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Leaving fab (maybe)
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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Im thinking of leaving the site, thanks to everyone who has messaged along the few months ive been on here, i just feel like the women on here are looking for something i cannot supply whether its an age thing or muscle thing but i respect women and hope they find what theyre looking for, but for now i shall have a think on it
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Don't so it.
Stick around, eventually something will come your way.
Fuck what they want/think. Respectfully of course.
There will be those out there that you will appeal to, sometimes it takes longer than we would like but the best way is to stick around and let it play out. Unforced. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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"Perhaps you could remove the woman's face pic from your profile while your having a think around whether you stay or go.
It would be the right thing to do"
I got consent off her and she said she didnt mind so as far as im aware im not doing anything wrong |
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By *eliWoman 3 weeks ago
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The only person who can really decide is you, OP. There are lots of threads from other single men who have found things... not easy on here. I will say (well, type) - you might not be what some women are looking for. You will be for some.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 3 weeks ago
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" op you could just put your profile to hidden ..
take some time away from here do other things that interest you outside of this .. you know have a small break from this place for a bit. "
Think that’s what I’m going to do |
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By *sm265Woman 3 weeks ago
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Fab isnt the right place for everyone OP. Only you can decide if it is right for you.
Often the site doesn't live up to expectations...usually because the expectations were unrealistic to begin with.
Maybe just hide your profile and have a break from the site for a few weeks? Or hang around and chat in the forums and cam rooms and get to know people a bit?
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" op you could just put your profile to hidden ..
take some time away from here do other things that interest you outside of this .. you know have a small break from this place for a bit. "
Agree with this
I hide mine every so often... always good to have a mini break and do something else. |
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"Im thinking of leaving the site, thanks to everyone who has messaged along the few months ive been on here, i just feel like the women on here are looking for something i cannot supply whether its an age thing or muscle thing but i respect women and hope they find what theyre looking for, but for now i shall have a think on it
Happy fabbing "
WELCOME BACL!!! |
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By *avexxMan 3 weeks ago
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op its got nothing to do with muscle you can have some of mine if you want  ,, but age deffo i just use the forums for a bit of fun and have enjoyed it,,, for me i may hide my profile or call it a day  |
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"Imagine a FAB airport where you could announce your departure?! 😅
Sorry you feel this way OP, perhaps not be here so seriously, after all I’m sure 95% of the people here are here for fun. x "
Lay off. Some people get disheartened.
Why jump on them? |
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"Im thinking of leaving the site, thanks to everyone who has messaged along the few months ive been on here, i just feel like the women on here are looking for something i cannot supply whether its an age thing or muscle thing but i respect women and hope they find what theyre looking for, but for now i shall have a think on it
Happy fabbing "
Nobody cares.
Bye 👋🏼
Mr DD. |
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By *athomMan 3 weeks ago
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How big a a part of your life is Fab OP ?
We probably joined for similar reasons but it soon become apparent it’s not sex on a plate.
I see it as a distraction to my hum drum routine and enjoy the threads and the views 😊
I park the profile occasionally for a break perhaps sit out for a while. |
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"op its got nothing to do with muscle you can have some of mine if you want ,, but age deffo i just use the forums for a bit of fun and have enjoyed it,,, for me i may hide my profile or call it a day "
I've been rejected a few times because I'm too muscular. So deffo a myth that muscly guys do well 😂 |
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"Im thinking of leaving the site, thanks to everyone who has messaged along the few months ive been on here, i just feel like the women on here are looking for something i cannot supply whether its an age thing or muscle thing but i respect women and hope they find what theyre looking for, but for now i shall have a think on it
Happy fabbing
Nobody cares.
Bye 👋🏼
Mr DD."
Mean |
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"Im thinking of leaving the site, thanks to everyone who has messaged along the few months ive been on here, i just feel like the women on here are looking for something i cannot supply whether its an age thing or muscle thing but i respect women and hope they find what theyre looking for, but for now i shall have a think on it
Happy fabbing
Nobody cares.
Bye 👋🏼
Mr DD.
Mean"
Already copped a 48hr ban. But so tempted.🤬 |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 3 weeks ago
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"I've never seen the point of leaving and deleting when it's perfectly simple to just log off, take a break and come back if/when you want to.
Far simpler than starting over. 🤷♂️"
From someone who does delete quite regular, it's takes about 5mins to set a new account up when you want to come back. And sometimes it's good to not be here at all! |
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"Im thinking of leaving the site, thanks to everyone who has messaged along the few months ive been on here, i just feel like the women on here are looking for something i cannot supply whether its an age thing or muscle thing but i respect women and hope they find what theyre looking for, but for now i shall have a think on it
Happy fabbing
Nobody cares.
Bye 👋🏼
Mr DD.
Mean
Already copped a 48hr ban. But so tempted.🤬"
Not worth it. |
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"I've never seen the point of leaving and deleting when it's perfectly simple to just log off, take a break and come back if/when you want to.
Far simpler than starting over. 🤷♂️
From someone who does delete quite regular, it's takes about 5mins to set a new account up when you want to come back. And sometimes it's good to not be here at all! "
You? Delete regularly?
I'd never noticed. 😉😂 |
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"Im thinking of leaving the site, thanks to everyone who has messaged along the few months ive been on here, i just feel like the women on here are looking for something i cannot supply whether its an age thing or muscle thing but i respect women and hope they find what theyre looking for, but for now i shall have a think on it
Happy fabbing
Nobody cares.
Bye 👋🏼
Mr DD.
Mean"
I was joking (sort of) 😇 |
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One reason it is so hard for single men on here is because most of them are arseholes, how does anyone find a good one…needle in a haystack.
We have been looking for a single man for Amanda, 25 slim and beautiful AND she prefers older. Really simple you would think but we have pretty much given up on here. We had our first experience a couple of weeks ago but had to go in the real world rather than online. |
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Ah I can almost guarantee that if a 'popular' forum poster made a post about leaving the replies would be so different.....In these times of mental health being a core focus people should be more mindful
Do what's best for you OP. Good luck |
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I was a single male on here for eight years before I got married. You know the score and you know it will be harder for you to find meetings. Meetings are about chemistry and not just the sex if that makes any sense at all. I think it’s about respect and humanity and enjoying sex for pure hedonistic pleasure. that’s how I see it anyway. Now I am married of course meetings are easier if you’re finding it impossible then maybe the vibe you’re giving off isn’t what people are looking for. Maybe you could find a partner who is also into sexual positivity and enjoy it together? X |
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"Ah I can almost guarantee that if a 'popular' forum poster made a post about leaving the replies would be so different.....In these times of mental health being a core focus people should be more mindful
Do what's best for you OP. Good luck"
Agree.
You do you OP maybe just hide your profile for a little while.
You seem a nice person from what ive seen on the forums im sure if you get involved more that will shine through |
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"Call me cynical, but is just a way to get people to look at one's profile. Hope I'm wrong.
Doubtful seeing as the OP has hidden it....
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Not to begin with, but I'm happy to be wrong. I hope OP does what's best for him and his health. |
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Well op, for a 66y old who's thin (definitely not your steroid muscle Mary) I don't do too bad - it has taken time and effort on my behalf, visiting a club fairly regularly gets you noticed eventually. Wearing something outrageous or stylish definitely gets you noticed and that's when the contacts start (at least for me).
So fellas for those of you struggling to be seen above the hoards of other men make yourself stand out and visit a club regularly |
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Yes as a single guy fab can be quite daunting and kill your confidence a little. But that's just the dating and casual world in a whole if you're not the type of guy that just seems to be a woman magnet.
The best thing I can say is get to clubs and social. They've done pretty well for me and I've always been welcome (at least most of the time).
Yes it's a sex site but it's also not just one big orgy. People are just as picky as the vanilla world. It's just a numbers game and who can put themselves in the best light the best |
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Try the dating sites, but be absolutely clear and upfront on what you are looking for, I’ve always had a lot of success on them, I’m always happy for women to practice on me till Prince Charming comes along |
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