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Is it reasonable to ask visits to contribute towards room?
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If I book a hotel and offer my mouth and ass is it fair / reasonable to ask them to chip In 10 or so towards covering cost of room or do you think that’s cheeky? I will obviously ask them before they arrived x |
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Up to what percentage of the room cost? What are you willing to pay to potentially suck and fuck all these men? What happens if all your contributions add up to more than the total cost of the room? Are the men technically paying for sex? So many questions 🤔 |
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"If I book a hotel and offer my mouth and ass is it fair / reasonable to ask them to chip In 10 or so towards covering cost of room or do you think that’s cheeky? I will obviously ask them before they arrived x"
Don’t think that’s cheeky at all. Just split the room between you |
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"What if a couple have a room booked already and ask me to join them.
Should i be offering to contribute towards the room ?"
We wouldn’t expect any contribution towards the room. We only meet in hotels and we pay the whole thing as we are staying the whole night whereas in most cases our guest is there for a couple of hours generally at our request |
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By *oo xWoman 26 weeks ago
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Depends who invited who to said room.
If it's my invitation- i'd pay and not ask for anything.
Other way round , then they could pay, but I'd still arrive with something like snacks and drinks as a gesture. |
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"You're all replying to a one visitor scenario. The OP is asking if multiple men are visiting...
Why is this different if I'm the one who is away, or booked the room?"
The OP is asking if she should ask multiple men to contribute to the room she is booking for her pleasure, and theirs, obviously. As far as I can tell you've not actually answered that question. |
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"You're all replying to a one visitor scenario. The OP is asking if multiple men are visiting...
Why is this different if I'm the one who is away, or booked the room?
The OP is asking if she should ask multiple men to contribute to the room she is booking for her pleasure, and theirs, obviously. As far as I can tell you've not actually answered that question. "
How have I not answered the question by my reply? It's almost like you are saying the OP is pimping herself out?
I've said if pre arranging, plannimg then yes why not ask to contribute, if booked room then decided want company no if people then want to give you a contribution then great.
I gave my opinion? Might be different to yours ce la vie |
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"If I book a hotel and offer my mouth and ass is it fair / reasonable to ask them to chip In 10 or so towards covering cost of room or do you think that’s cheeky? I will obviously ask them before they arrived x"
Depends how much they/you think a come and go encounter is worth.
Share the room. Share the costs.
But Use the room for a business proposition... No.
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I think there are practical ways to solve these issues, although in group settings I know it's more likely the powers that be will look on it as profiteering or similar.
I've been fortunate that my group stuff has been hosted. One on one, I've tended to have a split of something like I get the food, he gets the room. |
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By *vmarisaTV/TS 26 weeks ago
Motherwell |
If a hotel room is required it's a 50/50 split. Once he leaves then whatever happens in the hotel room next is just using the facilities and between me and the guys who visit, but no money is ever exchanged as the hotel room is already paid for by me and my original meet. Mx |
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It's a case by case basis for me.
I've visited couples in their room and not been asked to (nor offered to) contribute, but then I've also agreed before booking to split with a couple.
The communication beforehand generally leads to a mutually acceptable solution. |
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"As a couple meeting single ladies, we always book the room x "
This^
I just put it all down to the adventure. It’s never entered my head really to even think about asking to split it.
We did get stung once when they didn’t show, but still went on to have our own fun.  |
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"It depends on the situation if planning a meet then yes happy to contribute. If someone says I've got a room care to join then no. I might bring muffins?
Muffins huh...
Noted 😉"
Not always muffins sometimes I used to mix it up cheese board, bottle of wine |
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By *igD299Man 26 weeks ago
leicester |
Yes, everyone should at the very least contribute. I’ve met couples in rooms and had fun and left the room to have their re coupling after and I’ll pay for the room. I’m happy with that and we’ve all had a great time. I think it’s fare, yes |
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By *igD299Man 26 weeks ago
leicester |
"It depends on the situation if planning a meet then yes happy to contribute. If someone says I've got a room care to join then no. I might bring muffins?
Muffins huh...
Noted 😉
Not always muffins sometimes I used to mix it up cheese board, bottle of wine"
I’m going to the wrong meets, I love cheese and wine lol |
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These days I get a professional make up artist and a nice girls room so I'm looking my best for visitors and they are in a nice environment so I look at the contribution like they are buying me a couple of drinks at the bar ? Is that wrong ? |
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"If I book a hotel and offer my mouth and ass is it fair / reasonable to ask them to chip In 10 or so towards covering cost of room or do you think that’s cheeky? I will obviously ask them before they arrived x"
If it's something you believe is right you should make it clear very early on BEFORE any meeting is arranged.
If I turned up somewhere and was asked on the spot and i'd had no idea before hand i'd feel I was being fleeced or it would at least cause ill feeling and could spoil a meet.
Be upfront ....
By the way ....... No idea what you mean by ' I am offering my ass and mouth' ...... The other person/people are there too. They are also contributing to what takes place.
Not just you. |
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