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What’s everyone’s views on a hairy bush?
I’m talking to someone about a meet and they announced they have a hairy bush! I haven’t been with someone who’s not clean shaven in years!! It’s kind of off putting I think… I love giving oral but now I’m not so sure.
What’s everyone’s thoughts? |
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By *oxychicWoman 9 weeks ago
Nottinghamshire |
Everyone will have different views
Myself I'm shaven i don't like pubic hair , so I prefer clean shaven I can do neatly trimmed tho
Have u tried telling her see what her response is? Some will say take them as u find them , but if they not shaven or very neatly trimmed then they not for me 😄 |
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"What’s everyone’s views on a hairy bush?
I’m talking to someone about a meet and they announced they have a hairy bush! I haven’t been with someone who’s not clean shaven in years!! It’s kind of off putting I think… I love giving oral but now I’m not so sure.
What’s everyone’s thoughts? "
I hope they don’t read forums otherwise this thread would be awkward! |
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I hope the meet doesn't read the forum.
If you've connected well enough to arrange a meet surely you can be honest with her and talk about bush etc.
It really shouldn't make a difference as long as the person maintains hygiene levels
I personally love a bush so natural |
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By *eliWoman 8 weeks ago
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My thoughts are
- women have different views on hairy. For some it'll mean a light dusting of a few short hairs. For others it'll mean full bush. I've seen women describe themselves as hairy and I grow more hair overnight than their "hairy".
- if it's not for you, it's not for you. You don't have to fuck her. There's no legal requirement to give her oral. You're not compatible, find a hairless beauty who's a better fit.
- I like being full bush, bit of bush, freshly waxed. Fluffy on top, smooth underneath.
At all stages I'm still taking care of myself. Still clean etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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I find it kind of sad that in the original post you say that you have found it “kind of off putting”
There are many more things I would find off putting than hair on or around the pubis area of a woman
What I really like in a woman is someone who has confidence in who they are and how they look
For me confidence is attractive not a few hairs and where they are situated
Just my thoughts |
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I'm unshaven but trimmed and I realise it's off putting for some.
However it never means that I'm somehow unhygienic. I think that's a total fallacy.
You shower before you see someone don't you? Is that not common sense?
I've had it come up in conversation a few times. If you're off put by it you should discuss it with her and perhaps not see her. It would be a lot worse if you decided to go for it then found realised it wasn't for you.
It could be upsetting for her. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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"Clean shaven....so they can't be clean if not shaved?
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This is true, when a woman stops shaving it’s because her shower is broke. It’s what I heard. "
There is always the kitchen sink, no excuses. |
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"Clean shaven....so they can't be clean if not shaved?
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This is true, when a woman stops shaving it’s because her shower is broke. It’s what I heard.
There is always the kitchen sink, no excuses."
Fairy liquid is good, but not that good. |
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By *dalisqueWoman 7 weeks ago
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A few years ago I was inspired by a friend to grow mine.
I am still trying.
I have not shaved for about 4 years & I obviously don't look shaved,however I am definitely not rocking a full bush!
There isn't even a category to describe how I am 😅
I am drawn to men who have a preference for trimmed or natural,so they usually don't mind, i don't think.
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"A few years ago I was inspired by a friend to grow mine.
I am still trying.
I have not shaved for about 4 years & I obviously don't look shaved,however I am definitely not rocking a full bush!
There isn't even a category to describe how I am 😅
I am drawn to men who have a preference for trimmed or natural,so they usually don't mind, i don't think.
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This is the best way to be in my opinion! Natural is best |
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By *dalisqueWoman 6 weeks ago
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"A few years ago I was inspired by a friend to grow mine.
I am still trying.
I have not shaved for about 4 years & I obviously don't look shaved,however I am definitely not rocking a full bush!
There isn't even a category to describe how I am 😅
I am drawn to men who have a preference for trimmed or natural,so they usually don't mind, i don't think.
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This is the best way to be in my opinion! Natural is best"
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"Not until I joined fab did I encounter men who needed to know this before even meeting
I find it odd " Us men should always respect a woman's choice of having her pussy shaven, trimmed or full on naturally hairy  |
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By *arkRichMan 6 weeks ago
Manchester City Centre |
The way I see it is this - life isn’t perfect, my gym has zero parking, but I enjoy the walk - however, sometimes it rains, or it’s cold & windy, or both - but I still enjoy myself when I’m there, and I’m always glad I went  |
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Take a comb and duct tape with you... make a centre parting and then tape it back like curtains.
On a more serious footing, i find pubic hair very unappealing - I'd definitely lose my hard-on if I had a dick.
If it's not for you move on |
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By *loydyMan 6 weeks ago
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"What’s everyone’s views on a hairy bush?
I’m talking to someone about a meet and they announced they have a hairy bush! I haven’t been with someone who’s not clean shaven in years!! It’s kind of off putting I think… I love giving oral but now I’m not so sure.
What’s everyone’s thoughts? " I myself prefer a bush |
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By *arkRichMan 6 weeks ago
Manchester City Centre |
I used to shave mine off in my 20’s - but because the rest of my body is hairy, I just give it a trim… to blend it into my hairy stomach and legs, rather than there being a big bald patch around my cock n balls  |
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"Full on hairy unkempt bush owner here. 👋
Not trimmed. Not combed. But it is washed. I even take a hairdryer to it sometimes to really fluff it up.
Yum yum, just how I love it!
Added bonus you’re welsh
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I have hair, not out of control but some. I used to hate it but someone I meet showed me actually it can look quite womanly and I agree. I shaved it for a different meet and wish I hadn’t so will only meet those that like it now and it’s on my profile to forewarn them. |
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By *arkRichMan 6 weeks ago
Manchester City Centre |
"I have hair, not out of control but some. I used to hate it but someone I meet showed me actually it can look quite womanly and I agree. I shaved it for a different meet and wish I hadn’t so will only meet those that like it now and it’s on my profile to forewarn them. "
Yeah, I think if someone asks you to shave for a meet, it’s a no from me - I used to do it for Girlfriends back in the day… but now, if someone doesn’t want me how I am, and I really look after myself… they’re not for me…
I’m trimmed, not bushy, and that’s fine by me - also… if a woman doesn’t trim, doesn’t wax, or does trim or wax - that’s up to her - she’s still gonna get me at my best  |
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"I have hair, not out of control but some. I used to hate it but someone I meet showed me actually it can look quite womanly and I agree. I shaved it for a different meet and wish I hadn’t so will only meet those that like it now and it’s on my profile to forewarn them.
Yeah, I think if someone asks you to shave for a meet, it’s a no from me - I used to do it for Girlfriends back in the day… but now, if someone doesn’t want me how I am, and I really look after myself… they’re not for me…
I’m trimmed, not bushy, and that’s fine by me - also… if a woman doesn’t trim, doesn’t wax, or does trim or wax - that’s up to her - she’s still gonna get me at my best "
See even when I did shave I never expected anyone else to be, I would take it as it came |
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By *arkRichMan 6 weeks ago
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"I have hair, not out of control but some. I used to hate it but someone I meet showed me actually it can look quite womanly and I agree. I shaved it for a different meet and wish I hadn’t so will only meet those that like it now and it’s on my profile to forewarn them.
Yeah, I think if someone asks you to shave for a meet, it’s a no from me - I used to do it for Girlfriends back in the day… but now, if someone doesn’t want me how I am, and I really look after myself… they’re not for me…
I’m trimmed, not bushy, and that’s fine by me - also… if a woman doesn’t trim, doesn’t wax, or does trim or wax - that’s up to her - she’s still gonna get me at my best
See even when I did shave I never expected anyone else to be, I would take it as it came "
Exactly, well put… Definitely my type of woman xx |
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"As the person likes it, their body and their choice. It's the person I'd be wanting just as they want to be.
(And I'd be a tad hypocritical objecting to any kind of body hair)"
Your body hair looks fantastic!
Donna x |
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Love a full on natural bush! (and hairy pits)
Guess I'm just of an age where all the early images of nude women you saw, growing up as a horny lad, had pubic hair, so that's what I'm personally pavlovianly programmed to expect.
Fully shaven is not at all unpleasant, just a bit 'less' somehow. Not a fan of silly-shaped shaves however - hearts, lightning bolts , landing strips. That's just distracting. |
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By *arnelianWoman 6 weeks ago
Ely, Cambridgeshire (moved here April '25) |
"What’s everyone’s views on a hairy bush?
I’m talking to someone about a meet and they announced they have a hairy bush! I haven’t been with someone who’s not clean shaven in years!! It’s kind of off putting I think… I love giving oral but now I’m not so sure.
What’s everyone’s thoughts?
I hope they don’t read forums otherwise this thread would be awkward! "
I was just going to say very similar. |
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"My mister likes it looking like a barbers shop floor.... It's not for me as I much prefer it waxed, but I reap the benefits of leaving it hairy for him - so I do "
Now there's something I'd love to see. |
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