highly strung is just a derivative term for passionate and driven in my mind x as long as “highly strung” doesn’t mean always looking for trouble or fights lol x

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman 48 weeks ago

London

Absolutely. I’m a delight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Jesus no, I’m too aloof for my own liking "

Like Mrs NC, do you feel you need an opposite personality type in a partner?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan 48 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I’d date me. Dunno if it would go anywhere, though.

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By *unloversCouple 48 weeks ago

rotherham

No way….I’m to fussy and the least little thing puts me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"No, I'm too laid back verging on lazy, if I was with someone like me we'd never get anything done!"

Relatable

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 48 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Absolutely!

J

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By *etmebeinurefantasiesMan 48 weeks ago

witney

I would if the other me was female and was as naughty as me and had an identically high sex drive lol just aswell my hands got a high sex drive lol lol

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By *ife NinjaMan 48 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Yeah. I'm good company, smell nice, and I'm awesome in bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Oh Nell, now I've got to decide if I go down the self-deprecating route or not. "

Go down the balanced route, Meli.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS 48 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

Well I think I would..

Not dating though just sex and a bit of chat.. and maybe a pot noodle and a few cans of strongbow...

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple 48 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Hell no.... damaged goods lol

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By *4bimMan 48 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

No.

Because I'm too invested in money making, work and i have little patience for people most of the time.

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By *arkSovereignMan 48 weeks ago

Lancashire

There would be too much of a power struggle, so I would have to say no 😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"I’d like another me for a gym buddy though. We’d be the ultimate gym bros."

This answer pleases me more than your first answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Well I think I would..

Not dating though just sex and a bit of chat.. and maybe a pot noodle and a few cans of strongbow... "

What flavour pot noodle? It's an important detail.

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By *he KakapoMan 48 weeks ago

A nice rock


"Hell no.... damaged goods lol"

This x2

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple 48 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Hell no.... damaged goods lol

This x2"

💔

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By *dam1971Man 48 weeks ago

Bedford


"It depends what you’re looking for, but I hope so, yes

You hope you'd date you? "

Wasn’t it if I was someone else?

Fuck, I’m not cut out for this, I’d last about 10 seconds on a date, you’re right

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman 48 weeks ago

Birmingham

Honestly, speaking as me, hell no. I don't think I bring anything to the table that is desirable.

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By *ensuallover1000Man 48 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Date myself?

Hell yes! 😍😍😍😂

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By *eliWoman 48 weeks ago

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"Oh Nell, now I've got to decide if I go down the self-deprecating route or not.

Go down the balanced route, Meli.

"

Yes I would. I like people who are passionate about something and I've got passion in abundance (a bit too much). Driven. Playful.

I like those who are kind of dorky and yep, I'm a not so secret dork.

I like people who like good food and travelling and learning more about the world around them - that's me.

I also have a bit of a lady boner for the Home Counties accent - oh look, that's me again.

I love people who have skill with language - that's not quite me but I'll get there one day.

The only way I wouldn't is I do tend to be attracted to those who are more conventionally attractive than me but I think my winning personality would win my quim over.

Oh and I love people who can waffle. Final tick for some self fucking. And loving.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Honestly, speaking as me, hell no. I don't think I bring anything to the table that is desirable."

This makes me sad. You'd make any partner laugh until they cried, and that's priceless.

At one time I would have said the same of myself. I'm middle-aged, have kids, need copious amounts of solitude to stay sane and could never live with someone, socially awkward at first, have low earning potential due to the 'tism, probably will never be great at monogamy, and hate cooking.

Even neglecting to list the positives, I'd still date me. However, I'm very aware that the chances of other people finding me appealing as a potential partner are extremely slim, especially in a low-population area. But that's OK. No partner is better than an unsuitable partner.

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By *eordieJeansCouple 48 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I’d like another me for a gym buddy though. We’d be the ultimate gym bros.

This answer pleases me more than your first answer "

The rest of the gym would hate us but we’d be chest bumping after every lift 💪

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"I’d like another me for a gym buddy though. We’d be the ultimate gym bros.

This answer pleases me more than your first answer

The rest of the gym would hate us but we’d be chest bumping after every lift 💪"

I have Will Ferrell and John C. Reilly visuals...

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By *dam1971Man 48 weeks ago

Bedford


"Honestly, speaking as me, hell no. I don't think I bring anything to the table that is desirable."

In the name of Queen Guinevere’s quim, I hope this is false modesty? You’re a genuinely lovely person.

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By *eordieJeansCouple 48 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I’d like another me for a gym buddy though. We’d be the ultimate gym bros.

This answer pleases me more than your first answer

The rest of the gym would hate us but we’d be chest bumping after every lift 💪

I have Will Ferrell and John C. Reilly visuals..."

It would be exactly like the scene when they build the bunk beds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago

I'm loving the "yes" replies, BTW

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By *avexxMan 48 weeks ago

cheshire


"Honestly, speaking as me, hell no. I don't think I bring anything to the table that is desirable."
,,,, your wrong _emonbuttercream

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Oh Nell, now I've got to decide if I go down the self-deprecating route or not.

Go down the balanced route, Meli.

Yes I would. I like people who are passionate about something and I've got passion in abundance (a bit too much). Driven. Playful.

I like those who are kind of dorky and yep, I'm a not so secret dork.

I like people who like good food and travelling and learning more about the world around them - that's me.

I also have a bit of a lady boner for the Home Counties accent - oh look, that's me again.

I love people who have skill with language - that's not quite me but I'll get there one day.

The only way I wouldn't is I do tend to be attracted to those who are more conventionally attractive than me but I think my winning personality would win my quim over.

Oh and I love people who can waffle. Final tick for some self fucking. And loving."

This is perfect, Mellster

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Probably not as I like someone who can come up with the conversation topic and then it usually flows from there. It would be awkward as fuck if I datedyaelf as I would think I had no personality 😅

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By *erfHerder74Man 48 weeks ago

Inverclyde

I wouldn’t date me as a woman

I would date me as a man because I know I’m loyal, high sex drive, intimate and do my best not to let me down

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By *affron40Woman 48 weeks ago

manchester

Yes. I think I need someone with similar quirks. I need people with matching passion and integrity. But who can be there but not in my pocket. Vimto appreciation is a given.

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By *hilloutMan 48 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!". "

I'm in a similar situation to yourself Op.

Two words..."hell yeah!"😁

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By *olfandtazCouple 48 weeks ago

Bristol

I would, I'm awesome lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Probably not as I like someone who can come up with the conversation topic and then it usually flows from there. It would be awkward as fuck if I datedyaelf as I would think I had no personality 😅"

That's a good point, Joe. Me and myself would be a very silent couple

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By *ittlebirdWoman 48 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Dating me? Not a fucking chance. I’m literally a complicated ball of geek, craziness and idiotic behaviour rolled into a loving human being. Working me out is like trying to find the meaning of the universe.

So no. Dating me will be fun but ultimately hard work.

Ah well… life sucks 😘

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman 48 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Honestly, speaking as me, hell no. I don't think I bring anything to the table that is desirable.

This makes me sad. You'd make any partner laugh until they cried, and that's priceless.

At one time I would have said the same of myself. I'm middle-aged, have kids, need copious amounts of solitude to stay sane and could never live with someone, socially awkward at first, have low earning potential due to the 'tism, probably will never be great at monogamy, and hate cooking.

Even neglecting to list the positives, I'd still date me. However, I'm very aware that the chances of other people finding me appealing as a potential partner are extremely slim, especially in a low-population area. But that's OK. No partner is better than an unsuitable partner.

"

Aweee Nell. 🤍

You're right though it's better to be single than with the wrong person. I think you'd be surprised how many would date you even if you think the chances are slim. I know we don't know each other particularly well, but you get a real sense of people when you've been here so long and you've always been so lovable, wise and funny. And that counts for a lot but I know it isn't easy when it comes to dating.

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By *ongjonsliver555Man 48 weeks ago

London

I do…. Every night 😞😂

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By *eliWoman 48 weeks ago

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"Probably not as I like someone who can come up with the conversation topic and then it usually flows from there. It would be awkward as fuck if I datedyaelf as I would think I had no personality 😅"

You're also thirty years too young for you.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago


"Probably not as I like someone who can come up with the conversation topic and then it usually flows from there. It would be awkward as fuck if I dated myself as I would think I had no personality 😅

That's a good point, Joe. Me and myself would be a very silent couple "

Exactly! And we'd both be overthinking if I actually liked me 🤨😂

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago


"Probably not as I like someone who can come up with the conversation topic and then it usually flows from there. It would be awkward as fuck if I datedyaelf as I would think I had no personality 😅

You're also thirty years too young for you. "

Hey! ...Yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!".

I'm in a similar situation to yourself Op.

Two words..."hell yeah!"😁"

I so want to fistbump you right now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Dating me? Not a fucking chance. I’m literally a complicated ball of geek, craziness and idiotic behaviour rolled into a loving human being. Working me out is like trying to find the meaning of the universe.

So no. Dating me will be fun but ultimately hard work.

Ah well… life sucks 😘"

"Loving human being" is the key phrase there, LB

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By *d mirerMan 48 weeks ago

lost

I’m glad you say hell yes !

For me I’d say no , I think I’d think I was ok and would like me as a friend but not date material . To set in my own ways and my own complexities . To be honest probably too much of me would annoy the shit out of me .

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By *ittlebirdWoman 48 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Dating me? Not a fucking chance. I’m literally a complicated ball of geek, craziness and idiotic behaviour rolled into a loving human being. Working me out is like trying to find the meaning of the universe.

So no. Dating me will be fun but ultimately hard work.

Ah well… life sucks 😘

"Loving human being" is the key phrase there, LB "

Thank you darling. I certainly am that. Despite my flaws ♥️

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By *he KakapoMan 48 weeks ago

A nice rock

Well now I feel judged for saying no

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Yes I would. And tbh I don’t understand why more people don’t date me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Well now I feel judged for saying no "

You're not alone, my lovely owl parrot.

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By *asterMeliodasMan 48 weeks ago

Newmill

I generally very much enjoy it when I connect with people who are similar to me, so I'd like to think that I would.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"I generally very much enjoy it when I connect with people who are similar to me, so I'd like to think that I would."

But who would be the master?

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By *asterMeliodasMan 48 weeks ago

Newmill


"I generally very much enjoy it when I connect with people who are similar to me, so I'd like to think that I would.

But who would be the master? "

That title is reserved for my wife's use, so in that situation nobody would be. :D I guess we'd both just be Meliodas.

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By *illy IdolMan 48 weeks ago

Midlands

Yes, I probably would.

Funny, not a bad cook, easy going, adventurous, rarely moody, it would be bliss

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By *izz70Woman 48 weeks ago

Sheffield

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By *anilla switchWoman 48 weeks ago

Hampshire

Absolutely not, I’m clumsy, too independent, and awful at sharing!

I believe a relationship between similar personalities has no room for growth. Instead, I look for someone who has a complementary personality—similar enough to get along yet different enough to challenge me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Yes, I probably would.

Funny, not a bad cook, easy going, adventurous, rarely moody, it would be bliss"

I skim-read your comment and saw "not a bad cock"

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By *izz70Woman 48 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!". "

yes i'd date myself. I've often said to myself why can't I find someone Just like me

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By *eliWoman 48 weeks ago

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"Yes, I probably would.

Funny, not a bad cook, easy going, adventurous, rarely moody, it would be bliss

I skim-read your comment and saw "not a bad cock" "

🤢 Get a room.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Absolutely not, I’m clumsy, too independent, and awful at sharing!

I believe a relationship between similar personalities has no room for growth. Instead, I look for someone who has a complementary personality—similar enough to get along yet different enough to challenge me.

"

That's a very good point. I've had relationships stagnate for those reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Yes, I probably would.

Funny, not a bad cook, easy going, adventurous, rarely moody, it would be bliss

I skim-read your comment and saw "not a bad cock"

🤢 Get a room."

Innocent mistake!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman 48 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Yes I would date me.

I'm awesome because I like all the things that I like and I know exactly how i'm feeling and what I want to do at any given time.

I know when i'm horny or hungry and I know EXACTLY what to do to reach the spot.

Best of all I know when I'm tired and want to go to bed and when I wake up I know exactly where the kettle is ... I like the same films as me too ..... and always agree on when I look good.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago


"Yes I would date me.

I'm awesome because I like all the things that I like and I know exactly how i'm feeling and what I want to do at any given time.

I know when i'm horny or hungry and I know EXACTLY what to do to reach the spot.

Best of all I know when I'm tired and want to go to bed and when I wake up I know exactly where the kettle is ... I like the same films as me too ..... and always agree on when I look good."

👏🏽👏🏽 also this 👏🏽👏🏽😉

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Yes I would date me.

I'm awesome because I like all the things that I like and I know exactly how i'm feeling and what I want to do at any given time.

I know when i'm horny or hungry and I know EXACTLY what to do to reach the spot.

Best of all I know when I'm tired and want to go to bed and when I wake up I know exactly where the kettle is ... I like the same films as me too ..... and always agree on when I look good."

And they say love isn't logical...

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By *hilloutMan 48 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!".

I'm in a similar situation to yourself Op.

Two words..."hell yeah!"😁

I so want to fistbump you right now! "

😁

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By *lowupdollTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

By every possible metric I’m amaz alright ish. I’d date me. Go halves on 20 b&h and a vimto.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman 48 weeks ago

Next Door

I would date me ❤️

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 48 weeks ago

North West

Probably not, no

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Um. Maybe very casually, but nothing like full time.

I think we'd be too alike. I like when there's things to actually discuss and I don't feel like someone who'd agree with everything I'd say would be particularly interesting to me for long.

Even if they are really hot and excellent in bed 💜

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By *rolicUsCouple 48 weeks ago

Worth travelling to

Oh hell to the yes! I’m great fun, absolute mischief and find joy in microcosms of life as well as belly laughing at nincompoops, including myself.

I might not get a word in edgeways when I get super excited about something, but having an equally enthusiastic, sweaty dance partner would be amazing. Although my wankathons might be even more enjoyable. 🫠

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By *rimal InstinctCouple 48 weeks ago

Carlisle

I don't think so.

I need someone to balance out the forgetful ditziness. Two like minded people going out together, we'd never get anywhere as we'd be forever misplacing phone/keys/purse constantly.

However, we would both like doing the same things which would be great and could chatter away about anything from the interesting to the inane. But we'd never come to a decision.

In all fairness, I think I'd do my own head in. So no.

Ahhhhhh but we'd have a great taste in music though!.....

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By *ad NannaWoman 48 weeks ago

East London

Yea. I give a great blow job.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Hmmmmm I'm not sure lol.... I'm not really a romantic, cuddly person.. I think I'm too independent to date

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Fuck yeah. I'm awesome

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago


"Yea. I give a great blow job."
true

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By *eroLondonMan 48 weeks ago

Mayfair

Of course I would date "me". I would have to lower my standards but I'm worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Only for my pretty wang

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I’d like to say yes I would but I’d probably bore myself talking about my horses lol.

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By *eroLondonMan 48 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Yes, I probably would.

Funny, not a bad cook, easy going, adventurous, rarely moody, it would be bliss

I skim-read your comment and saw "not a bad cock"

·

🤢 Get a room."

...Again. 🧑‍🤝‍🧑💘🏹

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By *ake_or_deathMan 48 weeks ago

Manchester

No. I've seen the state of me.

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman 48 weeks ago

Wales

Some days I would definitely date me..when I can be good company, attentive and empathetic.

Other days definitely no...my mood swings would leave me dizzy.

Plus I probably wouldn't reply to my messages

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Probably not, I like how most people find my chronic inability to take things seriously incredibly annoying but I’d probably find it annoying too if i wasn’t me. Plus I’m a boring cunt who likes my routine of work and gym and barely owt else if Imagine most people find it duller than ditchwater

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By *eyond PurityCouple 48 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I know this is deviating but I literally do date me with C - we are so alike in our ways it’s uncanny!

I love having someone around with the same thought process and the same ideals - so in answer to the question, yes I’d date myself…😊

K

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By *avinaTVTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No, I wouldn't. I'm pretty sure I'd decline me, albeit politely, and that would inevitably lead me to not push it too hard. So nothing would come of it.

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By *illy IdolMan 48 weeks ago

Midlands


"I know this is deviating but I literally do date me with C - we are so alike in our ways it’s uncanny!

I love having someone around with the same thought process and the same ideals - so in answer to the question, yes I’d date myself…😊

K"

🤢🤮

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By *a_brunetteWoman 48 weeks ago

Wiltshire


"There would be too much of a power struggle, so I would have to say no 😂"

That’s exactly what I was going to say 🤣

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By *rimson_RoseWoman 48 weeks ago

Tamworth

Maybe.

I’m pretty easy going and don’t bring drama. I don’t do games and I speak my mind - but unpalatable messages are packaged with a bit of reasonableness.

I’m house trained after spending some time in uniform. I’ve been known to make birthday cakes and I pay for pizza when it’s my turn.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

No.

I need someone who can take the lead a little because I am ridiculously shy around new people. And then if we ever did get over that hurdle, we'd need to see who can fit a word in edgeways first. The key to overcoming nerves is to talk complete shite apparently it just wouldn't work.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Until only a couple of months ago, I’d say no.

Didn’t like myself very much, was feeling low, didn’t feel valued, under loved, didn’t feel that I had anymore to offer, let alone more of me to actually give.

Then one day in May. All that changed, I was told I am a catch, that there are people out there who’, care for me, there are people around me who would love to be with me, because I’m a capable, competent human being, which okay… I have hang ups and vulnerabilities, but I lean into overcoming them using honesty and integrity as my own north-star. People actually flipping liked me and fancied me, because of who I am and all my weaknesses and failures; I was struck my this uninvited feedback.

I’ve come to realise, several things, that my own self talk, talks to me for more than anyone else in the real world, but i don’t have to listen; to the negatives or to the false press. Just stay the course.

Then, I went to the last MLS and smashed my goal of being confident and social, after weeks & weeks of self improvement and leaning… to be me and stay vulnerable.

So Nell, YES, I count, I am something that some people out there want, I have something to offer and something to give.

🍻🌹💋

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Central

Oh God, yes, in a shot

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

To damn right I would. I have a shit load of good qualities. And I already know my sex is gooood 😏

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By *icky KlungespeareMan 48 weeks ago

St Leonards

If I weren't me, but met me, people generally want to date me judging from past experience.

But "me" doesn't like dating, for too many reasons to list here.

So, from your given parameters Nell, the me that isn't me would probably want to date me, but the me that is me would politely decline the offer.

If, however, the me that isn't me could sense the alchemy in some brief but intense, infrequent orbits with the me that is me, then the me that is me would smile hugely at their wisdom and insight, and be delighted to engage.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago


"If I weren't me, but met me, people generally want to date me judging from past experience."
m unsurprising 🫶🏾

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 48 weeks ago

Leeds

Fucking dam right I would. You’d be stupid not to.

The mr

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By *reeneggsandsamMan 48 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

I'd take a punt on me yes. We'd have to see how the sex goes if I'm not good at jerking me off id soon kick me into touch.

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By *rBobbMan 48 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Dating me? Not a fucking chance. I’m literally a complicated ball of geek, craziness and idiotic behaviour rolled into a loving human being. Working me out is like trying to find the meaning of the universe.

So no. Dating me will be fun but ultimately hard work.

Ah well… life sucks 😘

"Loving human being" is the key phrase there, LB

Thank you darling. I certainly am that. Despite my flaws ♥️"

All of the above. But I wouldn't change a thing

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple 48 weeks ago

Leeds

My god no! I mean I've decent tits but that's about it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Hell yeah I'm an absolute Ray of sunshine 🌞 🤣🤣

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By *hrill CollinsMan 48 weeks ago

The Outer Rim

yeah, just so I could get closer to my friends so I could try it on with them, coz they're way fitter than me.

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By *ffervescentMan 48 weeks ago

winfrith

I would definitely date me I'm generous, funny ,handsome, smart ,smell nice ,adventurous, loveable and their is someone for everyone even here .

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By *ikeExMan 48 weeks ago

Here to Eternity


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!".

"

This is a great question.

I'm a guy who takes some "getting to know you" time... sadly, messages and texts don't do me any justice, because I type and add the tone to the messages in my head..

that said... those who have met me, have stayed in touch, and in some cases we still me for sexual encounters.

I guess it's because I'm honest, sincere, always care about the person I am meeting, and respect their safety, wishes and very grateful for their time.

All this said.... I would date me after getting to know me first...

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By *rPeachyMan 48 weeks ago

Bristol


"Honestly, speaking as me, hell no. I don't think I bring anything to the table that is desirable.

This makes me sad. You'd make any partner laugh until they cried, and that's priceless.

At one time I would have said the same of myself. I'm middle-aged, have kids, need copious amounts of solitude to stay sane and could never live with someone, socially awkward at first, have low earning potential due to the 'tism, probably will never be great at monogamy, and hate cooking.

Even neglecting to list the positives, I'd still date me. However, I'm very aware that the chances of other people finding me appealing as a potential partner are extremely slim, especially in a low-population area. But that's OK. No partner is better than an unsuitable partner.

"

There's always boing to be someone whose life and personality fit in with, and compliment yours. Maybe even someone who has simialr traits and understands them

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By *avexxMan 48 weeks ago

cheshire

of course i would i would be mad not too

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I don't think so. Nothing much to offer.

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By *heelerMan 48 weeks ago

Northants

No he's too horny always wanting sex .

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 48 weeks ago

Chichester

absolutely I am unique and awesome

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By *weetiepie99Woman 48 weeks ago

cardiff

Yes. I have a lot to offer

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By *izandpaulCouple 48 weeks ago

merseyside


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!". "

Absolutely.

I'm a real catch.

What more can I say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    48 weeks ago


"Honestly, speaking as me, hell no. I don't think I bring anything to the table that is desirable.

This makes me sad. You'd make any partner laugh until they cried, and that's priceless.

At one time I would have said the same of myself. I'm middle-aged, have kids, need copious amounts of solitude to stay sane and could never live with someone, socially awkward at first, have low earning potential due to the 'tism, probably will never be great at monogamy, and hate cooking.

Even neglecting to list the positives, I'd still date me. However, I'm very aware that the chances of other people finding me appealing as a potential partner are extremely slim, especially in a low-population area. But that's OK. No partner is better than an unsuitable partner.

There's always boing to be someone whose life and personality fit in with, and compliment yours. Maybe even someone who has simialr traits and understands them "

Possibly, but that wasn't quite my point. It more the feeling that I'm pretty awesome as I am, and I'm unwilling to tie myself in knots trying to accommodate someone's expectations of what a relationship or a partner should be like. If that means eternal solitude, so be it. I'll keep myself company quite happily.

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By *ora the explorerWoman 48 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Nah. I’m too stubborn. Id drive myself mad

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By *heGateKeeperMan 48 weeks ago

Stratford

Yes, because I’m fucking delightful

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan 48 weeks ago

Always on the move

I reckon I would. I might not be the best looking, but I'm a cracking bloke with great tits

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By *atnip make me purrWoman 48 weeks ago

Reading

In a non monogamous way yes. I'd never marry me though.

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By *a LunaWoman 48 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Probably not. I’d probably take more than I could give at this moment in time. And nobody needs that.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!". "

100% yes, for many reasons, but there are one or two thing I'd love to change.

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By *ife NinjaMan 48 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I'm a fixer. Some people don't want fixed

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Yes. I’m great 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I would but then I would be racked with self doubt thinking what the hell does me see in me, surely they could do better. I'll ride it out till me gets bored of me.

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By *ookie46Woman 48 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Too right I would, I’m a proper catch

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By *iscean_dreamMan 48 weeks ago

Llanelli

I've been stuck with myself for 41 years and I'd definitely date me

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By *illhouse555Man 48 weeks ago

Carlisle

No way I'm to impulsive

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By *oungnhorny21Man 48 weeks ago

Halifax


"I’d like another me for a gym buddy though. We’d be the ultimate gym bros.

This answer pleases me more than your first answer

The rest of the gym would hate us but we’d be chest bumping after every lift 💪

I have Will Ferrell and John C. Reilly visuals..."

Hahaha think of all the activities we can now do with alll this space 😂

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By *ottsbluesMan 48 weeks ago

Nottingham

Probably not. I feel like two aloof loners wouldn’t spend much time bonking.

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By *illan-KillashMan 48 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

There's a very long list of people who wouldn't date me.

I'm on that list.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple 48 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"There's a very long list of people who wouldn't date me.

I'm on that list."

Haha same here lol

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By *issilia AmoriWoman 48 weeks ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Hell no, I couldn't afford the dinner bill

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

No, I don't date, so I would get rejected if I tried to!

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I don’t want to do the whole woe is me thing, but I would be genuinely surprised if people would want to once they got to know me.

There’s always the fantasy me that you see in my profile but I can be a really boring person and I’m told by thise close to me that I’m competitive and can’t ever be wrong. Honestly, would you date me lol

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By *oungnhorny21Man 48 weeks ago

Halifax


"Imagine you're not you (and possibly also the opposite sex) and you encounter the "real you" and the option of dating rears it's head......Would you?

This has been on my mind today, having not long come out of a long-term relationship, and thinking about what I'd like the very far distant future to look like at some point. I surprised myself by thinking "hell, yes!". "

Such a hard question. I think No?

I need someone to bounce ideas off, to reign me in. Me dating myself would be self destruction. Id end up in a sprial of spontaneity. I need to be grounded every now ans again.

I think being different in some ways is what makes a great relationship

Theres three things that i have to have in common and know that these a rules i live by myself

1. Are you a kind person?

2. Do you look for the good in people?

3. Can you be loved ? - to add in multiple ways. But the capability has to be there. Sex is sex but great sex has passion and sensuality

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By *eroLondonMan 48 weeks ago

Mayfair


"No, I don't date, so I would get rejected if I tried to! "

Have you tried courtship? It's akin to dating but a little more contrived and refined. 🌈

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

Unlikely

Despite the fact I would love to know what my date is really thinking when we flirt, I dislike big boobs.

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By *ad NannaWoman 48 weeks ago

East London


"Yea. I give a great blow job. true"

😂

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By *emorefridaCouple 48 weeks ago

La la land

No we two of me would clash too much and never get anything done. I need someone who compliments me not someone identical to me.

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By *orphia2003Woman 48 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, and I often do.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 48 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I certainly wouldn't date me. Fuck that. Far too annoying and hyper.

I would have a weekend of fun. Socially out on the town then attempt some fumblage later on.

Small doses would be the order of the day.

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By *ea monkeyMan 48 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that I’m fun, verging on funny, kind, caring and considerate. I spend a lot of time in my own company and often go on me dates. I think that I would date me

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS 48 weeks ago

ilkley and Stockport

Nah. I'm too fabulous for me to have any chance with me. Someone like Polly would never be interested in me...

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple 48 weeks ago

Debauchery

It would be a whirlwind romance, fast and furious, passionate, primal and exhausting! Me and I would be over after a couple of months of competitive fun and fucking

Great memories Cherry. Never again though....

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

No I wouldn’t. I’m selfish when it comes to dating, as well as emotionally closed off, indecisive and just a general pain.

They’re not traits I look for in someone

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By *onkey 2023Man 48 weeks ago

Cross Hands

Yes, I definitely would

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By *rHotNottsMan 48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Nooooooooo, I like risks but that’s just silly !

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

No I’d rather someone else date me 😂😂

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By *inky_couple2020Couple 48 weeks ago

North West

I don't fancy myself though. Sad times 😕

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I’m the one night stand kind of guy

Sort of suck it and see before you buy

No longer seeking angst nor drama

But happy to experience a bit of karma

Dating me would be great fun

A steak dinner and a bottle of Blue Nun

Maybe a day at the cricket to watch the twenty twenty

Watching Lanky with balls a plenty

A date with Showpan would be just the ticket

And the activities above are just a snippet

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By *artorialMan 48 weeks ago

weymouth

I think I'd give myself a chance

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By *aramel.desiresMan 48 weeks ago

Laleham

I'll definitely give me a chance as I think I'm a little different.

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By *aramel.desiresMan 48 weeks ago

Laleham

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By *aramel.desiresMan 48 weeks ago

Laleham


"No I wouldn’t. I’m selfish when it comes to dating, as well as emotionally closed off, indecisive and just a general pain.

They’re not traits I look for in someone "

You have a Storm trooper in your photo so definitely worth investing in.

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By *riel13Woman 48 weeks ago

Northampton

Tbh, lately I have realised I don't want to date as nobody ever treats me like I treat them and I am worth better, so I am staying single and treating myself well instead... Looks wise I'm not so sure though... I think my personality isn't bad, from what I can gather... To others anyway,so yeah... I might

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By *riel13Woman 48 weeks ago

Northampton


"Tbh, lately I have realised I don't want to date as nobody ever treats me like I treat them and I am worth better, so I am staying single and treating myself well instead... Looks wise I'm not so sure though... I think my personality isn't bad, from what I can gather... To others anyway,so yeah... I might "

Actually... Does this mean I am already?!

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By *riar BelisseWoman 48 weeks ago

Holibobs

No. I'm way too self sufficient now to let anyone else, Into my family life.

I would however become a fwb with myself

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By *wist my nipplesCouple 48 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Hmm. This is a surprisingly thorny question!

Would I fuck me, yes. I love sex, am uninhibited and have been told I’m very responsive, all things which I enjoy in a sexual partner.

Would I date me? Hmm. It’s been so long since I dated anyone I don’t really know what that looks like. I’d like to hang out with me. Dunno about more.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

No as I would know that I am not looking for any kind of a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago

I would be so lucky

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By *izandpaulCouple 48 weeks ago

merseyside


"I’m the one night stand kind of guy

Sort of suck it and see before you buy

No longer seeking angst nor drama

But happy to experience a bit of karma

Dating me would be great fun

A steak dinner and a bottle of Blue Nun

Maybe a day at the cricket to watch the twenty twenty

Watching Lanky with balls a plenty

A date with Showpan would be just the ticket

And the activities above are just a snippet

"

Bottle of Blue Nun.

You silver tongued devil.

I'm mildly moist before it's opened.

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By *odrigoRomeroMan 48 weeks ago

Twixt Purgatory & Palookaville

110%!

I'm the most eligible male singleton on this whole goddam site I'll have you know.

I'm just patiently waiting for the rest of yous lot to catch up with this concept and form that orderly cue

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By *utdoorfun7474Couple 48 weeks ago

armagh

The sex would be unreal 😃

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By *ansoffateMan 48 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

We'd argue too much.

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