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In relationships I've always never used a condom (no kids came from that).
But for casual sex I'd always go for being wrapped as you don't know if you were the first or the 3rd that day.
Someone who was clean 14 days ago might have got something 10 days ago. It's about safeguarding yourself and not the person's feelings |
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By *WB85Man 2 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
I dont see many people, I find the right people for regular meets.
Start with them, build up a level of trust and if the lady suggests it and it feels right I'm ok without.
Regular testing and trust are paramount for this to work though.
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This is why we prefer to find a regular 'friend', with someone who isn't banging anyone with a pulse. Condoms irritate me, and if I'm feeling irritated, I'm not enjoying myself as much as I should be. We get tested regularly, to be on the safe side. No issues so far. |
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"Without for most it's down to who it's with.
I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please  "
I hope your inbox is protected 🤔😂 |
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"Without for most it's down to who it's with.
I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please "
How about FAF messages? 😂😂😂 |
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"Without for most it's down to who it's with.
I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please
How about FAF messages? 😂😂😂"
Always open to those Stannners  |
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"If you was given the choice my the female/male that you are having sex with what would your preference be?
Mine would be without (I'm straight) "
Not sure what sexual orientation has to do with it.
I'd only go without if in a trusted, exclusive situation. And testing would come before any change to protection.
Pregnancy isn't the only concern. Nor is an STI. There's HPV-related cancer too. The silent lurker. |
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"If you was given the choice my the female/male that you are having sex with what would your preference be?
Mine would be without (I'm straight) "
Mine would be with as I always worry about my sexual health |
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I guess it's very circumstantial based on the situation. If it's a partner or spouse, then obviously you're less likely to use protection compared to a one-off or casual set up. All parties have to agree on the decision. It's never fair to just ask the woman to take the pill either. For me, that should be a last resort as they carry too many side-effects for regular use and moreso than the inconvenience of using a condom anyway! |
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Preference is always without a condom but it’s not worth the risk! Safety first with strangers. I have known people catch things when they weren’t careful and it’s always scared me into being safe |
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"Without for most it's down to who it's with.
I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please "
It could be said that you left your self wide open for that 😂 |
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We play between ourselves without condoms but with others we always play with condom unless they were a trusted regular FWB.
It’s only happened once where a regular FWB of over a year played without.
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Off! I could'nt belive what a guy did on Sunday in a club. I was on the orgy bed. Bodies, arms, legs, body parts, you get the picture. A guy shoved a condom clad cock in my face for me to suck. As I grab hold, I realise he's got a condom on. "I'M ALERGIC, to latex" I scream, as I radpidly pull away from the offending cock.
Most guys don't know about latex allergy. Let alone condoms are made with latex. We have our own latex free version. For such occasions. But some thought, ask / tell before shoving cocks would be nice. |
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With each other we don’t use them but ALWAYS play safe with others.
We have said the only change to this is if were to find a regular play mate or couple that got tested as regular as we do but even then that’s still something yet to happen and might never happen.
I get it condoms don’t taste or feel as nice as skin but much nicer than what can happen if they aren’t used ! |
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"I don’t know any man (or woman in fact) who would honestly say sex isn’t better without a condom, but it’ll always be safety first with us when we play with others. "
this.
As much as I'd love to find someone we can play bb with ... It's unlikely outside a polycule of sorts. |
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