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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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As a woman are you put off by a man who likes feet / foot fetish / foot worship ? It’s my one & only fetish and the more females I speak to the more I see woman actually like it , is it like marmite ? You love it or hate it kind of thing ? |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"Yup, I am.
It's fine. People who are into that can go do it somewhere else, no judgement or whatever.
But I don't want to engage with it. At all 💜"
So even if the man left that fetish at home you’d still meet or not meet if a meet becomes arranged |
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It depends on how he handled it.
A lot of people with fetishes - feet in particular, actually - don't seem to be able to leave well alone.
Some people can leave it at the door and respect my wishes.
Others talk a big game and then make me regret believing them.
So, it's not a red flag. But it's an orange flag |
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I dont mind someone who "likes" feet as in a little foot play during sex.
But not the whole worshiping thing when thats the only thing there bothered about is meeting my feet and just solely want to do that. |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"It depends on how he handled it.
A lot of people with fetishes - feet in particular, actually - don't seem to be able to leave well alone.
Some people can leave it at the door and respect my wishes.
Others talk a big game and then make me regret believing them.
So, it's not a red flag. But it's an orange flag "
Yes I can totally understand with this one , if your arranging a meet both parties have to be honest and keep the promise , nothing worse than having something shoved down your throat if your not comfortable with it x |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"I dont mind someone who "likes" feet as in a little foot play during sex.
But not the whole worshiping thing when thats the only thing there bothered about is meeting my feet and just solely want to do that. "
Yes i have just replied to a similar comment , it’s definitely got to be discussed and agreed before hand and leave it out if needs be |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"I can't stand to touch my own feet let alone anyone else!
Ugh, no thanks"
I hear this sometimes , what is it you hate about touching your own feet , we should be comfortable with our own bodies but I do respect your own feelings  |
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"As a woman are you put off by a man who likes feet / foot fetish / foot worship ? It’s my one & only fetish and the more females I speak to the more I see woman actually like it , is it like marmite ? You love it or hate it kind of thing ? "
What is it you're wanting to do with feet? |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"As a woman are you put off by a man who likes feet / foot fetish / foot worship ? It’s my one & only fetish and the more females I speak to the more I see woman actually like it , is it like marmite ? You love it or hate it kind of thing ?
What is it you're wanting to do with feet? "
If I’m looking to meet someone for it or to add it in if the other party is comfortable I like everything about them not sure why really, I think it’s just a sensual thing , soft skin and probably because it’s not a normal thing and more on the exploring side |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"If you're talking a foot rub, I'm ok with that but if you're asking for a wank with feet then that'll be a nope from me "
There’s many different things you can do and yes one of them can be just a foot rub |
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Mostly I do avoid anyone who has their fetish front and centre.
Like, it's cool to be into things. But fetish seems to be an all encompassing thing for neglecting the human attached to whatever is being fetishised. And I'm not down for that.
It's fine. There's plenty of people who are into it. It's just not for me 💜 |
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"Mostly I do avoid anyone who has their fetish front and centre.
Like, it's cool to be into things. But fetish seems to be an all encompassing thing for neglecting the human attached to whatever is being fetishised. And I'm not down for that.
It's fine. There's plenty of people who are into it. It's just not for me 💜"
Yes. That's it for me.
Not all people into feet, but a lot seem to make it everything, or lie long enough to get their hands on you, then make it everything.
The same would apply if people were as focused on hair or anal or noses or whatever. |
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"Not really but I don't like my feet being touched so I wouldn't indulge anyone. Can't even treat my self to a pedicure! They are overly sensitive is that because it tickles or a fear ? "
Tickles too much, my uncle tickled my feet when I was little I kicked out with my other leg and broke his nose |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"Not really but I don't like my feet being touched so I wouldn't indulge anyone. Can't even treat my self to a pedicure! They are overly sensitive is that because it tickles or a fear ?
Tickles too much, my uncle tickled my feet when I was little I kicked out with my other leg and broke his nose "
ha ha that made me chuckle he won’t do that again lol |
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"Not really but I don't like my feet being touched so I wouldn't indulge anyone. Can't even treat my self to a pedicure! They are overly sensitive is that because it tickles or a fear ?
Tickles too much, my uncle tickled my feet when I was little I kicked out with my other leg and broke his nose ha ha that made me chuckle he won’t do that again lol "
He didn't |
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"As a woman are you put off by a man who likes feet / foot fetish / foot worship ? It’s my one & only fetish and the more females I speak to the more I see woman actually like it , is it like marmite ? You love it or hate it kind of thing ? "
OP. If it is a fetish then surely it MUST form part of your sex life to achieve gratification. In that way if you have a foot fetish you would need to find others who are in to it too. If it is just a kink - that is, something you enjoy, then it would be best to make the difference to others clear.
Foot fetishes and kinks are not for everyone. But then neither are most fetishes and kinks.
Hope you find what you’re looking for 🌈 |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"As a woman are you put off by a man who likes feet / foot fetish / foot worship ? It’s my one & only fetish and the more females I speak to the more I see woman actually like it , is it like marmite ? You love it or hate it kind of thing ?
OP. If it is a fetish then surely it MUST form part of your sex life to achieve gratification. In that way if you have a foot fetish you would need to find others who are in to it too. If it is just a kink - that is, something you enjoy, then it would be best to make the difference to others clear.
Foot fetishes and kinks are not for everyone. But then neither are most fetishes and kinks.
Hope you find what you’re looking for 🌈"
Yes I know what I want and enjoy I’m more of asking others how they feel / think about it , thank you very much |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"Yeah I am.
I have found foot fetish guys to be some of the most pushy when it comes to they're fetish. Like constant questions, or asking for pictures. Or what size or shoes wearing.
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I get what your saying but we’re not all like that if I do bring it into a conversation on here i always say it can be left out if needs be as I know it’s not for everyone, a meet / chat has to be mutual and not a forced subject x happy fabbing |
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Nope. I have an absolute hatred of my feet being touched, and I don't like touching, or even looking, at other people's feet. So I think that if a foot fetish were to be declared it probably would put me off. I mean, if it's that important to someone, what's the likelihood that at some point there will be a request to have some foot interaction? |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 40 weeks ago
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"I have highly ticklish feet, so I'm not sure I could gave someone touching them  "
when it’s nice & sensul the tickleness normally goes away when it’s enjoyed but yes it can be difficult for someone with very ticklish feet but if you can get over that it’s normally very nice it’s like a different kind of sensation if your in the mood |
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I like having my feet played with, but if I didn't, it wouldn't put me off meeting someone with a fetish for it, as long as it was crystal clear that foot play was not going to be a part of the equation. |
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By (user no longer on site) 39 weeks ago
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We wont shame guys for liking feet, if thats their bag then power to them.
But theres some guys who make it their entire personality even when you have said to them you aren't interested. |
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It’s not for me, i have nothing against it just isn't something i would enjoy. I wouldn't meet someone who had a foot fetish because i wouldn't be able to full fill that part for them and if i meet someone i like to be able to fully engage in all their likes. I wouldn't want to disappoint them by leaving that out. |
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Yes, if it's the only thing they go on about and are solely focused on the feet. Like what about the rest of me?
I had an ex like that, I'd send a lovely photo of myself and he'd ask what shoes I was wearing 🙄 |
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"depends what he means by it and how he does it .......
it can be anything from just a foot rub to a full blown worship kissing licking smelling , or a foot job can be anything really "
I love a good foot rub, having my feet washed and dried, then massaged with cream/oil. But that's about it |
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"I dont mind someone who "likes" feet as in a little foot play during sex.
But not the whole worshiping thing when thats the only thing there bothered about is meeting my feet and just solely want to do that. "
Hehe "solely"  |
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"I dont mind someone who "likes" feet as in a little foot play during sex.
But not the whole worshiping thing when thats the only thing there bothered about is meeting my feet and just solely want to do that.
Hehe "solely" "
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I do have a foot fetish and it would be great if I found someone to fulfil that with so we can include it when we meet. However, it's not a deal breaker for me because if I like them enough, I can find that same fulfilment in everything else we do. |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 39 weeks ago
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"I like having my feet played with, but if I didn't, it wouldn't put me off meeting someone with a fetish for it, as long as it was crystal clear that foot play was not going to be a part of the equation. "
That’s good to hear x happy fabbing |
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By *rk2025 OP Man 39 weeks ago
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"We wont shame guys for liking feet, if thats their bag then power to them.
But theres some guys who make it their entire personality even when you have said to them you aren't interested."
yes I have heard that a lot on these comments not sure why people have to be like that x happy fabbing |
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