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Who think married / taken women are sexier ?
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Married women are not sexier than single women. If the lady in question is sexy, she is just sexy. Her marital status doesnt factor into it.
Take Emeralds above for example. She is an extremly sexy woman, her being married does not elevate her sexiness in my opinion. She is just flipping sexy. She'd still be sexy if she was single.
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In terms of pure attractiveness/looks, it makes zero difference to me. In terms of whether the circumstance makes them more attractive, if its behind the husbands back then that makes them a less attractive proposition to me. |
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"Do you find married women more attractive ?"
Do you mean more attractive as In physical? So you find women who are married to be more attractive than those that aren't married? Or the idea of fucking married women is more attractive than fucking those who aren't. |
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For some people it makes them feel as if they're better than the spouse.
If I know a guy's married it makes him less attractive to me in sexual terms. I can still appreciate his looks but that's all |
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"Do you find married women more attractive ?"
It definitely adds a certain edge… that spark of the forbidden can be intoxicating. I don’t judge how people choose to play or connect, that’s always personal to them. And I don't chase or promote cheating.
But I won’t pretend there isn’t a primal side to me that enjoys the dynamic of taking another mans wife, with permission or otherwise. |
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"No more, no less than the unmarried ones.
Perhaps I'm viewing them from different optics but they always appear anatomically similar."
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Some further musings on this polarising matter:
Sexy unmarried woman (betrothed) walks into a Registry Office and ten mins later she walks out. Hey presto! She's married, ergo sexier! |
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"No more, no less than the unmarried ones.
Perhaps I'm viewing them from different optics but they always appear anatomically similar.
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Some further musings on this polarising matter:
Sexy unmarried woman (betrothed) walks into a Registry Office and ten mins later she walks out. Hey presto! She's married, ergo sexier!"
Simple innit! |
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"No more, no less than the unmarried ones.
Perhaps I'm viewing them from different optics but they always appear anatomically similar.
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Some further musings on this polarising matter:
Sexy unmarried woman (betrothed) walks into a Registry Office and ten mins later she walks out. Hey presto! She's married, ergo sexier!"
I think it’s the forbidden thing. Someone else’s wife is hot. I really don’t get it at all. I meet people because I really like them and there’s a connection. I’m not bothered if they’re married but the fact that they are married wouldn’t turn me on at all. I don’t really like this dynamic where it’s so hot because you’re married. That’s not for me at all |
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This is interesting as I mostly play alone and my husband is perfectly fine with it. Obviously we communicate boundaries etc
I personally find it extremely unattractive if someone is married and the wife/husband isn't aware they are playing. That's a hard no for me.
If everyone is happy, then it's all good.
(Mrs) X |
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I don’t think it makes them more sexy, I mean sexy is sexy right, I think it’s probably the feeling of risk that makes it feel more sexy , quickies in the car, secret afternoon sessions when hubby thinks your working all makes for very horny experience. |
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The mindset and characteristics that drive this in a person are a huge turn off. Imho it's a tad immature to think that way.
1. A married woman swinging with consent and in love with her hubby will not think you're a better option. You're just variety for the duration of the sex.
And 2. for those who actively seek it out and are getting off from cheating, it's not just immature, it's a wantonly destructive way to behave and a huge red flag character-wise to think it's super duper coolio.
But that's just my own opinion. |
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"I don’t think it makes them more sexy, I mean sexy is sexy right, I think it’s probably the feeling of risk that makes it feel more sexy , quickies in the car, secret afternoon sessions when hubby thinks your working all makes for very horny experience."
For me the discomfort of a car and the brevity of a 'quickie' couldn't be less sexy but that's probably because I'm old and like comfort and a lot of attention  |
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"For some people it makes them feel as if they're better than the spouse.
If I know a guy's married it makes him less attractive to me in sexual terms. I can still appreciate his looks but that's all "
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"I agree . More exciting is a better word
More exciting or just more freedom from responsibility for you ?"
exciting. I'm not talking cheating here. And I have an OH who also dates (equally exciting).
I don't think HWing removes the risk of anyone catching unintended feels. But maybe it is lower risk than meeting single gals who are also on the look out for dates. Not really though about it until now. It's not the appeal. But maybe there is a safety element of being on the same page. |
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"The mindset and characteristics that drive this in a person are a huge turn off. Imho it's a tad immature to think that way.
1. A married woman swinging with consent and in love with her hubby will not think you're a better option. You're just variety for the duration of the sex.
And 2. for those who actively seek it out and are getting off from cheating, it's not just immature, it's a wantonly destructive way to behave and a huge red flag character-wise to think it's super duper coolio.
But that's just my own opinion."
I think people have their own reasons for the choices they make, and those reasons are valid to them, even if we don’t fully understand them. Sometimes people stay in relationships for things like children or stability, but that doesn’t mean they’re fulfilled as individuals.
I’ve been in that position myself. Staying for the children, but I didn’t cross that line because it’s not who I am. I’d struggle with that personally. That said, I don’t judge others because I don’t know their situation and I don't take responsibility for their choices.
Of course, some people are just selfish, that exists everywhere. But if I’m honest, I probably do see things a bit through a gender lens. I tend to assume women have more emotional reasoning behind their choices, whether that’s fair or not. It might be bias, but it’s how it comes across to me. |
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Being married has no bearing on whether a woman is sexier. They are either sexy or not.
Some people might find this dynamic more thrilling, but personally I don't want to meet someone who is going behind their partners back. If they have consent, then I don't see there being much difference than meeting someone who is single. |
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