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What does the wedding ring mean to you?
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By *hagTonight OP Man 10 weeks ago
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It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple? 
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter |
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter "
Apologies I would delete this if I could.
Don’t want to put a downer on your thread so scroll on past |
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"It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple?
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100% this, I loved being married but unfortunately fell out of love with him. It hasn't put me off marriage, however, I do think a lot of people these days don't feel the need for marriage and don't think it makes a difference to their relationship. I've heard a few times. it's just a piece of paper, but on the other hand sometimes it's for financial gain, pensions etc
Each to their own, but I like your way of thinking OP  |
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For me its the commitment to love and support each other through the good the bad and the ugly. Ultimately be best friend's and have fun ,but also the ability to know not everything is perfect all the time and life will get shitty but your partner will be there at the drop of a hat x
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter
Apologies I would delete this if I could.
Don’t want to put a downer on your thread so scroll on past "
Sorry to hear about your wife, I think that's a lovely thing to do for all of you |
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By *oomlMan 10 weeks ago
Fareham |
"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter "
My wife passed away 14 years ago and I still wear my wedding ring. I wear hers on a chain around my neck. |
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By *a LunaWoman 10 weeks ago
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter
Apologies I would delete this if I could.
Don’t want to put a downer on your thread so scroll on past "
It’s not a downer - I read it and thought what a lovely thing to do |
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By *batMan 10 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter
Apologies I would delete this if I could.
Don’t want to put a downer on your thread so scroll on past
It’s not a downer - I read it and thought what a lovely thing to do "
Same.
I was going to send you a message saying that, Jack. It’s a lovely thing.
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TO ME, IT MEANS…
It goes against my natural instincts to be monogamous. But my love for you defies my logic, reason & biology. Take half my money! 😜
But…in all my years, I’ve never found that woman |
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Never worn one. It wouldn't look right on my long fingers and also I've always considered it dangerous from a number of perspectives.
However, my cock ring is legendary, looks good on my long penis and Iconsider it to be intrinsically safe. It is not a symbol of commitment to anybody other than to my adoration of and commitment to the magnificent cock which I wear it around! |
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Marriage as a concept is a lovely idea. I'm not against doing it again but I don't need it. It guarantees nothing.
I wore a ring. Taking them off during the years of separation was very symbolic for me. If I or my partner chose not to wear one I don't know if I would feel okay with that. I'm of the opinion you ought to be proud of your partner and shout them to the rooftops not disguise their existence or your attachment.
Even if I wasn't legally married I might still agree to wear a ring of some sort if we both wanted it.
Marriage is only as good/strong as the people in it, if their intentions match and are genuine.
There are so many married on here without their partner's knowledge and permission 'for reasons', it's your business/choice but it's hypocrisy in capital letters to spout the sanctity and wonder of it whilst you actively seek to break the vows you took. |
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter
Apologies I would delete this if I could.
Don’t want to put a downer on your thread so scroll on past "
Not at all. This is so lovely ❤️ |
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter
Apologies I would delete this if I could.
Don’t want to put a downer on your thread so scroll on past "
Not a downer at all. The forum is a place to post your views, opinions and thoughts, even though some members may try to unofficially moderate you, ignore them. People have the option to skip past a post if they don't agree with it or if it's "a downer" to them.
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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For me it is an outward symbol that I've committed my life to living and being there for someone.
For me I look at it and remember I have a family to care for and love and provide for.
I don't comfort in it when I'm stressed or not in it when I look at it and have memories. Xxx |
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter "
There's not really a good or right time, I'm so sorry you had to, and I'm glad you've found a way to pass the love on to your daughter x |
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"Marriage means a million different things to a million different couples. But wedding rings are pretty simple. They say ‘I’m married’. That’s all."
I don’t get this because marriage is vows you take to another.. which is more or less the same in every circumstance |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 10 weeks ago
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My wife and I have matching celtic knotwork rings. It's a symbol of our everlasting bond with our soulmate.
She passed away three years ago this month. I will wear my wedding ring until I am able to join her. I wear hers on a chain around my neck.
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When I was married I loved wearing my wedding ring. It meant something to me. I haven't worn it now for over four years and there's still an indentation on my ring finger. Which I guess says something about the impact my marriage has on me. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 10 weeks ago
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter "
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Not sure about wedding rings.
But my mum and dad aren't around anymore.
There's this very thick, extensive photo album I have of their wedding in 1975.
There's a couple of family friends of mine that are slightly older than me, that I'm still friends with today in it, (when they were toddlers/before I was born). I love looking at this album.
My folks did all the cooking, apart from the wedding cake. So the wedding cost £14.50 in all..I remember my dad telling me.. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS 10 weeks ago
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter
My wife passed away 14 years ago and I still wear my wedding ring. I wear hers on a chain around my neck."
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By *hagTonight OP Man 10 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple?
100% this, I loved being married but unfortunately fell out of love with him. It hasn't put me off marriage, however, I do think a lot of people these days don't feel the need for marriage and don't think it makes a difference to their relationship. I've heard a few times. it's just a piece of paper, but on the other hand sometimes it's for financial gain, pensions etc
Each to their own, but I like your way of thinking OP "
Hi pollypocket, ty, that is good you love being married, yes, each to their own too |
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter "
That's beautiful |
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By *dalisqueWoman 10 weeks ago
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"My wife and I have matching celtic knotwork rings. It's a symbol of our everlasting bond with our soulmate.
She passed away three years ago this month. I will wear my wedding ring until I am able to join her. I wear hers on a chain around my neck.
💔"
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners
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Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr) |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)"
it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses |
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"It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple?
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I know it's taboo but I like a man who wears a wedding ring
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)"
broke commitment soon as wife or husband slept with another person wether they knew or not |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)broke commitment soon as wife or husband slept with another person wether they knew or not "
No at all we’re committed to each other have fun is just fun it’s not a commitment |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses"
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that |
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter "
This is absolutely beautiful! 🫶
I love my rings, and I just like wearing them. Most days, I wear both my engagement ring, and my wedding ring. It feels weird when I don't.
When I'm out with fwb, I only wear my engagement ring now. Only because it saves some awkward conversations with strangers 🙈
Mr.DS finds it difficult to get his off his finger! So even if he wanted to, it's pretty much a part of him now 😂 |
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By *aizyWoman 10 weeks ago
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter
Apologies I would delete this if I could.
Don’t want to put a downer on your thread so scroll on past "
Sorry for your loss, that is a lovely gift for your daughter. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that "
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that "
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses"
I think that, like me, you can’t understand it. I will never as long as I live get how someone can get off on watching someone they love fuck someone else. And no I don’t believe it means their relationship is “more secure” at all. Having said that it doesn’t mean anyone is right or wrong, as long as everyone is agreed then I don’t see the issue, it’s just not for me. I also remember what site I’m on too and that my view won’t be the majority view. |
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It means someone's out of bounds to me, unless their wife knows.
I've been with my partner 10 years this year and never wanted to get married, it just seems old fashioned to me, but each to their own. I know it's important to lots of couples. |
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There is no right or wrong. I couldn't watch someone else fuck my Mrs but for some people that’s a big turn on. Neither is right or wrong, it’s just different opinions.
But I can separate love and sex, they are not the same thing. I’ve had sex with lots of people I wasn’t in love with, and they weren’t in love with me, long before we ever discovered fab.
Love can enhance having sex and sex can enhance a loving relationship. But it’s very easy to have one without the other.
I don’t think a marriage bereft of sex for a long period of time is healthy, unless there’s mutual agreement or medical reasons. The most significant difference between my closest friends and my partner is I have sex with my partner. But I don't need to get married to have the same level commitment to that relationship.
They say marriage is for life but in more cases than not, that’s not true. Having been through a horrible divorce that dragged out over 3 years, the only winners were the lawyers.
I think people are all to quick to judge others who don’t live by the same self imposed rules as they do. Just live and let live. Other people’s choices are exactly that, their choices. Who are we to tell them they are wrong?
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We love each other above all else - we face life’s trials and tribulations together as well as reaping the rewards….there is nowhere else we’d rather be than with each other, and no-one we’d rather be with…and every day that goes by I love my wife a little bit more..
Marriage, to us, is not something to be entered lightly as seems increasingly the case these days (see ‘Married at First Sight’ kind of thing) but is instead a commitment to support and be there for each other for all eternity… our rings are, to us, an important and powerful symbol of that both to each other and the universe …
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By *usty kayWoman 10 weeks ago
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We made our own wedding rings. Spent the time crafting exactly what we wanted and put the effort in.
That was a good start to our marriage and how we have continued to grow together.
It's a symbol of out love for one another and our eternal bond.
Hubby's also has an inscription giving him permission to swing just in case he needs it |
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It's reflective of the time that your unique commitments were made and how you shape them over time. The public part is the substance of the ring but the private part is the strength and power of your union |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"We made our own wedding rings. Spent the time crafting exactly what we wanted and put the effort in.
That was a good start to our marriage and how we have continued to grow together.
It's a symbol of out love for one another and our eternal bond.
Hubby's also has an inscription giving him permission to swing just in case he needs it "
Hi bustykay, that is good you made your own wedding rings, that is a good symbol of it too |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
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if you genuinely truly loved your partner you wouldn't want sex with anyone else so just cheating wether they know about it or not |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
if you genuinely truly loved your partner you wouldn't want sex with anyone else so just cheating wether they know about it or not "
oh don't start with all drivel that it's just sex your relationship is turned from love to contract making rules about what can carnt do with other people that's not love |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses"
oh and other excuses are illness you took vows in sickness and in health it's all con pretending still love each other |
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
if you genuinely truly loved your partner you wouldn't want sex with anyone else so just cheating wether they know about it or not "
My other half only receives sex with men outside of our sexual relationship due to me not having the equipment to do that, he doesn’t have sex with other females and we have a great sex life and an amazing relationship, he isn’t cheating on me and I know he loves me |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
if you genuinely truly loved your partner you wouldn't want sex with anyone else so just cheating wether they know about it or not
My other half only receives sex with men outside of our sexual relationship due to me not having the equipment to do that, he doesn’t have sex with other females and we have a great sex life and an amazing relationship, he isn’t cheating on me and I know he loves me "
that's not love |
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
if you genuinely truly loved your partner you wouldn't want sex with anyone else so just cheating wether they know about it or not
My other half only receives sex with men outside of our sexual relationship due to me not having the equipment to do that, he doesn’t have sex with other females and we have a great sex life and an amazing relationship, he isn’t cheating on me and I know he loves me that's not love "
Why isn’t it? He is bisexual, I knew he was bisexual before we got together, so why would I make him go “straight” and change him? |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
if you genuinely truly loved your partner you wouldn't want sex with anyone else so just cheating wether they know about it or not
My other half only receives sex with men outside of our sexual relationship due to me not having the equipment to do that, he doesn’t have sex with other females and we have a great sex life and an amazing relationship, he isn’t cheating on me and I know he loves me that's not love
Why isn’t it? He is bisexual, I knew he was bisexual before we got together, so why would I make him go “straight” and change him? "
it's not love wow the stuff some women put up with just to be in so called relationship 😆 |
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
if you genuinely truly loved your partner you wouldn't want sex with anyone else so just cheating wether they know about it or not
My other half only receives sex with men outside of our sexual relationship due to me not having the equipment to do that, he doesn’t have sex with other females and we have a great sex life and an amazing relationship, he isn’t cheating on me and I know he loves me that's not love
Why isn’t it? He is bisexual, I knew he was bisexual before we got together, so why would I make him go “straight” and change him? it's not love wow the stuff some women put up with just to be in so called relationship 😆"
Miss Natural.
Having read all the negative posts about how swinging couples cannot possibly love each other, I feel this site may not be right for you.
Love isn't the same for everyone. Every relationship is different. I don't think you or anyone else has the right to tell people that their relationship and love is invalid or not real.
Just because you don't understand how successful swinging, loving, relationships work, doesn't mean the people in those relationships don't love each other. |
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"Getting Married and taking vows means you want to commit to one person why get married if you want to have different partners I am not sad at all if genuinely loved partner wouldn't be sleeping around that's not love
Being committed to one person but having fun with other people together isn’t the same thing.cheating is completely different people who cheat are breaking that commitment (mr)it's a con if you sleeping with other people that's not genuine love if you truly love your partner you wouldn't sleep around just excuses
So the couples on here don’t genuinely love each other you’re a sat woman if you believe that
If you think that love means not having sex with someone else then that is fine for you to do. It's entirely up to you.
A lot of people think that LOVE means something entirely different.
As long as any couple know what love involves for them and what is and isn't acceptable in their relationship then that love isn't broken.
if you genuinely truly loved your partner you wouldn't want sex with anyone else so just cheating wether they know about it or not
My other half only receives sex with men outside of our sexual relationship due to me not having the equipment to do that, he doesn’t have sex with other females and we have a great sex life and an amazing relationship, he isn’t cheating on me and I know he loves me that's not love
Why isn’t it? He is bisexual, I knew he was bisexual before we got together, so why would I make him go “straight” and change him? it's not love wow the stuff some women put up with just to be in so called relationship 😆"
How dare you, I’m not with him for the sake of being in a relationship, we happen to love each other regardless of what you think, you have no idea how our relationship is |
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter "
That's beautiful. |
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I'm not married, had divorce all around me friends neighbours parents. Today my sister is going through a divorce. Another sister divorced in 90's.
Personally I think it sucks. It's set you up for heartbreak, stress, insecurity and vulnerability. So the wedding ring symbolic to negative issues for me. |
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"A ring is like a circle, it goes on forever. It's not like a triangle, triangle have corners.
One of my fave comedy films 😁
I’m glad someone got the reference."
Yeah I heard you. I know all about the shapes and the ling |
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By *rindnbump V2Couple 10 weeks ago
Our little world of Kinky Fuckery in Durham |
"It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple?
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We've have been together 26 years and married for 24 years.
We don't wear our wedding rings (both used to be skinnie minnies and they no longer fit).
We are both very committed to each other and have a very close bond, we don't feel we need to wear a ring to symbolises that or to show anyone else our love ❤️
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I've met a number of married bi guys for whom it's a thrill to openly keep their wedding ring on during sex with a man.
It somehow emphasises the deviousness of his behaviour.
Can't deny, it's horny!  |
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I had an affair with a married guy who was going to leave his wife for me.
He didn't in the end, but he did give me his wedding ring as a sign of is commitment to me.
He's still with her, but I still have the ring. |
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By *JandCMCouple 10 weeks ago
cardiff |
Been married 33 years n still very much in love n can't imagine us not being together, sounds a bit corny I know.
We are active on here n we have a few simple rules we stick to n it works for us. |
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"It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple?
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It's nice to see how you think of marriage Shag and what a wedding ring symbolises to you. I like your attitude. Would you like to be married? (That isn't a proposal 🤣)
To me my wedding ring symbolises my commitment to our relationship. |
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"I was happily married for many years and removing it when she passed was a huge decision.
Took me over 18 months to decide to remove it
I’ve now had both rings melted down and turned into a ring for my daughter "
That’s so nice, I casted three identical love rings for my three daughters.
To me, it’s a symbol of what you agreed to when you got married, commitment, sacrifice, honesty, loyalty all that good stuff. It’s a reminder to you then and others |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 10 weeks ago
From the land of haribos. |
"It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple?
It's nice to see how you think of marriage Shag and what a wedding ring symbolises to you. I like your attitude. Would you like to be married? (That isn't a proposal 🤣)
To me my wedding ring symbolises my commitment to our relationship. "
Hi nicecouple, ty. I like how it sounded like a proposal there lol. I think I would like to be married one day, at the moment I like the single life. I like how a wedding ring symbolises to you, with commitment to your relationship, that is a long time you have been married, together 45 years and married 38 years too |
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"It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple?
It's nice to see how you think of marriage Shag and what a wedding ring symbolises to you. I like your attitude. Would you like to be married? (That isn't a proposal 🤣)
To me my wedding ring symbolises my commitment to our relationship. Hi nicecouple, ty. I like how it sounded like a proposal there lol. I think I would like to be married one day, at the moment I like the single life. I like how a wedding ring symbolises to you, with commitment to your relationship, that is a long time you have been married, together 45 years and married 38 years too "
I hope you find a Haribo loving spouse one day 🥳 |
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By *usty kayWoman 10 weeks ago
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This thread really got me thinking. I still have my wedding ring from my first marriage and I can't do anything with it. I can't get rid of it because even though the marriage ended it really did mean something and I don't regret it. I can't wear it for the same reason. It's just sitting in a box.
I like the idea of using it to make something else, maybe something to give to our son who will always be the reason my ex still means something to me. |
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"This thread really got me thinking. I still have my wedding ring from my first marriage and I can't do anything with it. I can't get rid of it because even though the marriage ended it really did mean something and I don't regret it. I can't wear it for the same reason. It's just sitting in a box.
I like the idea of using it to make something else, maybe something to give to our son who will always be the reason my ex still means something to me."
Maybe your Son would like to wear it, just a thought |
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By *hagTonight OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"It can mean many things for everyone. I am not married, but for me it is the symbol of eternal love and commitment and things like, she have the best husband in the world, be there for her, provide, made a promise to be the best version of myself that I can be, be the best husband I can be.
It would be interesting to see what the wedding ring mean to you, is it the same, is it also about commitment and the bond between a couple?
It's nice to see how you think of marriage Shag and what a wedding ring symbolises to you. I like your attitude. Would you like to be married? (That isn't a proposal 🤣)
To me my wedding ring symbolises my commitment to our relationship. Hi nicecouple, ty. I like how it sounded like a proposal there lol. I think I would like to be married one day, at the moment I like the single life. I like how a wedding ring symbolises to you, with commitment to your relationship, that is a long time you have been married, together 45 years and married 38 years too
I hope you find a Haribo loving spouse one day 🥳"
Ty, yes. I also hope I find a haribo loving spouse one day too |
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