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I recently watched an interesting video about the number of problems caused in marriage by the fact that men's and women's sexual desire and sexual arousal often works differently and many men struggling to understand how it works differently for women. It got me thinking and I'm curious. So men, what was your biggest lesson or learning curve when it comes to understanding women's sexual desire and arousal? |
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By *LiamMan 4 weeks ago
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"I recently watched an interesting video about the number of problems caused in marriage by the fact that men's and women's sexual desire and sexual arousal often works differently and many men struggling to understand how it works differently for women. It got me thinking and I'm curious. So men, what was your biggest lesson or learning curve when it comes to understanding women's sexual desire and arousal?"
That I only get spoken to, one week out of every 4  |
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"I recently watched an interesting video about the number of problems caused in marriage by the fact that men's and women's sexual desire and sexual arousal often works differently and many men struggling to understand how it works differently for women. It got me thinking and I'm curious. So men, what was your biggest lesson or learning curve when it comes to understanding women's sexual desire and arousal?
That I only get spoken to, one week out of every 4 "
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By *agic.MMan 4 weeks ago
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"I recently watched an interesting video about the number of problems caused in marriage by the fact that men's and women's sexual desire and sexual arousal often works differently and many men struggling to understand how it works differently for women. It got me thinking and I'm curious. So men, what was your biggest lesson or learning curve when it comes to understanding women's sexual desire and arousal?"
...women's sexual desire is as different to eachother as it is to men. It's more complex than rocket science, and you have to be a very high IQ person to understand that complexity 👀.. |
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By *c85Man 4 weeks ago
Dublin |
I hate to generalize so I just say these things based on the people I’ve known and the experiences I’ve had. It seems to me that the majority of men are pretty simple. Many tend to be visually aroused. And a lot of the same basic things turn on a very high percentage of men. It seems that if you asked 10 random men on the street what turns them on you’d get like 2-3 basic answers. I believe that women tend to be more nuanced. It seems if you asked 10 women the same question you could get 7-8 different answers. And the answers would likely be more specific.
It’s something I really like about the Fab world because you learn to appreciate attractions and arousals that you would have maybe never thought of if you hadn’t opened your mind to new experiences.
But I also think it’s hard for a lot of guys to wrap their brains around the fact that most girls don’t want a surprise picture of a strangers dick. Because almost every single straight guy here would love a surprise nude picture from a strange girl in their inbox. |
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By *c85Man 4 weeks ago
Dublin |
"Top tip... there are 5 love language's and they all count as foreplay "
Great suggestion. But remember, learn the preferred language of the person you’re trying to show your love to. It helps a lot. |
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By *c85Man 4 weeks ago
Dublin |
"I've learnt that some real odd things can arouse Mrs C from simple things I do with out even knowing. "
Yeah like cooking. I would never be turned on by a girl cooking for me. But woman I’ve known seem to love it when I cook. Funny how diy we are. |
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Just how "mental" it is for women. Doesn't matter how in awe of her beauty you are, doesn't matter if she looks like a super model or a sack of potatoes, it's all about how sexy and confident she FEELS and there's not much any external input can do about it, it has to come from within |
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You are right, we are both different, and not all women are the same.
^thats what I’ve learned.
Some women I can turn on with words and certain things I do could make her pay attention. 😏
But the biggest learning curve was many years ago when I became aware of her moods. Like mine, a woman would have to be in a good place in her mind to find my efforts worthwhile. So, if she’s not there I would probably do my best to get her in the mood.
Flashing my cock usually does the trick.  |
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I think it works both ways, women struggle to understand mens arousal too. We tend to jump to self blame, insecurities or negativity when a man doesn't want or can't have sex. I do think there's more of a pressure on the man's side to perform too.
I understand that men struggle to figure us out but sometimes we struggle to appreciate their side of it. |
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"I think it works both ways, women struggle to understand mens arousal too. We tend to jump to self blame, insecurities or negativity when a man doesn't want or can't have sex. I do think there's more of a pressure on the man's side to perform too.
Was just thinking the same, its definitely a 2 way street
I understand that men struggle to figure us out but sometimes we struggle to appreciate their side of it."
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