So because of my profile status (something about a sale at Ann Summers), a guy just messaged me to not "spend all my husband's money on it". This assumption really pissed me off to the core. I'm the breadwinner.
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I don't really care what people I've met have assumed about me. So there's not a chance in hell I give a flying one about some random sending me a message. (No better example of a block & forget imho.) |
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That because I'm a gentleman and write actual messages and have actually read a profile that I'm just like everyone else. Maybe, just maybe, don't assume I'm looking for sex straight away. Maybe I actually want to meet you and work out if we have some chemistry ... Wait, this is turning into a rant isn't it. Sorry. |
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"Being single and not accommodating makes me a cheat. Maybe my adult kids live with me and I don't get my home to myself ever."
Yep, had that one, although mine aren't adults. And even when I do get a night to myself maybe I don't want to invite a stranger from the internet to the place where my children live. |
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"Being single and not accommodating makes me a cheat. Maybe my adult kids live with me and I don't get my home to myself ever.
Yep, had that one, although mine aren't adults. And even when I do get a night to myself maybe I don't want to invite a stranger from the internet to the place where my children live. "
you know it and have the dog ranting at them to scare them off lol |
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That if I mention a sexual thing on here, I a) definitely want to do it and b) definitely want to do it with them and c) definitely want to do it with them right now.
This goes doubly for my fiction. Writing a story means I want to write a story. |
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Guys who assume that sending 'Hi gorgeous' or similar to a joint profile is going to get a serious and non sarcastic response. As clearly the male half of the profile would never maybe read the messages lol. |
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"Guys who assume that sending 'Hi gorgeous' or similar to a joint profile is going to get a serious and non sarcastic response. As clearly the male half of the profile would never maybe read the messages lol."
Although just for the record......I am absolutely gorgeous lol. (Male obviously typing) lol
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"That because I'm South Asian, I would be really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex"
Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here |
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"That because I'm South Asian, I would be really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex
Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here "
But it's a wider society issue as well in how South Asian men can be stereotyped when it comes to approaching women that has also found its way here. Not that it's the thread for a discussion on that, anyway. |
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Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here
ASSUMPTION ALERT!!!
(Although you’re probably not far off)"
Ha ha, it sort of annoys me that people might assume I'm like that but my annoyance is directed at the thousands of men who are like that not the person making the assumption |
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"Being single and not accommodating makes me a cheat. Maybe my adult kids live with me and I don't get my home to myself ever.
Yep, had that one, although mine aren't adults. And even when I do get a night to myself maybe I don't want to invite a stranger from the internet to the place where my children live. "
THIS 
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"That because I'm South Asian, I would be really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex
Being really pushy and have no standards when it comes to sex has nothing to do with race, it's 90% of the men on here
But it's a wider society issue as well in how South Asian men can be stereotyped when it comes to approaching women that has also found its way here. Not that it's the thread for a discussion on that, anyway."
Yeah, probably not for here but racial stereotyping is pretty much just racism, maybe with a little less hatred thrown in there. |
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People assume that I’m a people pleaser just because I like to see others being themselves and happy, I’m not doing it for people to like me, I genuinely like to see people living their best life.
Oh and people assume I’m a disgusting old pervert, and I’m not disgusting. |
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I’m comfortable enough to not allow others assumptions to bother me. It’s actually a fun and reassuring feeling when someone assumes incorrectly and you don’t even feel the slightest urge to correct them. Very rewarding. |
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