Absolutely, I started on fab looking for ways to tick off some things on my bucket list. ( Fuck it list ) Now I'm bored by the club scene and find NSA very hollow. I'd say I don't know what I'm looking for. I use fab mostly fir the forums and the vids  |
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"Howdy lovelies 
Would you say your tastes/ what you’re looking for have changed since you arrived at this crazy world of fab ??
Nosey me "
I only became active again about 4 weeks ago, but yeah my tastes have changed in that time, and since my first stint. I'm just about getting back into the swing of things and when I came back I was a bit tentative. I was trying to be the me from my old profile on Fab. I've realised I've mellowed a lot and what I want and how I want to get it has changed completely. Much more selective (Despite the huge forum flirting fun) and the type of person I am interested in is less focussed on the physical. |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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Yes. When I first joined I was looking for strictly NSA sex to explore sex with men. Zero friendships.
It took me maybe a month or so to realise that did very, very little for me.
And then there was a whole heap of discovering what worked. Right now it's not actually looking for anything. If things happen, great, if not, I'm very happy with my life and the people in it. ❤️ |
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Yup. MFM became our favourite when we thought it would be MFFM. Thought we’d hate clubs but do them more than private meets and really enjoy them - though haven’t been to one for a while. Right now it’s pretty quiet. |
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"Absolutely, I started on fab looking for ways to tick off some things on my bucket list. ( Fuck it list ) Now I'm bored by the club scene and find NSA very hollow. I'd say I don't know what I'm looking for. I use fab mostly fir the forums and the vids "
How come the club scene now bores you?? |
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"Howdy lovelies
Would you say your tastes/ what you’re looking for have changed since you arrived at this crazy world of fab ??
Nosey me
I only became active again about 4 weeks ago, but yeah my tastes have changed in that time, and since my first stint. I'm just about getting back into the swing of things and when I came back I was a bit tentative. I was trying to be the me from my old profile on Fab. I've realised I've mellowed a lot and what I want and how I want to get it has changed completely. Much more selective (Despite the huge forum flirting fun) and the type of person I am interested in is less focussed on the physical."
We all change |
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"Yes. When I first joined I was looking for strictly NSA sex to explore sex with men. Zero friendships.
It took me maybe a month or so to realise that did very, very little for me.
And then there was a whole heap of discovering what worked. Right now it's not actually looking for anything. If things happen, great, if not, I'm very happy with my life and the people in it. ❤️"
What a great outlook |
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"Yup. MFM became our favourite when we thought it would be MFFM. Thought we’d hate clubs but do them more than private meets and really enjoy them - though haven’t been to one for a while. Right now it’s pretty quiet. "
The wonderful fab of discovery |
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Yes. I originally came on the site invited by a friend who became a fwb. I leave frequently but come back drawn by the Forum. I like the banter, sarcasm, humour and camaraderie, but not really looked to meet this time back, but who knows... |
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By *WB85Man 2 weeks ago
Staffordshire |
Its changed dramatically.
We joined here only looking for couples and wouldn't entertain anything else.
4 way attraction is a nightmare, and couples in general feel complicated....or it has for us anyway.
Now we focus more so on the solo aspect. For a family like ours, it removes the childcare restraints.
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"Yes. I originally came on the site invited by a friend who became a fwb. I leave frequently but come back drawn by the Forum. I like the banter, sarcasm, humour and camaraderie, but not really looked to meet this time back, but who knows..."
Never say never |
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"Absolutely, I started on fab looking for ways to tick off some things on my bucket list. ( Fuck it list ) Now I'm bored by the club scene and find NSA very hollow. I'd say I don't know what I'm looking for. I use fab mostly fir the forums and the vids
How come the club scene now bores you?? "
I hope this doesn't offend anyone but it's just very clicky. I'm Demisexual so I find it difficult to be attracted to someone in a club. |
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"Yes. When I first joined I was looking for strictly NSA sex to explore sex with men. Zero friendships.
It took me maybe a month or so to realise that did very, very little for me.
And then there was a whole heap of discovering what worked. Right now it's not actually looking for anything. If things happen, great, if not, I'm very happy with my life and the people in it. ❤️"
This pretty much sums up how I approach the site too, apart from the sex with men part |
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By *eliWoman 2 weeks ago
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"Yes. When I first joined I was looking for strictly NSA sex to explore sex with men. Zero friendships.
It took me maybe a month or so to realise that did very, very little for me.
And then there was a whole heap of discovering what worked. Right now it's not actually looking for anything. If things happen, great, if not, I'm very happy with my life and the people in it. ❤️
This pretty much sums up how I approach the site too, apart from the sex with men part"
Yeah, never have sex with men, they're the worst. |
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Not exactly, the last time I did anything like this was 10 years ago, my tastes havent changed but the way I go about things has.
I have a lot more boundaries now, very selective, wont put up with bullshit 😊 |
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Still here for the banter and occasional socials. If I manage to find a FWB that would be great but I won't bank on it. I've been to a few sex parties and get togethers. They were interesting. Some were a lot of fun. I did feel anxious in some settings and couldn't relax. I felt over stimulated by the noises and smells. |
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"Absolutely, I started on fab looking for ways to tick off some things on my bucket list. ( Fuck it list ) Now I'm bored by the club scene and find NSA very hollow. I'd say I don't know what I'm looking for. I use fab mostly fir the forums and the vids
How come the club scene now bores you??
I hope this doesn't offend anyone but it's just very clicky. I'm Demisexual so I find it difficult to be attracted to someone in a club. "
Well hopefully attraction is found  |
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"Not exactly, the last time I did anything like this was 10 years ago, my tastes havent changed but the way I go about things has.
I have a lot more boundaries now, very selective, wont put up with bullshit 😊"
Do it for you…. Not to suit others |
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Yes, mine has. I think thats because my needs in life has changed and what I want.
When I joined I wanted to explore everything and I probably have explored nearly everything and had so many good experiences and often repeated them. Nsa was my main thing
Now, im wanting a more intimate relationship but still open to regular nsa fun with the right people before that happens. |
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By *arierWoman 1 week ago
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Definitely! I came on here purely to explore my interest in women. That turned in to couple swapping with my husband, which led to solo meets and now I find myself in the position of unicorn for my friends 😂🦄 |
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"I’ve forgotten what I joined for, and sometimes wonder why I’m here. Bit like taking the wrong bus but ending up somewhere that’s nicer than you knew.
So it’s better than expected?"
I wouldn’t go that far. |
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After more than two decades swinging with multiple partners and making the transition to loving cock just as much as pussy I think I have changed a lot, but the biggest difference is not taking it at all seriously. Most of it was meh, over hyped nonsense. Some of it has been amazing, eye opening and transformative. It is the half dozen I remember well and fondly that trump the numbers who were just filler episodes. That and a good cup of tea with a fun chat is preferable to flogging a dead donkey. |
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"Yes....I think I've evolved & having experienced things that I never anticipated trying when I first joined, but thoroughly enjoyed, I know more of what I want & definitely what I don't want."
Got to love the art of discovery  |
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By *astpoetTV/TS 1 week ago
London and Southampton |
I joined many moons ago as a single man, fab made me realise I had ab interest in bdsm, that led to discovering pegging, the being open to my sexuality more, then to cross dressing and… well here we are now |
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