How do so many people expect to accommodate if they put down that they can't?
I understand everyone has their own circumstances but it seems like nobody but single guys can accommodate... I can't due to living with family before anyone says haha, but I am willing to meet in clubs etc |
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I can accommodate but prefer a hotel meet. Some people may not want to open their homes to strangers, they may have families, or want to keep that side of their lives separate. It's completely up to the individual and they shouldn't have to explain why they don't want to accommodate. |
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"are club and hotels not enough?
Dogging ?"
I assumed single females would think this is dangerous too .
If I had chance to meet a female off here and she said hotel or club I’d consider this . I’d never assume accommodation from either party |
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I won't accom at all
Whilst I am in a fully open relationship, one condition we have is that we never have other people in our home
That's our space
"Fuck who you want, but don't bring them home" is very much the order of the day
If we played together, that might change, but we don't, so it won't |
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I have children at home. I will never, ever meet at my home.
However, the expectation from many single males is that I should accommodate.
I remember planning a meet with someone who I was very attracted to- I suggested a hotel, he couldn’t afford his half. I made the mistake of paying for hotel rooms with other people before and if it is not 50/50, I’m not getting there. Then I suggested a club- do they give out condoms? Also the number of men who ask me to bring condoms because they don’t have any… fucking hell.
I prefer a wank. I can buy fancy, expensive toys without paying for these losers to be able to meet me 🤣🤣🤣 |
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My home is my private space. I don't even like going into a strange mans home as feel it's an intrusion into his private space. Love outdoor sex, club and hotel meets so plenty other options available. |
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Meeting at home involves a huge level of trust, for many reasons. You need to know someone really well before allowing them in to your home.
Hotels are the best option in my opinion, they’re ‘disposable’ and it’s easy to separate your normal life from this fun side of our lives.
Outdoor fun for cheeky, risky, quick meets, but very weather dependent.
Car meets……for the ‘Eeh, when we were teenagers’ trip down memory lane…. :-
Clubs if you enjoy a distracting, non private, noisy atmosphere, with strange guys wandering around in towels, and stinky, sticky, gaffer taped judo mats as a nod to ‘comfort’…… 
But yes OP; many demands put on the lowly single guy in Fab….. |
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"Why are single men at any less risk of inviting woman or couples in to their houses?
Statistics are one thing but there is still a risk attached to it "
It was bad enough the psycho bitch from Hell I met from here, sending me a Google Earth screenshot of my house, which she tracked down through social media, never mind inviting a complete stranger in, who could turn out to be another loony tunes….  |
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I would expect a social first so going for a drink and then if all goes well, meeting up at a hotel or a club after although if we've chatted enough, then a hotel meet straight away would be good enough.
I do think there's a double standard though where if a woman can't accommodate then it's for safety of her own private space, but if a man can't accommodate, he must be a cheating scum bag |
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I can and do accommodate but not without a social first.
But it's back fired before when a guy just turned up after we had met before, unarranged and expected me to invite him in. And he still walks his dog past my house most days. Creepy.
So I'm a bit more cautious about who I let know where I live now. |
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People are often surprised when I tell them I'm a full time single parent.
Do you accommodate when they're at school ?"
I'm happy to host partners I know very well. Once the trust level is there I've no problem having someone over if the house is free.
I don't fuck random people one way or the other so if I'm inviting someone around we are on a level of friendship. |
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I don't expect anyone to accom, if they can't, a hotel is easy enough to arrange. I've had zero issues, in fact nobody from memory has asked why I can't and I've not asked them - It's never been a talking point |
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"As a single woman I wouldn't be anyone in the hotel on my own.
Definitely not one that he has payed for.
I value my safety to much. "
I don't do hotel meets either.
I can't afford to pay half and if the man has paid he is going to want his monies worth and probably want more sex or sexual acts that I am up for. |
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"Single women often choose not to accommodate for reasons of safety. I don't always want a stranger to know my address."
Exactly this. Once I met someone in a club or similar, I am happy to accommodate, just not overnight. |
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"As a single woman I wouldn't be anyone in the hotel on my own.
Definitely not one that he has payed for.
I value my safety to much. "
If I was worried about my safety I wouldn't be meeting them. Do no people not talk beforehand?
He can pay and I'll let him have all the free biscuits.
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