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I've noticed swinging/nudism are treated as v different activities in general. And they are v different, to be fair.
But do people really go to nudist environments, see all that flesh, and not get turned on at all by it? |
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"Amazingly, some people have will power
I know, a big surprise OP"
I'm not sure will power can stop somebody getting turned on by seeing a nude person that looks attractive to them.
(Doing anything is a v different thing, of course.) |
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"Amazingly, some people have will power
I know, a big surprise OP
You wouldn’t think so when you see so many threads about getting hard over a fucking weather girl or newsreader 🙄"
Depends what they do with their pointy stick!
(Red Dwarf reference lol) |
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By *bi HaiveMan 13 weeks ago
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"Amazingly, some people have will power
I know, a big surprise OP
You wouldn’t think so when you see so many threads about getting hard over a fucking weather girl or newsreader 🙄"
Yeah. But 'Yanet Garcia'.....🤷♂️
To answer the OP though? Yep. I've been to many a beach, topless or nudist and not gotten turned on, because I'm there to switch off, relax and the lack of clothing is just for convenience rather than anything sexual.
I've even watched women's beach volleyball without growing a stonker before. Unbelievable Jeff!! 😮😮😮 |
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"Amazingly, some people have will power
I know, a big surprise OP
You wouldn’t think so when you see so many threads about getting hard over a fucking weather girl or newsreader 🙄
Yeah. But 'Yanet Garcia'.....🤷♂️
To answer the OP though? Yep. I've been to many a beach, topless or nudist and not gotten turned on, because I'm there to switch off, relax and the lack of clothing is just for convenience rather than anything sexual.
I've even watched women's beach volleyball without growing a stonker before. Unbelievable Jeff!! 😮😮😮"
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"I've noticed swinging/nudism are treated as v different activities in general. And they are v different, to be fair.
But do people really go to nudist environments, see all that flesh, and not get turned on at all by it?" just don’t walk around with a erect cock |
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"I've noticed swinging/nudism are treated as v different activities in general. And they are v different, to be fair.
But do people really go to nudist environments, see all that flesh, and not get turned on at all by it? just don’t walk around with a erect cock "
Good advice. Seagulls might perch on it. |
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"I've noticed swinging/nudism are treated as v different activities in general. And they are v different, to be fair.
But do people really go to nudist environments, see all that flesh, and not get turned on at all by it? just don’t walk around with a erect cock
Good advice. Seagulls might perch on it." |
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By *JandCMCouple 13 weeks ago
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Nudism is what got us into swinging.
All started many years ago on a beach in Spain, I found it a turn on watching people looking at the wife who was topless on the beach.
Then found this site, posted a few pictures of her on here n then eventually started meeting others. |
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we recently visited a nudist beach on holidays, it wasnt sexual at all, more liberating. yet when we sunbathed naked at home on our garden we often get turned on that leads to a steamy outdoor session. So it depends where we are. |
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"I've noticed swinging/nudism are treated as v different activities in general. And they are v different, to be fair.
But do people really go to nudist environments, see all that flesh, and not get turned on at all by it?"
Erm... Have you actually been to a fully blown naturist club? Me and my partner, we used to be members of one not far from me. Most people there were pensioners as they have a lot of time on their hands. Not a lot really to get turned on about. |
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The thing is. From what I understand from nudism etc is people don’t see it as sexual and they’re into all the nature stuff so they probably don’t get turned on by it all. Me, however, there’s not a chance a bunch of sexy naked women playing volleyball wouldn’t turn me on 🤣 |
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My understanding about nudism is that it’s all about desexualising the naked body. Sexual contact or approaches aren’t allowed at most nudist events.
When I’ve gone to nudist places before it’s freeing, not sexual |
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"The thing is. From what I understand from nudism etc is people don’t see it as sexual and they’re into all the nature stuff so they probably don’t get turned on by it all. Me, however, there’s not a chance a bunch of sexy naked women playing volleyball wouldn’t turn me on 🤣"
Just out of curiousity where is the next ladies beach volley ball being played ( Just asking for a friend )
Nudity / naturism is about freedom and relaxation, for some its a stepping stone to swinging.
People do check out other people but more discretely than you would on a textile beach.
Erections do happen, but once covered up and not in public its not an issue generally. |
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If they are my type, yes, I would get turned on seeing them at a nudist beach or something. But if it’s just anyone naked, no, that's not a turn on.
Just like we all know, you can’t fancy everyone, but that’s not to say it might make me feel sexy being around sexy people. |
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I love being naked on a beach, and I feel free but I don't feel sexy.
I dont get turned on by looking at other naked bodies around me.
There have been a few people who I have found very attractive and I have got to know better after initial contact has been made.
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Just nudism alone no, but if someone is naked and in a suggestive pose or acting suggestively, yes I can become aroused. But I have will power and am a grown adult, so I can control myself and not act on it. Some people don't seem to understand that.
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I’ve been to Mandomata beach several times , never got a hard on, people are there to enjoy naked swimming and sunbathing not perv.
You are right that nudism has nothing at all to do with the swinging and neither does perving actually, they are three separate things? |
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"Amazingly, some people have will power
I know, a big surprise OP
I'm not sure will power can stop somebody getting turned on by seeing a nude person that looks attractive to them.
(Doing anything is a v different thing, of course.)"
This idea seems to be missing the fact that we get turned on by people who are fully dressed.
Think about it..... a man I find very unattractive is not suddenly going to be fanciable just because he's got his kit off .... probably the opposite |
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"Amazingly, some people have will power
I know, a big surprise OP
I'm not sure will power can stop somebody getting turned on by seeing a nude person that looks attractive to them.
(Doing anything is a v different thing, of course.)
This idea seems to be missing the fact that we get turned on by people who are fully dressed.
Think about it..... a man I find very unattractive is not suddenly going to be fanciable just because he's got his kit off .... probably the opposite"
But what if he balances a crumpet on his cock?  |
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The short answer is - it depends.
If I am naked at home, then mostly i'm not aroused at all. I am just in my home undressed in just the same way that other people prefer stay dressed. If I feel horny and want sex or to masturbate then thats what happens - again, same as dressed people.
If I am in the countryside alone enjoying some naked time then mostly I am just enjoying the sensation of being naked outdoors and being 'in nature'. If I was with the right person and in a secluded spot then who knows... things happen, right?
If I was at a nudist beach or resort then the simple answer is that in over 20 years of visiting them I have never 'accidentally' found myself with an erection in the company of other naturists either just because I am around lots of their nude people or because I am having an intentional perv at someone.
BUT - Dont get me wrong, one of the attractions (for me at least) of being at nudist beaches or at a naturist resort is that it offers the opportunity to observe a great many attractive naked women unselfconsciously going about their business and I never get tired of looking at naked women!
I dont get hard, but I DO find it sexy... Erotic even. My wife is no swinger but she does - cautiously - enjoy it when we go to naturist resorts. She likes that after a day of being around naked people it takes no effort at all for me to get hard in private.
She knows I am enjoying looking at the nude women. Usually she thinks I am drawn toward the firm bodied slim women in their 20s and that is nice of course, but more often than not, I find myself more fascinated with women in their late 30's and into their 40's or closer to my own age displaying a curvier figure.
I cant stop my mind imagining what they may be like to have sex with. I never get fixated on anyone in particular and will forget them the instant someone else takes my eye but it all adds up to having a constant background vibe of erotic thoughts.
I like the occasions where I catch a woman sneaking a look at me - this happens less often these days sadly. I like the occasions where I see a fella taking a look at my wife too. My wife is more self conscious and less confident about being looked at and tries not to notice when it happens but she does enjoy seeing so many nude men and is often quite turned on the whole time we are in that environment but even so, she is not an enthusiastic naturist and mostly tolerates it because I like it.
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By *batMan 2 weeks ago
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Nudism isn't a sexual thing, per se, but as others have said, an attractive person is an attractive person! For me they don't become less attractive because they take their clothes off.
And I know of more than a few nudist areas where people go specifically to play, usually in a secluded area close to the actual beach.
Add to that the occasional woman sitting with her legs wide apart, good looking people taking a bit longer to rub the sun cream onto their partner, or the guys with their cock rings, well yes, there's an element of sexuality going on.
It's like a clothed night club. People aren't necessarily going looking for sex, but some of them will be!
Gbat
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We are naturists. I (Luke) don't get aroused but I'd be lying if I said I didn't have a look. I find it exciting when I have seen some incredibly hot women happily standing in front of me completely naked, but I would never act sexually in a naturist setting. |
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Its going to be my first time to experience a nudist beach this summer and personally on my first few visits I do think that I might get slightly aroused (not intentionally at all may I add)
But just until I get used to been around other naked women and men.
That's the only thing that's holding me back,the fact that I might get an erection cause it would be embarrassing for me and the people around.
But surely at some point on a nudist beach or camp there will be blokes walking about nude and proud with an erection,
Sometimes, a small number of us blokes can't control it.
So I am guessing it's a regular occurrence.
Remember I haven't been to 1 as of yet so please don't judge me.
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"Its going to be my first time to experience a nudist beach this summer and personally on my first few visits I do think that I might get slightly aroused (not intentionally at all may I add)
But just until I get used to been around other naked women and men.
That's the only thing that's holding me back,the fact that I might get an erection cause it would be embarrassing for me and the people around.
But surely at some point on a nudist beach or camp there will be blokes walking about nude and proud with an erection,
Sometimes, a small number of us blokes can't control it.
So I am guessing it's a regular occurrence.
Remember I haven't been to 1 as of yet so please don't judge me.
Haha "
I wouldn't worry about it bud,seen plenty of guys hard on nudist beaches and been hard plenty of times myself |
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Its perfectly natural to get turned on by another naked body. In my time as a naturist you just don't make a big deal.about it and it soon subsides.
Other may have different comments but the Naturists I've been around just don't make a scene about it.
Never been a swinger so can't comment.  |
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I'm a naturist, we both are in everyday life. It just feels a natural and human state to me. I don't get turned on by the idea of social nudity, neither by the idea of others being naked around me. I'm not any more turned on by someone naked as I would be if they had clothes on. If I find my self turned on by someone that's because I find them hot regardless of their state of dress. I don't find social nudity naughty or perverse, just normal and everday. There's genrally nothing particularly sexy about your average naturist setting. And to be fair you kind of quickly forget everyone's naked. In a way when every is naked you see them less as objects and more as just vulnerable imperfect humans like yourself.
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