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It depends on the person and the severity of what they did.
I will say Most time I’ve gave second chances I’ve ended up regretting it.
I have friends I still remain friends with but will never do anything for them ever again, others I refuse to ever be in their presence for the rest of my life |
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Depends on the circumstances.
In real life, if someone's made a genuine mistake? Yes.
If someone's done something willingly towards you? No.
On here? No. Nor would I want a woman to give me a second chance here. I want to be a choice, not an option. |
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I always give the benefit of doubt, sometimes I think "have I been too soft?" After all, we are human and mistakes are always made. However... I do have a line that is not to be crossed and if it is... I'll cut you off! Simple. As easy as getting a hair cut!😑 |
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Depends on the person and situation but it's never really a true second chance.
They won't be trusted the same again or I won't open up the same or it's a different level of banter.
If they mess that up then I'm pretty brutal and I'm done. Never gone back from it yet and never will. |
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It depends on the circumstances.
On here, I have done if I've felt they were being truthful, but left it to them to get back in touch an organised something else.
If I think they're messing me about, then no.
I'm more lenient in real life with friends and people I know well.
But it does depend what's happened really. |
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"One of the best quotes I've ever heard is 'It's better to give twenty men once chance then one man twenty chances'. Having tried giving second chances I now live by this quote x"
Oh I like that saying.....now where are the 20 guys 🤔🤔 |
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It would depend entirely on the person and what the first chance involved.
If it's fab related then it's a definite no because my experience has taught me that some people have an expectation of a second chance and enjoy manipulating others.
If you use me as your plan B you'll never be my plan A. |
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"One of the best quotes I've ever heard is 'It's better to give twenty men once chance then one man twenty chances'. Having tried giving second chances I now live by this quote x"
That is a good quote |
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I don't think you can answer this question without the word "depend" figuring in it.
So, yes, it really depends on the person, the context and the outcome - whether that's favourable or a detriment to me...and them. |
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