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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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No.
My family are so very old fashioned, and would never understand such practices that are indulged here.
As for friends, even easier to say no, as I don’t have any real friends that I’d confide something like this to.
My sex life is something I wouldn’t discuss with any of them even if they were cool and open minded enough to understand. |
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By *ace400Man 37 weeks ago
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My eldest daughter (who’s 19) boyfriend’s friend put me on fab. Don’t know if she knows about it might just think it’s a dating app as she has put me on tinder etc. ( this is far more enjoyable). But none of my friends know only people I have met on here which I feel are friends in more ways than one 😜 |
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"FWB - Would you/have you introduced a fwb to other vanilla friends/family? "
I started to tell my friends about my FWB/BF situation and it didn't go down well, so I backtracked pretty quickly and never talked about him again, which is a shame because I'm sure they'd love to hear about him  he's my secret now  |
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By *agic.MMan 37 weeks ago
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I have...and would. For me a FWB is not just someone I have sex with, and if I choose someone as a FWB - that means I trust them enough to introduce them to friends and family... they are what I like to call a "special friend" |
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Probably not family but friends i might.... although I'm very open with my friends and family with what I get up to/fab life, I'm actually quite reserved to let you into my family circle, my partner hasn't even met my family yet and we've been seeing eachother just over a year but a relationship about 8 months, he is meeting some in a couple weeks at a family wedding, I'm excited and maybe a smidge nervous ha ha.... but they will love him just as much as I do I'm sure.... |
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"I probably wouldn't see a reason to
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Following on from this - I might not intend to, but as they are a friend, I'd just treat them like any other friend meeting others in my life in general, so it wouldn't be a big deal |
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I haven't done, but that's only because my friends groups and my family generally don't mix anyway. In the extremely unlikely event a FWB and I bumped into anyone in my vanilla social circle, I'd simply introduce them as a friend. No need for any further information. |
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This is actually one of my internal questions I ask myself before I make plans with anyone.
'Would I be comfortable if they met someone/anyone from my life?'
If it's a no, if I'm not proud to be with them openly? Well then I know they're not right for me and clearly I'm thinking with the tiny brain and need to calm my libido down a bit and move on. |
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Unfortunately my family wouldn't understand, I'm already the black sheep of the family when I left their religion.
I've no qualms about it, I just know that some of them are too uptight about sexual matters. Ultimately I wouldn't want to be denied access to my family. |
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"My FBW of 6 years was a good friend, we often went places together & met each others friends, it wasn’t any bodies business but ours what we did in private "
Was? Is there a vacancy for a new one, more to the point where do I apply? |
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"I haven't done, but that's only because my friends groups and my family generally don't mix anyway. In the extremely unlikely event a FWB and I bumped into anyone in my vanilla social circle, I'd simply introduce them as a friend. No need for any further information."
Can I be one of your 'friends'? |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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Interesting. So now I’m wondering whether someone who calls me a FWB actually sees me as a friend or a FB. Because why wouldn’t your friend be able to meet your friends? |
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No, I don't think I would. I pretty much keep this part of my life separate to real life and would find it awkward to explain how we met. And even if I didn't keep it separate, my friend groups never really mix anyway so the situation wouldn't really come up. |
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"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅
That was bloody hilarious 
For everyone else not me 😂"
The look of pure horror and panic on your face was more amusing, than when you fall over stuff |
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"Inadvertently yes .. About 50 all at the same time 🫣😅
That was bloody hilarious
For everyone else not me 😂
The look of pure horror and panic on your face was more amusing, than when you fall over stuff "
We have since agreed to never mention it again as long as we live 🫣😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Would you/have you introduced a fwb to other vanilla friends/family? "
Yes my Mrs introduced me to her family and friends while we were FB’s before we officially got together and come to think of it I introduced her to my family too |
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"I probably wouldn't see a reason to
Following on from this - I might not intend to, but as they are a friend, I'd just treat them like any other friend meeting others in my life in general, so it wouldn't be a big deal "
This. |
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By *ustBoWoman 37 weeks ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Yes I have he is a friend first and foremost,what we do on private is our own business. I wouldn't be a very good friend if I was embarrassed to be seen with him by anyone I know. |
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"Interesting. So now I’m wondering whether someone who calls me a FWB actually sees me as a friend or a FB. Because why wouldn’t your friend be able to meet your friends?"
This!!!
Nobody but the two friends needs to know there are benefits. It's just another friend circle isn't it?? |
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"Interesting. So now I’m wondering whether someone who calls me a FWB actually sees me as a friend or a FB. Because why wouldn’t your friend be able to meet your friends?
This!!!
Nobody but the two friends needs to know there are benefits. It's just another friend circle isn't it?? "
Man, I need to find me 'friend' in Basingstoke 😂 |
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