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Having a conversation?
Has the ability to judge people on their initial profile picture ruined the ability for people to have a conversation and to get to know someone better?
Is it because people are always searching for the next best thing?
What's your average conversation length for chatting with people here on fab? |
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For me it's dependant on chemistry. I may have the odd kind and flattering message with no intention of conversation of meet, but Fortunately those I've spoken with, I've always met and there's been really good chemistry as our preferences and interests aligned on our profiles. |
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"For me it's dependant on chemistry. I may have the odd kind and flattering message with no intention of conversation of meet, but Fortunately those I've spoken with, I've always met and there's been really good chemistry as our preferences and interests aligned on our profiles. "
I agree there has to be the chemistry for a meet and I too have had some brilliant conversations that have turned into brilliant meets. Last couple of years, certainly here on fab, conversation seems to fizzle out so quickly. |
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"What's your average conversation length for chatting with people here on fab?"
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If I've understood your question correctly then for me it's several weeks (at best) to several months (better)...with a few simmering for nearly two years.
I'm a slow burn. |
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All depends on how we initially get on, some people the conversation just flows and it’s easy, but if I feel like the conversation is one sided I know when to back off and move on as I’m no longer the one they’re interested in |
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Sadly OP there are quite a few who do want a conversation… straight into the sex talk. But as I don’t offer insta-fuck these are swiftly deleted.
I do however have lots of different people I have proper conversations with here. |
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"What's your average conversation length for chatting with people here on fab?
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If I've understood your question correctly then for me it's several weeks (at best) to several months (better)...with a few simmering for nearly two years.
I'm a slow burn."
That's brilliant. I'm guessing that's not the norm though. It's usually 2 or 3 replies and you hear nothing more |
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"Sadly OP there are quite a few who do want a conversation… straight into the sex talk. But as I don’t offer insta-fuck these are swiftly deleted.
I do however have lots of different people I have proper conversations with here."
Ah I hear you too. I get it that the site leans to certain topics but it's not like you'd start that sort of conversation if you were first approaching someone socially. I treat the start of messages as if it was a first social meet encounter. |
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