I’m attracted to married women and the partners of my friends.I’m simply turned on by women who are in relationships.
Do you women feel the same way—are you attracted to men who are already taken, or is it the opposite? |
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I don't understand why "in a relationship" is something that makes someone attractive or not.
I'm attracted to physical attributes, personality, that sort of thing. I'm as attracted to "relationship status" as I am to "brand of dishwashing liquid used" - it's irrelevant.
(Also, two married people meeting each other sounds like a logistical nightmare) |
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"All"
Blumin heck, that's a lot of women, but the 'all' is slightly belied by your age preferences!
Anyway, assuming that there are approximately 4.13 billion women in the world, and whilst hard to predict, estimates in 2024 were that just under two thirds of them were married or in a partnership, then that means OP that there are 2.64 billion women that you are attracted to!
Go for it my son! |
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"I don't understand why "in a relationship" is something that makes someone attractive or not.
I'm attracted to physical attributes, personality, that sort of thing. I'm as attracted to "relationship status" as I am to "brand of dishwashing liquid used" - it's irrelevant.
(Also, two married people meeting each other sounds like a logistical nightmare)"
It's more a case of I'd assume the taboo of it, the actual act that is attractive more than the women themselves hence his "all". To which he isn't really attracted to the and simply has a fetish of married woman. |
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"I don't understand why "in a relationship" is something that makes someone attractive or not.
I'm attracted to physical attributes, personality, that sort of thing. I'm as attracted to "relationship status" as I am to "brand of dishwashing liquid used" - it's irrelevant.
(Also, two married people meeting each other sounds like a logistical nightmare)
It's more a case of I'd assume the taboo of it, the actual act that is attractive more than the women themselves hence his "all". To which he isn't really attracted to the and simply has a fetish of married woman. "
Fair. I measure fetish and kink separately.
I have a fetish for X and am attracted to people I'm attracted to, and people who fulfil both are extra cool, but I'm not attracted to all X. |
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Blumin heck, that's a lot of women, but the 'all' is slightly belied by your age preferences!
Anyway, assuming that there are approximately 4.13 billion women in the world, and whilst hard to predict, estimates in 2024 were that just under two thirds of them were married or in a partnership, then that means OP that there are 2.64 billion women that you are attracted to!
Go for it my son!"
Half that number as Ive been there first and they are now. ‘Ruined for other men!!’   |
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Blumin heck, that's a lot of women, but the 'all' is slightly belied by your age preferences!
Anyway, assuming that there are approximately 4.13 billion women in the world, and whilst hard to predict, estimates in 2024 were that just under two thirds of them were married or in a partnership, then that means OP that there are 2.64 billion women that you are attracted to!
Go for it my son!
Half that number as Ive been there first and they are now. ‘Ruined for other men!!’ "
Damn you Todger, always quick off the mark and spoiling it for us mere mortals! |
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Blumin heck, that's a lot of women, but the 'all' is slightly belied by your age preferences!
Anyway, assuming that there are approximately 4.13 billion women in the world, and whilst hard to predict, estimates in 2024 were that just under two thirds of them were married or in a partnership, then that means OP that there are 2.64 billion women that you are attracted to!
Go for it my son!
Half that number as Ive been there first and they are now. ‘Ruined for other men!!’
Damn you Todger, always quick off the mark and spoiling it for us mere mortals!"
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I've worked in various offices and women are worse than men when together for looking at a "bit on the side". This regardless if they are married or in a relationship. Very sad in my opinion. I did not go for it though. |
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By *WB85Man 2 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
The first thing I do is separate the vanilla world and swinger side of things and don't cross the line.
Ladies who have consent to play are what I'm attracted to. I dont need someone else's drama, life's complicated enough. |
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It's not something I seek out for its own sake, but I have had affairs with two married women without their husbands' knowledge.
The first was getting back at him after he'd cheated, although they were still living together.
The second was merely wishing to be seen as sexy and sexual again after years of no sex and being treated like a comfy old sofa.
There was a certain thrill in it both times, partly the illicitness and subterfuge, and partly the feeling of awakening their sexual side again and making them feel desired. |
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"Nah. I'm attracted to various things, but one of the big ones is honesty, and that gets ruled out by someone who cheats on their spouse 💜"
But approximately 70% of marriages someone cheats at some point,men and women FACT.
Then there are open marriages...not sure why so many people post would never meet married person. ..when nearly every man on here says they are single when they aren't.....Always makes me laugh when people are on a swinging site ( by it's nature a site to swing! Not find a relationship!) |
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We prefer married men here, partly because they are less inclined to start with the hormone-charged bullshit, but mainly due to married guys having a lot more to be discrete about.
We don't target married guys in the Carrie Fisher type way - to punish husbands for daddy breaking up the family home - but more a practical matter. |
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I’d never knowingly do it I was kind of tricked into it and even though I thoroughly detest the bloke and would love any opportunity to batter him I still felt bad and ashamed of myself big believer in not doing to others what I wouldn’t like doing to me and always live my life by it |
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"We prefer married men here, partly because they are less inclined to start with the hormone-charged bullshit, but mainly due to married guys having a lot more to be discrete about.
We don't target married guys in the Carrie Fisher type way - to punish husbands for daddy breaking up the family home - but more a practical matter."
Married guy here who wants to meet you when I'm on the Island.
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"I’m attracted to married women and the partners of my friends. I’m simply turned on by women who are in relationships."
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Do you just take their word for it or do they have to provide evidence, e.g. marriage certificate?
If they are unable to prove it does it kill your arousal, lust and erection? |
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Unfortunately I know it’s rude but I’ve always been turned on by women who are already in relationships and I’ve always had fantasies about them.I’m really curious what women think about this and whether there are any here who feel the same way. |
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By *ykiesxMan 2 weeks ago
Eastbourne |
I do not chase partnered or married woman neither do i turn them down if they signify interest.
Bortherline, i like a scenario where hisbands or partners are aware and consenting of me being with their partners, Or at best, they dont care who they fuck.  |
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By *ykiesxMan 2 weeks ago
Eastbourne |
A hard boundary and NO for me will be having grudge sex.
I think its way beneath me to help someone cheat back on their spouse or partner.
Anything else, maybe fair game.
I love and chase attraction, seduction but all must be without drama |
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"Nah. I'm attracted to various things, but one of the big ones is honesty, and that gets ruled out by someone who cheats on their spouse 💜
But approximately 70% of marriages someone cheats at some point,men and women FACT.
Then there are open marriages...not sure why so many people post would never meet married person. ..when nearly every man on here says they are single when they aren't.....Always makes me laugh when people are on a swinging site ( by it's nature a site to swing! Not find a relationship!)"
I said I don't care for cheaters and don't consider being married a point of attraction.
One of my partners is married and his Mrs enthusiastically consents to our relationship, so I have no issue with open marriages.
Nor do I have an issue with finding less than 30% of the population acceptable on a single base level. That still leaves me 2 billion to pick from, and I doubt I'll find even 1% of that number in my lifetime that I actively want to fuck 💜 |
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My ex wife used to prefer meets with married men then FB stalking them afterwards. If she had beef with any of her female friends she would make a point of sleeping with their partner as a form of revenge. Wimmins, you is nutz. |
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"My ex wife used to prefer meets with married men then FB stalking them afterwards. If she had beef with any of her female friends she would make a point of sleeping with their partner as a form of revenge. Wimmins, you is nutz. "
My wife used to say married men were safer as they left her alone after the one meet, some of her single men meets used to pester her for more regular meets.... I had not thought of that before.... |
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"I’m attracted to married women and the partners of my friends.I’m simply turned on by women who are in relationships.
Do you women feel the same way—are you attracted to men who are already taken, or is it the opposite?"
No. I am confident , no low self esteem and have nothing to prove or put my stamp on. |
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"I don’t know… it’s just about physical attraction and fantasies. I’m simply turned on by what I can’t have.And I’m curious if there are any women here who feel the same"
Is it that? Or do you think it could be like using something but not having full responsibility for it and it's less likely to kick up a fuss or hang on to you afterwards ?
You know .... like happily minding someone's kids for the night and enjoying the laughs but only cos you know they go back in the morning |
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