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What’s your experience been like on here, honestly?
As a plus size / BBW woman myself, I don’t know many women on here who look like me, so I’d love a real discussion 😊
Has it been fun, a headfuck, or a bit of both?
And men who are genuinely into plus size women, or have been with plus size women, feel free to answer too.
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"What’s your experience been like on here, honestly?
As a plus size / BBW woman myself, I don’t know many women on here who look like me, so I’d love a real discussion 😊
Has it been fun, a headfuck, or a bit of both?
And men who are genuinely into plus size women, or have been with plus size women, feel free to answer too.
Xx"
I love plus size women they are my thing no one.likes to shag a stick insect  |
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I'm a plus size lady and yes there are a small minority of men who will insult you for your size but oddly enough, not until you turn them down. Normally you are beautiful and gorgeous until you say no thanks. Take those with a pinch of salt and ignore them.
I have been on here 7 years and my experience has been overall very positive. I have met with quite a few men who genuinely love a fully figured woman.
My advice is be yourself, love who you are. Men like confident women so go for it and enjoy. |
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By *hybeamMan 4 weeks ago
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The great thing about this site is that you can find people you wouldn’t normally meet in your day to day life and be open about what you want. Likes/dislikes can be more openly discussed in my experience.
For anyone who feels they are different to what would be perceived to be attractive it’s great to find people who want to enjoy those differences and the feel sexy for who you are knowing that the people you meet are meeting you because they want to not because they have to.
But everyone is different, some people will enjoy others different tastes while other feel fetishised by somebody looking for a specific body type, it it always comes down to how that person makes you feel.
Sexy to me is not a body type, it’s a feeling and an attitude. Embrace your curves and enjoy having them enjoyed by somebody who appreciates them properly, make you feel sexy and everyone gets to feel amazing |
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"I'm a plus size lady and yes there are a small minority of men who will insult you for your size but oddly enough, not until you turn them down. Normally you are beautiful and gorgeous until you say no thanks. Take those with a pinch of salt and ignore them.
I have been on here 7 years and my experience has been overall very positive. I have met with quite a few men who genuinely love a fully figured woman.
My advice is be yourself, love who you are. Men like confident women so go for it and enjoy. "
⬆️ Love this answer 😀 👏👏👏👏 |
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By *eliWoman 4 weeks ago
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Hey OP!
I'm definitely not a BBW but I'm fat. Been very fat, a little less and still fat now, maybe chubby... I've been on here for a long time. Too long. Anyway, I've never received negative comments about my size from men on here. Or at socials. A forum club social. I've never struggled in terms of attention in the real world or on Fab.
There have been times where I've felt like I'm not really what someone is attracted to. If they only speak about slimmer women, compliment their photos, flirt with them. I don’t meet them because I don't need to. Had a crap experience of dating someone who did that bollocks - never, ever again. Or like the only thing they like about me is my love of good food that shows.
The rare negatives about my size that I've experienced have been from other women. There have been a lot of positives though. It can be so refreshing to see different body types enjoying sex. Their body. Even bigger women wearing lingerie. Getting involved in kink (there was a *tumble* site where kink was predominantly shown as white, slim).
The main thing is... embrace who you are. Wobbles and all. When I'm feeling myself more, happier in who I am, Fab is a joy.
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I've found it to be a mixed experience. Some people I've met back when I first was on here I don't believe that they were really into larger women but I think that most that I've met have been.
We have all had shitty insults thrown at us even if we aren't large so that hasn't been an issue as such although still not nice to be on the receiving end of them.
I would say over half my personal experiences have been positive and I don't care what people think about my size you either love it or hate it maybe age has taught me to be that way as I used to let it get to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Enjoy yourself no matter what size you are. Some prefer ultra slim, some prefer ssbbw, you don't have to fit into a "category" to be found attractive. Just be yourself, I've always fallen for the person irrespective of shape, size, or what.
Just be you. If that's to people's taste, good, if not.. Their loss, not yours. |
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I've been here since 2017, on and off. The experiences I've had have differed with my various accounts, from being stalked to feeling on top of the world.
I've met many ladies here, all of different sizes. I try to get more invested in a persons attitude and personality than their figure. |
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This is Luke writing. Hannah is definitely plus-size. I personally don't particularly like slim. I'm much more attracted to a woman with big thighs and a big tummy. Muffin-top are sexy as hell.
Certainly Hannah's size (and my shape as well, but you're asking about the women here) has an impact on who is attracted to us. It's clear it's a factor for many people, but then so are other things like age.
It has never affected our mood on here. Nobody has ever said negative things about how we look, but we have had numerous positive comments. We don't get masses of attention but we are not short of options. We have had wonderful experiences that have not been hindered by how either of us look.
It's just not really an issue we think about. What I do find sad is that the media especially pushes a narrative about how a woman should look and the standards they should achieve. I know that affects a lot of women. We think that is awful.
So to sum up, I really love bigger women and would choose one over a slim woman any day! (This is not to put down slim women though!) |
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Tbf my experience on here has been pretty good overall. Had some good meets, great chats - i think only one guy was a bit of a prick, but I think thats because I didnt respond to his message in 0.1 seconds 😅
Im glad to hear that you've all had good experiences on here 😊
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Mostly postive comments and meets im definitely very large but most of our meets come back for seconds thirds or more so must be doing somthing right personally I dont like what I see in the mirror |
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Its the connection for me, if your a plus sized lady with zero personality than thanks but no thanks.
If on the other hand youre a plus sized lady that has a personality and we click then amazing.
Basically OP, just be you.... id actually say you look amazing! |
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"Tbf my experience on here has been pretty good overall. Had some good meets, great chats - i think only one guy was a bit of a prick, but I think thats because I didnt respond to his message in 0.1 seconds 😅
Im glad to hear that you've all had good experiences on here 😊
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Im guessing that guy thought you didnt have a life and spent 34/7 on here  x |
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"Tbf my experience on here has been pretty good overall. Had some good meets, great chats - i think only one guy was a bit of a prick, but I think thats because I didnt respond to his message in 0.1 seconds 😅
Im glad to hear that you've all had good experiences on here 😊
Im guessing that guy thought you didnt have a life and spent 34/7 on here x"
meant 24/7 not 34/7 haha |
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"Tbf my experience on here has been pretty good overall. Had some good meets, great chats - i think only one guy was a bit of a prick, but I think thats because I didnt respond to his message in 0.1 seconds 😅
Im glad to hear that you've all had good experiences on here 😊
Im guessing that guy thought you didnt have a life and spent 34/7 on here x meant 24/7 not 34/7 haha"
More than likely, I blocked him so its all good |
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I think sometimes it’s to do with how you feel about yourself. Are there things I’d love to tweak? Absolutely! But on the whole, I love my body and I genuinely believe if people feel that vibe from you, they’re more than likely to love it too haha. Obviously can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but that’s life for everyone.
I will say that some men on here message because they think I must be desperate for some kind of male attention because of my size.
I also find things easier to navigate if people are clear on their profile that they are into different kinds of body types- including on the curvier end. |
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"I think sometimes it’s to do with how you feel about yourself. Are there things I’d love to tweak? Absolutely! But on the whole, I love my body and I genuinely believe if people feel that vibe from you, they’re more than likely to love it too haha. Obviously can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but that’s life for everyone.
I will say that some men on here message because they think I must be desperate for some kind of male attention because of my size.
I also find things easier to navigate if people are clear on their profile that they are into different kinds of body types- including on the curvier end."
I will admit thats one of my worries that some men will reach out as if im desperate for male attention or a "pity fuck" because of my size. Has that happened to you?
Same I just go for the profiles that are open to all shapes and sizes |
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Had not had many bad experiences, but funny enough last couple of days had someone who not only criticised my size, basically a fat pig, but also my age, zimmer frame was mentioned a few times . 1 exceptionally bad one, amongst many nice ones. X |
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"I think sometimes it’s to do with how you feel about yourself. Are there things I’d love to tweak? Absolutely! But on the whole, I love my body and I genuinely believe if people feel that vibe from you, they’re more than likely to love it too haha. Obviously can’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but that’s life for everyone.
I will say that some men on here message because they think I must be desperate for some kind of male attention because of my size.
I also find things easier to navigate if people are clear on their profile that they are into different kinds of body types- including on the curvier end.
I will admit thats one of my worries that some men will reach out as if im desperate for male attention or a "pity fuck" because of my size. Has that happened to you?
Same I just go for the profiles that are open to all shapes and sizes"
Yes, absolutely has happened to me before. Literally messaged me saying “I bet it’s difficult for you on here” lmao. I literally met my partner on here but sure 🤷🏽♀️😂 |
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This is the trouble with magazines like women's health and mens health promoting body images that for most are unobtainable, then begins the spiral of self loathing, doubt and reducing self confidence as you're not able to look ripped/beach fit or whatever else the media and exercise gurus use to promote their business by making you feel inadequate.
I've found swingers clubs (at least the small more intimate ones) for me to be a body positive experience, with a far more relaxed and confident attitude to sexiness regardless of size or age.
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I remember back in the 90s when I went to see a dr and got told I was obese and it hit me hard as I was only a size 10 but weighed 10 and a half stone..but i was 5ft 11 but that stuck with me for a bit. |
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"I remember back in the 90s when I went to see a dr and got told I was obese and it hit me hard as I was only a size 10 but weighed 10 and a half stone..but i was 5ft 11 but that stuck with me for a bit."
It doesn’t help that BMI is based on white mens bodies 🤦🏽♀️. I had the same, classed as obese when I was a 12/14 lol |
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"I remember back in the 90s when I went to see a dr and got told I was obese and it hit me hard as I was only a size 10 but weighed 10 and a half stone..but i was 5ft 11 but that stuck with me for a bit.
It doesn’t help that BMI is based on white mens bodies 🤦🏽♀️. I had the same, classed as obese when I was a 12/14 lol"
Wow both are shocking! I swear you could break a finger and they would throw BMI at you 🙄
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I like curves... most men do love warm soft sexy curves..
I don't really hang a tittle on bodies, that depends on there name and if we seem to get along and like each other ... the get along thing being the most important bit to me. |
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I think size is unimportant compared to what you are happy with, and is healthy for you. A site such as Fab unfortunately does encourage negative comparisons and competition.🤷 |
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"What’s your experience been like on here, honestly?
As a plus size / BBW woman myself, I don’t know many women on here who look like me, so I’d love a real discussion 😊
Has it been fun, a headfuck, or a bit of both?
And men who are genuinely into plus size women, or have been with plus size women, feel free to answer too.
Xx"
It’s been ok. Met a few guys, regularly some of them. That said, I no longer meet. Casual sex is NOT for me, alas.
I think my circumstances are unique, as not only am I fat but I am also very tall and I have body hair, so the number of men who would find me attractive is limited before I even start.
It is what it is.
My inbox has only ever received a handful of negativity about my size. Off Fab I have dated and had long term relationships. |
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"What’s your experience been like on here, honestly?
As a plus size / BBW woman myself, I don’t know many women on here who look like me, so I’d love a real discussion 😊
Has it been fun, a headfuck, or a bit of both?
And men who are genuinely into plus size women, or have been with plus size women, feel free to answer too.
Xx
It’s been ok. Met a few guys, regularly some of them. That said, I no longer meet. Casual sex is NOT for me, alas.
I think my circumstances are unique, as not only am I fat but I am also very tall and I have body hair, so the number of men who would find me attractive is limited before I even start.
It is what it is.
My inbox has only ever received a handful of negativity about my size. Off Fab I have dated and had long term relationships."
And gorgeous you look too |
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"What’s your experience been like on here, honestly?
As a plus size / BBW woman myself, I don’t know many women on here who look like me, so I’d love a real discussion 😊
Has it been fun, a headfuck, or a bit of both?
And men who are genuinely into plus size women, or have been with plus size women, feel free to answer too.
Xx
It’s been ok. Met a few guys, regularly some of them. That said, I no longer meet. Casual sex is NOT for me, alas.
I think my circumstances are unique, as not only am I fat but I am also very tall and I have body hair, so the number of men who would find me attractive is limited before I even start.
It is what it is.
My inbox has only ever received a handful of negativity about my size. Off Fab I have dated and had long term relationships.
And gorgeous you look too "
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"I was seduced by a woman older than me.
I was young. She was a BBW. And boy. What a night!
Will always be my preference "
I'm hoping that a few will think of me this way. I had a few encounters with younger guys when I was single. They definitely seemed into it 
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I've had the odd insult after turning someone down and also was sent a pig emoji by someone who I'd not even read the msg 🙄.
I'm just learning to love how I look after coming out of a long marriage where I was put down ect.
Body confidence isnt something that comes easy to me but I do appreciate when I'm complimented.
Some days when a guy who is what i would say is out of my league msgs I do wonder what they find attractive.
Upto now I would say it is mostly a positive experience for me on here. |
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"I remember back in the 90s when I went to see a dr and got told I was obese and it hit me hard as I was only a size 10 but weighed 10 and a half stone..but i was 5ft 11 but that stuck with me for a bit."
Not only stunningly beautiful but tall too. Perfection. |
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I've not had any negative meet experiences based on my size.
The odd 'big girl' comment or 🍑 size...tell me something I don't know!
Sad and 😡 knowing that some ladies have had to read worse.
Ladies...you're all beautiful, be confident, know your worth and set the bar high x
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I’ve played with many plus sized women, it’s always been great. They’ve always been confident and happy in themselves (or that’s how it seemed to me), that’s always a recipe for attractiveness. I love curves! |
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"I've not had any negative meet experiences based on my size.
The odd 'big girl' comment or 🍑 size...tell me something I don't know!
Sad and 😡 knowing that some ladies have had to read worse.
Ladies...you're all beautiful, be confident, know your worth and set the bar high x
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I'm hoping that a few will think of me this way. I had a few encounters with younger guys when I was single. They definitely seemed into it
Katie "
They would be queuing. Clearly, Im not the only one |
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By *sWyldWoman 4 weeks ago
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In general the only person who has ever had an issue with my body has been me. Unfortunately at times its left my confidence so low that its stopped me from experiencing things I'd have liked to or meeting people but once I get out my own head I have a great time (and have been for far too many years to count! )
I don't think my size or shape is a factor for anyone except me. |
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"In general the only person who has ever had an issue with my body has been me. Unfortunately at times its left my confidence so low that its stopped me from experiencing things I'd have liked to or meeting people but once I get out my own head I have a great time (and have been for far too many years to count! )
I don't think my size or shape is a factor for anyone except me. "
I’m sure that’s true. For what it’s worth I think your body is lovely. But I know from experience that that is not always enough! |
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People who have an issue with weight are completely self absorbed n haven’t got a clue about how the world turns. I’m a bigger gentleman but I’m absolutely fine with it I play rugby n who actually gives a flying fuck wat people think. Opinions are like aresholes. Everyone has one n half are full of shit. Xx |
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By *orcsmatMan 4 weeks ago
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Back in the 70s, my size 20 wife would go out with her similarly sized friend and pick up guys at a disco. (Said it was s long time ago.)
Only on one occasion did the girls fail to pick up a couple of guys, fuck them in the cars and return home with a creampie in them.
Size was never a problem for them. Both attractive.
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Thats what im noticing since ive been on here - grand total of 6 weeks - guys seem to be attracted to confident women.
There was a thread on here where someone had asked what your ideal partner would look like and at the time only 2 men said slim, all the other men wrote curves - thats encouraging
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"Thats what im noticing since ive been on here - grand total of 6 weeks - guys seem to be attracted to confident women.
There was a thread on here where someone had asked what your ideal partner would look like and at the time only 2 men said slim, all the other men wrote curves - thats encouraging
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I wouldn't confuse Fab with reality. |
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"Thats what im noticing since ive been on here - grand total of 6 weeks - guys seem to be attracted to confident women.
There was a thread on here where someone had asked what your ideal partner would look like and at the time only 2 men said slim, all the other men wrote curves - thats encouraging
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Totally agree - confidence is so attractive. And so are lovely curves like yours |
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If anything I would say plus size women are more fun on here and I don't just mean in the bedroom.
Your less judgemental compared to an onlyfans wannabe, I've had some really nice conversations on here with plus size women.
For me that's priceless.x |
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"Thats what im noticing since ive been on here - grand total of 6 weeks - guys seem to be attracted to confident women.
There was a thread on here where someone had asked what your ideal partner would look like and at the time only 2 men said slim, all the other men wrote curves - thats encouraging
I wouldn't confuse Fab with reality."
Babe im not, ive been plus size majority of my adult life, I know what life is like outside of Fab 🙂 |
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Seeing more BBW on fab and I welcome it personally, everyone should be proud of their body and feel free to find enjoyment etc as others do here on fab. My experience with BBW has been, if not more enjoyable than with others. |
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"Thats what im noticing since ive been on here - grand total of 6 weeks - guys seem to be attracted to confident women.
There was a thread on here where someone had asked what your ideal partner would look like and at the time only 2 men said slim, all the other men wrote curves - thats encouraging
I wouldn't confuse Fab with reality.
Babe im not, ive been plus size majority of my adult life, I know what life is like outside of Fab 🙂"
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"People who have an issue with weight are completely self absorbed n haven’t got a clue about how the world turns. I’m a bigger gentleman but I’m absolutely fine with it I play rugby n who actually gives a flying fuck wat people think. Opinions are like aresholes. Everyone has one n half are full of shit. Xx "
Why would you say they're self absorbed? |
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We find it so funny how a few single males think bbws are so hot sexy and amazing
Until we say we're not looking for single males and it's a no thanks from us
Then they get very abusive and insulting towards us saying it would be a sympathy fuck and how A is so ugly (amazing how they know that considering we don't have public face pictures)
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"I’ve had quite a few people saying they like my curves"
Curves are lovely! I do like a woman that has the “fuller figure”!
No need for anyone to be nasty. If it’s not your thing just scroll on by is my opinion!
So any of you larger, lovely ladies fancy chatting, just slip in to my message box!…😉 |
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"We find it so funny how a few single males think bbws are so hot sexy and amazing
Until we say we're not looking for single males and it's a no thanks from us
Then they get very abusive and insulting towards us saying it would be a sympathy fuck and how A is so ugly (amazing how they know that considering we don't have public face pictures)
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It happens all the time. Rejection brings out the mean side of people and they try to find anything they can to hurt you. |
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I’m not really that interested in women under about a size 20 , my main preference is more the the larger size and just love how women with big boobs, bellies , bums and thighs look and fit me so much sexier than slimmer women, also find personality wise and feeling relaxed and comfortable is something I find I like , the whole package is how it works |
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I fluctuate in weight, sometimes I'm a 14, sometimes I'm an 18/20. All the time I have a big apron tummy. Regardless I have found that some people genuinely don't give a shit. It's just sex. Some people really do give a shit, not their type and some people think that big girls are desperate. |
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"We find it so funny how a few single males think bbws are so hot sexy and amazing
Until we say we're not looking for single males and it's a no thanks from us
Then they get very abusive and insulting towards us saying it would be a sympathy fuck and how A is so ugly (amazing how they know that considering we don't have public face pictures)
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Yep i get this alot.. when I first joined years ago, thise people really got to me. This time round though I calmly rip them a new ars until they block me and then I giggle lol |
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"We find it so funny how a few single males think bbws are so hot sexy and amazing
Until we say we're not looking for single males and it's a no thanks from us
Then they get very abusive and insulting towards us saying it would be a sympathy fuck and how A is so ugly (amazing how they know that considering we don't have public face pictures)
Yep i get this alot.. when I first joined years ago, thise people really got to me. This time round though I calmly rip them a new ars until they block me and then I giggle lol "
Probably the same guys that constantly post in the forums asking why they're not getting any responses to their messages with their one line profile and dick pic next to a lynx Africa deodorant
I've been big since I was at school and I learnt to live with it early on in life and so I just ignore any negativity and embrace the positivity!
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Yep i get this alot.. when I first joined years ago, thise people really got to me. This time round though I calmly rip them a new ars until they block me and then I giggle lol
Probably the same guys that constantly post in the forums asking why they're not getting any responses to their messages with their one line profile and dick pic next to a lynx Africa deodorant
I've been big since I was at school and I learnt to live with it early on in life and so I just ignore any negativity and embrace the positivity!
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Lol yes most probably lol. Wonderful attitude to it sweet.and your stunning. |
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"I've had the odd insult after turning someone down and also was sent a pig emoji by someone who I'd not even read the msg 🙄.
I'm just learning to love how I look after coming out of a long marriage where I was put down ect.
Body confidence isnt something that comes easy to me but I do appreciate when I'm complimented.
Some days when a guy who is what i would say is out of my league msgs I do wonder what they find attractive.
Upto now I would say it is mostly a positive experience for me on here."
I didn't want to respond to any one person in particular (so many beautiful women on this thread, I can't possibly just single out one stunner) but what you said about your ex annoyed me, and I think it's important to push back against that sort of abusive bullshit;
You're gorgeous. Genuinely very, very sexy. And your ex fucking knows you are, he put you down because it was a means to manipulate you. Chances are he knew full well he was punching above his weight and wanted to destroy your confidence to try and stop YOU realising it.
When people tell you youre beautiful - and they WILL tell you... 😍😍😍 - please believe them. Don't let the negging of a mediocre dickhead convince you that you're anything less than a fucking queen. ❤️ |
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As a size 20 lady, the comments on here are very refreshing to read. Being on the curvaceous side can be confidence battering on a site like this and I do struggle with self confidence so its nice to see so many nice comments. |
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"Truthfully, the only insults ive had have been off the back of me turning them down 🤣😬
My experience on here has been a positive one. Men seem to like curves more these days."
Same here I'm normally only fat if I don't want to interact with someone
And i know someone said something about this being fab not the real world...I get hit on in the real world also I've never been short of attention here or in real life |
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This is my 3rd time on here and mostly positive. I've been called some awful things when I've ignored or turned men down but few and far between.
However I'm skeptical if a man tells me he prefers bigger women and yet all his verifications are slim women. I don't engage with him nor if he has loads of pics with slimmer women.
Also I take compliments with a pinch of salt here. Some people will say anything to get a leg over.
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By *eniaCoupleCouple 3 weeks ago
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Its been amazing for my confidence! No negative experiences really. Guys who i thought would never be into me have been, very surprising.
Some even making me feel so good about my body.
On a club visit a guy made comment about bigger girls not being his thing.. fair enough I didnt pursue. The next visit he was there and he was very interested after all 😜. The only thing holding me back is not my weight, its myself being ok with my body. |
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Genuinely, I think it is a bit of everything.
Half the time as a plus size man its down to actually being Genuine and not letting people down.
Be upfront of what you want and work from there.
If you are just there to message then do it but be upfront and also dont get annoyed if you get turned down and send shit back.
Women are stunning in the eyes of the person that likes what they like.
At least in my experience plus size women at least know what they want and are more upfront about it |
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I’m plus size with a huge belly and because I’m short I look even larger, I have had mixed feedback some like it and some don’t. I’ve lost 3 stone and still got 3 more to lose, most of the body shaming has come from when I’ve turned someone down. You look great OP |
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Hard to know who’s not bothered (as it should be - body type shouldn’t really matter), who’s just that desperate to get their end away that they claim to be into bigger girls as they think we’ll be grateful (nice try!), and those who want to tick off a kink. Hoping my dickhead filter is refined enough so that I only meet the first type!
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Lots of men like and fancy plus size women and I am one of these men, but there is no women fancy a fat or a bit over size (plus size) men and that is the problem in this sight.
I am a plus size body but am 190cm so that make me classed as obese or the better way I like to tell myself a little giant.
Contextual Definition: In a casual, social context, a 190 cm, 135 kg man is often considered a "giant" or "tank" because they stand out significantly in a crowd and have a commanding physical presence.
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By *hesblokeMan 3 weeks ago
Derbyshire village |
When my wife (larger lady) and I had our couples account here, we had many comments, probably 8/10 were pleasant and the others were fairly grim. We went in the chatrooms a few times and had lots of fun, more guys showed (ahem) their appreciation for her (obviously didn't give a monkeys about me haha) than otherwise. |
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By *BWHunterMan 3 weeks ago
Central Bedfordshire |
I love bbw/plus size women. Quite hard to find someone that likes me. I’m a big black guy, not gym fit so it’s quite a hard sell. I remember messaging a plus size woman on here and she said “There’s no point both of us being big”. I took it on the chin and kept it moving.
Anyway, I love curvy, plus-size bbw women just haven’t found one that’s interested in me |
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"Lots of men like and fancy plus size women and I am one of these men, but there is no women fancy a fat or a bit over size (plus size) men and that is the problem in this sight.
I am a plus size body but am 190cm so that make me classed as obese or the better way I like to tell myself a little giant.
Contextual Definition: In a casual, social context, a 190 cm, 135 kg man is often considered a "giant" or "tank" because they stand out significantly in a crowd and have a commanding physical presence.
Sorry "
Simply not true. My preference is for generally larger men- I love wide shoulders haha. My hot other half is. Anyone who can’t figure out how to make two larger bodies work together, doesn’t have the imagination I need to have fun in the bedroom 😂 |
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Can't say we've had many (if any) negative experiences regarding luna's size/shape, she does seem to get plenty of positive attention. The negatives usually come from luna and her own perception of herself.
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By *vaRoseWoman 3 weeks ago
Ankh-Morpork |
It’s mixed….
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* There are guys genuinely into plus size women.
* There are guys who fetishise plus size women.
* There are guys who would like to shame anyone plus size - usually after being turned down
* There are guys who will happily fuck a plus size lady but who will never be seen with them in public (often as a bonus action you’ll overhear them shaming anyone plus size to their friends)
* there are guys who will boldly tell you that you’re not their usual type but they’re willing to make an exception…. Spoiler! it’s not a compliment fellas.
* finally there are guys who don’t necessarily measure attraction on someone’s dress size.
I think there’s a lot of the type that will fuck you but wouldn’t want to be friends in public and the type who will tell you you’re not bad for a fat lass
However there really are some lovely members here and there’s a lid for every pot. I’m not everyone’s type, that’s ok. I still think I can be fat and sexy and the two aren’t exclusive |
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"Lots of men like and fancy plus size women and I am one of these men, but there is no women fancy a fat or a bit over size (plus size) men and that is the problem in this sight.
I am a plus size body but am 190cm so that make me classed as obese or the better way I like to tell myself a little giant.
Contextual Definition: In a casual, social context, a 190 cm, 135 kg man is often considered a "giant" or "tank" because they stand out significantly in a crowd and have a commanding physical presence.
Sorry "
I enjoy larger men. So long as they have the energy and I fancy them. Sadly some larger men just lay there and expect the lass to do all the work, I’m not here for that! |
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I love the look and feel of a larger woman, far sexier than a skinny mini.
Usually a very fun person and attitude too.
Getting past the message clutter and coming across a genuine thats the usual challenge.
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By *recticWoman 3 weeks ago
taunton |
I’ve been every size going since joining fab. I’ve been on and off a lot and 2.5 years ago I was 16.5 stone heavier. My inbox remains the same, still too many messages to manage. I think it’s pretty body positive around here, confidence gets the attention.
The forums are full of love for women with thick thighs, big boobs or even just women with a softer belly. Enjoy it.
I didn’t hate myself bigger btw I just got too old to carry it healthily and started suffering with joint pain.
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Confidence doesn’t come from fitting into someone else’s idea of beauty; it comes from deciding that you’re already enough. At the end of the day, attraction, beauty, and worth aren’t one-size-fits-all. There’s space for all of us, exactly as we are. And honestly, there’s something incredibly powerful about someone who knows that and lives it unapologetically.
Be you for you always !!
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