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Things men REALLY need to understand about women!!
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"That some of us say exactly what we mean so no = no
Maybe = I will give it consideration
Yes = yes
Men need this ⬆️
We are simple creatures and need clear instructions 🤣"
This ☝️ |
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"Keep it complicated as like the challenge 🤣🤔"
There is way too much truth in this than many are prepared to admit. BUT this doesn't mean you can be a dick. Negging and breadcrumbing isn't cool but neither is being overeager. That's cute in a puppy not so much in a lover. |
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"Keep it complicated as like the challenge 🤣🤔
There is way too much truth in this than many are prepared to admit. BUT this doesn't mean you can be a dick. Negging and breadcrumbing isn't cool but neither is being overeager. That's cute in a puppy not so much in a lover. "
It’s a learning curve, the shuttle hints, the expressions and wording with a tone, that’s what makes many woman interesting and likeable |
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"Yes means maybe.
Maybe means No.
And No means HELL NO.
Be nice to know what you think.? Things men REALLY need to understand about women. "
I think women needs to just keep things simple for men. Why on earth should we be expected to believe “Yes” means maybe for example? Yes should mean exactly that, YES! And no, should mean NO!
Keep things black and white, grey areas just mean line get blurred and can be a real mind fuck. Miss me with all the playing of games 🙄 |
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"Men need to process their problems in their head while women want verbal communication. I find that with alot of men."
We like the verbal communication, all the time such as ‘eat this, get them off, lick that, grab them’
Simple’s 😉😎😂 |
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We’re both ND, poly and have busy lives, we both learned that mixed messages only hurt others and ourselves. We know that clear and honest communication is important.
It’s not cute or funny to talk in riddles, just be open and communicate effectively!
Yes is yes, no is no and emotions need to be processed. I’m not sure why adults find it so hard |
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By *WB85Man 48 weeks ago
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In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying. |
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying. " I find men are finding camera angles that make there cock look bigger. People will do all sorts here. |
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By *WB85Man 48 weeks ago
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying. I find men are finding camera angles that make there cock look bigger. People will do all sorts here."
Sheer desperation that is lol. |
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"Don't let them loose with your card and track what they are spending definitely heart attack situation " what about if the woman has the money and a man spends hers and say i will pay you back and dont . lol  |
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"We’re both ND, poly and have busy lives, we both learned that mixed messages only hurt others and ourselves. We know that clear and honest communication is important.
It’s not cute or funny to talk in riddles, just be open and communicate effectively!
Yes is yes, no is no and emotions need to be processed. I’m not sure why adults find it so hard "
Fully agree with this, good fucking post.
Your fellow ND |
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"Don't let them loose with your card and track what they are spending definitely heart attack situation what about if the woman has the money and a man spends hers and say i will pay you back and dont . lol "
Had this before 😬 life’s lessons, learn move on, life to short x |
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"We’re both ND, poly and have busy lives, we both learned that mixed messages only hurt others and ourselves. We know that clear and honest communication is important.
It’s not cute or funny to talk in riddles, just be open and communicate effectively!
Yes is yes, no is no and emotions need to be processed. I’m not sure why adults find it so hard
Fully agree with this, good fucking post.
Your fellow ND"
Not sure why adults find it so hard? I’m gonna go with all the social conditioning and trying to be things they think other people want. I’m fully here for ND direct communication
Mrs TMN x |
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying. "
God forbid you arrange a meet with a fat munter accidentally 😱 |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Yes means maybe.
Maybe means No.
And No means HELL NO.
Be nice to know what you think.? Things men REALLY need to understand about women.
I think women needs to just keep things simple for men. Why on earth should we be expected to believe “Yes” means maybe for example? Yes should mean exactly that, YES! And no, should mean NO!
Keep things black and white, grey areas just mean line get blurred and can be a real mind fuck. Miss me with all the playing of games 🙄"
This! The second I get a whiff of a woman being manipulative (because that’s what it is), I’m gone. |
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Both sides could learn from each other.
Both sexes need to be turned on mentally to have sex worth having.
But often it's presumed men can just go from zero to 60, with little or no interaction outside "get your dick out" 😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Yes means maybe.
Maybe means No.
And No means HELL NO.
Be nice to know what you think.? Things men REALLY need to understand about women. "
The truth is we spend 3 weeks out of every month ruled by hormones. We don't even know what we mean when we say yes or no 😂 but definitely expect men to know  |
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I've no idea what goes on inside a woman's brain, but likewise, I have no idea what goes on inside a man's brain. We are all individuals and think differently. Life would be extremely boring if we all thought alike. Part of, if not all of the excitement in meeting someone new is discovering how they think and what they believe in. But as part of this process, we should all be open and honest. Playing games and being vague only serves to muddy the waters and leads to confusion and misunderstanding. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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That women, who are part of a couple, can actually run the profile on fab.
The amount of times in referred to in the third person (your wife etc) is staggering.
Especially as I make a point of stating I run the profile.
Which brings me onto my second point.
Reading may equal progress, not reading doesn't! |
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By *WB85Man 48 weeks ago
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying.
God forbid you arrange a meet with a fat munter accidentally 😱"
People ask for clear face pics etc etc. Hiding your body type to get a meet is only going to end badly. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Telling me you've a huge cock won't cancel out all the reasons I'm not attracted to you.
lol 😂 dam didn’t know that chat up line didn’t work 😜🤪🤣
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Caught me off guard too. Need to rethink my chat up lines |
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying. "
No. |
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying.
God forbid you arrange a meet with a fat munter accidentally 😱
People ask for clear face pics etc etc. Hiding your body type to get a meet is only going to end badly. "
Do you think it's just women that do this? 😂 both men and women do it 🤷. Just look at all the b&w pics. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying.
God forbid you arrange a meet with a fat munter accidentally 😱
People ask for clear face pics etc etc. Hiding your body type to get a meet is only going to end badly.
Do you think it's just women that do this? 😂 both men and women do it 🤷. Just look at all the b&w pics. "
You got me. I used a fake arse and covered any edits in B+W 😭 |
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"You need to turn on my brain to turn on my body
Now where did I put that remote controller? 🤔"
Try pressing right then left, then swipe left to right continuously increasing in speed until desired response.
Alternatively, a small circular motion on the round button  |
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying.
God forbid you arrange a meet with a fat munter accidentally 😱
People ask for clear face pics etc etc. Hiding your body type to get a meet is only going to end badly.
Do you think it's just women that do this? 😂 both men and women do it 🤷. Just look at all the b&w pics.
You got me. I used a fake arse and covered any edits in B+W 😭"
I knew it!!  |
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By *WB85Man 48 weeks ago
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying.
God forbid you arrange a meet with a fat munter accidentally 😱
People ask for clear face pics etc etc. Hiding your body type to get a meet is only going to end badly.
Do you think it's just women that do this? 😂 both men and women do it 🤷. Just look at all the b&w pics. "
I don't tend to look at men so can only base it on my own findings. |
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying.
God forbid you arrange a meet with a fat munter accidentally 😱
People ask for clear face pics etc etc. Hiding your body type to get a meet is only going to end badly.
Do you think it's just women that do this? 😂 both men and women do it 🤷. Just look at all the b&w pics.
I don't tend to look at men so can only base it on my own findings. "
Well, now you know. All beings do it. |
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying. "
Ooh yea, stop making your penis look longer by using misleading camera angle  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"In the purpose of gender equality.
Stop finding camera angles that make you look slimmer.
Stop using filters.
Be clear of who you are and Stop catfishing.
*Not all of them do this. Just saying.
Ooh yea, stop making your penis look longer by using misleading camera angle "
Blimey, Spielberg couldn't find an angle to make mine look bigger  |
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"Men need to know that some women mean what they say and say what they mean"
^^^this.
I don't wait. I get bored.
I have no time for games or hot/cold chats.
I don't wait on anyone these days. No abs are that cute and no dick that pretty to waste my time over.
😁😉
Sure the way some carry on I could be waitlisted for a zimmerframe before they remember they were mid-conversation 🤣🤣🤣 |
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