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I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable? |
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Yes, I'd feel the exact same. I generally like someone around the same age as me or a few years older. |
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I’ve spoken to people in their late 20s in recent years and it didn’t quite click. If I could legally be their parent, it would be a definite no.
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 4 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
I had a 19 year old try his luck the other day. Very flattering, but that's 4 years younger than my daughter. 😳
I don't entertain the possibility of a meet with anyone under 30, (it's too close in age to my own child) and I'm starting to think I'll have to increase that age.
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Anyone 18 or 19 has always been a hard no for me and think that as I get older, the lower age range may start to creep up |
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Anyone under 30 is a bit young for us we had one couple 20 and 21 message us before we had our age filter set that’s far to close to our daughters age 😂 |
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Anyone under 30 is a no go, generally i go for 40+ |
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I’ve spoken to quite a few young people and the conversation it just isn’t there, neither is the chemistry. Nothing like a maturity lady  |
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"I’ve spoken to people in their late 20s in recent years and it didn’t quite click. If I could legally be their parent, it would be a definite no.
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Don’t rule us all out.. we’re not all tits! I promise 😘🤣 |
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By *andTWoman 4 weeks ago
Altrincham |
"I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable? "
I'm 53. Oldest child is 31, so for me I'm saying 35
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"I’ve spoken to people in their late 20s in recent years and it didn’t quite click. If I could legally be their parent, it would be a definite no.
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Don’t rule us all out.. we’re not all tits! I promise 😘🤣"
Now if I were 4 yrs younger  |
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"I’ve spoken to quite a few young people and the conversation it just isn’t there, neither is the chemistry. Nothing like a maturity lady "
They just know what they want! |
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"I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable?
I'm 53. Oldest child is 31, so for me I'm saying 35
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I'll message you in 6 years 😘 |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 4 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I don't have kids, so don't really have any concerns about someone being the age of them.  |
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Thing is they can all look quite amazing until they open their mouths and say literally four times in one sentence, they say age is just a number but for most, emotional intelligence comes with age |
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By *andTWoman 4 weeks ago
Altrincham |
"I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable?
I'm 53. Oldest child is 31, so for me I'm saying 35
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I'll message you in 6 years 😘"
I'll wait 😉
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I must admit I have seen guys in their mid to late twenties but my preference is mid thirties and above but I don't really get approached by anyone near my age.
I would love that though. |
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"I’ve spoken to people in their late 20s in recent years and it didn’t quite click. If I could legally be their parent, it would be a definite no.
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Don’t rule us all out.. we’re not all tits! I promise 😘🤣"
I’d never set something like an age limit in stone but it would likely impact who we’d initially think of!
The other thing is, would we be too old for someone under 30 🙂 |
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"I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable?
I'm 53. Oldest child is 31, so for me I'm saying 35
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I'll message you in 6 years 😘
I'll wait 😉
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It’s difficult to say I suppose.. a lot of people are put off by age understandably.
However as someone who spends the majority of my spare time with older company 40s/50s females and males.. I find the conversation between us all flows and we all have things to say.
Life experience enables maturity, I feel some individuals can live a lot of life in a short space of time. For example fast career development, responsibilities, vast perspective on topics.
I feel I don’t have the mindset of a stereotypical 26 year old. |
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"I must admit I have seen guys in their mid to late twenties but my preference is mid thirties and above but I don't really get approached by anyone near my age.
I would love that though. "
You could change your filters to keep the young ones at bay and reach out yourself to men of a similar age |
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If you have an upper and lower limit are they the same distance apart from your age
Example you 50 lower 30 upper 70. |
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"I must admit I have seen guys in their mid to late twenties but my preference is mid thirties and above but I don't really get approached by anyone near my age.
I would love that though. "
Really? I get approached by men my age all the time… but it’s rare that I am attracted to them. I like young, taut bodies…. 
I have had amazing experiences with 20-somethings in the past but lately it has not been great. Been approached by them but it’s all about them and what they want. Almost coming with a list of experiences to be ticked. Haha, I tell them to kindly fuck off… also dress code for socials is a bit … 😨😨😨😨 |
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By *renzMan 4 weeks ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
While I have met women in their 20's, I probably wouldn't drop below 30's. Although it's not all about age, it can be their attitude and maturity too. |
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By *andTWoman 4 weeks ago
Altrincham |
"I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable?
I'm 53. Oldest child is 31, so for me I'm saying 35
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I'll message you in 6 years 😘
I'll wait 😉
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Champersdarling - love the user name! 😍 🥂
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"I’ve spoken to people in their late 20s in recent years and it didn’t quite click. If I could legally be their parent, it would be a definite no.
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Don’t rule us all out.. we’re not all tits! I promise 😘🤣
I’d never set something like an age limit in stone but it would likely impact who we’d initially think of!
The other thing is, would we be too old for someone under 30 🙂"
When you look like you two do.. I’m sure you wouldn’t be too old  |
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"I must admit I have seen guys in their mid to late twenties but my preference is mid thirties and above but I don't really get approached by anyone near my age.
I would love that though.
You could change your filters to keep the young ones at bay and reach out yourself to men of a similar age"
Yes I do need to do that.
Thanks 😘 |
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"I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable?
I'm 53. Oldest child is 31, so for me I'm saying 35
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I'll message you in 6 years 😘
I'll wait 😉
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Champersdarling - love the user name! 😍 🥂
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Thanks ❤️ |
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By *andTWoman 4 weeks ago
Altrincham |
"Lost my cherry at 16 to 47y old neighbours wife "
Must admit, that's fantasy material for me right there! 😳 😉 🫦
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"I must admit I have seen guys in their mid to late twenties but my preference is mid thirties and above but I don't really get approached by anyone near my age.
I would love that though.
Really? I get approached by men my age all the time… but it’s rare that I am attracted to them. I like young, taut bodies….
I have had amazing experiences with 20-somethings in the past but lately it has not been great. Been approached by them but it’s all about them and what they want. Almost coming with a list of experiences to be ticked. Haha, I tell them to kindly fuck off… also dress code for socials is a bit … 😨😨😨😨"
No I rarely ever get approached by guys over 40 even. I would like that though. |
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I've gone ten years younger and had an amazing time with him (he was 25 at the time), I think that's generally my preference with younger. In a club I don't ask anyone's age though and I've become less hung up on age if there's attraction there's attraction. But I have a brother who is 24 and I still feel like he's a baby to me so knowingly shagging someone his age would feel a bit weird 😵💫 I am more attracted to older men anyway. With women I'm less attracted to women who are much older (tho theres always exceptions), but again I probably wouldn't go more than 10 years younger, I prefer women around my age or just slightly older/younger. |
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Yes, age is important to me when sex is involved.
Socially age is irrelevant to me
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It's all very subjective.
Some will be okay with that and some won't
A LOT depends on the individual younger adult. Some of them are very mature and some not ..... there are men in their 30's 40's and 50's who are VERY emotionally and experientially immature and probably form the higher percentage of those you get 'arsey' texts n behaviour from.
If someone on here is after you it's for sexual release not because they want lifelong matrimony.
If they are above legal age they are not too young unless YOU think it's too young for you.
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"I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable? "
Anyone under 28 is a no-go for me. I'm 34 & generally prefer a bit older or same age
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I've been with people in their 30s , but I prefer 40 yrs +
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Maybe adjust up your age range in your profile if you feel like that? |
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It really depends on your personal preference but also how mature or childish people are.
As long as everyone is over 18 and consenting then it's really no one else's business. |
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Yes age is important to me.
I tend to find I don't have much in common with people much younger than me.
I currently have my lowest filter set to 40, I probably wouldn't go under about 36 ish.
I deffo wouldn't condisder anyone under 30 at my age. |
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Anyone younger than me. I'm still young myself, but I think even when i'm older i wouldn't go there. Too much of a difference in every aspect really |
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Anyone that could be a peer of my kids |
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Generally speaking no-one under the age of 30. But we have made the odd exception x |
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I don't want them young enough to be my kids or old enough to be my parents.
I have more in common with people around a similar age to me. |
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Prefer my own age group, roughly 10 years either side. Definitely no-one under 30. |
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Back in early 2023 I met someone who was 25 years younger than me. The meet was arranged almost four months in advance, having chatted for many months beforehand with no expectations.
In the lead up to meeting I spent weeks and months thinking long and hard about my moral compass, soul-searching, advice and reassurance from my close Fab friends who gave me a balanced view to settle my butterflies. I was mindful about the age gap and wasn't going to be cavalier in my approach to sleeping with someone so relatively 'young'. However, her general outlook on life, maturity and sensibilities totally offset my concerns around the issue of age.
I don't think I've ever applied so much due diligence in meeting someone. This was unprecedented.
I have no regrets; only wonderful memories that will linger and endure. |
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Thank you for all your great comments! You have inspired me to look for a guy of my own age or older as that's not something I have experienced on here.
The journey of discovery continues!
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It's not so much the age but how dull they are  - I am sure they feel the same about me
Finding someone under 25 with a common interest is very unlikely |
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So what age is to old
Asking for a friend |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 4 weeks ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
"So what age is to old
Asking for a friend"
100 - it's in the filter options...
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Not so much the age but it would have to be someone I had things in common with and they would have to have been sexually experienced |
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"I had a 22 year old show interest. To me that is too young as I'm 49.
Is age important to you? What age bracket do you consider acceptable? "
I’m 48 and would be fine with this providing we got on ok xx 😄 |
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I wish my 22 year old self bumped into you!! 🔥🤩
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"I’ve spoken to people in their late 20s in recent years and it didn’t quite click. If I could legally be their parent, it would be a definite no.
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Don’t rule us all out.. we’re not all tits! I promise 😘🤣"
Ass as well is important x |
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As long as everyone is a consenting adult then I don’t think age itself is an issue at all. That said I prefer a lady who is in her 40s and onwards but that’s only because I think they are starting to enter their sexual prime then and the sex is just better. |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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Important - kind of. Ish. I'm (for the most part, there's someone a couple of months younger who will always be pretty) only attracted to men who are older than me. By at least a few years.
Women - around my age and older. Only once on Fab have I found a woman younger than 30 attractive.
I'm not sure why any of that is. Perhaps it's about compatibility, perceived maturity, lack of shared references. Who knows. |
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As long as there legal and know what they want,what is the problem. |
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"As long as there legal and know what they want,what is the problem. "
100% agree age is a number and so long as no legal issues and it is 2 or 3 consenting adults that all know what they want bring it on |
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35 for me not going with anyone than my kids |
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I don't think it's physical age that's important to me but their mental maturity and attitude. You can still get 18-year-olds that are more mature than someone in their 60s. However, all this is irrelevant if I'm not attractive to them, no matter what their age! 😅 |
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I've found on the few occasions that I've met someone considerably younger than me, I've felt there's an element of almost venerable admiration from them. It seems misplaced, presumptuous or out of sync somehow.
I have met young women where that aspect isn't present, but there's not been a sexual chemistry there. A philosophy and humour I've experienced that chemistry several times and that's a foundation for attraction for me.
So I am open to possibility of a partner considerably younger than me. It seems almost arbitrary to put a number to that, as I could find myself completely wrong one day. |
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I don't generally like to go under 30. And I do prefer people to be a little older than myself.
Granted, one of my partners was only 28 when we started. But he has a lot of life experience crammed into those years.
It might be perfectly legal to fuck an 18 year old, but I'd feel like I'm taking advantage of someone without the life experience to know or understand what they want. I don't want to be that person 💜 |
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"The age of consent is 16 to have sex so if you are over 16 what is the problem?"
16 year olds don’t have a clue about life it might be legal but morally wrong if a man your age done something with my 16 year old daughter it wouldn’t end well for you |
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Stay mature. We're not dead yet 🤓 |
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I would consider 20's but it would depend on the the level of emotional maturity. |
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By *andTWoman 4 weeks ago
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When I was 19, I had a fling with a 42yr old man
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I'm fine with 18+ though this year's Freshers at uni have occasionally irritated me  |
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I would say if I click with them late 20s would be a bare minimum otherwise mid 30s plus |
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Never really thought of it but as long as they are legal and attractive .. I find young women attractive but then again hard to beat a mature woman who has looked after herself .. very sexy
Would never think your about my kids age coz when it comes to it they are the last people I think about when it comes to meet someone .. sorry just my opinion we are all different i know .. happy fabbing |
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When I was 19 I ended up with a 43 year old. She loved it, we had to have a break a few times because at 19 I had plenty of stamina. You might enjoy it, if you fancy it for for it, as a 37 year old male I'd say 25 is about my limit. I do like a mature lady though. |
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I don’t look at the age, I look at the conversation.
And the most vile, immature behaviour has come from 45/50 year old men.
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I've always had a thing for women older than me but if I was to go younger maybe mid 20's at a push lol |
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Forgetting 16 is legal .. just couldn't was thinking more 20s |
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10 years younger is the limit for me. |
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No upper age limit for me but couples/single fems I'd say 35+ and guys would have to be older. |
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Yeah 10 years, either side, I ain’t no nonce.
The mr |
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"I don’t look at the age, I look at the conversation. And the most vile, immature behaviour has come from 45/50 year old men."
I agree with my evil twin here. When the conversation flows just right, I don’t question someone’s age. (And yeah, from 45/50 year old women too sometimes.) |
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The formula is half your age plus seven
Need to be four years older than my eldest child
In a club it can get a little vague |
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"I don’t look at the age, I look at the conversation.
And the most vile, immature behaviour has come from 45/50 year old men.
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This ... But if I had to say.. my lower limit is 25 |
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I view it as a proportion of your current age rather than a defined number. For example 10yrs younger when in your twenties put you in some very dangerous ground, however in your thirties it's a wide gap but at least legal. In your 40's that 10y seems less and as a 65 y old 10y is nothing. So for me 20yrs is ok(just)
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By *avie65Man 4 weeks ago
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For me I’d say about 40. My ego on the other hand but afterwards I know I wouldn’t feel right. |
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28 for us but preferably 35 and up to 55 |
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I can understand this, as a dad and granddad. I have my lower age limit as 40, which on reflection is still too young for me. I don’t want to engage with anyone young enough to be my daughter.
45 and above, is about right for me… |
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By *elloWoman 4 weeks ago
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The age isn't the issue (as long as the age is legal) it is the age gap, but then when I meet someone in a club I don't ask their name let alone their age |
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"The age isn't the issue (as long as the age is legal) it is the age gap, but then when I meet someone in a club I don't ask their name let alone their age"
I'm the same in clubs when it comes to names — I just call everyone ‘Dave’, and that includes the ladies too 🤣 |
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By *end1Man 4 weeks ago
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As someone who's always preferred the younger female I've met several females where they have been 20-30 years younger. I met a 27 year old 7 months pregnant woman from fab last Christmas she's still on here and no I'm not naming her. |
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Personally it’s the maturity of the person |
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"Personally it’s the maturity of the person "
I get that but a 22 year old woman & a 50 year old man just looks wrong!
When i was 22 I would have fucked a 60 year old if she was hot- no question!!
I have my eye on a 65+ lady as we speak! |
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I met a guy on here who said he was 35, turns out he's 28 and I'm 50. Sure hubby says why not. Depends on the chemistry and how they behave really but I do prefer older men generally 😇 |
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"I met a guy on here who said he was 35, turns out he's 28 and I'm 50. Sure hubby says why not. Depends on the chemistry and how they behave really but I do prefer older men generally 😇"
50 and incredible |
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My late partner was 22 years older than me but we where older when we met and it worked.
I think also it depends if its a casual thing or going to be a longterm thing. More to take into account for long term |
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About same age works, you have more in common, although maybe fantasy is different. |
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I find the most success with people around my own age. Ideally 30+ but people in their (late) 20s if conversation warrants it |
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By *WANDTGCouple 4 weeks ago
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Anyone under 36 is too young, we won't play with anyone younger than our children. |
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I like 35+, when they’re just getting a few grey whiskers on their beards 😍 |
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I feel by the time a girl reaches 25, she has been hit on that much, she now knows what to look out for when it comes to men,
So a minimum age would be around 25, |
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"I like 35+, when they’re just getting a few grey whiskers on their beards 😍"
What if our greys only start to show at 45+? Asking for a, erm … a friend. Who is me. |
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"I like 35+, when they’re just getting a few grey whiskers on their beards 😍
What if our greys only start to show at 45+? Asking for a, erm … a friend. Who is me."
The thousands of wrinkles give your age away before the grey hair |
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"The thousands of wrinkles give your age away before the grey hair "
If anyone’s giving me grey hair around here, it’s going to be you. |
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"The thousands of wrinkles give your age away before the grey hair
If anyone’s giving me grey hair around here, it’s going to be you."
You’ll count every extra one with pleasure of the time spent with me 😘 |
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Age is very important to me. I prefer men older than me, women- probably close to my age and older. I have played with younger people, the youngest one was, I think, 25 when I was about 44-45. It was an exception rather than a rule. |
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Although we say age isn't important, it's the person we wouldn't go with anyone the age of our kids and the eldest is hitting mid 20s now. That to us just doesn't feel quite right. That boundary may change a bit as time goes on and they become more mature adults. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 4 weeks ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
For me 10yrs younger 25 years older is my bracket... I prefer maturity and comparability |
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I have actually met a young couple in their very early 20s, they had been childhood sweethearts and married, she wanted to experience other men he was not keen and so they settled for myself a mature guy, they hadn't discussed it enough beforehand and he got very jealous of her enjoying herself and I was asked to leave, it was embarrassing and they were too young to be bringing somebody else into their relationship |
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45, 40 at a push. Anyone younger and I just wouldn't click. I much prefer older men. Always had a thing for guys 10 years + older than me. As a fifty something I believe older guys are much more sensual, adventurous and confident in bed, with nothing to prove. For me 55 - 65 is the ideal. |
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I like fun and interesting ladies and although looks are not everything J do find a lot of women my own age or older dull and beaten by life. I do not have a limit either way as long as 18+ in my actual work as I will service anyone who pays but in terms of a relationship or sexy fun...probably 21-55???? |
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“Beaten by life” … shit! 😂
I prefer to think of it as seeing through the bullshit
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Half your age plus 7, that's your socially acceptable limit. Any younger your raising eyebrows |
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"“Beaten by life” … shit! 😂
I prefer to think of it as seeing through the bullshit
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I actually laughed at that and I agree with you |
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I won’t go with anyone in their 20’s and if I was to make an exception they would have to be older than my eldest and much closer to 30 . |
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"I won’t go with anyone in their 20’s and if I was to make an exception they would have to be older than my eldest and much closer to 30 . "
So glad I'm in my 40s then |
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My eldest child is 20, she dates up to 25 year olds. I wouldn’t see anyone less than 30, this is for my moral compass and to ensure we don’t end up seeing the same person!
That being said I met a guy on a night out a few years ago and we went home together, he was 26!!!! Didn’t seem it though… |
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I’m 31 and would love to fuck a 25 year old but prefer older birds, no age limit above mine |
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By *rubleCouple 3 weeks ago
Wokingham |
Age is just a number
What are you looking for? Firm fit or flabby?
Conversation or sex?
Chemistry, connection and friends or a delightful physical experience?
Any age, age is a number the individual counts. |
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I’m more concerned about their zodiac sign. Age isn’t the problem, I’ve met much more compatible and mature younger people lately, as I find anyone around my age come with some kind of issues from their past relationships they want to label me with.
#allmen etc….
So instead, I get to be that asshole that pisses them off and changes their views on people, so it ruins it for other instead |
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By *a121Man 3 weeks ago
antrim |
When I was 18 I was sleeping with a 28 year old , when I was 21 I was sleeping with a 42 year old , all I can say is best decision we both made , even now I still prefer older .. |
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"I’m more concerned about their zodiac sign. Age isn’t the problem, I’ve met much more compatible and mature younger people lately, as I find anyone around my age come with some kind of issues from their past relationships they want to label me with.
#allmen etc….
So instead, I get to be that asshole that pisses them off and changes their views on people, so it ruins it for other instead "
Interesting perspective, I do often ask about zodiac sign too for compatibility reasons.
Age is a number so open to most but sweet spot is upto 10 years younger or older than me |
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I’m 61 and often get19/20 yr olds want to meet but I havnt met anyone under 30 yet as I like skilled guys that know how to please x |
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I've recently dropped the lower age on my profile to 21, I think if the attraction is there then I would meet someone a lot younger, not that I have yet. I used to think I wouldn't want to meet anyone young enough to be my offspring, but at my age that now means anyone below 40. |
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I'm 39 I wouldn't consider anybody under 30 but tbh I'd much rather older than me |
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I've had a few young women show interest but I'm a grandad 😏 |
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Age doesn't bother me as long as they are legal. |
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My age range has been lowering in recent years after years of older men. I don't think I'd go much below 30 on here though. If I met them in day to day life and genuinely connected with them, I'd probably go younger. There's a lovely new lad at work in fact 🤔 |
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As a 23 year old on here who dosent seem to get much traction with people my own age slightly a positive from this forum is that it may not even be my looks putting people off msging me back atleast haha. |
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It has changed with time
In my early 40's, I would have no hesitation in meeting anyone of legal age
I am officially mid 50's in the next month and it doesn't sit right
The sweet spot, age wise, for me now is 35 and up
It doesn't mean I am not attracted to younger, it just means that I would be very unlikely to jump into bed with them |
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If we reversed this, I'd be well up for it with a 22 year old woman!!! |
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If it’s another couple then we like older than us but single men or women we don’t have any age limits x |
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"I like 35+, when they’re just getting a few grey whiskers on their beards 😍
What if our greys only start to show at 45+? Asking for a, erm … a friend. Who is me."
You’re 35+, which makes you fair game for becoming a silver fox |
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"You’re 35+, which makes you fair game for becoming a silver fox "
I’m getting impatient, to be honest. I want my distinguished gent years now, dammit. |
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The youngest I’ve been with was 24 to my 38… I don’t think I would go any lower |
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Well I'm 29 and tend to prefer people older than myself
But (depending on the individual) will happily go as low as 20
18 and 19 feels like a step too far though |
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By *wertyjk01Man 3 weeks ago
NW London/Kent/Midlands |
Youngest for me (at 25) is probably 21/22. Otherwise feels a bit too weird.
I do love sharing experiences with older individuals, find the conversations are much more refreshing! |
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Sorry, lowest I’ve ever done was 3yrs younger.
I’m kinda odd that way |
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By *sherMan 3 weeks ago
Tonbridge |
Have had recent experience with younger (around 30). Body great, sex drive great but they tend to play the role of porn star too much. Can be off putting for those of us incapable of living up to that |
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By *ojanMan 3 weeks ago
Bedford |
The thing is right now and I don’t know why it is i get youngsters as young as 19 asking for giving oral to me because of profile pics i have i never entertain them that young but I have asked them why they prefer older men and both lads and women say the same thing they don’t like people there own age because of maturity as most of people have said 25 is the reasonable age |
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It very much depends on the maturity of the person |
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By *wertyjk01Man 3 weeks ago
NW London/Kent/Midlands |
"The thing is right now and I don’t know why it is i get youngsters as young as 19 asking for giving oral to me because of profile pics i have i never entertain them that young but I have asked them why they prefer older men and both lads and women say the same thing they don’t like people there own age because of maturity as most of people have said 25 is the reasonable age "
Definitely agree with that, have found from experiences outside of fab, maturity is a rare trait in those around my age. However there definitely are exceptions. |
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"Under 35 is too young for me."
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It’s a flattering thought but I’ve not been luck enough to find someone who would have the courage to ask me. If the opportunity ever comes 21 only as the ultimate exception. |
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Under 30 is too young for me. I've got a 21 year old child, just feels wrong to engage in sexual Congress with anyone near her age. |
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Totally off topic but I love your bra |
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By *jh59Man 3 weeks ago
Stoke Golding |
As long as they can give me a good fuck and our legal age that’s fine by me |
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30+ is my general line but every now and then a little younger has popped up and they have been articulate, interesting and grabbed my attention. Youngest recently was 27. I don’t think I could go much younger than that though; they may have the energy of a Duracell bunny but too much of a baby face just feels wrong. |
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By *im le2Man 3 weeks ago
AYLESTONE |
30+ for me. But at my group's if someone wants to bring someone 25+ they can. |
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I'm 38, wouldn't really wanna go below 30. Definitely not for a relationship. But even just fun, I think you need to be with people in a similar head space. The gap gets a lot wider as you get older. |
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My lower age limit is 35. I'm 48. |
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It's so hard as myself and my wife kirsty when I was with her ended up playing with a young girl from her office and agreed didn't seem to matter |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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For me, it’s half age plus 7 for a relationship. But if someone is actively in a club and wanting to chat etc I’d be flexible. I doubt anyone would be much younger than 25 in a club anyway.
I’m sure it’s happened but I’ve not seen anyone that young! |
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What have you in common with younger,to much hard work for me.Stick to your own age or older. |
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My kids are in their 30s so I don't even engage with anyone within 10 years of their ages.
I've never been to a club so I don't have to concern myself with what ages people there might be and regardless of age, if I was to attend a club I would only be playing with the person I was there with, so again, age wouldn't be a factor. |
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By *onyjoCouple 3 weeks ago
Peterborough |
Mrs has had a couple of 20 odd year olds, and frankly they had not got a clue, very little in the way of foreplay and poor in the actual act.
We tend to stick to older now, maybe we where just unlucky |
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I'm engaged to a female thats 16 years younger then me (50/34). I don't see the age difference between us. We just click and are very happy together. |
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I have no limit really. Tis but a number |
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Be Openminded you only live once |
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"What have you in common with younger,to much hard work for me.Stick to your own age or older."
It’s just sex nothing heavy minded. So doesn’t require much mental synergy outside of attraction / consent .
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By *wertyjk01Man 3 weeks ago
NW London/Kent/Midlands |
"Mrs has had a couple of 20 odd year olds, and frankly they had not got a clue, very little in the way of foreplay and poor in the actual act.
We tend to stick to older now, maybe we where just unlucky"
Not all of us younger lot are clueless! Those that appreciate the company and experience of an older couple will always put the effort in. |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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I had a couple from here wanted to be watched both 21 and it was embarrassing
They too were hopeless
Hardly surprising a lot of younger women go for older gents
Never agsin lol |
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For me as a 38 years old, I would say my limit is low to mid 20s. |
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I met an 18 year old who was very mature and the sex was fantastic. I've also met guys nearer my age who are thoroughly immature and pretty hopeless.
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Usually 40% of my age plus a year for every bench press of 100kg.
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It depends how mature the person is. We’ve met a couple of guys in their mid to late twenties. There has to be some degree of intelligence and conversation for me or it’s a no go. Both people could hold a conversation and didn’t disappoint in the bedroom!
I’m 52 btw |
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"It depends how mature the person is. We’ve met a couple of guys in their mid to late twenties. There has to be some degree of intelligence and conversation for me or it’s a no go. Both people could hold a conversation and didn’t disappoint in the bedroom!
I’m 52 btw"
What about someone in their 50s that has the maturity levels of an adolescent? |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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17-70 for me is ok |
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When I was 22 I fucked a 54 year old and it was amazing and i remember it to this day |
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"Usually 40% of my age plus a year for every bench press of 100kg.
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