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By *appy-go- lucky OP   Man 47 weeks ago

pothole city

Met a woman on here and we got on well. (Or so i thought). We both left good verifications for each other, Carried on chatting for a couple more weeks and was in process of arranging another meet then out of the blue, i was blocked.

Anyone else had similar?

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By *hunky GentMan 47 weeks ago

Bedford

Mate - you can blocked here for anything and nothing.

Over the years I think I've heard every reason why plus some.

Or you can do is accept it and move on.

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By *bi HaiveMan 47 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Met a woman on here and we got on well. (Or so i thought). We both left good verifications for each other, Carried on chatting for a couple more weeks and was in process of arranging another meet then out of the blue, i was blocked.

Anyone else had similar?"

Nope.

But she'll have had a reason. You just won't know what it was. And no point second guessing.

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By *issilia AmoriWoman 47 weeks ago

North Welsh Borders

Did she block or was her account suspended maybe?

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By *hunky GentMan 47 weeks ago

Bedford


"Did she block or was her account suspended maybe?"

Good thinking batgirl.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple 47 weeks ago

Round the bend

We did this to someone quite recently. It was after we saw the 'meet now' status on his profile. Not our kinda people.

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By *exxyyDy11Man 47 weeks ago

North West


"Met a woman on here and we got on well. (Or so i thought). We both left good verifications for each other, Carried on chatting for a couple more weeks and was in process of arranging another meet then out of the blue, i was blocked.

Anyone else had similar?

Nope.

But she'll have had a reason. You just won't know what it was. And no point second guessing. "

Exactly this. Otherwise you'll end up losing your mind thinking about it.

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By *eroLondonMan 47 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's a compliment dear fellow. Once she met you no one would compare. She had reached the pinnacle.

The logical thing to do was to block, lest live with the constant reminder of not being able to better it.

Remember the bonk, forgot the block.

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By *appy-go- lucky OP   Man 47 weeks ago

pothole city


"Did she block or was her account suspended maybe?"

Definitely blocked.

Oh well onwards and upwards.

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By *exxyyDy11Man 47 weeks ago

North West

How weird is that. People are strange. Onwards and upwards though OP.

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By *hunky GentMan 47 weeks ago

Bedford


"Did she block or was her account suspended maybe?

Definitely blocked.

Oh well onwards and upwards. "

In an ideal world, it would be nice if they explained their reasons why, but the world isn't ideal.

Hugs

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By *dventurousTraveller69Man 47 weeks ago

oxfordshire

The block tends to come once they see the face …

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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago

You did well

I get the block before the meet

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By *emenLover111Man 47 weeks ago

Sheffield (East Midlands)


"Met a woman on here and we got on well. (Or so i thought). We both left good verifications for each other, Carried on chatting for a couple more weeks and was in process of arranging another meet then out of the blue, i was blocked.

Anyone else had similar?"

Perhaps they hit the block button by mistake when replying to your message, as it's next to the send button. I've accidentally blocked people before, then duly unblocked them when I've realised.

Either that or you got her pregnant! (Joke).

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By *issmorganWoman 47 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe she changed her mind or life got in the way op. I know it's not great and leaves you wondering etc.

In an ideal World people would tell you before they blocked. I do it for allsorts of reasons, but usually before it gets to a meet stage.

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By *exxyyDy11Man 47 weeks ago

North West

I personally think it is a dick move to block someone especially after meeting. Just be open and honest.

Different scenario if you haven't met, but blocking after meeting isn't nice at all.

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By *ackformore100Man 47 weeks ago

Tin town


"Met a woman on here and we got on well. (Or so i thought). We both left good verifications for each other, Carried on chatting for a couple more weeks and was in process of arranging another meet then out of the blue, i was blocked.

Anyone else had similar?"

Next.

Don't waste any energy or thought on it. People's behaviours in this space can be very different to what you might think normal pleasantries.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan 47 weeks ago

In fair Verona.


"We did this to someone quite recently. It was after we saw the 'meet now' status on his profile. Not our kinda people."

I’ve just put this status up.

If the feature is there, I’m gonna use it. 😅

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan 47 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs and London


"Mate - you can blocked here for anything and nothing.

Over the years I think I've heard every reason why plus some.

Or you can do is accept it and move on. "

Spot on Chunky!

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple 47 weeks ago

Round the bend


"We did this to someone quite recently. It was after we saw the 'meet now' status on his profile. Not our kinda people.

I’ve just put this status up.

If the feature is there, I’m gonna use it. 😅"

Why not. I hope it works for you and you have a fun evening 🙂

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By *aron Van WinkleMan 47 weeks ago

In fair Verona.


"We did this to someone quite recently. It was after we saw the 'meet now' status on his profile. Not our kinda people.

I’ve just put this status up.

If the feature is there, I’m gonna use it. 😅

Why not. I hope it works for you and you have a fun evening 🙂"

Between you and I, I can see nothing happening from it. 😅

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By *hunky GentMan 47 weeks ago

Bedford


"We did this to someone quite recently. It was after we saw the 'meet now' status on his profile. Not our kinda people.

I’ve just put this status up.

If the feature is there, I’m gonna use it. 😅

Why not. I hope it works for you and you have a fun evening 🙂

Between you and I, I can see nothing happening from it. 😅"

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple 47 weeks ago

Leicester

Forget about it and move on. You got to have your end away regardless! It is what it is...

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By *eliWoman 47 weeks ago

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Erm... I’ve been the person who has blocked another. Try not to out of the blue.

Something happened. Whatever it was, it's good it's now rather than later. It's also a bit crap, losing a connection can sting a little. Hope it's not got you down OP.

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By *appy-go- lucky OP   Man 46 weeks ago

pothole city


"Erm... I’ve been the person who has blocked another. Try not to out of the blue.

Something happened. Whatever it was, it's good it's now rather than later. It's also a bit crap, losing a connection can sting a little. Hope it's not got you down OP. "

It knocked me back a bit, but it is what it is.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple 46 weeks ago

wonderland.


"Did she block or was her account suspended maybe?

Definitely blocked.

Oh well onwards and upwards. "

it looks the same to you if the account is suspended

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple 46 weeks ago

wonderland.


"We did this to someone quite recently. It was after we saw the 'meet now' status on his profile. Not our kinda people."

Im curious as to why that made a difference. Its a genuinely new one on me

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By *agic.MMan 46 weeks ago

Kent/London

This is the perfect time to use one of those gender reverse cards and say...her husband found out? 👀

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