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What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right???? |
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"I just ignore, I don’t add until we’ve spoken and I’m interested in keeping in touch
We wait until they are offline, accept, perve their FO pics then block  "
😆 I've seen people say that mamy times. 😆 |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
No fecker reads the profile, subsequently my blocked list is longer than the passenger list from the Titanic |
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The only reason for the friends request is more pics.
Without an initial conversation which confirms were compatible....it will be declined, and likely blocked.
Its always account with no fucking pics on their profile as well. |
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By *_Doe2024Man 5 weeks ago
Middle of nowhere, the centre of everywhere |
I don't send, not so I accept if there been no interaction between us.
I read and respect what people have listed on their profiles.
Even now there are people I chat with on here daily both on forums and by DM, but I still wouldn't dream of sending a friend request.
I think there would have to be some form of communication first, be it a phone call, cam chat or social.
But that's me. 😀
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I just ignore them. I've never sent one to someone I haven't been speaking to.
I used to get 3 or 4 a week from women who were competing on hotpics so they were working the numbers game.
I didn't accept any of them but someone told me not to delete them and that prevents them from sending another one. |
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By *olo180Man 5 weeks ago
Greater London |
"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
I always read a profile and respect the profile users wishes. Rude not too! |
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By *egnMaxCouple 5 weeks ago
Nottingham |
"The only reason for the friends request is more pics.
Without an initial conversation which confirms were compatible....it will be declined, and likely blocked.
Its always account with no fucking pics on their profile as well. "
Spot on 👍 |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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"The only reason for the friends request is more pics.
Without an initial conversation which confirms were compatible....it will be declined, and likely blocked.
Its always account with no fucking pics on their profile as well.
Spot on 👍 "
Couldn’t of put it much better myself |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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I've only got 1 friend on here, well 2 if you include myself. I can't ever recall getting a request, but if I did I'd welcome you to my little world with open arms 🫂 |
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By *hortieWoman 5 weeks ago
Northampton |
I couldn't give 2 shits if someone friend requests me. They can sit in the 'junk mail' pile like all the other take away menus, because when I fancy a dish, I will put the legwork in myself. Might rifle through the pile and find the amazing '2 x 9" for the price of one!!' ended 6 months ago.
Long way of saying no.. it doesn't bother me one bit 😁
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"What's your views on friend requests..."
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My view? I've been here over four years and only ever 'accumulated' a maximum of nine within my Friends List. They rarely reach double figures. And those are the solicited ones. Unsolicited ones never get a look in.
Those on my Friends List are usually already befriended on WhatsApp™ and/or Telegram™. |
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"I wait till they go offline, add them,look at their pics and delete again.
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I've also done this in the past. It's quite an amusing endeavour. "
It is, if I'm feeling cheeky, I sometimes fab a pic too  |
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"I wait till they go offline, add them,look at their pics and delete again.
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I've also done this in the past. It's quite an amusing endeavour.
It is, if I'm feeling cheeky, I sometimes fab a pic too "
 . Guilty of this |
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Apart from the obvious reason of them wishing to wank over the private pictures , I also think they do it so they know when one is online and active on fab, most get accepted, viewed and if not what I am looking for they get blocked. Some are keepers, but if no contact after a couple of months I just delete my entire friends list, all messages, winks and replies as it's either not the right time for us both or it's never going to get beyond wishful thinking on their side of things. Mx |
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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I find so many people are more interested in seeing my pics and vids then bothering to strike a conversation.
It’s rude and I leave the friend request so they can’t send another one.
An idiot called me “fake as fk” all because I wouldn’t give him access after exchanging two messages the retard. |
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"I find so many people are more interested in seeing my pics and vids then bothering to strike a conversation.
It’s rude and I leave the friend request so they can’t send another one.
An idiot called me “fake as fk” all because I wouldn’t give him access after exchanging two messages the retard. "
I call them the 'Neanderthals'. 😆 🤣 |
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"Apart from the obvious reason of them wishing to wank over the private pictures , I also think they do it so they know when one is online and active on fab, most get accepted, viewed and if not what I am looking for they get blocked. Some are keepers, but if no contact after a couple of months I just delete my entire friends list, all messages, winks and replies as it's either not the right time for us both or it's never going to get beyond wishful thinking on their side of things. Mx "
Spot on I do the same. |
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"Apart from the obvious reason of them wishing to wank over the private pictures , I also think they do it so they know when one is online and active on fab, most get accepted, viewed and if not what I am looking for they get blocked. Some are keepers, but if no contact after a couple of months I just delete my entire friends list, all messages, winks and replies as it's either not the right time for us both or it's never going to get beyond wishful thinking on their side of things. Mx "
Spot on I do the same. |
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"I find so many people are more interested in seeing my pics and vids then bothering to strike a conversation.
It’s rude and I leave the friend request so they can’t send another one.
An idiot called me “fake as fk” all because I wouldn’t give him access after exchanging two messages the retard. "
.Well done. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 5 weeks ago
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The trick is to just have photos of your feet in moth eaten holey socks, or blurry close ups of elbows, toes and earlobes in your friends only photos.
Odds are there's may be more interesting. 🤷♂️
*I still ignore them though. |
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"The trick is to just have photos of your feet in moth eaten holey socks, or blurry close ups of elbows, toes and earlobes in your friends only photos.
Odds are there's may be more interesting. 🤷♂️
*I still ignore them though. "
Cracking idea!! Genius!  |
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
If you haven't spoken before it is weird. But your latest pic is from 2022, maybe that's their rationale? |
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"The trick is to just have photos of your feet in moth eaten holey socks, or blurry close ups of elbows, toes and earlobes in your friends only photos.
Odds are there's may be more interesting. 🤷♂️
*I still ignore them though. "
There is always someone on this site who will enjoy that as a fetish. 🤣 |
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If it's random then it's straight to the block list.
If it's after exchanging only one or two messages it's straight to the block list.
I don't feed pic collectors.
If I'm asked "is it OK to send a friend request" I'll either say yes or to wait a while longer. |
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
I instantly delete them if there's been no previous contact. Even then I rarely add anyone. |
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
Maybe some people like long lists of friends so they get loads of fabs on photos?
Personally we only add people that we have met and even then I might have a clear out if we aren't meeting or chatting anymore.
I wouldn't say I find it rude, although it is on the profile, I just ignore them. |
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We used to have over 400 friends only pics - we deleted most of them.
We only accept people we’ve met in person - most requests we keep so they can’t request again. Some, we’ll wait until they are off-line, accept friends, check out their pics, fab some and then delete 
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By (user no longer on site) 5 weeks ago
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I'll only accept friend requests if I've been chatting to someone for a while and I always ask if it's alright to send someone a request before I do... as long as they have said it's alright |
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Well if I accept it's generally the last I hear from them because apart from one video of me wanking the other two are of me doing some horrendous dad dancing and the other one a very d*unk advert for pot noodle..😹 |
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"Its rude but easilly ignored.
We leave them there so they can't send another one."
This isn't the case. I have a couple who send me one after the same event. I never delete it thinking they can't send another. But every time, there it is.
I wouldn't mind but they've never spoken to me either online or in person.
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I never even look at them, why would I? I only accept requests from friends, which means we’re chatting and will discus it.
As for those who blatantly message to say they’ve sent a friends request because they’d love to see more I block. I don’t even tell them to fuck off beforehand nowadays, they’ve clearly no respect for me as a person, just more wank fodder. So, they don’t deserve my time or energy. |
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"I never even look at them, why would I? I only accept requests from friends, which means we’re chatting and will discus it.
As for those who blatantly message to say they’ve sent a friends request because they’d love to see more I block. I don’t even tell them to fuck off beforehand nowadays, they’ve clearly no respect for me as a person, just more wank fodder. So, they don’t deserve my time or energy. "
Well. At least I didn't get blocked........ yet  |
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By *istr3ssWoman 5 weeks ago
Stockton-on-Tees |
As far as I'm concerned those that send random request just want to see my other photos. And, since some have my face on them, these requested are deleted & the accounts blocked. I also state this on my profile, but as you said, no one bothers reading profiles |
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By *aizyWoman 5 weeks ago
west midlands |
"Well if I accept it's generally the last I hear from them because apart from one video of me wanking the other two are of me doing some horrendous dad dancing and the other one a very d*unk advert for pot noodle..😹"
I am tempted to friend request you now just so I can see the dancing and pot noodle ad! |
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"Well if I accept it's generally the last I hear from them because apart from one video of me wanking the other two are of me doing some horrendous dad dancing and the other one a very d*unk advert for pot noodle..😹
I am tempted to friend request you now just so I can see the dancing and pot noodle ad!"
I thought this but unable to view videos lol love a pot noodle tho |
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"Well if I accept it's generally the last I hear from them because apart from one video of me wanking the other two are of me doing some horrendous dad dancing and the other one a very d*unk advert for pot noodle..😹
I am tempted to friend request you now just so I can see the dancing and pot noodle ad!"
I've put them up on public for a bit ... enjoy...😹🤪😹 |
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"I just think it’s lazy if you’re interested in someone then just message them properly
Oh thank god, thought I was over reacting and being a drama queen "
Your not over reacting they should make an effort at least. If they find you that attractive they will give you time especially to decide if you click first |
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By *ustBoWoman 5 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
It doesn't bother me in the slightest. Mainly because I never look at friends requests. I just let them sit there that way they can't send more .
On here and life in general I tend to try to not get annoyed over things I cannot change.I don't see the point. |
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
they get binned because it shows they haven’t read my profile |
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
Wait until they're offline, accept
Nosy at the pictures - Delete. That's what I do |
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By *hiversMan 5 weeks ago
Dinas Powys |
As a single guy I don't get many, but it doesn't bother me. I'll look at the profile and judge whether to accept or not.
I won't send a request unless we've been chatting for a while or its specifically asked for though. |
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It's just bad etiquette and really not an endearing move (I've they are intrested in you beyond the picture hunting).
We don't add people as freinds unless we've met them in person or sometimes is there is credible plans to meet as a general rule. |
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By *aizyWoman 5 weeks ago
west midlands |
"Well if I accept it's generally the last I hear from them because apart from one video of me wanking the other two are of me doing some horrendous dad dancing and the other one a very d*unk advert for pot noodle..😹
I am tempted to friend request you now just so I can see the dancing and pot noodle ad!
I've put them up on public for a bit ... enjoy...😹🤪😹"
Why hasn't Pot Fucking Noodle picked up on that epic ad?? I'd buy one and I don't even like em! |
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
I used to think this. Until someone said that maybe it's the other way around.
They are sharing their stuff with me.
So I like them. I wait till they are offline, accept them, look at their stuff, then either message them or unfriend them.
Plus my friend photos are kinky... |
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"Well if I accept it's generally the last I hear from them because apart from one video of me wanking the other two are of me doing some horrendous dad dancing and the other one a very d*unk advert for pot noodle..😹
I am tempted to friend request you now just so I can see the dancing and pot noodle ad!
I've put them up on public for a bit ... enjoy...😹🤪😹
Why hasn't Pot Fucking Noodle picked up on that epic ad?? I'd buy one and I don't even like em!"
Ha ha... thanks... perhaps I should send it to pot noodle....I mean I'm a valued customer they should use the ad 😸 |
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????"
I think it’s odd tbh, if you’ve never interacted with someone how do you know enough to want to be friends?
Even if I’ve been chatting with people for a while I always ask if I can send a request and respect their reply |
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"What's your views on friend requests if not spoken before?
For me just rude?
Wanting more pics, porn sites for that.
My profile does state will potentially be blocked, but hey noone reads a profile these days right????
I think it’s odd tbh, if you’ve never interacted with someone how do you know enough to want to be friends?
Even if I’ve been chatting with people for a while I always ask if I can send a request and respect their reply"
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