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What's your trifecta perfecta?
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• feeling emotionally safe
• feeling physically safe
• sexual chemistry and connection
'Maslow' would call the first two hygiene factors, or fundamentals. Without them, you’re not in a relationship — you’re just managing stress with occasional cuddles.
But the real match? That’s rarer.
It’s someone curious — about the world, themselves, and me. Someone I can laugh with; dry, dark humour preferred.
Someone who is authentic and genuine - who doesn’t need noise or fuss. Kind in the quiet ways — to dogs, waiters, and their own past.
And yes, chemistry. That unspoken pull — the way even their scent feels like home.
Not a clone. Just someone who challenges me, steadies me, and makes me better — without ever needing to say so. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 45 weeks ago
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Affinity - Where you’re ok the same level in terms of chemistry, compatibility and emotional availability.
Reliability - that feeling of security and safety when they’re consistent and grounded
Passion - the mutual craving for each other, desire and lust mixed with hunger and heat
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"If only there were such a thing as perfect."
There's an aspirational ideal match.
You don't have to be perfect to be a perfectly imperfect match 🫶
I love people's idiosyncrasies and individuality |
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"My three
Feeling emotionally trusted
Physical attraction
An open inquisitive mind
To be fair, these often lead to chemistry but its not there to begin with, get to know someone."
You can definitely build connection. It's not always there from day1 |
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