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I plan a few other bi guys as well to play with as well.
Make sure there is Jaffa cakes and crumpets in the kitchen for when he manages to get out of the bedroom.
I make sure his dressing gown is ready as that is all he will need to wear. |
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"I plan a few other bi guys as well to play with as well.
Make sure there is Jaffa cakes and crumpets in the kitchen for when he manages to get out of the bedroom.
I make sure his dressing gown is ready as that is all he will need to wear. "
Love this!
Catering to all needs! |
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By *obboMan 6 weeks ago
Lincoln |
I generally take my fwb out for food after and have a social after the fact lol. She tends to come round on a Sunday morning due to work for us and we get straight to it.
She makes it special by turning up in naughty outfits under a trench coat sometimes or if I go to hers just waiting bent over her sofa already wet and waiting.... |
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"Hi
You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?
Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.
Just be you xxx"
I should have read more carefully.
I would take my FWB to a warm seaside town, buy her ice cream and hot chocolate, then off to a swinging party, and finally get back to the hotel for hugs and recovery. |
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"I generally take my fwb out for food after and have a social after the fact lol. She tends to come round on a Sunday morning due to work for us and we get straight to it.
She makes it special by turning up in naughty outfits under a trench coat sometimes or if I go to hers just waiting bent over her sofa already wet and waiting...."
Love the set up. A Trench coat is always a win. Staple item in the wardrobe |
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"Hi
You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?
Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.
Just be you xxx"
100% true. I just do what feels natural to me |
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"My fwb wouldn't dream of spending a weekend at mine, that to him is a relationship. He thinks once a month is enough but he will bring me soup on occasions. "
I get that. Everyone is different and hold differntb views of what is considered casual or something a lil more serious |
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"Hi
You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?
Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.
Just be you xxx
I should have read more carefully.
I would take my FWB to a warm seaside town, buy her ice cream and hot chocolate, then off to a swinging party, and finally get back to the hotel for hugs and recovery. "
Sounds awesome!!
Bet that reclaim sex is super hot too! |
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"I …would not spend the weekend with a FWB, that sounds relationship-y to me 😬"
I respect your view. I get that everyone has differing views on what is considered casual v something a little more committed |
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"Hi
You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?
Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.
Just be you xxx
I should have read more carefully.
I would take my FWB to a warm seaside town, buy her ice cream and hot chocolate, then off to a swinging party, and finally get back to the hotel for hugs and recovery.
Sounds awesome!!
Bet that reclaim sex is super hot too!"
The reclaim sex is super hot 🔥 |
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"Essentially, plan out exactly how they want their day/play session to go like. Cuddles, films, massages etc. Just letting them decide on what they need."
That’s sounding good hun!
Massages too. Love it |
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"Just having her around is all I need. Her smile, her laugh, the abuse she gives me....all turn me on!  
For her, I'll do whatever she wants but a strong coffee and a cooked breakfast would go a long way to getting me in her good books  "
Love this! Thanks for sharing x |
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I would take my FWB to a warm seaside town, buy her ice cream and hot chocolate, then off to a swinging party, and finally get back to the hotel for hugs and recovery.
Sounds awesome!!
Bet that reclaim sex is super hot too!
The reclaim sex is super hot 🔥"
Your hot |
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I would not spend a weekend at a FWB’s it’s too long! When I host I cook dinner, put on fresh bedding, make breakfast, if we shower together, I will get some nice stuff for that from lush or something, if it’s more than a night then I try and plan some things to do to get us out of the house, but doesn’t always happen |
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"She’s only a fwb. Let’s not overdo it
Everyone’s different and I can respect that. Some ppl may not see the above as overdoing it x"
I’m only kidding.
I just don’t have a fwb so can’t think what I’d do |
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"She’s only a fwb. Let’s not overdo it
Everyone’s different and I can respect that. Some ppl may not see the above as overdoing it x
I’m only kidding.
I just don’t have a fwb so can’t think what I’d do"
I know, I’d order a Chinese |
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By *ripfillMan 6 weeks ago
Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant |
I am seeing a lovey couple this weekend so I am ….. taking pink champagne ,my home made marmalade , home made bread ,
Some cut flowers and plenty of wine ,
Leaving a small gap between the curtains to roughly know what time of day it is !
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"I am seeing a lovey couple this weekend so I am ….. taking pink champagne ,my home made marmalade , home made bread ,
Some cut flowers and plenty of wine ,
Leaving a small gap between the curtains to roughly know what time of day it is !
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This is cute. Love this for you x |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"They cook for me. And/ Or make arrangements to take me out then don't actually make it out of bed. That does it for me.
Love it!
What’s your fav meal "
Ah food is food. I love it all. I cook all the time at home so having someone cook for me is kinda lovely. I really appreciate their efforts.😊 |
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"They cook for me. And/ Or make arrangements to take me out then don't actually make it out of bed. That does it for me.
Love it!
What’s your fav meal
Ah food is food. I love it all. I cook all the time at home so having someone cook for me is kinda lovely. I really appreciate their efforts.😊"
It defo tastes nicer when someone else has cooked it |
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By *ripfillMan 6 weeks ago
Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant |
"I am seeing a lovey couple this weekend so I am ….. taking pink champagne ,my home made marmalade , home made bread ,
Some cut flowers and plenty of wine ,
Leaving a small gap between the curtains to roughly know what time of day it is !
This is cute. Love this for you x"
Thank you x |
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"Hi
You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?
Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special."
Just be naked all the time.
Bring a friend. |
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By *eliWoman 6 weeks ago
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This thread idea is really sweet OP. If I'm fwb with someone, their friendship is important to me and so I'll treat them as... a friend.
Hosting a friend? Get in nice snacks, drinks (cold and plenty of them, water in the fridge as well), the little things people might mention a predilection for in passing - chocolate, any particular pudding I can make etc.
I'm more likely to wear something I know they like because it's fun to make an effort for them.
Oh and nice (not cloying) candles, fresh fluffy towels, a massage bar, look up a good coffeeshop/pub in case we decide to leave the fuckshack and get some fresh air. |
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"Hi
You are spending the weekend at your fwbs house. What could they do to make the weekend extra special for you?
Hosts…what do you do to make your fwb/fb feel special.
Just be naked all the time.
Bring a friend. "
lol clothes. Just an unnecessary layer right lol 😝 |
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"This thread idea is really sweet OP. If I'm fwb with someone, their friendship is important to me and so I'll treat them as... a friend.
Hosting a friend? Get in nice snacks, drinks (cold and plenty of them, water in the fridge as well), the little things people might mention a predilection for in passing - chocolate, any particular pudding I can make etc.
I'm more likely to wear something I know they like because it's fun to make an effort for them.
Oh and nice (not cloying) candles, fresh fluffy towels, a massage bar, look up a good coffeeshop/pub in case we decide to leave the fuckshack and get some fresh air."
Thank you for sharing your view.
I value the friendship aspect also.
Girl hope these men appreciate your friendship also x |
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"This thread idea is really sweet OP. If I'm fwb with someone, their friendship is important to me and so I'll treat them as... a friend.
Hosting a friend? Get in nice snacks, drinks (cold and plenty of them, water in the fridge as well), the little things people might mention a predilection for in passing - chocolate, any particular pudding I can make etc.
I'm more likely to wear something I know they like because it's fun to make an effort for them.
Oh and nice (not cloying) candles, fresh fluffy towels, a massage bar, look up a good coffeeshop/pub in case we decide to leave the fuckshack and get some fresh air.
Thank you for sharing your view.
I value the friendship aspect also.
Girl hope these men appreciate your friendship also x"
This forum isn’t big enough to list all the things that make it special for us
We are 300+ miles apart and the effort that takes is big but wow it’s worth it and we’re all very happy |
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Well, none of us can host. So at hotels, I'll bring snacks and drinks. Something sexy to slip into, just to slip out of it again. Sometimes there's a bag of tricks If I'm at the room first, be ready and waiting 
I like to have a look to see where to suggest we can go for a meal (even though it's always the same 2 places 🤭), coffee in the morning, an activity for the next day. Now, we don't always end up following the pencilled itinerary, but there we go 🤣 |
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"This thread idea is really sweet OP. If I'm fwb with someone, their friendship is important to me and so I'll treat them as... a friend.
Hosting a friend? Get in nice snacks, drinks (cold and plenty of them, water in the fridge as well), the little things people might mention a predilection for in passing - chocolate, any particular pudding I can make etc.
I'm more likely to wear something I know they like because it's fun to make an effort for them.
Oh and nice (not cloying) candles, fresh fluffy towels, a massage bar, look up a good coffeeshop/pub in case we decide to leave the fuckshack and get some fresh air.
Thank you for sharing your view.
I value the friendship aspect also.
Girl hope these men appreciate your friendship also x
This forum isn’t big enough to list all the things that make it special for us
We are 300+ miles apart and the effort that takes is big but wow it’s worth it and we’re all very happy "
❤️
I love this for you!
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"Well, none of us can host. So at hotels, I'll bring snacks and drinks. Something sexy to slip into, just to slip out of it again. Sometimes there's a bag of tricks If I'm at the room first, be ready and waiting
I like to have a look to see where to suggest we can go for a meal (even though it's always the same 2 places 🤭), coffee in the morning, an activity for the next day. Now, we don't always end up following the pencilled itinerary, but there we go 🤣"
Haha. Love it.
The intention was there nonetheless 😝 |
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