"Do people look and consider height when looking at a profile and thinking about meets?"
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Yes, many do, some don't. I'm not tall but I'm not offended by those who stipulate a minimum height. It's all good. 🩶 |
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I mean don't get me wrong its not the be all and end all I do like a guy who is tall but if I liked someone shorter I would meet them and have done...but what really pisses me off is the men that lie about their height as that happens a lot.
But I do always check out someone's height if the profile catches my eye. |
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"All the time. One thing I really can't back down on is someone shorter than me.
What about the height makes yoy think that way?"
It's just my preference. It just doesn't work for me. We've met guys the same height as me where I've been slightly taller in shoes, which isn't a problem. But no to an obvious height difference for me. |
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By *AYENCouple 3 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
Being tall is mostly advantageous on here but it's not the be all end all - I've seen guys that are only 5'6" with lots of verifications and guys 6' plus with none. If being tall is your only positive, it likely won't help much. |
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Well it's not something I can change, so I cant let it worry me.
Back at school and probably into 20s in certain job roles it was something I thought about. But dad was 5ft10 and mum 5ft and half inch, so im glad I went above midway.
Fitness and healthy lifestyle i can do something about. |
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By *sm265Woman 3 weeks ago
Perthshire |
Height isn't something I ever really check on profiles because its not that importantto me. Some men seem to feel like they need to mention it in introductory messages, so it obviously matters to some people. |
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I once had a boyfriend who was shorter than me, many years ago. When he used to hold my hand in public, it used to make me feel self conscious. Felt more like crossing your little brother across a road than a boyfriend. I think that's always stuck with me 🙈🙈🙈 |
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"I get the impression that it's important to most women, but unimportant to most men
Most men would fuck a rolling doughnut to be fair. 🍩"
I like the jam filled ones - the custard filled ones are a bit suspicious. |
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There's a few things I can't change. My height and skin tone are two.
Both seem to be barriers to some on here, but I'm not that bothered.
My first wife was 5'11" and my second was 5'. I enjoyed being the taller, rarely does that happen in all walks of my life being the height I am.
I have no issue being the shorter in any situation as there is sweet FA I can do about it...
Given the choice - I'd happily be 6'+ - but I'm not blessed with such options...
I use what I've got to my advantage and see no point in misleading people about it. Same as my age...
I dislike liars, so endeavour to never be one.
Peace and Love
J x |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 3 weeks ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"I get the impression that it's important to most women, but unimportant to most men
Most men would fuck a rolling doughnut to be fair. 🍩"
I've had guys say they would meet me, if I wasn't as tall as I am... Ah to be a rolling doughnut. |
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"I get the impression that it's important to most women, but unimportant to most men
Most men would fuck a rolling doughnut to be fair. 🍩
I've had guys say they would meet me, if I wasn't as tall as I am... Ah to be a rolling doughnut."
Just checked out your page - one of the best bios I’ve read 🤣🤣 |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 3 weeks ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"I don't care about height. If the lady is shorter or taller than me, it doesn't matter to me. It seems to matter more to women than men, as others have already pointed out."
I think this is something guys say so as not to put off a potential shag. A bit like guys saying they don't have a preference body wise.
Ideally, guys will always want a woman that is shorter than them. |
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"When I was meeting i wasn't really interested in someone's height as im only 5ft and everyone is taller than me"
During my bachelor's I had dated this lovely girl she was my senior, tallest girl in college with collosal height of 4ft 3inch, fairly light to swing around, intimacy was just electrifying 🔥 |
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"I don't care about height. If the lady is shorter or taller than me, it doesn't matter to me. It seems to matter more to women than men, as others have already pointed out.
I think this is something guys say so as not to put off a potential shag. A bit like guys saying they don't have a preference body wise.
Ideally, guys will always want a woman that is shorter than them. "
I would say that I prefer a woman who isn't taller than me, and I'm 6ft so there aren't many around. But same height or smaller is fine. |
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"I don't care about height. If the lady is shorter or taller than me, it doesn't matter to me. It seems to matter more to women than men, as others have already pointed out.
I think this is something guys say so as not to put off a potential shag. A bit like guys saying they don't have a preference body wise.
Ideally, guys will always want a woman that is shorter than them. "
Not always. I genuinely don't care. I'm always the big spoon. We are all different. Some people have preferences for body type or race or certain size for private parts. Some people have a preference for personality, connection, character, chemistry. The wonderful diversity of the human experience. |
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"I dont think ive ever looked at anyones height
Men ask me mine a lot tho
I think theres almost a domination element of being taller than a lady "
Perhaps aye
I dont mind a stockier guy 💕 kinda prefer tbh |
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By *essTTWoman 3 weeks ago
Birmingham |
I do
I've been 5 foot 8 since I was about 12/13 years old and it was always commented on by other so while I'm not insecure about it now I was. But as a result I only like female partners around my height or male partners alot taller than me
I understand you didn't ask for an explanation however I constantly get called shallow for having a preference so i always feel the need to explain why x |
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I look at height in profiles because TheHusband is 6ft and he's giving me this fantastic opportunity to play around, so I'm guna choose wisely, I don't want someone shorter or the same height as me
TheBF is 6ft3 😈 |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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"I get the impression that it's important to most women, but unimportant to most men
Most men would fuck a rolling doughnut to be fair. 🍩
I like the jam filled ones - the custard filled ones are a bit suspicious."
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No, but if any 5’10” and above ladies want to make themselves known, I absolutely won’t be mad about it. Also, I didn’t realise exaggerating height was a common thing for men, so I’m now identifying as 6’6”. |
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"Do people look and consider height when looking at a profile and thinking about meets?"
Yep, will always check a woman's height, if they are close to mine or over I'll not bother sending a message.
There's so many that say they are looking for tall blinds too I'll not bother if I see that written in a profile. |
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By *am450Man 3 weeks ago
Sidcup/Bexley |
"I get the impression that it's important to most women, but unimportant to most men
Most men would fuck a rolling doughnut to be fair. 🍩
I've had guys say they would meet me, if I wasn't as tall as I am... Ah to be a rolling doughnut."
This should resurrected for the next,"why can't I get a meet thread" surely ??  |
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"^ tall, dark and handsome - well, I'm 6ft8, I can switch the lights off and lie about the rest but My good girl says I'm a duvet with arms "
Profile says 6ft7. What have you been eating to grow and extra inch at your age? Colour me interested |
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"^ tall, dark and handsome - well, I'm 6ft8, I can switch the lights off and lie about the rest but My good girl says I'm a duvet with arms
Profile says 6ft7. What have you been eating to grow and extra inch at your age? Colour me interested"
He explains it in his profile. |
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By *recticWoman 2 weeks ago
taunton |
I don’t care. I do glance it but it’s not an indicator of how tall a guy is at all. I don’t think a guy who is 5’11 exists, they tend to be around my my height and all guys who are 5’8/5’9 on here are an inch or two shorter than me at least. I never mention it. If I did I’m sure there would be demands to know my weight and body fat percentage. |
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By *essTTWoman 2 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"^ tall, dark and handsome - well, I'm 6ft8, I can switch the lights off and lie about the rest but My good girl says I'm a duvet with arms
Profile says 6ft7. What have you been eating to grow and extra inch at your age? Colour me interested"
The height option doesn't go above 6 foot 7 |
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"Any men ever factor in height when meeting women or not so much ? "
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IF I'm searching with the possible intention of messaging someone then yes, because they may have a minimum height requirement that deems me as incompatible.
Otherwise...not so much. |
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By *essTTWoman 2 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"^ tall, dark and handsome - well, I'm 6ft8, I can switch the lights off and lie about the rest but My good girl says I'm a duvet with arms "
I've had playmates 6ft6 and 6ft7 and it feels amazing having a man Tower over you like although certain positions can be tricky |
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For me women have to be under 5’ 7” it’s a trauma response that I have been trying to get rid of for years, the unfortunate thing is there is more than one woman who I see pop up in the forums that are a lot taller than me and are the whole package, I mean absolutely stunning that as they say is life. |
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By *essTTWoman 2 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"For me women have to be under 5’ 7” it’s a trauma response that I have been trying to get rid of for years, the unfortunate thing is there is more than one woman who I see pop up in the forums that are a lot taller than me and are the whole package, I mean absolutely stunning that as they say is life."
Why would you be refered to as BBC? |
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Yes, I like height/dress size weight ratio indicator as some camera angles tell a different story. We like to invest our time in those that are a mutual attraction. I prefer men taller than 5'9/10 as I'm 5'7" just personal preferences |
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I only go for taller guys (min 5ft10 but ideally 6ft+) - short men just don’t do it for me. I’m only 5ft3 but like to feel tiny/overpowered and am definitely more submissive. Tall men have sense of power and dominance and I just don’t feel you get that from a short guy. It’s also why I’m not into skinny guys either. |
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It doesn't really bother me. Sure, more petite women are great because only being 5'8", it does make me feel a bit more manly but I've also met or had sex with women my height or taller than me and it's never been an issue because we get on well. I do understand if women want a taller guy to make them feel more petite as well. |
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Height never bothered me, I never had a lass taller but don’t see many 6ft +, there a lass at the gym got to be at least 6’6” haha
I just hope I don’t end up below 6 foot I was 6’2” in my 20s but a shade under 6’1” now hope no more shrinking |
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"Height never bothered me, I never had a lass taller but don’t see many 6ft +, there a lass at the gym got to be at least 6’6” haha
I just hope I don’t end up below 6 foot I was 6’2” in my 20s but a shade under 6’1” now hope no more shrinking "
I can wear some heels for a 1st  |
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"Height never bothered me, I never had a lass taller but don’t see many 6ft +, there a lass at the gym got to be at least 6’6” haha
I just hope I don’t end up below 6 foot I was 6’2” in my 20s but a shade under 6’1” now hope no more shrinking
I can wear some heels for a 1st "
Haha sounds like a plan |
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"I love how some women in this thread say they wouldn't go for a guy under 6', but than slide into my DM's like they ice-skating 👀"
🤣🤣🤣🤣💣💧 i said the same size as me or taller so im not one of them 🤭 |
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By *agic.MMan 2 weeks ago
Orpington |
"I love how some women in this thread say they wouldn't go for a guy under 6', but than slide into my DM's like they ice-skating 👀
🤣🤣🤣🤣💣💧 i said the same size as me or taller so im not one of them 🤭"
Oh yes I remember that conversation 😁...and how dissapointed you were when I said I'm technically 5'6.9" 😳 |
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"I love how some women in this thread say they wouldn't go for a guy under 6', but than slide into my DM's like they ice-skating 👀
🤣🤣🤣🤣💣💧 i said the same size as me or taller so im not one of them 🤭
Oh yes I remember that conversation 😁...and how dissapointed you were when I said I'm technically 5'6.9" 😳"
I know you could of just said you wernt interested tbh 🤣 |
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I'm 5'8"-ish.
I tend to feel a bit odd if a potential partner is taller than me, but I also find it a wee bit uncomfortable with really short people.
Folk that are 5'0" and such.
I like it when my partner is about the same height as me. Just a touch shorter.
Tall enough to be to able to look me in the eye, but still be able to fit my arm around them without slouching  |
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By *agic.MMan 2 weeks ago
Orpington |
"I love how some women in this thread say they wouldn't go for a guy under 6', but than slide into my DM's like they ice-skating 👀
🤣🤣🤣🤣💣💧 i said the same size as me or taller so im not one of them 🤭
Oh yes I remember that conversation 😁...and how dissapointed you were when I said I'm technically 5'6.9" 😳
I know you could of just said you wernt interested tbh 🤣"
Don't be shifting the blame on me now 😅 |
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By *mf123Man 2 weeks ago
with one foot out the door |
"Yes must be bigger that 4ft 5 im like a rollercoaster its dangerous
They would tower over you if they were that height 🤣🤣zip it ya shrimp
I'm not THAT small 🤣🤣" big enough to put in my pocked be careful theres a hole in my pocket |
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"Yes must be bigger that 4ft 5 im like a rollercoaster its dangerous
They would tower over you if they were that height 🤣🤣zip it ya shrimp
I'm not THAT small 🤣🤣big enough to put in my pocked be careful theres a hole in my pocket"
My names not Polly 😅 |
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If I’m going on a social with a guy I prefer him to be 5’11” + as I’m 5’6” and with heels I’m 5’10”-5’11 and I’d prefer not to be looking down at him .
If it’s just a play meet any height is ok as we’re about the same laid down |
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