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Imposter syndrome. These guys are so hot!
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I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.
IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.
I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.
Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?
Or should I just live the dream?
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Attraction comes in various and, sometimes, unpredictable forms. The seriously athletic people who may prefer people with extra padding, for example, who don't focus on training, etc. It's good to just accept things as they are and to not put yourself down, by comparing yourself with others. Live and let live. |
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"Attraction comes in various and, sometimes, unpredictable forms. The seriously athletic people who may prefer people with extra padding, for example, who don't focus on training, etc. It's good to just accept things as they are and to not put yourself down, by comparing yourself with others. Live and let live. "
Exactly this, even when i was gym fit/athletic physique myself, I've always preferred women with curves.
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Honestly, off of here, I wouldn't approach. I'd be saying to myself "yep, I don't have a shot." So not much difference really. I just don't have to look them in the eye when I do it. That and I'm not being put on blast on social media. |
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On here I tend to assume pics are fake (sad, but I've had more than my fair share of them - tineye is very much my friend!).
In real life in spite of being old and very fat I've had some physically gorgeous partners - one of my relationships was with a ballet dancer.
I try not to second-guess someone's tastes based on their looks because I've had a few happy surprises over the years! |
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"I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.
IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.
I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.
Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?
Or should I just live the dream?
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There are definitely some very hot guys...might have to move back to the UK 🔥 🥵 |
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By *usty kayWoman 14 weeks ago
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I don't trust them when they're hot. I assume they have messaged every female in a 50 mile radius and I just got caught in the net. Once or twice they've surprised me over the years but it usually follows the same pattern. |
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"I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.
IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.
I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.
Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?
Or should I just live the dream?
"
Ride them like a bucking bronco and don't overthink it  |
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"I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.
IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.
I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.
Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?
Or should I just live the dream?
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I totally understand what you are saying and feel this myself.
It can be very intimidating initially. |
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I have definitely been punching above my weight at times. I've had a few smoking hot FWB's and met gorgeous guys in Clubs, I mean it's surprising how many guys like the older potato shaped ladies, when I queried it I was told confidence and attitude gets you everywhere |
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"I don't know if it's just women who are lucky on here as they are way outnumbered by men, but seriously I do get approached by some really hot guys.
IRL if I was out and about that would never happen.
I definitely feel like wtf and imposter syndrome comes a knocking! Like I'm mature and wobble.
Do you ladies just lap it up and enjoy it or is it sometimes a bit intimidating?
Or should I just live the dream?
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I get this constantly. I used to let it bother me and I would turn down socials with people I thought were "too hot" for me as I found it intimidating. Now I just go with it. If they like you, and the chemistry is there, then go for it. |
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"I don't trust them when they're hot. I assume they have messaged every female in a 50 mile radius and I just got caught in the net. Once or twice they've surprised me over the years but it usually follows the same pattern. "
This is where I am at, however don't be afraid to pursue, some are genuine and hot and turn out to be great meets! |
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By *sWyldWoman 14 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I get this OP. No one looks twice at me in the real world or on sites where I show my face .
Sometimes I think fuck it and just enjoy ,mostly I over think it too much and don't .
As someone said previously there's a difference between men who want to fuck and men who actually want to fuck me . I know which ones I prefer |
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