Just musing upon things I wish I had done in terms of sexual adventures and now regret not doing. Feel free to contribute. I regret not sharing my ex wife in a 4 some. We were younger and hot and it would have been amazingly hot to swap. |
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I regret not saying yes to 2girls when I was much younger. ‘We don’t mind sharing’ was when I became a cowered and got up and went to the kitchen for a drink, grabbed my mate and made an excuse to leave. 🤦♂️
I do regret that, all 3 of us could have a much much better memory of what happened. |
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Have you ever looked back on an interaction or relationship, only to realise much later they were “up for it”?
Story of my life 🤷🏽♂️I was either too bashful, too dense or too gentlemanly.
Aaand now I’m on Fab, trying to make up for it 😄 |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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Biggest regret was having rubbish sex with a girl when I was 21. She was a beautiful person inside and out.
I was a very selfish "lover" (not cruel or degrading or rough or anything) I just didn't really give her any decent pleasure out focus on her needs or know what I know now about being a giving lover.
I only found out during she was still a virgin. It was probably a horrible experience for her. I wish I could give her that time back and make it better for her. I actually get quite emotional about this.
Additionally I ended it with after a about a year together (don't know why probably because I was cheating). I think she was actually a wonderful person and I've come to know she was exactly my type. |
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I don't have regrets in general life-choice things.
Sex-wise?
I do have a lot of regrets for opening up to a few people sexually. There are a couple of people that I debated with myself over and eventually did decide to trust, I ignored my gut instinct that they were not a good match or good people.
And they did indeed turn out to be not good people. I really wish I could scrub the experiences from history. I hate those experiences and the memories of the sex give me hard cringe regret. Actually make me want to take a shower.
It has definitely hardened my resolve to take my time choosing. And what/who to avoid.
But I truly don't have regrets about any of the things that I didn't do. |
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Happy with what I’ve done, would love to do more. No regrets then but a couple of unfortunates
Getting up with a trapped nerve in my back on holiday last year that stopped me meeting a very nice Couple I met on a nudist beach the day before.
Not proof reading a message on here that got me ‘not invited’ to a small group meet that carried on regularly for a few years after. |
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"Biggest regret was having rubbish sex with a girl when I was 21. She was a beautiful person inside and out.
I was a very selfish "lover" (not cruel or degrading or rough or anything) I just didn't really give her any decent pleasure out focus on her needs or know what I know now about being a giving lover.
I only found out during she was still a virgin. It was probably a horrible experience for her. I wish I could give her that time back and make it better for her. I actually get quite emotional about this.
Additionally I ended it with after an about a year together (don't know why probably because I was cheating). I think she was actually a wonderful person and I've come to know she was exactly my type. "
This feels so wholesome. The self reflection is so honest. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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I was a very late bloomer with sex and gfs. Lost virginity at 17 definitely something I regret as the wrong person.
Didn't sleep with anyone until I was 23. Again the wrong person as shat on so much. Then went on abit of a sexual rampage
But glad I wasn't tied down at a young age as most of family/friends had kids at very young ages and miserable |
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Go to public toilet and never tried the glory holes in 1980 when lots about.
I in my 50’s and I am bi oral wish I knew this in my 20’s
I love walking around naked in clubs and love people looking at me would love to have done this on a nudist beach |
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I regret not being honest about how important sex is to me in relationship. I thought I could thrive with the “best friend” with no sexual chemistry and I feel like I didn’t make the most of my best years.
Oh well, live and learn. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"That I hadn’t listened to those who told me I needed to tone down my sexuality. "
Mine’s the opposite. I pissed away too many of my youthful years being a “career man” and neglecting all forms of intimacy. Even when friends were telling me I was making a mistake I didn’t listen…..They were right, I was wrong. |
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Not having had sex with more women when I was younger because I spent my time 'looking for the one' rather than living in the moment.
I'm also pretty convinced I'll die without ever having a threesome or foursome which has been my life's fantasy. |
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By *aveed74Man 9 weeks ago
a round and a bout Midlands |
Yes, this!
Thought that a monogamous relationship for more than 20 years, despite very infrequent, poor, unadventurous sex, was alright and proper. She left me for a other woman (no, I didn't know and feel sad for her that she wasn't quite who she thought she was).
Had many offers over the years (do all monogamous chaps get this?). Never took up an opportunity.
Now, opportunities are rarer than unicorn saddles.  |
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By *abrina59TV/TS 9 weeks ago
moved to cuckold land |
I regret we didn't persue for my wife to have pleasure with another joining us when we first married & im 100% sure that if internet had been around then like it is now then it def would have happened. |
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