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Lies in verifications
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"I don't verify sex at all.
I just verify that people have turned up and are who they claim to be.
Anything else and I wouldn't verify them at all. "
And that's what the verification should be about. It's a TripAdvisor review.
Also, OP, I don't think many people would publish bad reviews. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 45 weeks ago
Cheeseville, Somerset |
I don't verify anyone where I haven't enjoyed their company, but that only relates to social events and clubs.
I don't meet anyone unless I know in advance it'll be an enjoyable experience. That's established by good communication and in 99% of cases one or more social meets before anything 'naked'.
There have been people that I've changed my opinion of some time after meeting them. But that doesn't change or invalidate any veri I've left them in the past - why would it? It's a statement in relation to a specific time period or event, so if feelings and opinions change some time later it doesn't change how you felt at that particular time. And if there was a serious need to remove any connection and thus the veri? There's always the block button to do just that. |
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"I don't write verifications, nor do I want any. They are a load of nonsense, I don't want to know what you got up to, who with or when, why would I?🤮"
Be quiet you and take a number like everybody else.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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Verifications are important, they’re almost like a CV
And a truthful verification is paramount.
The reason that people are on this platform is so that they have an idea of who they would like to have consensual sex with and a verification is so important
Long may it continue
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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago
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And…. Secondly.
I don’t quite understand what a WebCam verification stands for
That seems to dilute the whole aspect of meeting
Just my thought on this subject right now!
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"And…. Secondly.
I don’t quite understand what a WebCam verification stands for
That seems to dilute the whole aspect of meeting
Just my thought on this subject right now!
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I suppose they can verify that they look like their profile picture at least 🤷🏼♀️ |
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"I don't write verifications, nor do I want any. They are a load of nonsense, I don't want to know what you got up to, who with or when, why would I?🤮so why display one on your profile? Xxx"
Not that I have to answer to you,... but to prove I am a real person. That's it. |
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I verify people to be who they say that they are and also reliability.
It's not a sex review service.
I'm grateful for others who have verified the people I've chosen to meet, based on their input |
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Some choose to play up to the fab'ristocrisy nonsense. Veris are how they climb the dick ladder.
Mines bigger than yours.
I swing better than you.
My dick's gold plated.
My fanny sucks like a dyson.
You get the picture.
10 stars and you get a free ticket to the naughty step 🤠💫💦 |
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I have seen lots of lies in verifications though.
I have seen some written by women I used to chat to who advised me not to meet these hideous, horrendous and dangerous women who should have their children taken away because of what they got up to on here and how they were involved in so many man hating chat groups. Apparently they were the reason so many good men had left the site.
Then a few weeks or months later they were verifying these horrible women as the salt of the earth and the most amazing friends anyone could ever want.
For that reason I wouldn't trust any verifications written by those people. |
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"Verifications are useful to know the person is real and shows up for meets. The content is private IMHO so I don't display mine"
I don’t verify, unless asked, those whom I have had meaningful experiences with, a long term friendship.
Those really important relationships can’t be summarised in a few words for the review of others. |
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Verifications are one of the key features of Fabswingers for me personally - I don’t put too much energy into unverified couples / singles messaging me and Cam or Social Verifications aren’t worth much. Cam verifications shouldn’t even be a thing - so what if someone saw you tugging on your dick in front of a phone or sat at a computer with a tit out. |
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I dont verify unless asked to. I have probably given mixed verifications in the past, some will have been just about the person and how genuine they were etc, some will have gone a bit further, but nothing too graphic. |
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"I’m yet to have any verifications and it’s a difficult place without them - women won’t meet as I don’t have any verifications (fair enough) but I can’t get a verification without a meet  "
There are ways you can get verifications without one to one meets - there are loads of threads in the forum giving advice on this. |
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Despite us stuffing some dreadful meetings we decided there was little point in writing a negative verification as people can hide them so it just looks just like another meeting
The very worst people we highlight with an update |
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For me a verification is about simply verifying the person turned up and were who/what they claim to be on their profile. That's the premise for any veris I give.
If people want to flower up their veris that's up to them, and honestly I think it's become a bit over the top with the amount of detail many people put into them, but hey, each to their own! |
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By *xx0123Man 45 weeks ago
nottingham |
"I’m yet to have any verifications and it’s a difficult place without them - women won’t meet as I don’t have any verifications (fair enough) but I can’t get a verification without a meet
There are ways you can get verifications without one to one meets - there are loads of threads in the forum giving advice on this. "
Thank you  I will make sure to check those threads out and take the advice. |
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"A man told me he verified a 'lazy' woman just so he could get a veri back. Another man told me that men contact women's veris to discuss women behind their backs."
I've never been contacted by anyone about any of my verifications but I've had other women contact them directly asking for my name and personal details.
Most have refused but at least one person I've met and verified has passed on my details to others because complete strangers have approached me at group socials knowing my name and saying they recognised me from the face pics they had been given.
I've also had a woman contact some of my verifications asking them to convince me to contact her because she was outside my age filters and when that was refused she started a forum thread in the hope it might catch my eye.
One of my fab friends had also had other women contacting her verifications asking for her personal details that they could use in the chat groups they were running. |
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The people I’ve met and had sex with have never been shit so haven’t had to lie. I choose wisely who I meet, we learn before hand want kinks we like and build up anticipation and it’s always works. This is why I don’t do “meet now” or just randoms |
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