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"Being stuck up is just having another preference Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe " There is having a preference and there is pure utter rudeness on this | |||
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"Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. " This is what I was trying to say. Sometimes you just catch someone at a bad time | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. " as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time | |||
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"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) " I know it's completely pathetic | |||
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"Well I’m far from stuck up very much down to earth me " glad to hear it it's normally women and couples | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! "says the man with how many verfys I wonder why | |||
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"Being stuck up is just having another preference Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe There is having a preference and there is pure utter rudeness on this " But if they have declined and say for example you continue, who is in the wrong or right | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! "What would yours show up at my man ? | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! "That just spoils all the fun....  | |||
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"Being stuck up is just having another preference Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe There is having a preference and there is pure utter rudeness on this But if they have declined and say for example you continue, who is in the wrong or right " I would be completely in the wrong if I was to keep going and would be stupid if there clearly not showing no interest but when there completely ignoring people | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time " Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting!
That just spoils all the fun.... "Bless 🙈🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting!
That just spoils all the fun.... "This 👆  | |||
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"Being stuck up is just having another preference Just accept that they aren't for you and search for those who maybe There is having a preference and there is pure utter rudeness on this But if they have declined and say for example you continue, who is in the wrong or right I would be completely in the wrong if I was to keep going and would be stupid if there clearly not showing no interest but when there completely ignoring people " No response is also a not interested | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested." there lose | |||
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"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic " Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 | |||
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"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 " nah completely agree but at least show some respect | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose " But it's not "their loss" If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing. If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is. J | |||
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"Guys with pics and a decent profile seem to do alright on here. What would you choose OP - a woman’s profile with a few sexy pics showing how good they looked or a woman’s profile with no pics at all? Women and couples are exactly the same… K " as I said previously been on couples account and my other accounts but I've mailed people with and without pics but I always ask in chat and there more and willing some people have jobs to protect children that are old enough to be on this website | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose But it's not "their loss" If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing. If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is. J" trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose But it's not "their loss" If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing. If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is. J" well as I said I was able to mail everyone even if I wasn't interested | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose But it's not "their loss" If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing. If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is. J trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted " Are you saying most women on here just want a big dick in them? | |||
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"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect " Respect shown to who exactly lad ? | |||
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"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect Respect shown to who exactly lad ? " Not to us fanny-stretched women, I assume. | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose But it's not "their loss" If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing. If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is. J trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted " So the pics you send are they just dick pics because you think you are gifted down there and you think that is all women want to see? | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose But it's not "their loss" If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing. If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is. J trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted " Many men on Fab seriously overestimate their market worth. *That concludes my Ted Talk J | |||
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"I am God's gift I'm the Devils... 🥪"True, I did send you here to piss everyone off 🤣 | |||
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"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect Respect shown to who exactly lad ? Not to us fanny-stretched women, I assume." Hahaha you’re not denying that for all women though nanny ? 🙈🤣 Bit like getting told I’ve got a big cock attention’s attention right? | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! says the man with how many verfys I wonder why "Those would be me getting off my arse and going to socials all over the country….  you know.. actually meeting and talking and getting to know people face to face!
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"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect Respect shown to who exactly lad ? Not to us fanny-stretched women, I assume. Hahaha you’re not denying that for all women though nanny ? 🙈🤣 Bit like getting told I’ve got a big cock attention’s attention right? " Denying what? That women on here are often treated disrespectfully by a lot of men. I've had a few big cocks in my time, and my vagina always went back to it's original state. The same way it did after my children were born. | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites " Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because of your massive cock? | |||
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"... And the fish jump in to the boat 🤷🏼♂️ " I was just thinking someone's on a wind up tonight. | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because you are massive cock?" I've amended your typo BN 🫶🏻 | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! says the man with how many verfys I wonder why "Says the man with a whole gallery of photos, a detailed biog, doesn’t think all he needs is a big dick, puts in years of hard graft and understands the swinging world. | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because you are massive cock? I've amended your typo BN 🫶🏻" You win today's Internet.  | |||
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"... And the fish jump in to the boat 🤷🏼♂️ I was just thinking someone's on a wind up tonight. " I started to type out an articulate reply but then I lost the will and remembered something someone posted on here about fish and boats 🤷🏼♂️ | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! says the man with how many verfys I wonder why
Says the man with a whole gallery of photos, a detailed biog, doesn’t think all he needs is a big dick, puts in years of hard graft and understands the swinging world.
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"If you’re meaning the opposite gender…… then because it’s 2025 and they can be and there’s to many simps about some guys are paying to see pussy paying for meets etc on here (not the only site) I know it's completely pathetic Not pathetic!! we’re all aloud standards my man. But yeah some get big heads due to attention when people see there’s boobs or arse or Fanny well stretched etc 👍 nah completely agree but at least show some respect Respect shown to who exactly lad ? Not to us fanny-stretched women, I assume. Hahaha you’re not denying that for all women though nanny ? 🙈🤣 Bit like getting told I’ve got a big cock attention’s attention right? Denying what? That women on here are often treated disrespectfully by a lot of men. I've had a few big cocks in my time, and my vagina always went back to it's original state. The same way it did after my children were born. " So are the men though if anything 10x worse here not more but yes some on here and normal dating sites are selling the same lassies (couples girls) fannie 🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣 We ain’t all ass lickers (even if I do that’s not the point) attention gets given and it changes some women’s gramted you restrechung after childbirth I’d assume is different to my fist we all ain’t the saint nanny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"This is why I believe there should be a breathalyser attached to a mobile phone… if you are over the limit… no texts, no posting! says the man with how many verfys I wonder why
Those would be me getting off my arse and going to socials all over the country…. you know.. actually meeting and talking and getting to know people face to face!
Dear boy, you are better than making assumptions…. "Desperate is the word you seek mate 👍 | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because of your massive cock?" no I don't I have a good personality and I'm quiet funny as well I ain't no oil canvas but I'm not a ugly bastard | |||
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"No one owes you anything in life, on here, or in bed. You aren't entitled to a response n you might not like any of the responses you do invite/get on the internet. Getting angry will also not help you handle the rejection or increase your odds of getting sex. If it's a time waste here, take a break, go Enjoy yourself else where. Fab is not important enough to let it affect you. Hope you find things that make you feel better x" not angry at all but just gets boarding getting the same thing over and over again like women have said god knows how many times in there status | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time " You're what most people are looking for? Perhaps they're into denial | |||
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"I wonder where the term 'stuck up' originated from? What does it mean? I'm not stuck up, I've never been stuck up anywhere....unless you count the time I was stuck up a tree house when I was little because some silly arse nicked my ladder
I can be a twat though if that helps"It was different times!!! I would have done anything for a tree house! | |||
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"OP has the energy of someone who when given a polite rejection messages back asking why." This is what I read sensing, it strings it conversations demanding pictures etc x | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites " I don't like massive cocks and especially ones on arrogant men. | |||
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"OP has the energy of someone who when given a polite rejection messages back asking why. This is what I read sensing, it strings it conversations demanding pictures etc x" And then when they get the reply that they are just not interested proceeds to insult and say that they're not all that | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites I don't like massive cocks and especially ones on arrogant men." I'm quite partial to the odd one on a decent guy. | |||
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"Really giving out incel vibes!" 
Another day on fab another petulant outburst with the usual sad and predictable abusive language about those they seek to meet..
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"Really giving out incel vibes!
Another day on fab another petulant outburst with the usual sad and predictable abusive language about those they seek to meet..
"I can imagine they are the ones that ask 'well why are you on a sex site if you won't meet?' when they get a polite 'no thanks' to their request to meet instantly | |||
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"Really giving out incel vibes!
Another day on fab another petulant outburst with the usual sad and predictable abusive language about those they seek to meet..
I can imagine they are the ones that ask 'well why are you on a sex site if you won't meet?' when they get a polite 'no thanks' to their request to meet instantly "It's like at times watching children throw a hissy fit, instead of looking at what they are doing wrong or could learn from others doing well on here.. As you pointed out, incel vibes.. | |||
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"The way people act on the internet is not the way they act in real life. Afterall, we have laws & consequences "I'd hope not! If you have to say no to somebody 10 times and they still try to convince you to meet them, how safe would you actually be if you did meet them! | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites " I'm not interested in the size of a guys cock.. I like to get to know people. If you can't or don't write a decent message then yeah people are going to delete the message or not read it .. it doesn't make them stuck up!  | |||
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But it is what it is really.. we can't all be everyone's cup of tea, if someone's not interested, then move on. It's as simple as that, but as this thread shows.. it may not be the case for some | |||
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"You have a profile with no photos. Most people get between dozens and hundreds of messages a day. They don’t have time to engage in conversation with everyone who messages. So it has to be kept short and direct. That doesn’t make someone stuck up. as I said had a couples account which is normally 999 mails a day which I understand not everyone can be arsed with that I've been using fab for 6 years on and off as it says in my bio I have photos if they ask which it's there loss that they don't ask because I'm what most women are looking for on here but the ones that mail me are to stuck up and demanding that I just lose interest I respect that they mailed me or showed a interest but it's getting to a point it's a waste of time Why should anyone have to ask? If you want their attention then show them who you are. If you can’t even use your initiative to send a photo, then don’t moan about them not being interested. there lose But it's not "their loss" If there was never any contact, communication or connection, we've lost nothing. If you understand that some people get so many messages they can't answer them all, I'm not sure what the problem is. J trust me there a lose because on here it normally goes with the size of down stairs and I know I'm gifted " It makes me smile every time I see a single man say "it's their loss" It's their loss is flavoured as words of comfort, but it tastes like "fuck me instead". | |||
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"I totally agree with you With who?" The OP I think | |||
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"It's a hard cock life. 🤣" I thought my autocorrect had done that! 🤣 | |||
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"It's a hard cock life. 🤣 I thought my autocorrect had done that! 🤣" 🤣🤣🤣 Nope im in a cheeky mood today lol | |||
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"I am God's gift" I'm gods booby prize | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites " And? What do you think having a large penis means? Absolutely nothing it's another cock in a sea of 16300 cocks. | |||
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"One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'. Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here. Not a message. Not a reply. Certainly not sex. People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it. Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷♂️" When we meander our way through life. Is it more pleasant or less pleasant, more enjoyable or less enjoyable, when we show and share with people a little respect, common decency, engagement, acknowledgement, walking past people with a nod or a hello, stopping to chat as our worlds bump into eachother for a short while. Being insular and self absorbed and not owing people anything is not a terribly enjoyable state of affairs. Random electronic communication has much to answer for. | |||
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"I've wondered this as well, I run a couples account and some of the messages from guys are fucking vile so when I message from my private account I try to be nice and respectful, I really wonder what tactic works best because I spend some time reading bios, finding a common interest etc and get deleted straight away 🤣" The tactic that worked best for me (at least it did when I actually sent messages) was to understand that I wouldn't float everyone's boat, and that they hadn't asked me to message them. A reply was never expected. | |||
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"One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'. Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here. Not a message. Not a reply. Certainly not sex. People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it. Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷♂️ When we meander our way through life. Is it more pleasant or less pleasant, more enjoyable or less enjoyable, when we show and share with people a little respect, common decency, engagement, acknowledgement, walking past people with a nod or a hello, stopping to chat as our worlds bump into eachother for a short while. Being insular and self absorbed and not owing people anything is not a terribly enjoyable state of affairs. Random electronic communication has much to answer for. " This isn't 'real life' though. Of course people smile at eachother, say 'morning' to strangers when walking dogs, hold doors open for people and make idle small talk in the queue at Adli. But on here the equivalent comparison to a message on here is often someone walking into a pub, seeing someone they fancy, flopping their dick out and saying 'nice tits love, get a load of my huge wang. Fancy noshing me off in the car park?'. It's a false comparison and the situations aren't comparable. Even a perfectly polite message is more akin to a well presented marketing leaflet dropped through your letterbox from a perfectly good business that you simply have no interest in using. 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites And? What do you think having a large penis means? Absolutely nothing it's another cock in a sea of 16300 cocks." I demand a recount  | |||
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"Thing is I've got a massive cock but nobody would know that intill the message me there lose as to be honest I've had better luck on dating websites Do you think that the only reason you get sex is because of your massive cock? no I don't I have a good personality and I'm quiet funny as well I ain't no oil canvas but I'm not a ugly bastard " Is this good personality something that you switch on and off? *waits patiently for the good personality to actually show up* | |||
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"One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'. Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here. Not a message. Not a reply. Certainly not sex. People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it. Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷♂️" 👌👌👌 | |||
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"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping "You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X | |||
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"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping
You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X"Oi! Back of the queue! I was here first | |||
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"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping
You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X
Oi! Back of the queue! I was here first "Hey that silhouette is so alluring! Both of us can barely contain our arousal it has us seconds away from orgasm | |||
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"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping
You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X"Looks like we'll have to share him then, I'm sooo wet with the silhouette | |||
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"Yeah your 300 mile away silhouette is amazing op, I'm actually dripping
You can't have him...he's mine. How could we resist! X
Looks like we'll have to share him then, I'm sooo wet with the silhouette "You can have him for his looks, we will take him for his sparkling personality. Deal x | |||
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"Since when is not wanting to shag any random stranger who messages being stuck up? Your sense of entitlement is ridiculous Ask yourself why an inbox full of written rejection so important to you. Will an inbox of no make you feel better?" This is such a fair point. Why is a no thankyou message any more validating to you than a lack of a reply? It's the same net outcome surely | |||
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OP, how about showing some humility, if that's what you seek?
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"Just wondering why is there so many people that are so stuck up on here and honestly think there gods gift on here waiting to here the normal abuse as no one can take any of these chats seriously but putting it out there as there are a good few that aren't " You've scored a very respectable 9.5 on our reasons to block - add a cock profile picture and you will get a perfect 10. | |||
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"One person's 'stuck up' is another's 'selective'. Nobody is owed anything simply by having a profile on here. Not a message. Not a reply. Certainly not sex. People can choose who to engage with, who to talk to, and even if a conversation has begun, when to end it. Rejection is part of life. So is being ignored by complete strangers on the Internet. 🤷♂️ When we meander our way through life. Is it more pleasant or less pleasant, more enjoyable or less enjoyable, when we show and share with people a little respect, common decency, engagement, acknowledgement, walking past people with a nod or a hello, stopping to chat as our worlds bump into eachother for a short while. Being insular and self absorbed and not owing people anything is not a terribly enjoyable state of affairs. Random electronic communication has much to answer for. This isn't 'real life' though. Of course people smile at eachother, say 'morning' to strangers when walking dogs, hold doors open for people and make idle small talk in the queue at Adli. But on here the equivalent comparison to a message on here is often someone walking into a pub, seeing someone they fancy, flopping their dick out and saying 'nice tits love, get a load of my huge wang. Fancy noshing me off in the car park?'. It's a false comparison and the situations aren't comparable. Even a perfectly polite message is more akin to a well presented marketing leaflet dropped through your letterbox from a perfectly good business that you simply have no interest in using. 🤷♂️" Well talking of false comparisons... The comparison is walking into a pub and saying hello to someone and them either saying hello in response or blanking you. | |||
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"Well talking of false comparisons... The comparison is walking into a pub and saying hello to someone and them either saying hello in response or blanking you. " Except it's a pub with 200 other men also shouting variants of hello and helicoptering their dick in your general direction too. And your own experience tells you that acknowledging one that you're not absolutely sure of from the outset often leads to verbal abuse or at least a 'polite' but persistent but whyyyyy, which because you've set the precedent of responding at all they now feel they're entitled to an answer to 💜 | |||
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"Just wondering why is there so many people that are so stuck up on here and honestly think there gods gift on here waiting to here the normal abuse as no one can take any of these chats seriously but putting it out there as there are a good few that aren't " I dunno why you assume some are stuck up on here did you get a knock back? it’s all about peoples choices/preferences on here just because people are on here it doesn’t mean they will fuck you & the sooner some get this the better it’s the same as walking into a bar just because someone is in there they don’t have to go with you | |||
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"No I'm really past careing been on both sides of this websites on a couples account and I answered every single person with respect but it seems no one can be bothered " My account originally was with my late partner. We always answered all messages if it was negative but still got the same messages we deleted. Since it’s been me alone I think I’ve only had 3 women reply to me and most couples it’s the guy wanting to chat. I’m well aware that women can get bombarded by messages. But then you have got pics of you naked advertising your looking for men. My favourite is no verification no reply. Question how do we get verification if all of our messages are ignored? 🤔 | |||
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"My favourite is no verification no reply. Question how do we get verification if all of our messages are ignored? 🤔" Go to a club night, the organisers will usually verify attendees or if you get chatting to someone there they can verify you 💜 | |||
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"I still stand by my original comment…. Friday and Saturday night on here after 11pm… breathalyser on mobile phones!!!
Imagine the amount of people we could have saved… I could almost be a saint!!! "Not worth saving them mate, Daylight exposes the dickheads for us all to avoid. | |||
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"Well talking of false comparisons... The comparison is walking into a pub and saying hello to someone and them either saying hello in response or blanking you. Except it's a pub with 200 other men also shouting variants of hello and helicoptering their dick in your general direction too. And your own experience tells you that acknowledging one that you're not absolutely sure of from the outset often leads to verbal abuse or at least a 'polite' but persistent but whyyyyy, which because you've set the precedent of responding at all they now feel they're entitled to an answer to 💜" Not sure which pubs you frequent with 200 men helicoptering their dicks but if that's your experience of pubs i can't argue with it. Most pubs I go into people, male and female, strangers and friends are friendly with eachother and respectful. Nobody is expecting a fuck or anything else. But simply human interaction. I don't understand why some of the responses on here are as binary as, its fuck someone or ignore them. It's possible to engage for even a short while politely. Whilst it's a sex site it seems the thought process of many contributions on here are... People expect or are owed something. Truth is they don't what other people are thinking. I don't believe that to be the case and is a convenient trope to hide rude behaviour behind. I don't deny there are some pretty grim individuals and emails and behaviours on here. Just as there are increasingly in society, but for me at least the only expectation is to be human and polite with people. That seems to be beyond some people in here, but maybe that's more about the media that is being used and if face to face they would be charm personified. Now back to the "helicoptering dicks"... Great name for a pub. Or a band. | |||
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"No I'm really past careing been on both sides of this websites on a couples account and I answered every single person with respect but it seems no one can be bothered My account originally was with my late partner. We always answered all messages if it was negative but still got the same messages we deleted. Since it’s been me alone I think I’ve only had 3 women reply to me and most couples it’s the guy wanting to chat. I’m well aware that women can get bombarded by messages. But then you have got pics of you naked advertising your looking for men. My favourite is no verification no reply. Question how do we get verification if all of our messages are ignored? 🤔" I had to turn down a woman once she just didn’t meet any of my preferences, it was my only message that day and I took the time to reply as she sent a nice message. Honestly it was a worse feeling than being rejected by a woman I had messaged, even if all the messages a single woman receives are polite and respectful it’s unfair to reduce her experience on the site to a series of polite rejections that make her feel like she’s being a bad human being just for having her own preference. So yeah they have to ignore messages or they would never be able to have the time or energy to find and interact with the men that turn them on. | |||
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