What makes you say no to someone in a message or on a profile? I cringe at the word "Naughty" it's a straight no for me. We're adults so why describe a meet as a "Naughty meet"? It gives me the ick |
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"Anything with a variation of 'I'm a nice guy' - gives me entitled, whiney vibes... And if you need to state you're a nice guy..... "
I actually hate being called a nice guy now. I've never self proclaimed myself one. But after seeing some of these so called "nice guys" I think it's an insult. |
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By *irsSubCouple 7 weeks ago
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- straight to "I'm going to do xxxx to you"
- claiming to be amazing in bed (usually a sign they are shite)
- manipulative responses to "no thanks"
- people who assume as a couple you are waiting on standby to fulfill their desires. As if we are sat at home "on call" for a swinging emergency |
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Self declared Alphas..
Bareback pics with multiple partners with no indication of consent of their pics being used,
0% personality messages (fuck now? Or bland variations of)
Entitlement is a huge turn off too.
Blas x  |
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Messaging to tell me they're nearby for a night in a truck/Hotel-good for you, why you telling me.
Asking if I've had much luck here.
No pics at all or more of other people in pics than them ie women /toys/cars.
Hi hun/babe/dear etc.
I don't bite unless asked..
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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"Anything with a variation of 'I'm a nice guy' - gives me entitled, whiney vibes... And if you need to state you're a nice guy.....
This!!! I cannot stress this enough... 🚩"
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By (user no longer on site) 7 weeks ago
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As above "nice guy" or anything similar.
"The sex"
"Daddy/mummy"
Overly complimentary messages 
"Play" instead of sex
"Pussy"
The long paragraph about being tied up and gagged in a random hotel room.
So many more but that about covers most
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"Self declared Alphas..
Bareback pics with multiple partners with no indication of consent of their pics being used,
0% personality messages (fuck now? Or bland variations of)
Entitlement is a huge turn off too.
Blas x "
Ah the old " self declared alpha male"...
Nothing turns us off faster than someone who says that! |
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One guy recently asked me if I had much luck on here.
Why do some men do that? I have never asked anyone that. He then proceeded to tell me in a really creepy manner that he could see from my verifications that I had!
Instant block!
Calling sex fun. It's such a throw away word.
I've had the nice guy thing a few times and it makes my stomach so uneasy. It definitely give red flag.
Guys who don't respect your preference
I just thought I'd try anyway.
Or I have a BWC and can black up.
Or when they get nasty when you say no. I've learnt now just to delete and not reply.
Sadly as the single men % has grown on here so has the frustration. Which I understand but that doesnt mean that some men should get unpleasant or act entitled.
Our bodies are our own. |
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