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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you? |
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?"
I would have hopped the barrier and took away his wheels, but total respect to Semenyo for handling it the correct way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?
I would have hopped the barrier and took away his wheels, but total respect to Semenyo for handling it the correct way."
Same |
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?
I would have hopped the barrier and took away his wheels, but total respect to Semenyo for handling it the correct way.
Same "
🤣 I have no time for being the bigger person. If they go low, i'm going lower |
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The younger me would have reacted which is what the person wanted etc but now I'm a bit meh..
If it's a loved one then challenge it if safe to do so..
Semenyo was the bigger person so utmost respect to him for how he dealt with what the moronic idiot said..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I think it was the best way to deal with it, highlight it to the ref then stick two fingers up to the abuser by scoring two goals and then watch the abuser get taken out by the police.
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i know the abuser was sick having to see him score two great goals |
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By *ugby 123Couple 39 weeks ago
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"I think it was the best way to deal with it, highlight it to the ref then stick two fingers up to the abuser by scoring two goals and then watch the abuser get taken out by the police.
i know the abuser was sick having to see him score two great goals
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It was a perfect answer to the abuse in that setting that's for sure.Revenge served cold |
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"I think it was the best way to deal with it, highlight it to the ref then stick two fingers up to the abuser by scoring two goals and then watch the abuser get taken out by the police.
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This..
Criminal conviction possibly pending and a lifetime ban from the ground to boot.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 39 weeks ago
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"I think it was the best way to deal with it, highlight it to the ref then stick two fingers up to the abuser by scoring two goals and then watch the abuser get taken out by the police.
This..
Criminal conviction possibly pending and a lifetime ban from the ground to boot.."
Do you think criminal conviction? |
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"I think it was the best way to deal with it, highlight it to the ref then stick two fingers up to the abuser by scoring two goals and then watch the abuser get taken out by the police.
This..
Criminal conviction possibly pending and a lifetime ban from the ground to boot..
Do you think criminal conviction? "
If it falls within the parameters then yes it should be..
Rightly so it's not been reported what was said so will wait and see .. |
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A younger me would have dealt with it in an Eric Cantona style..I feel the player dealt with it correctly and hopefully the sorrounding fans took it on board and escalated it within the club..No room for that in the past, present or future...Arsehole |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"I think it was the best way to deal with it, highlight it to the ref then stick two fingers up to the abuser by scoring two goals and then watch the abuser get taken out by the police.
This..
Criminal conviction possibly pending and a lifetime ban from the ground to boot..
Do you think criminal conviction? "
Don't think it would ever go to a criminal conviction.
After all,it's one person's word against another,unless a mic close at hand picked it up.
Still disgusting behavior. |
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?
I would have hopped the barrier and took away his wheels, but total respect to Semenyo for handling it the correct way.
Same
🤣 I have no time for being the bigger person. If they go low, i'm going lower "
Year that being a bigger person is a load of ballix. A boot in the balls would have been the better thing to do. Liverpool fans really are scum. |
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"I think it was the best way to deal with it, highlight it to the ref then stick two fingers up to the abuser by scoring two goals and then watch the abuser get taken out by the police.
i know the abuser was sick having to see him score two great goals
It was a perfect answer to the abuse in that setting that's for sure.Revenge served cold"
Liverpool won the game. There was no revenge served cold. |
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?
I would have hopped the barrier and took away his wheels, but total respect to Semenyo for handling it the correct way.
Same
🤣 I have no time for being the bigger person. If they go low, i'm going lower
Year that being a bigger person is a load of ballix. A boot in the balls would have been the better thing to do. Liverpool fans really are scum."
No they aren't..
Utterly ridiculous to say that..
In the same way not all people who live in your fine city are sectarian bigots..
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?
I would have hopped the barrier and took away his wheels, but total respect to Semenyo for handling it the correct way.
Same
🤣 I have no time for being the bigger person. If they go low, i'm going lower
Year that being a bigger person is a load of ballix. A boot in the balls would have been the better thing to do. Liverpool fans really are scum.
No they aren't..
Utterly ridiculous to say that..
In the same way not all people who live in your fine city are sectarian bigots..
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I’ve had abuse, I’ve been spat on I’ve been reversed into when I was heavily pregnant and do you know what I did every time? I carried on my day, some people are just ignorant and there is that saying hurt people hurt people. |
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"I’ve had abuse, I’ve been spat on I’ve been reversed into when I was heavily pregnant and do you know what I did every time? I carried on my day, some people are just ignorant and there is that saying hurt people hurt people. "
. I wonder what goes through peoples minds
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By *EAT..85Woman 39 weeks ago
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I've ignored it in the past, but I'm a non confrontational person. I get more angry on other people's behalf.
I started dating a black guy a few years ago and the covert racism I observed whilst being out and about with him astounded me. Subtle things that I wouldn't have noticed if I weren't WITH him. We walked out of a couple of bars at my decree after a declaration of disgusting service! |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?"
Typically, dealing with racial abuse is something many people of colour have to do and the sad answer is that we ignore it. |
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?"
In the current political climate, abuse and discrimination for people like me is not only commonplace in the street, the workplace and the media, but also within the institution of state.
How do I deal with that? I simply ignore it. Haters gonna hate. Life's to short to care. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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Also love seeing flag shaggers all over SM crying about lack of free speech whilst calling Black people the N word on Twitter and getting into zero trouble. Pathetic. |
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It’s always fascinating and we’ve had some interesting discussions about it.
I was listening to the radio this week when they were discussing an article in the mirror around a report of over 15000 suspensions/expulsions from schools recorded last year including by children as young as four.
The incident as it happened was as mad and on the first day of the new season just says it all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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"It’s always fascinating and we’ve had some interesting discussions about it.
I was listening to the radio this week when they were discussing an article in the mirror around a report of over 15000 suspensions/expulsions from schools recorded last year including by children as young as four.
The incident as it happened was as mad and on the first day of the new season just says it all "
I can’t believe the rise in exclusions for some of the shit you see. Truly worrying.
As for the football, I hope that was the only incident of the year but there will be more of course. Plus it’s a World Cup year so unless we win it, that’s guaranteed abuse for Black players when we’re out. |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?"
I let my husband deal with it, that usually sorts it out! |
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"I bum 'em. No-one can hate me after I've bummed them. They're like putty in mind hands. I'm kind of like a vampire. But I don't bite. I bum.
As Bumpire? "
"I vant to fuck your bum. Ha Ha Haaa" 🧛♂️ |
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"Watching Semenyo get racially abused by a Liverpool fan yesterday got me thinking ‘he’s a better man than most’ for how he dealt with it.
How do you or would you cope with someone being abusive towards you?"
Is it not more important in today's society to ask if someone next to you is inappropriate how would you deal with it. If those in a stand can't ast what are you doing. Or someone on a train "accidentally brush a boob" it's up to all of us to call them out.
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