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Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading |
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By *elloWoman 2 weeks ago
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"The trouble is though is that I am easy "
Lol me too, I'm big, and easy but also very picky and incredibly lazy
so given the option of spending hours shaving my tree trunk legs and getting ready Vs sitting on my bed in my vest and knickers eating custard creams guess which I'm going to pick  |
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"The trouble is though is that I am easy
Lol me too, I'm big, and easy but also very picky and incredibly lazy
so given the option of spending hours shaving my tree trunk legs and getting ready Vs sitting on my bed in my vest and knickers eating custard creams guess which I'm going to pick "
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Sorry to hear this OP. I love all shapes and sizes, so always have genuine meets. Sometimes it just ends up being social. I never expect! And certainly do not think any woman is desperate and easy. |
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By *r. MacMan 2 weeks ago
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
Baby your beautiful don't get put down by these cavemen I get gay guys saying how fat i am and they love it like I know I'm big but don't need you telling me
Ignore them darling your lucky your not in London (I would treat you so well and so wrong at the same time ) |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
100% agree with you on this |
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My wife's a big ol' gal, but she certainly isn't easy!
One of the most memorable things so_eone said after having sex with her was: "You're like fucking a lovely marshmallow, all warm and soft. Screwing my wife is like banging a slate-quarry, all cold, pointy and angular".  |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
I agree completely unfortunately |
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By *IXEN200Woman 2 weeks ago
newcastle upon tyne |
I've always felt men think as I'm bigger I'm desperate for sex but since joining fab I've discovered genuine men who like a woman with curves, it's taken me a good few years to be comfortable in my skin, and if nobody is prepared to look beyond my outer cover then they can jog on. |
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By *r. MacMan 2 weeks ago
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The bigger the woman the more the man needs to love her they are all beautiful I think they are stunning and sexy I love when a bbw sits on my face it's juicier and also feels better when she takes it xx |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
For me, it’s all about the curves… bloody love the fuller body shape, all shapes that there are 🥵 |
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It’s all about the BBW for me, big thighs, big bums, big bellies, big boobs and big personalities. Absolutely just love them and definitely not ashamed to be seen with one and definitely not easy either!! |
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"A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends "
End of the day in my opinion however a woman)guy looks they could have the most ugliest personality ever now that puts me off |
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"A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends
End of the day in my opinion however a woman)guy looks they could have the most ugliest personality ever now that puts me off "
Absolutely agree you have to at least like so_eone as a person |
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"A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends
End of the day in my opinion however a woman)guy looks they could have the most ugliest personality ever now that puts me off
Absolutely agree you have to at least like so_eone as a person "
I get there's gotta be an attraction by ut yeah personality is a big thing for me  |
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"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!
Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x"
I like to think so |
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By *r. MacMan 2 weeks ago
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"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!
Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x
I like to think so "
Self respect is important but in the heat of the moment we're animals and need to be primal and love it |
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"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!
Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x
I like to think so "
can tell you do x |
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"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!
Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x
I like to think so "
Each always their own xx
Never be judgemental tho xx |
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"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!
Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x
I like to think so
can tell you do x"
My profile name gives it away |
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"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!
Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x
I like to think so
can tell you do x
My profile name gives it away "
Besides that just seem a classy lady x |
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"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!
Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x
I like to think so
can tell you do x
My profile name gives it away
Besides that just seem a classy lady x"
Ah thank you ☺️ |
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"I guess everyone is here to get their bits wet in one form or another and I suppose some are less selective how and where they get them wet!
Agreed but also self respect is a good thing too x
I like to think so
can tell you do x
My profile name gives it away
Besides that just seem a classy lady x
Ah thank you ☺️"
You're welcome anytime plus think you could teach me a thing or two also x  |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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I'm not a BBW, I am fat though. And yep, sometimes it's painfully clear that they aren't actually attracted to me. Not my body.
Little things.
Overtly sexual, degrading messages.
Only describing slim women as beautiful.
Not wanting to go out with you, boasts about going with slim women and how they are so hot. It's that not being seen in public thing.
Their forum posts - if they're fond of commenting on how much they love petite/slim women. Maybe the odd post about bigger women because they don't want to appear biased. It's performative bollocks.
All that being typed, some men are genuinely attracted to bigger women. Not in a this is my fetish, take it b*tch way. More in a see different body shapes and sizes attractive. I like those men. The ones that make me feel desired, not orifices waiting to be plugged.
Don't give up hope OP. Get your filters on and message men first.  |
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By *sWyldWoman 2 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I can understand why you might feel like this.
Let's be honest 'the real world ' very often makes us feel less than ideal. My own dating history has always led me to think I'm ok for fun but never the one they pick long term.
However I've found my experiences here to be very genuine, chemistry is undeniable and mutual attraction has absolutely been there.
Anyone thats ever met me will also know I'm far from desperate or an easy target.
Of course there will often be people on here who are desperate, who will say anything or who genuinely do believe any hole is a goal. You can spot them pretty quickly.
As so_eone who lacks confidence, is full of doubt and has imposter syndrome, I know it can be hard here but its also very much proved to be worth my effort.
You just need to find what works for you.
Embrace the compliments, Embrace the attention and never ever lower your own standards. |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
For me, this is a conclusion that only so_eone who is unhappy with their size would jump to.
Men here want sex. Women here want sex.
If a man messages me about meeting , my first thought is , ' he wants sex' ..... and that's no shock given the site i'm on.
I've never thought ... he thinks I will shag him cos :- i'm easy, older, fat , desperate, lacking in morals or self respect etc .... MAINLY because I don't see myself that way and don't try to be a mind reader and imagine I know what the bloke is thinking.
It's a straight yes or no from me not hours , days and weeks of self doubt and torment. |
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I once went into a pub and I thought .... you've only let me in here cos you think I'll buy a drink.
What's worse is , I found out the man who cleans my windows does it for money.... i'm heartbroken I really thought he loved my windows. |
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A lot of men are attracted to bigger women. I got a lot of 'comments' from men when I lost a lot of weight as they preferred me bigger. Some men will sleep with anyone, some have a size preference and some just don't care as long as they are attracted to the person. It doesn't matter the reasons, the only thing that matters is avoiding the ones who clearly view you that way. Its pretty obvious the ones that do with their comments, tone and attitude towards women. It can be hard to filter them out but dont discount the ones that are genuinely attracted to bigger girls, there are good guys on the scene. |
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"I'm not a BBW, I am fat though. And yep, sometimes it's painfully clear that they aren't actually attracted to me. Not my body.
Little things.
Overtly sexual, degrading messages.
Only describing slim women as beautiful.
Not wanting to go out with you, boasts about going with slim women and how they are so hot. It's that not being seen in public thing.
Their forum posts - if they're fond of commenting on how much they love petite/slim women. Maybe the odd post about bigger women because they don't want to appear biased. It's performative bollocks.
All that being typed, some men are genuinely attracted to bigger women. Not in a this is my fetish, take it b*tch way. More in a see different body shapes and sizes attractive. I like those men. The ones that make me feel desired, not orifices waiting to be plugged.
Don't give up hope OP. Get your filters on and message men first. "
Meli, I now feel like I should apologise for most of those men out there treat some like this. |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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"Meli, I now feel like I should apologise for most of those men out there treat some like this. "
No, you shouldn't. At all. I'd say (estimating wildly here) that 99.2% of interactions with men from here are wonderful. We're not always compatible but they don't send degrading messages.
Even if they did... don't apologise for another's behaviour. There's no need to.
OP, I hope that you don't receive any more degrading messages. No one should, regardless* of why they're on the site.
*there's probably an exception but it's early. |
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"Meli, I now feel like I should apologise for most of those men out there treat some like this.
No, you shouldn't. At all. I'd say (estimating wildly here) that 99.2% of interactions with men from here are wonderful. We're not always compatible but they don't send degrading messages.
Even if they did... don't apologise for another's behaviour. There's no need to.
OP, I hope that you don't receive any more degrading messages. No one should, regardless* of why they're on the site.
*there's probably an exception but it's early. "
I agree with you there are some genuine lads out there that do like bigger girls and they show it! I’m getting a lot lately that make me feel like I should be grateful they even messaging me never mind want to fuck me. I am picky I have respect for myself just getting to a point after been on and off here for years might be time to come off altogether and it’s happening more and more now |
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"Meli, I now feel like I should apologise for most of those men out there treat some like this.
No, you shouldn't. At all. I'd say (estimating wildly here) that 99.2% of interactions with men from here are wonderful. We're not always compatible but they don't send degrading messages.
Even if they did... don't apologise for another's behaviour. There's no need to.
OP, I hope that you don't receive any more degrading messages. No one should, regardless* of why they're on the site.
*there's probably an exception but it's early. "
Well Meli, I would certainly hope that I got into the 99.2% (approx) as I have received some less than flattering messages.
Agreed we are all here looking for fun and a connection so being disrespectful or thinking some are easy because of a physical feature is wrong on so many levels and a massive red flag. |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
Yes. Now I don’t class myself as a BBW but I do think of myself as curvy. The amount of guys who assume because I am on a site like this and a little bigger that I am going to be an easy fuck is unbelievable. Even those self confessed “nice/good/polite guys” (we all know what this means) send some rather unpleasant messages.
They soon realise they were very very mistaken.
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By *a LunaWoman 2 weeks ago
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I think you could take that opinion about all women on here, not just us bigger ladies.
Fact is, most men like an easy lay. No drama, no chasing, no extended effort, no complex emotions. The men and women on here are usually looking for totally different things. Women usually want to feel desired, Validated, Emotional connection.
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By *a LunaWoman 2 weeks ago
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"I love to see a fuller figured woman, turns me on no end.
Skinny does nothing for me as much as a lovely woman with curves
Being a masseuse, I'm a hands on type of guy "
Curves aren’t predominantly for fuller figured ladies though. Look at Salma Hayek in From Dusk till Dawn. Slim AND curvy. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 2 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
Can usually tell if they’re faking attraction just because they want to get laid
Then on the flip side there are those who fetishise it and I’ve no time for a man who only wants me because I’m chunky either |
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Yes some men genuinely love bbw women. I know it can be a bit exhausting on here finding a man whose actually genuinely interested but they do exist.
There seem to be more guys now who want to meet to fuck and somehow magically expect you to drop everything for them but you can just delete them and move on.
If they're willing to take time talking to you, are consistent and are willing to meet for a social then they are the ones I would concentrate on.
The ones that want your pics immediately or live far away are best left there.
If it really gets you down take a break from here and see if things improve when you come back. It can be really hard to find the right people on here that's for sure. |
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"I'm not a BBW, I am fat though. And yep, sometimes it's painfully clear that they aren't actually attracted to me."
I'm not tall, but I'm not a primordial dwarf either. It's always painfully clear that I'm not their type.
"Only describing slim women as beautiful."
Never describing average-height men as handsome or covetable.
"Their forum posts - if they're fond of commenting on how much they love petite/slim women."
I'm proud of my average-sized cock but I only hear about the penchants of well endowment phalluses. I don't think I've ever seen anyone eulogise those who aren't VWE.
I always pay homage to petite women and will continue to do so without compunction. Perhaps it's my way to relate to their diminutive nature...? Most of the women I've met have been anything but petite, curvy in fact. I seek the women of substance. I don't seek their shape. Whatever transpires, transpires. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 2 weeks ago
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"Can usually tell if they’re faking attraction just because they want to get laid
Then on the flip side there are those who fetishise it and I’ve no time for a man who only wants me because I’m chunky either "
This! 👌👌
I haven't seen it for a while (thank god) but a long time ago it wasn't uncommon to see comments in the forums about wanting to 'try a BBW' in the same vein as some threads about age/race/nationality/a.n.other physical characteristic, as if it was a case of ticking something off a list.
We've been approached on the couples profile before by men whose galleries are chock a block with pictures of them with slim women and whose verifications are somewhat lacking with feedback from anyone larger than a size 10. Equally there's been messages that overplay some kind of interest and borderline fetish for larger women.
Both tend to get ignored. We're interested in people who like people. Not those that think a bit of false flattery will get them a meet or who appear to be casting the net wider because they arent having any luck with the kind of people they'd usually go for.
It's why we mainly prefer face to face contact in clubs and will always have a social before any private meet. |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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"I'm not a BBW, I am fat though. And yep, sometimes it's painfully clear that they aren't actually attracted to me.
I'm not tall, but I'm not a primordial dwarf either. It's always painfully clear that I'm not their type. " Unnecessary. I'm saying that I although I don't agree with the label, I'm still one of the Bs in BBW so can relate.
I'm not talking about types.
It's not about you.
"Only describing slim women as beautiful.
Never describing average-height men as handsome or covetable. " Utter bollocks. One of the most beautiful men I've met on here is not only about my height but also younger than me. I was talking about specific examples, not generalising nonsense.
I'm not saying all men do it. As on a later post, I've said 99.2% of my interactions are delightful.
Do you know what some men do? Call them bitches when they're unhappy with their response. That's not delightful. Alas. I won't say that's not about you.
" Their forum posts - if they're fond of commenting on how much they love petite/slim women.
I'm proud of my average-sized cock but I only hear about the penchants of well endowment phalluses. I don't think I've ever seen anyone eulogise those who aren't VWE. "
It's really weird how you've taken apart my post and made it about you. It's not. At all.
You might not have seen them. I have. I frequently see women say they like average sized cocks. Their ideal length being... average.
Whataboutery from a man who describes women as bitches isn't surprising I guess. |
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I think some men are desperate & will message everyone around, if there's a chance of sex.
I don't think it's due to your size, unless that's been mentioned or they're using derogatory language.
I'm large and I've never been made to feel I'd be an easy lay because of it or desperate etc.
Lots of men love bigger women on here, maybe use some filters op, so you don't get as much mail & look for men you like the look of. |
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By *palOwlWoman 2 weeks ago
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Yes!
Some think because you are bigger you are desperate for attention and should be grateful that they have offered to 'destroy' you.
The amount of 'you're a fat whore' or similar when I either haven't replied or have said no thanks is unbelievable. |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
I always think this  |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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I hate that some men have made woman think this way. I have never thought bbw woman are and easier lay. I think thats down right shocking that some men think that. To all bbw woman, we are not all like that  |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
I am genuinely attracted to bigger ladies have been all my life..I turned off by skinny |
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"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️"
It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.
That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company
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By *vaRoseWoman 2 weeks ago
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"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️
It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.
That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company
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Granny is this when we get called “Bubbly”? |
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"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️
It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.
That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company
Granny is this when we get called “Bubbly”?"
Haha made me chuckle |
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"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️
It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.
That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company
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Bollocks. I'm a size 28 and a right cunt 😂 |
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"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️
It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.
That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company
Bollocks. I'm a size 28 and a right cunt 😂"
God I would just love you sitting on my face |
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I don't think that at all, for me bbw curves are beautiful, the soft skin to skin contact, exploring and touching, generally making that person feel wanted and not just an easy lay.
I really do not like how men make you feel your easy. You are a person too, and deserve to be treated with respect. |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"A chap I know admitted that he finds curvier women more attractive but tends to pick arm candy to show off to friends "
I think I stopped caring about what people think a long time ago, they have only ever restricted me from what I want, who cares what they think  |
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"Love a Bigger woman, feel like there more genuine and can have a laugh with 😊 and good to look at 🥵 I love and appreciate a BBW☺️
It's common knowledge that for every pound a person is overweight they become a nicer person, more genuine , more rounded ( no pun ) and all round more decent. Weight has precisely the same effect on a persons sense of humour too each ounce more makes us giggle n titter.
That's why all the people on a diet are miserable and piss poor company
Bollocks. I'm a size 28 and a right cunt 😂
God I would just love you sitting on my face "
Washing my hair hun sorry ❤️ |
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I’m a bigger fella .. maybe I’d be a BHM (hairy or handsome… definitely the former)
I love the fuller figured lady purely because I don’t feel they’re lost with me and also I think they appreciate who they are and embrace it, I find that sexier than anything else.  |
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By *eys00Man 2 weeks ago
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"If you're worried about what others would think about you dating a more voluptuous lady. You're hanging round the wrong people"
Username checks out! 😂😂 But you’re right of course. My preference has never been for slim ladies, but some of my friends do prefer that. Nobody has ever been judged for it and the idea that they would be is pretty immature |
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I have this thought all the time, but I suffer from imposter syndrome at work and find it does tend to creep into my sex life and appearance etc.
A guy can compliment me until he's blue in the face but sometimes I just can't hear it.
I'll convince myself there's a dozen other reasons he's approaching me rather than it simply be that he's into me.
Sometimes I have to tell myself, it's swinging, it's not that deep. Try and enjoy yourself.
No regrets and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"If you're worried about what others would think about you dating a more voluptuous lady. You're hanging round the wrong people"
Yeah this, worring too much about what other people think, fuck em |
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By (user no longer on site) 2 weeks ago
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"If you're worried about what others would think about you dating a more voluptuous lady. You're hanging round the wrong people
Username checks out! 😂😂 But you’re right of course. My preference has never been for slim ladies, but some of my friends do prefer that. Nobody has ever been judged for it and the idea that they would be is pretty immature "
I've actually been with slim girls before and thought, I wish her bum was a bit bigger  |
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"I wonder how many would date a bigger girl?
Date? Yes.
Marry? Yes.
Show her off in public because shes amazing? Also yes."
All of the above, I was married to a BBW whom I met through the scene, and I just loved the attention she received at clubs back then
Would I do the above again? Hell yeah... would I get married again... hell no, I like having my own space
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Genuine lover of BBW.
in the words of one of my fav bands.(that also gives my age away)
And the anorexic chicks, that model six.
They don't hold no weight with me.
Well eight or nine, well that's just fine
But I like to hold something I can see!! |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
As so_eone who's had quite a bit of experience with BBWs (outside of fab), they aren't as "easy" as is presumed. I think it's because they often think that other people think they are easy so they might put in extra effort to be "not easy"
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"The trouble is though is that I am easy
Lol me too, I'm big, and easy but also very picky and incredibly lazy
so given the option of spending hours shaving my tree trunk legs and getting ready Vs sitting on my bed in my vest and knickers eating custard creams guess which I'm going to pick " I don’t mind Either way |
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"Does any other bbw feel sometimes lads just think they easy targets for quick fucks or actually think they are liked for been big? Starting to have more men message thinking I’ll be an easy fuck getting degrading "
I think it's the same with age and bbw...it can really start to repulse me! |
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