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By *lowupdollTV/TS 5 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
Any number of reasons including but not limited to
Guilt often post wank
Married and on here without partners knowledge
Overwhelmed by messages
Overwhelmed by messages they find disturbing
Getting banned quickly
Realise it takes effort and they don’t want to make any, rethink, rejoin, realise it takes effort etc |
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By *vaRoseWoman 5 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
"Why do so many people delete their profiles after a few weeks, only to rejoin shortly after? Am I missing something? It feels like a red flag to me. "
Taking a break is healthy
Some hide their profile, others delete for a while to remove the temptation to keep logging in.
I aware a few do it to get around blocks or filters, there’s one guy here who I repeatedly block but who joins again and so the cycle continues. I block and when he’s abusive I report. Takes commitment to be that nuts. |
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By *dalisqueWoman 5 weeks ago
land of make believe |
A Myriad of reasons.
I deleted my first profile as I was recognised by someone from my professional life a few days in & I panicked.
It's understandable that people sometimes take breaks from online platforms. Life often gets busy, and our priorities shift. Coming back to a familiar online space can be comforting and rekindle connections. Perhaps they missed the community or the resources available.
I have done this many times just without leaving.
Ultimately, everyone's reasons are personal and valid.
Unless it is to stalk or pester someone.
Im not enamoured with people being banned & then just being able to make a new profile either.
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Taking a break is healthy and for some people deleting is the best way to do this.
If they continually delete and return I'd say its quite likely they're in a relationship and/or enjoy the attention, but each to their own! |
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By *lowupdollTV/TS 5 weeks ago
Herts/Beds/Leeds/London |
"They normally don’t get an insta-shag from a FAF message and then do the rinse-and-repeat cycle whilst having their next wank 😘"
Tbf gotta admire the multitasking and ambidexterity this involves. |
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"They normally don’t get an insta-shag from a FAF message and then do the rinse-and-repeat cycle whilst having their next wank 😘
Tbf gotta admire the multitasking and ambidexterity this involves. "
I really do. I salute them. Normally with my middle finger 😘 |
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I suspect the reasons stated above are true, just seems odd behaviour when you can just hide your profile, which I do from time to time. Not that I get pestered  but it's good to have a break and connect to normality. |
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I tend to think many people who constantly leave and rejoin, may do it to get round blocks.
There's a profile I block as soon as I see him, due to the cringey graphic messages he sends. I'm guessing he probably sends them to others and gets blocked too.
If course this isn't everyone, some get fed up when they don't get instant meets.
Others just naturally come and go, like a few do on the forums & there are those I've seen who state that they only join when horny and hoping to get lucky.
The boomerang profiles aren't for me. I used to chat to a man ages ago, he always mentioned meeting for a social, yet would just keep vanishing.
In the end, I stopped replying as he made me suspicious & I knew it was never gonna come to much. |
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If they're couples they've likely had drama between them. We've had couples admit they've had drama and deleted their profile before rejoining, sometimes several times over. You don’t read much about the drama on here though. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 5 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
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Ultimately, everyone's reasons are personal and valid.
Unless it is to stalk or pester someone.
Im not enamoured with people being banned & then just being able to make a new profile either.
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The first part is true. Everyone will have their own reasons.
The latter? It's nigh on impossible for any site to manage given that free throwaway email addresses are easy to come by and vpns too. But the site does what it can to prevent problem users returning. It's why reporting any issues is important. |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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Sometimes I get booted off. Sometimes, I spend far too much time on here that it gets in the way of other stuff. Other times I get bugged out by grim messages and those that string you along with no intention of meeting so need a break from it all. Its the good folk on here that keep me coming back and the allure of hot young gingers. |
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By *uke02Man 5 weeks ago
Waterford City |
I deleted my profile before because I wasn't in a great headspace and not being able to get meets wasn't helping the case. I got in a better headspace so I'm back on here. Stull haven't gotten a meet yet but it doesn't bother me. I'll keep trying to shoot my shot if it doesn't happen sure look there's nothing I can do. But yeah to get back k to my point nit was mental health reasons I deleted my profile |
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