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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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so I'm getting messages (are you available now?)
clearly horny as am I but I feel its wrong to shag around behind your wife or husbands back.
I've just gone through a messy divorce because I came out as bi-sexual and a cross dresser,something I have hidden for many years.
I certainly don't want to be the person that breaks another marriage through selfishness.
what's your take on this kind of thing peeps of fab?
I have morals and value myself more today than I did years ago. |
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I wouldn't meet anyone who is (knowingly, I always ask) but at least the ones who are upfront about it give others the choice about meeting them or not.
It's the ones who lie or hide it, that I don't like. It's v sneaky. |
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"I wouldn't meet anyone who is (knowingly, I always ask) but at least the ones who are upfront about it give others the choice about meeting them or not.
It's the ones who lie or hide it, that I don't like. It's v sneaky. "
I'm the same, at least if it's on the bio then you can filter that way but sometimes my fab senses are off. I have started asking now anyway. |
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Good for you for having morals so many cheaters on here and there's no excuse for it. Get the same old " sexless marriage" comments. If you ain't able to talk to your partner about that then don't be with them. |
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By *istalloverCouple 15 weeks ago
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That's why we do what we do.
All or most of our friends and work acquaintances were playing away some ending up in divorce.
SO We made a conscious decision to do what we do ( not all of the time but when it feels right)
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Not my cup of tea. I always ask. And yes I am probably getting taken for a mug at times, but thats on them not me, Imo.
I have no interest in the drama. I want fun, regular sex, not annoyed partners and drama.
Now if the other half wants to join... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 15 weeks ago
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"Good for you for having morals so many cheaters on here and there's no excuse for it. Get the same old " sexless marriage" comments. If you ain't able to talk to your partner about that then don't be with them. "
exactly that. |
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"Good for you for having morals so many cheaters on here and there's no excuse for it. Get the same old " sexless marriage" comments. If you ain't able to talk to your partner about that then don't be with them. "
I've got enough dealing with my own morals, being on here, doing what I like to do, all with hubby's consent. I can't take other peoples morals in to account too 🤷🏼 |
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I like the single non cheaters. There's plenty to go around. I wouldn't like it to be done to anyone I care about as the consequences can be devastating. The moral compass of those who cheat is pretty non existent. |
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Even if the physical is what first catches my attention, real attraction for someone (for me) is built on admiring and respecting their personality, their character, their choices.
I need to want to know you better to let you know me better. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"Rare that I like someone or click with them enough to go further so if I like them I like them. Relationship status is irrelevant to me as long as they tell me. If they lie to me though I’m done. "
Exactly this. |
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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I’m not interested in people cheating on their partners just my personal preference.
I always put myself in their partners position having their trust betrayed for the sake of sex.
I find a lot of people lie and state they’re single. Today for instance a guy messaged me who I’d chatted to briefly last year he told me he was married last year but today he totally denied it for which I called him out and blocked him.
I always think how would I feel being cheated on and it’s not a nice thing to do especially if a person professes to love their partner. |
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"I’m not interested in people cheating on their partners just my personal preference.
I always put myself in their partners position having their trust betrayed for the sake of sex.
I find a lot of people lie and state they’re single. Today for instance a guy messaged me who I’d chatted to briefly last year he told me he was married last year but today he totally denied it for which I called him out and blocked him.
I always think how would I feel being cheated on and it’s not a nice thing to do especially if a person professes to love their partner."
That's the beauty of adding a private note to a profile, you can remember things.
I add them if they admit that to me, or for anyone in a thread who says they are attached, but have no mention of it in their profiles. |
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Unfortunately this site is rife with cheating husbands/boyfriends. Easy to spot them though as they all have the same traits regarding messaging, times they can meet, suddenly vanishing etc.
Cheating is a vile thing to do. |
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