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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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What’s your order of priority when it comes to selecting someone to meet? Cock/tit size, attractive face, body type, age, good convo in messages, other?
Ours is…
Good convo in messages
Cock (not size, but shape and look)
Body type
Age
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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Get on with them in messages. You know when it's enjoyable to talk to them? Yep that's the lofty standard set.
Do I think they're attractive? Doesn't mean I'm attracted to them, have to at least think they're attractive.
Would spending time together be a good idea. |
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"What’s your order of priority when it comes to selecting someone to meet? Cock/tit size, attractive face, body type, age, good convo in messages, other?
Ours is…
Good convo in messages
Cock (not size, but shape and look)
Body type
Age
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They have to be breathing |
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So the attributes that makes me want to meet are:
Good conversationalist with a sense of humour, someone that I find attractive and is in relatively good shape with something more than a micro cock.
I know I am dead fussy. 😊
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First and foremost that they're single, unless I'm meeting a couple of course.
Bit of banter, ability to hold a conversation, a little bit of charm and some sexual chemistry feels like a good start |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 2 weeks ago
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"Also I don’t “select” someone to meet. It’s not a menu 🤣"
I disagree. The site provides a list of available options and we all choose. Sounds like a menu to me 😊 |
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I'm a sucker for a well written bio, then having similar interests is always a good starting point as it gives us something to talk about.
Physically, I don't think I have a particular type? They just have to have that Va Va Voom! They either have it or they don't.
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Can string a sentence together.
On over a year, at least 1 verification for actual meet.
Photos and profile showing a bit of effort and not living in a untidy room.
Green arrows showing witty, funny forum posts not using nonsense pseudo intellectual babble to impress.
Not much to ask.....or is it.  |
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"Also I don’t “select” someone to meet. It’s not a menu 🤣
I disagree. The site provides a list of available options and we all choose. Sounds like a menu to me 😊"
We shall continue to disagree. Because there’s no point in me choosing them off the ‘menu’ if I’m not also their choice. There’s not many restaurants where they say “sorry, the fish and chips doesn’t want to be eaten by you” |
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I have no order of priority because women, in my experience, have qualities that vary between one another.
As long as she's up to date with her cervical screening tests then I'll take all the other factors on a case-by-case basis. 💌 |
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"What’s your order of priority when it comes to selecting someone to meet? Cock/tit size, attractive face, body type, age, good convo in messages, other?
Ours is…
Good convo in messages
Cock (not size, but shape and look)
Body type
Age
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For me its...
Age
Are they single/playing with consent
Attraction
Body
Conversation
Cock size/pretty pussy 😋
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Everything must be rooted in reality and honesty rather than an online persona shrouded in filters and abstracts. Attraction IS important, of course it is- but connection is the most important thing- without it ( at least for me) there is no going forward.
...that said nice tits and a decent cock please.  |
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By *sm265Woman 2 weeks ago
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Personality is by far most important. Their ability to engage in interesting (non sexual) conversation and their sense of humour. If I dont enjoy your company over a cup of coffee or glass of wine, then I don't want to have sex with you.
I need to find their appearance attractive (but that doesn't necessarily mean they need to be stereotypically good looking). Eyes and smile are key features.
Body shape, height etc are not very important to me, I am generally not attracted to skinny men though.
Penis size is not high on my list of priorities (although my preference is average size and too small or too big would likely be a "no thanks"). Some penis shapes don't appeal to me though.
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Firstly they have read our profile.
Secondly face pic.
Thirdly cock size, nothing below 4 inches but not fussy about size other than that.
Location is fourth on the list because some people do travel or can meet them in a club.
Lastly can they actually hold a conversation and appear to have personality. It’s only so far down the list because if we don’t like the look of them or they don’t align with our profile their conversation skills are irrelevant therefore why it’s so low down on our priorities for a match.
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Do we get along, have we got things in common - similar outlooks, similar interests both vanilla and sexual. Do they turn my brain on basically. Can we have a conversation that I find genuinely enjoyable.
Do I think we will be sexually compatible.
Am I attracted to them? Do I find them hot in photos and feel hopeful that will translate into real life.
Are the logistics of meeting up simple. |
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"Not a dickhead.
Down to earth.
A vag that doesn’t look or smell like the back end of a bin lorry.
The mr
🤣🤣🤣 you always make me laugh "
I can happen from time to time. Always though that’s a stretch 😂😂
The mr |
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"Not a dickhead.
Down to earth.
A vag that doesn’t look or smell like the back end of a bin lorry.
The mr
Picky 🤣"
Well of course, no point in beating around the bush ( no pun intended). Don’t want to wine and dine a bird then be disgusted by a fish supper.
The mr |
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