What are your opinions on clubs?
I have now been to 2 different clubs once and have overall had a bad experience (I didn't go purely for sex).
Is it just bad luck and better times to come or is the club dynamic bad?
Is it just a single guy thing? |
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"No, I’ve been to 2 clubs, the 1st was great, everybody was friendly, 2nd club was awful & I sat on my own for most of the night 🤷🏻♀️
Just depends on the crowd on the night I guess "
What made it awful?
I guess I just assumed that couples and single fems had a better time... |
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Club nights can vary wildly. Some venues are better than others for various factors, but every night is different and varies wildly dependent on many things, a lot of it around the theme and the attendees though.
I have only been to club shh and Cupid's once each. Both nights were on the quieter end which can make it less fun, both venues were a bit lacking in layout for me. If those had been my first two club experiences they would likely be my only ones.
There are places I have never had a bad night, and there are places that I'll only go when I know the theme is a good one, and that a decent amount of people I already know will be going as the main crowd don't seem particularly open to newbies.
I'm hours of driving away from my nearest clubs, and I don't drive. But I still manage to get out to at least a couple of nights a month. Because I really enjoy it 💜 |
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I’ve found they vary widely too OP. I think it all depends on the crowd that night and whether you gel with anyone or not. I always went as a single woman for context.
They’re not my scene anymore, well swingers clubs aren’t anyway. |
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Pick the right club and the right event for you (no point going to a BBW night if you're into gym fit lasses) Read club reviews and go with a "it's just a night out" attitude. If you get lucky then bingo! But just go and chat to people just like you would down the pub or at a regular house party. Oh, and bring condoms just in case - I'm always amazed by the amount of people that don't. |
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"I met the Mrs at a club as a single guy, so it's not all that bad. Clubs are hit n miss even for couples.
Do/did you get toxic comments from people too assuming the worst about you? "
No never had toxic comments even as a single guy in a club, swingers aren't normally like that in clubs as long as you're respectful and polite. |
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I think you've not given them sufficient opportunity for you OP, unless you really hated the context. They can be uncomfortable please for single men and, like Fab, it can take time to get established. They may not be for you and each one is different, as aee events. |
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