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Fab is difficult for guys in general.
Fab skews older and that makes it harder for guys under 30.
Most women look at profiles before replying, and you might want to put more on yours.
It also depends on the messages you send. |
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3months on fab is virtual foetus stage.
The chrysalis has barely formed around you.
Your wings are still wet, rest on the branch a moment before you try to fly.
It's not a race. And if it were it'd be a marathon.
A watched pot never boils??? I think it might actually but you get the gist.
Jeez I'm all out of metaphors.
Just be chill dude. It's spring. The birds be nesting. Your worm will get gobbled up in no time, Bruh |
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"3months on fab is virtual foetus stage.
The chrysalis has barely formed around you.
Your wings are still wet, rest on the branch a moment before you try to fly.
It's not a race. And if it were it'd be a marathon.
A watched pot never boils??? I think it might actually but you get the gist.
Jeez I'm all out of metaphors.
Just be chill dude. It's spring. The birds be nesting. Your worm will get gobbled up in no time, Bruh"
Great minds think a like …. And what she said. |
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One line text on your profile of looking for fun does not do it for me. I find painting, dress making, reading and hiking fun, is that what kind of fun you’re into? I like to get a bit more about a person, I have that many messages, I would not be drawn in with a basic profile.
Although your picture is good as in taken well, I’d prefer more photos.
That first message also needs to capture.
But also remember, the ratio of men to women does not work in your favour |
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"I’m not an ugly guy I’m well gifted what’s the issue where am I going wrong is it just too many men here over women "
Tbh we get many guys msg and many things can be an instant nope from us, can't speak for everyone of course but.... 1.Dick pic and 1st messege saying something like "she is sexy" "are you free tonight" or just plain and simple "Hey"
2. No face pic or lack of pics in general
3.Bio with no information to entice someone to you
4.Not addressing the partner in a couple big no no
In short make effort and respect for people go a long way (Not saying you don't just making some points)
Happy swinging  |
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"I’m not an ugly guy I’m well gifted what’s the issue where am I going wrong is it just too many men here over women "
Are you writing anything worth replying to? If somebody wrote anything to us that is as sparse as your profile text we certainly wouldn't bother replying. |
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"I belly laughed... Not at the predicament, just at the accuracy!
You're not pulling your punches tonight! 😬🤣
Noted (tones down brattiness)
Don't turn it down on my account 🤣"
Looks at your account.... |
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"I belly laughed... Not at the predicament, just at the accuracy!
You're not pulling your punches tonight! 😬🤣
Noted (tones down brattiness)
Don't turn it down on my account 🤣
Looks at your account...."
How was the account? |
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"I belly laughed... Not at the predicament, just at the accuracy!
You're not pulling your punches tonight! 😬🤣
Noted (tones down brattiness)
Don't turn it down on my account 🤣
Looks at your account....
How was the account?"
What stage of beard are you at now? |
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"I belly laughed... Not at the predicament, just at the accuracy!
You're not pulling your punches tonight! 😬🤣
Noted (tones down brattiness)
Don't turn it down on my account 🤣
Looks at your account....
How was the account?
What stage of beard are you at now?"
26th March |
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"I belly laughed... Not at the predicament, just at the accuracy!
You're not pulling your punches tonight! 😬🤣
Noted (tones down brattiness)
Don't turn it down on my account 🤣
Looks at your account....
How was the account?
What stage of beard are you at now?
26th March"
Oh man, I had a yoghurt in the fridge with that date on! |
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"I belly laughed... Not at the predicament, just at the accuracy!
You're not pulling your punches tonight! 😬🤣
Noted (tones down brattiness)
Don't turn it down on my account 🤣
Looks at your account....
How was the account?
What stage of beard are you at now?
26th March
Oh man, I had a yoghurt in the fridge with that date on! "
What does that even mean 🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
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"I belly laughed... Not at the predicament, just at the accuracy!
You're not pulling your punches tonight! 😬🤣
Noted (tones down brattiness)
Don't turn it down on my account 🤣
Looks at your account....
How was the account?
What stage of beard are you at now?
26th March
Oh man, I had a yoghurt in the fridge with that date on!
What does that even mean 🤣🤣🤣🤣"
Just showing the OK how easy it is to get a reply |
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Pure statistics...... single guys are in abundance on here, couple this saturated market with the fact most guys are treating it as a guaranteed shag and get hissy when they're knocked back does paint guys in a good light.
Stand out.....we'll thought messages, nice photos. Maybe go to a club where the numbers are less against you and you can articulate yourself in person. |
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"A reply is always polite and helpful even if to say good luck but not interested sorry "
Do you know how many messages I get daily? If I replied to every one I would never be able to go to work! For every one I reply to, I get four more! And once you reply, they never leave you alone! "Hey stranger" " how's you" "remember me?" " we chatted before" |
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"A reply is always polite and helpful even if to say good luck but not interested sorry
Do you know how many messages I get daily? If I replied to every one I would never be able to go to work! For every one I reply to, I get four more! And once you reply, they never leave you alone! "Hey stranger" " how's you" "remember me?" " we chatted before""
I'm sure and wasn't a recommendation or criticism for others just a comment on what I do. Yeah any woman on here it's probably not practical for. |
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Being gifted and not ugly is fine and well but both are subjective and irrelevant at this point as we've only got your word for it.
Expecting others to do the heavy lifting and contact you or reply to you when they have nothing to go on will always lead to failure.
There are many ungifted and ugly people on here who do very well because they have done the groundwork. |
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I was on this site for over a year before I got a response, you’ve not asked for profile advice but like others have said, there’s your underlying problem to start. Keep your expectations at rock bottom, never expect a reply from a message you send out, my best advice would be to attend organised socials, oh and don’t come across as arrogant cause you’re “gifted”, you’ll find women are more interested in what’s between your ears not your legs. |
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"I got classed as "gifted" in school. What that actually meant was "undiagnosed ADHD/Autism"....
That's just 'special'"
Nothing wrong with special: I've been told I'm spezial. Window licking special. Jus sayin.  |
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It may help to have more information about what you are looking for and something about you. One sentance doesn't really tell anyone anything. As someone else has said, market yourself better and maybe a few more public pictures. |
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"I’m not an ugly guy I’m well gifted what’s the issue where am I going wrong is it just too many men here over women "
One thing you’ve learnt is that looks isn’t everything. Although this is a very visual medium, you have to be able to communicate effectively too. Read your thread out loud as an example. |
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Nah, just be yourself bud.. I find this site is about luck really.. sometimes you have to be in the right place, at the right time..
But I still say you mae your own luck.. put yourself out there, go to socials, go to clubs.. meet people.. its all about building that network and friendship first |
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Oh My God ! Hubba Hubba. NOT ugly and gifted too. Now the women know this, there's gonna be one hell of a handbag fight.......
No ugly AND gifted....... i'm mind blown.
Starting this thread was a brilliant idea - a master advertising stroke but do get those doors re enforced.
Good luck O.P. xx |
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"Just saw that as well. Who knew!!! Glad we are all here for the same thing...simp validation and keratin based yeasty afflictions. Lovely x"
Too early for popcorn? This is getting UFC level brutal now 🤣 |
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"Own a highland coo... its works for me.
Well did, I dont have one now 
Nooooo 😭 what happened to the little coo??"
Long story short, she got ill, really bad, vets got involved and basically said 2 options, put her to sleep or keep her alive spending thousands to then put her to sleep in a years time while risking the rest of the livestock on the farm. |
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