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It's a big NO to Bi Men
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By *afka OP Man 48 weeks ago
Nottingham |
Seems like an awful lot of Fabswingers have "No Bi men" on their profiles. Totally respect your choice, not looking to change your minds but genuinely curious as to why.
Is it because you assume we're all cock hungry monsters that can't help touching up the straight guys?
Is it because we're perceived as more of a sexual health risk?
Are you worried that the Ghey might be contagious?
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Why not just respect others preferences..?
Whatever peoples reasons are no one has to justify themselves in such things..
Concentrate on those who will meet rather than waste energy on those who won't ..
Him/her both bi..
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As a general rule, people don't want to sleep with people they're not attracted to.
Whatever the reason for them not finding something attractive is, doesn't matter.
I've had someone tell me they'd never fuck a woman who's ever had sex with a black guy. There's no point examining those motives. It was simply a signal to walk away 💜 |
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I don't think I've ever harboured deep-rooted curiosity about people's preferences. People have set criterias for a multitude of reasons.
Similarly I've never questioned anyone on why they have an aversion to Asian men. |
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"As a general rule, people don't want to sleep with people they're not attracted to.
Whatever the reason for them not finding something attractive is, doesn't matter.
I've had someone tell me they'd never fuck a woman who's ever had sex with a black guy. There's no point examining those motives. It was simply a signal to walk away 💜"
I’m not normally a one for carnal with shenanigans with fairies, but then, if there’s a dark side to them.  |
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"I don't think I've ever harboured deep-rooted curiosity about people's preferences. People have set criterias for a multitude of reasons.
Similarly I've never questioned anyone on why they have an aversion to Asiastic Lions. "
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You'd do better to just focus on the people who do enjoy sex with bisexual men. Theres a huge number of them on this site too.
Let everyone be at peace to partake in whatever safe, sane & consenual fun turns them on.
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"Seems like an awful lot of Fabswingers have "No Bi men" on their profiles. Totally respect your choice, not looking to change your minds but genuinely curious as to why.
Is it because you assume we're all cock hungry monsters that can't help touching up the straight guys?
Is it because we're perceived as more of a sexual health risk?
Are you worried that the Ghey might be contagious?
Any answers? "
As a bi man would you really want to have anything to do with anyone put "No Bi guys" on their profile? There are other more openminded people out there. |
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By *afka OP Man 48 weeks ago
Nottingham |
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As a bi man would you really want to have anything to do with anyone put "No Bi guys" on their profile? There are other more openminded people out there. "
Absolutely not, it was just a "I wonder why?" moment. |
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Higher risk of STIs was one comment I seen on a previous thread, this one is older than time it’s self, they think they will catch the ghey, or their hubby might get his cock jumped on? take ya pick.
No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread. |
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Why are some people turned off, or on, by anything?
Some people don't like blondes, or do like blondes, some people find the thought of certain sex acts off putting. Like, they they generally find women's bodies nicer to look at than mens bodies..🤷
Or it could be because they're homophobic.
Does it matter? Either way, they're not into you. |
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"Higher risk of STIs was one comment I seen on a previous thread, this one is older than time it’s self, they think they will catch the ghey, or their hubby might get his cock jumped on? take ya pick.
No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread."
We’re openly bisexual. There’s absolutely no added risk to getting STD’s than “normal people” . Every responsible adult who has sex with others should be checked regularly. We are. We’re both on prep and doxy pep. So let’s clink those glasses and enjoy a free loving world. Xx |
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"Higher risk of STIs was one comment I seen on a previous thread, this one is older than time it’s self, they think they will catch the ghey, or their hubby might get his cock jumped on? take ya pick.
No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread.
We’re openly bisexual. There’s absolutely no added risk to getting STD’s than “normal people” . Every responsible adult who has sex with others should be checked regularly. We are. We’re both on prep and doxy pep. So let’s clink those glasses and enjoy a free loving world. Xx "
Risk is subjective. STI diagnosis statistics are not.
Gay / Bisexual men have disproportionately high rates of infection |
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"Higher risk of STIs was one comment I seen on a previous thread, this one is older than time it’s self, they think they will catch the ghey, or their hubby might get his cock jumped on? take ya pick.
No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread.
We’re openly bisexual. There’s absolutely no added risk to getting STD’s than “normal people” . Every responsible adult who has sex with others should be checked regularly. We are. We’re both on prep and doxy pep. So let’s clink those glasses and enjoy a free loving world. Xx
Risk is subjective. STI diagnosis statistics are not.
Gay / Bisexual men have disproportionately high rates of infection "
Thanks for the sex education. Totally agree with you. But, responsible bi couples don’t. We only play together and We’re more choosy. We can always say no to suspicious types. |
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By *AYENCouple 47 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
"Seems like an awful lot of Fabswingers have "No Bi men" on their profiles. Totally respect your choice, not looking to change your minds but genuinely curious as to why.
Is it because you assume we're all cock hungry monsters that can't help touching up the straight guys?
Is it because we're perceived as more of a sexual health risk?
Are you worried that the Ghey might be contagious?
Any answers? "
Probably a combination of all the above - I would think that bi guys are sought after and rejected in equal measure, so don't worry about it. K. |
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I recently went to a sauna, in male mode, to satisfy a curiosity.
Turned out that scene isn't for me & I was a tad scared by the bareback sex that was going on.
Now I adore receiving anal sex, and I'm on PreP *but* I still insist on condom use.
Won't be going again. |
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"I recently went to a sauna, in male mode, to satisfy a curiosity.
Turned out that scene isn't for me & I was a tad scared by the bareback sex that was going on.
Now I adore receiving anal sex, and I'm on PreP *but* I still insist on condom use.
Won't be going again."
Pretty much why I came off the sister site. To many guys messaging me who had bareback pics on their profile page. Think it seemed to spike after the first lockdown, but that could just be a coincidence.
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There's a notion some people have that it's 'safe' to go bare with a married couple.
Complete and utter nonsense.
No sex is 100% safe sex.
Just SAFER with precautions.
Abstinence or solo sex, that's safe sex.
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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"As a general rule, people don't want to sleep with people they're not attracted to.
Whatever the reason for them not finding something attractive is, doesn't matter.
I've had someone tell me they'd never fuck a woman who's ever had sex with a black guy. There's no point examining those motives. It was simply a signal to walk away 💜"
Obviously we’re all different but I’d expect my partner to challenge someone on that and I know she would. |
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"Why not just respect others preferences..?
Whatever peoples reasons are no one has to justify themselves in such things..
Concentrate on those who will meet rather than waste energy on those who won't ..
Him/her both bi..
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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OP, I think it’s a fair question to ask. Wanting to understand why many people have the perceptions they have of certain groups is fair. I’m not giving people a pass for opinions of entire groups that play into wider, harmful ideas.
That said, asking on fab is pointless. I’ve learned that much of the people on here |
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"Higher risk of STIs was one comment I seen on a previous thread, this one is older than time it’s self, they think they will catch the ghey, or their hubby might get his cock jumped on? take ya pick.
No one will openly tell you the real reason for fear of backlash, they’ll say it’s a preference and respect it, like others have already said in this thread.
We’re openly bisexual. There’s absolutely no added risk to getting STD’s than “normal people” . Every responsible adult who has sex with others should be checked regularly. We are. We’re both on prep and doxy pep. So let’s clink those glasses and enjoy a free loving world. Xx
Risk is subjective. STI diagnosis statistics are not.
Gay / Bisexual men have disproportionately high rates of infection
Thanks for the sex education. Totally agree with you. But, responsible bi couples don’t. We only play together and We’re more choosy. We can always say no to suspicious types. "
Out of interest, what is a 'suspicious type'? |
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Too much information isn't always a good thing.
If we met people we had NO info about and we were attracted to them we'd probably have a great session and think no more about it.
All sex takes is that you are physically attracted to each other.
Too much info then steers you toward other decisions..... and sometimes you just don't know why that information makes you make the choices you do. |
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"As a general rule, people don't want to sleep with people they're not attracted to.
Whatever the reason for them not finding something attractive is, doesn't matter.
I've had someone tell me they'd never fuck a woman who's ever had sex with a black guy. There's no point examining those motives. It was simply a signal to walk away 💜
Obviously we’re all different but I’d expect my partner to challenge someone on that and I know she would. "
Someone I know a little and thought was a rational person I'd for sure question it. On here? With some random just looking to get his dick wet? They're not going to care what I have to say, there's no point wasting my time 💜 |
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