On here it's a lot for some and not a lot for others.
I'm still in single figures but found during my time using the forums that some people are quick to mock low numbers as much as others will judge higher numbers. |
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Why does anyone even need to count, let alone know what someone else's 'body count' is!?!?
If someone can tell me how it actually impacts someone's ability to be a decent human being I'll... well I'll try and work out my number, but my memory isn't what it used to be 👵🏻🧠 |
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"was watching MAFS last night was going on about body count got me thinking about mine got up to 63 sure i missed some and cant remember names . not sure whether to laugh or cry . is it a lot ?"
Amateur ^^ |
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I don't think mines that high. I remember all of them and would certainly know them if I met them at an event. I would like to think that they would remember me also 🤣🙈 but maybe I'm naive
Would I tell someone my number? Im not sure. |
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Ive always had a high body count, have no idea of most of there names and some i didnt even see, i used to think all swingers where the same
Its only when I joined swingers sites that I realised some do know exactly how many. I can only estimate at a rough guess, would be interesting to know exactly just how many I have slept with |
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What determines a 'body'?
If it's full sex including penetration, I'd say somewhere between 15 & 20
If it's other forms of sexual activity, I couldn't guess with any accuracy, but it'd but three figures |
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"What determines a 'body'?
If it's full sex including penetration, I'd say somewhere between 15 & 20
If it's other forms of sexual activity, I couldn't guess with any accuracy, but it'd but three figures"
three fingers counts as sexual activity ... |
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It’s not a phrase that I have heard before in the context of counting people who we have been intimate with, and I have to say that I really don’t like it.
It feels somewhere between heartless and anorak.
Could I write an accurate chronological list of everyone, no, but in the moment, each one was my absolute focus and I’d like to think that it was the same for them with regards to me.
Just because we don’t want to settle down with everyone who we have sex with, shouldn’t in my opinion reduce that time to being just a notch on a stick. |
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"I know my number (and all their names!) but I do t think it’s important for anyone else to know. want one more? 😉
Are you offering? 😀only if you know my name ...  "
Ah, give with one hand and take with the other 😂 |
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"I enjoyed their music back in the day even if they were controversial
Ice-T wasn’t it? Xx 😄yep.
(I too have been spending this thread singing body count body m-f+in count...)"
Muthaheckin Ice T...Body Counts in the house!
I have a Bootleg copy of the original (before the ban)  |
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"I know my number (and all their names!) but I do t think it’s important for anyone else to know. want one more? 😉
Are you offering? 😀only if you know my name ...
Ah, give with one hand and take with the other 😂"
the special move of a slightly sadistic pleasure dom |
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I know mine, not hugely high. Know half of their names, but in lots of those cases not offered or probably faked. After all swing sites are for discreet meets, not life stories.
But of my number I would say all I enjoyed, some not as I expected from chats leading up. But that's the fun, a different experience. |
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By *ilbzMan 7 weeks ago
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I am still on my first body, but quite often feel that it maybe worn out and that i should consider replacing it.
Sadly they closed the local branch of the bodyshop so not really sure where i can source one locally… |
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"I know all of their names - though one of them I refer to as 'forgotten Sue' cos I always forget her when trying to recall partners.
Poor sue 🫶🏻"
It distinguishes her from the other Sue who is not forgotten! |
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"I know all of their names - though one of them I refer to as 'forgotten Sue' cos I always forget her when trying to recall partners.
Poor sue 🫶🏻
It distinguishes her from the other Sue who is not forgotten! "
I have “feather rub guy” - can’t remember his name. But he didn’t find my clit, even after rubbing my public mound back and forth with the lightness of a feather. |
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"I know all of their names - though one of them I refer to as 'forgotten Sue' cos I always forget her when trying to recall partners.
Poor sue 🫶🏻
It distinguishes her from the other Sue who is not forgotten!
I have “feather rub guy” - can’t remember his name. But he didn’t find my clit, even after rubbing my public mound back and forth with the lightness of a feather. "
*pubic |
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"I know all of their names - though one of them I refer to as 'forgotten Sue' cos I always forget her when trying to recall partners.
Poor sue 🫶🏻
It distinguishes her from the other Sue who is not forgotten!
I have “feather rub guy” - can’t remember his name. But he didn’t find my clit, even after rubbing my public mound back and forth with the lightness of a feather. "
Could have been worse, he could've been a carpenter who's coarse hands rubbed your clit out completely 🤷🏽♂️ |
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I think mine is over 80 at this point, but I lost count to be honest. For me, I prefer women with a very high body count over those who don't. I prefer playing someone who knows what they are doing |
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By *eliWoman 7 weeks ago
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Body count is grim. The concept, the term. Every single part of it.
I can remember exactly who I've had sex with. Their names. The dire and the exhilarating.
Even if I couldn't, it's not a bad thing. You're not going to be suited to someone where it's a big deal, that's all.
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"Quality over quantity! If they didn't make you cum you don't need to add them to your body count! 😁"
I know this is a joke, but it made me think of how rarely I cum during sex, and how I hope it doesn't make my partners think that the sex was anything less than earth-shattering.
It's so much easier for women to cum than men. I get quite envious sometimes. |
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"was watching MAFS last night was going on about body count got me thinking about mine got up to 63 sure i missed some and cant remember names . not sure whether to laugh or cry . is it a lot ?"
Erm … 
What’s MAFS?  |
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"was watching MAFS last night was going on about body count got me thinking about mine got up to 63 sure i missed some and cant remember names . not sure whether to laugh or cry . is it a lot ?"
It's all relative. I met a woman who said she did more than that in one session. I've met others still on number one or two. |
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"Body count is grim. The concept, the term. Every single part of it.
I can remember exactly who I've had sex with. Their names. The dire and the exhilarating.
Even if I couldn't, it's not a bad thing. You're not going to be suited to someone where it's a big deal, that's all.
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Exactly this.  |
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"I know all of their names - though one of them I refer to as 'forgotten Sue' cos I always forget her when trying to recall partners.
Poor sue 🫶🏻
It distinguishes her from the other Sue who is not forgotten!
I have “feather rub guy” - can’t remember his name. But he didn’t find my clit, even after rubbing my public mound back and forth with the lightness of a feather.
*pubic"
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BC 80s, hoping to hit my 100 mark before I give up on swinging. 
