I've never done it. The closest I got was when I first slept with a new boyfriend and he asked afterwards if I'd cum. I sort of shook my head and he took it to mean I'd cum twice. He seemed so thrilled with himself I didn't like to tell him the truth  |
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"I've never done it. The closest I got was when I first slept with a new boyfriend and he asked afterwards if I'd cum. I sort of shook my head and he took it to mean I'd cum twice. He seemed so thrilled with himself I didn't like to tell him the truth "
Ouch.
You nodded twice, no shake. |
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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago
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If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.
Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better. |
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Only when I was younger and through the inexperience of having open, honest conversation and/or an understanding of my own body. I'm not a very good actress though so I would have assumed he knew I faked it. Afterwards conversation would indicate that men like to believe what they want to believe. |
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"Only when I was younger and through the inexperience of having open, honest conversation and/or an understanding of my own body. I'm not a very good actress though so I would have assumed he knew I faked it. Afterwards conversation would indicate that men like to believe what they want to believe."
I suspect that my ex should have known I was faking it, had he been paying attention to anything other than himself. |
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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.
Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better."
These are the reasons I hear from friends outside of fab. And I might not give feedback unless I get super safe to, but I'd also not pretend I enjoyed it more than I did. |
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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.
Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.
These are the reasons I hear from friends outside of fab. And I might not give feedback unless I get super safe to, but I'd also not pretend I enjoyed it more than I did. "
Yeah, feedback is risky. Even after you feel safe enough to be with someone, there's still a chance they'd throw a tantrum if you're honest with them. |
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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.
Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better."
I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end |
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By *vaRoseWoman 25 weeks ago
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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.
Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.
I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end"
That and in the case of my ex, it wouldn’t have been safe to tell him the cold truth |
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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.
Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.
I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end
That and in the case of my ex, it wouldn’t have been safe to tell him the cold truth "
Ah. Men. So lovely. |
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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.
Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.
I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end"
Is it technique or the ability to care to find what works for that person/ take the time to do it?
I think what women / men need to cum is subjective and vastly varied. |
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"If women fake orgasms it’s because there’s zero chance of them cumming from what the other party is doing and they either want to spare their feelings or just want it over with.
Personally I think men should have the feedback that their technique is bad so they can get better.
I wondered if it was actually because they just want it to end
Is it technique or the ability to care to find what works for that person/ take the time to do it?
I think what women / men need to cum is subjective and vastly varied. "
I don’t know. I don’t know why people fake orgasm that’s why I’m asking I guess  |
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I couldn't criticise someone's technique as others may love it. I would want a partner to take the time to learn my body / get me off, however as that's what I would be doing for them. |
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"I used to sometimes when having sex with my ex.
He may have been blessed with a large appendage, but he took that as "job done" and was, quite frankly, absolutely awful at sex.
C xoxo"
I do find it's those with the biggest appendages who worry least about technique.
I mean yeah, it can work. It can also be straight into cervix battering and becoming too familiar with the contents of my stomach. |
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My attention span is extremely short- I get bored very, very easily, no matter how good and/or exciting the activity is.
And I seek very quick gratification- I can orgasm quickly and many times within minutes, if stimulated correctly and if I am very attracted to my partner. To me “fucking for hours/all night” seems to be my idea of hell. So yeah, I may fake some more if I’ve had enough and just want to go to sleep 😂😂😂😂
Only exception is my FWB- it can be hours and hours, night after night with him and I never get bored. 😍 |
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"I used to sometimes when having sex with my ex.
He may have been blessed with a large appendage, but he took that as "job done" and was, quite frankly, absolutely awful at sex.
C xoxo
I do find it's those with the biggest appendages who worry least about technique.
I mean yeah, it can work. It can also be straight into cervix battering and becoming too familiar with the contents of my stomach."
That was pretty much his way of thinking - it's big, I don't have to do anything other than batter it inside her.
Which was great for him, but I got barely any pleasure from it and hints/tips etc weren't acted upon.
Therefore I'm not a believer in "size matters" - it's how you use it!
C xoxo |
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"I used to sometimes when having sex with my ex.
He may have been blessed with a large appendage, but he took that as "job done" and was, quite frankly, absolutely awful at sex.
C xoxo
I do find it's those with the biggest appendages who worry least about technique.
I mean yeah, it can work. It can also be straight into cervix battering and becoming too familiar with the contents of my stomach.
That was pretty much his way of thinking - it's big, I don't have to do anything other than batter it inside her.
Which was great for him, but I got barely any pleasure from it and hints/tips etc weren't acted upon.
Therefore I'm not a believer in "size matters" - it's how you use it!
C xoxo"
Agreed. Guys with less appendage have to think about it and are less likely to hurt you. |
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I'll back that....I would rather a woman didn't fake it and tell me the truth. Some women are massively different to others in what turns them on and what they like sexually, so knowing that you are not flicking their switch gives you the chance to try something different (or just put more effort in ha ha). |
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"I'll back that....I would rather a woman didn't fake it and tell me the truth. Some women are massively different to others in what turns them on and what they like sexually, so knowing that you are not flicking their switch gives you the chance to try something different (or just put more effort in ha ha)."
Totally agree with this. |
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By *meliaeWoman 25 weeks ago
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When I was much younger - knew it wasn’t going to happen from what was going on, but he was expecting it, plus I was getting bored and wanted to hurry things up.
Wish I could give that girl a hug. |
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"When you’ve faked an orgasm, what was the reason for it? 
https://youtu.be/0PewiUobfpU?si=-pZJvXxy-H9eeKRR
Wow blast from the past that. Thanks for sharing. "
Their facial expressions make the sketch..... |
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There's only one time I know for sure a woman was faking it with me, but I just let her. As I guessed she wanted to sleep.
Usually I can tell most of the time, I think! But you never really know do you? 🤔 |
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By *edSirenWoman 25 weeks ago
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Can’t say I’ve ever faked one. But I think guys think I have. Im a bit of a gusher 😁 and while it happens more so than the average, okay a lot 😅 it’s not every single time I cum. Doesn’t make the orgasm any less intense, but when a standard has been set some guys struggle to understand that. |
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