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By *oc1998 OP Man 1 week ago
Dundalk |
What one thing would you implement on the website that you think would only benefit everyone as a whole? |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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Granny Crumpet has to have a profile avatar of her bumhole. |
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By *WB85Man 1 week ago
Staffordshire |
Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned.
Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. |
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"Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned.
Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. "
This 👆🏼 |
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You must complete a short survey before joining, to prove you have some sort of personality. |
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By *ayBeeTV/TS 1 week ago
Winchester |
Incognito mode-to be able to turn off that little blue light |
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Improving the search so you can filter on tattoos and piercings. |
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By *oc1998 OP Man 1 week ago
Dundalk |
"Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned.
Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. "
I fully agree with this, but also any abuse, instant ban. If someone is going to do it once, they are gonna do it again |
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Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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"Ban silhouette profiles "
✔️ |
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"Incognito mode-to be able to turn off that little blue light"
Id love the option to not show when online
Sometimes I just want to come on forums and not message and when you're seen online you get abuse for not answering messages 'because you're online' |
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"Free willy "
It already has that in abundance |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
Basic intelligence test.
Below 80% you aren't allowed on.
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"Basic intelligence test.
Below 80% you aren't allowed on.
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That's me out 🤪 |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"Basic intelligence test.
Below 80% you aren't allowed on.
That's me out 🤪 "
I'll think you'll be ok, should narrow the numbers down a fair bit though. |
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Get a new chat interphase. The existing one is so clunky and old. |
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By *wcjw70Man 1 week ago
Great Barr |
"Basic intelligence test.
Below 80% you aren't allowed on.
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Exactly this |
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To be able to edit, rather than delete posts, so you can carrot spelling misyakes |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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"Basic intelligence test.
Below 80% you aren't allowed on.
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We will miss you ! 🤭 |
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"To be able to edit, rather than delete posts, so you can carrot spelling misyakes "
😂 😂 😂
Have reactions to threads so you don't have to quote the person adding an emoji thus taking up 1 of the 175 replies |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"Basic intelligence test.
Below 80% you aren't allowed on.
We will miss you ! 🤭"
I'm not laughing
Nope
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By *vaRoseWoman 1 week ago
Ankh-Morpork |
As images are already categorised when you upload them, members should be able to select which categories they’ll accept in DM’s. That would resolve most of the unsolicited dick pics.
Silhouette profiles can’t send first messages. That way people can still take a break, can hide their account or remove their profile pic - but they also can’t send first messages.
Upon joining mailbox should be locked and require you to open your filters to allow DM’s, not the other way around.
Incognito or busy mode so you don’t have to always show as online.
Photo fabs would have an anonymous option.
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"As images are already categorised when you upload them, members should be able to select which categories they’ll accept in DM’s. That would resolve most of the unsolicited dick pics.
Silhouette profiles can’t send first messages. That way people can still take a break, can hide their account or remove their profile pic - but they also can’t send first messages.
Upon joining mailbox should be locked and require you to open your filters to allow DM’s, not the other way around.
Incognito or busy mode so you don’t have to always show as online.
Photo fabs would have an anonymous option.
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These are really good ideas! 👏 😍 |
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I’m adding search filters.
Don’t want something to appear in a search - filter it out.
Want something in there - filter it in. |
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Better message filters:
* Ability to filter messages by distance
* Ability to filter messages by length (to remove "x" plus dick pics) - I don't want an essay, but I'd probably filter it to two sentences.
* Photo filters in messages, as others have said, to reduce dick pics
Forum functionality
* Can't see forum posters where there's a block in place, or at least default to hide them (I've been on many forums where there's something like "you've blocked BiggusDickus. Toggle to view post") |
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By *ugby 123Couple 1 week ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️"
they will. Normally you don't hear anything back when sending a report but in this case you will. You will get a mail saying they are looking into it and then a mail when resolved.
As Admin ( in a high % of cases ) have to contact both parties then it may take a couple of days after the report has been seen.  |
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By *WB85Man 1 week ago
Staffordshire |
I can't remember what website I joined once. But when you signed up, you couldn't start a dm message conversation for 30 days.
You could be messaged and reply, you just couldn't start the conversation.
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A notification if someone quotes your post in a forum reply. |
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"Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
they will. Normally you don't hear anything back when sending a report but in this case you will. You will get a mail saying they are looking into it and then a mail when resolved.
As Admin ( in a high % of cases ) have to contact both parties then it may take a couple of days after the report has been seen. "
Thank you, caught someone using my pic as their own yesterday and was shocked. I have someone watching that account and they still have my pic up unfortunately 24 hours later 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ |
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When you block somebody, you dont see their forum threads or posts. Their pics dont show on your updates feeds etc.
Once blocked, they are essentially deleted from "your" Fab |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 1 week ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
A distance filter - it's just admin when someone 200 miles away messages you.
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Ban profiles that beg for likes on their photos or videos. |
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Resolve the verifications disappearing off your profile, when someone deletes their account. ‘User No Longer on Site’ would be fine…..👌 |
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By *WB85Man 1 week ago
Staffordshire |
"A notification if someone quotes your post in a forum reply."
This is a great idea. Scrolling back is so annoying. |
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"When you block somebody, you dont see their forum threads or posts. Their pics dont show on your updates feeds etc.
Once blocked, they are essentially deleted from "your" Fab"
But then you wouldn't see my post on forums 😉😜😂 |
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"Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️"
Admin do and as I explained to you in a previous post it takes a little time to investigate. |
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"I can't remember what website I joined once. But when you signed up, you couldn't start a dm message conversation for 30 days.
You could be messaged and reply, you just couldn't start the conversation.
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I'd start with maximum filters on for single female profiles, with a warning about the deluge you might expect. I imagine part of attrition of female profiles comes from that mess. |
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By *ugby 123Couple 1 week ago
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"Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
they will. Normally you don't hear anything back when sending a report but in this case you will. You will get a mail saying they are looking into it and then a mail when resolved.
As Admin ( in a high % of cases ) have to contact both parties then it may take a couple of days after the report has been seen.
Thank you, caught someone using my pic as their own yesterday and was shocked. I have someone watching that account and they still have my pic up unfortunately 24 hours later 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️"
As explained on the post, it takes time to investigate so Admin get it right.
A report can take up to 48 hours to be seen ( longer if busy period ) and then Admin do their investigation as an extra so please be patient. |
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Many ideas:
- Ability "Hide" profile instead of blocking them if you want to stop them from showing in your search results
- Filter meets and events to only the ones which say that they are looking for men.
- Forum replies quote only the last message that's being replied to, instead of showing the entire conversation.
- Search profiles by text in their description |
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Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. |
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By *ugby 123Couple 1 week ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. "
To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet |
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great.
To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet"
No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police. |
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Loads of great ideas. I will add:
Having a minimum as well as maximum distance for meets. Not everyone wants to see accounts of people they will see in their local Aldi on here. For those not bothered it can be zeroed.
I also think its time the site updated its TV/TS category - its a little outdated and a few sub categories will allow people to more accurately describe themselves and allow others to be more discerning in their search preferences.
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By *WB85Man 1 week ago
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. "
I think it would certainly change some people's approaches and behaviour on here....and thats a good thing.
Nobody genuine would have an issue with this in my eyes. |
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Give it a update after about 25 years |
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Another one could be keeping veris if user has left site.
Forum posts just get labelled UNLOS,veris could do the same. |
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By *ugby 123Couple 1 week ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great.
To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet
No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police. "
If this happened off site then you did the correct thing in reporting to the police. The police will get in touch with Admin if needed.
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An instant messenger type option so it’s easier to have a proper conversation but it would obviously require filters or an option to turn it off etc too so you dont get bombard. |
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Being able to log on without showing as online |
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"Incognito mode-to be able to turn off that little blue light
Id love the option to not show when online
Sometimes I just want to come on forums and not message and when you're seen online you get abuse for not answering messages 'because you're online' "
This is my top feature request. |
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great.
To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet
No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police.
If this happened off site then you did the correct thing in reporting to the police. The police will get in touch with Admin if needed.
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It did happen off site, I gave police evidence of unwanted contact but I didn't tell them about this site, out of embarrassment. So they won't have contacted fab. I did, but nothing. This man and a women were contacting me on multiple social media platforms and other ways of contacting me, as I have a business my details are easily found. So I've just got to continue to ignore attempts and hope he eventually leaves me alone. |
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By *vaRoseWoman 1 week ago
Ankh-Morpork |
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I also think its time the site updated its TV/TS category - its a little outdated and a few sub categories will allow people to more accurately describe themselves and allow others to be more discerning in their search preferences.
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Agreed they really shouldn’t be put together anymore. |
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By *ugby 123Couple 1 week ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great.
To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet
No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police.
If this happened off site then you did the correct thing in reporting to the police. The police will get in touch with Admin if needed.
It did happen off site, I gave police evidence of unwanted contact but I didn't tell them about this site, out of embarrassment. So they won't have contacted fab. I did, but nothing. This man and a women were contacting me on multiple social media platforms and other ways of contacting me, as I have a business my details are easily found. So I've just got to continue to ignore attempts and hope he eventually leaves me alone. "
The police won't care what site you are on. As you didn't mention this to the police and you say it happened offsite then there is not much Admin can do on here to be fair. I would still report but they can't investigate anything offsite.
Either way lets get back to the OP please.
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"Incognito mode-to be able to turn off that little blue light
Id love the option to not show when online
Sometimes I just want to come on forums and not message and when you're seen online you get abuse for not answering messages 'because you're online'
This is my top feature request."
This would be handy |
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great.
To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet
No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police.
If this happened off site then you did the correct thing in reporting to the police. The police will get in touch with Admin if needed.
It did happen off site, I gave police evidence of unwanted contact but I didn't tell them about this site, out of embarrassment. So they won't have contacted fab. I did, but nothing. This man and a women were contacting me on multiple social media platforms and other ways of contacting me, as I have a business my details are easily found. So I've just got to continue to ignore attempts and hope he eventually leaves me alone.
The police won't care what site you are on. As you didn't mention this to the police and you say it happened offsite then there is not much Admin can do on here to be fair. I would still report but they can't investigate anything offsite.
Either way lets get back to the OP please.
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Was just answering the question TBF. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 1 week ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Be able to set your filters so as winks are turned off |
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A blog section on every profile |
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By *ugby 123Couple 1 week ago
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Was just answering the question TBF. "
You did, which also had a complaint about a user. Which is why I answered your post, you elaborated and I asked for things to get back to the OP instead.
So lets go there  |
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Soon as someone starts crying about not having any luck on the site they get a choice, kicked off or charged triple to stay.
The mr |
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We should have the ability to send gifs. Let's face it the site is a little outdated.
I think you should be able to view your own videos without having to have a gold/silver pass.
More security features that can detect bots.
I just think it needs a good update. |
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"Add pics/memes to forum posts."
Ooft. I'd rather not, because things would descend into memes rather than actually communicating |
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"Add pics/memes to forum posts.
Ooft. I'd rather not, because things would descend into memes rather than actually communicating "
Fair enough and can see your point. |
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"Soon as someone starts crying about not having any luck on the site they get a choice, kicked off or charged triple to stay.
The mr "
Haha that’s belter love it 😂 |
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Get rid of hidden / stealth mode
Why is it ok to stalk someone’s movements on here |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
Purge style forums every Friday from 9-12.
You can say anything and no one gets the b word! |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"Get rid of hidden / stealth mode
Why is it ok to stalk someone’s movements on here"
Hell no I'd be getting a restraining order put on me |
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"Purge style forums every Friday from 9-12.
You can say anything and no one gets the b word! "
Oh my word, I would love that! |
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"Get rid of hidden / stealth mode
Why is it ok to stalk someone’s movements on here"
I don't think it's stalking. It's more, I don't want attention drawn to myself if I'm looking at someone's profile.
(When I first joined, scrolling through updates, I nearly dropped my phone. In scrambling to pick it up, I clicked on the profile of some guy, who thought my profile view was a guaranteed meet, and sent increasingly abusive messages when I said "sorry, no". Having stealth mode on means that never happens) |
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By *ugby 123Couple 1 week ago
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"Purge style forums every Friday from 9-12.
You can say anything and no one gets the b word! "
Can you suggest for a Monday as I am not here at that time on a Friday and I would like to join in  |
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That when you block a profile it extends to all associated profiles. Sick to death of seeing one particular guy who gets a new account every 2 days in my inbox. |
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"Basic intelligence test.
Below 80% you aren't allowed on.
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Or have a fab smart and a fab stupid. |
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"As images are already categorised when you upload them, members should be able to select which categories they’ll accept in DM’s. That would resolve most of the unsolicited dick pics.
Silhouette profiles can’t send first messages. That way people can still take a break, can hide their account or remove their profile pic - but they also can’t send first messages.
Upon joining mailbox should be locked and require you to open your filters to allow DM’s, not the other way around.
Incognito or busy mode so you don’t have to always show as online.
Photo fabs would have an anonymous option.
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This!!!! |
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On the forum: better quoting
In general: a donut search function to exclude those within a few miles.
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Allow likes for comments and Stories & fantasies threads.
A better way to organise your content, maybe a second non-public album/folder for face pics or whatever you want (you can name it)
Restrict save pics from any profile It's so easy
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"On the forum: better quoting
In general: a donut search function to exclude those within a few miles.
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Great idea, also the option to exclude your own profile from nearby. |
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By *oc1998 OP Man 1 week ago
Dundalk |
Damn these are all some fantastic ideas. I do think personally there are way too many chancers who do nothing but annoy people and if there was a way to get of them all, this place would be so much better |
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A free Parker pen for signing up.
Actually scratch that. A free non-brand ball point pen just for signing up (I have no intention of a price increase). |
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Every time someone new to the forums wants to start a new topic, it diverts them onto the search function for their answers:
Why can’t I get a shag?
How can I improve my profile?
Who’s got the biggest dick on fab?
Who’s got the biggest tits on fab?
Where’s my nearest dogging site?
Why am I such a wrongun? |
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"Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned.
Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. "
This |
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And please put the ARROW (back/forward) or page numbers 1/2/3/4…. And the “SAVE CHANGES” button at the top too. It's really annoying to scroll every page down to browse here |
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Ban all profiles that include those ridiculous disclaimers and pseudo legal statements, as it's clear the users haven't bothered to read the FAQs, which might suggest they also have no idea about the T&C's they agreed to when they joined. |
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"On the forum: better quoting
In general: a donut search function to exclude those within a few miles.
Great idea, also the option to exclude your own profile from nearby."
🙏 please I have to hide my profile every time I go to work |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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I’d create a system that holds people accountable when they arrange a meet and don’t turn up. Something along the lines of….
If people want to meet they click a “let’s meet” button on someone’s profile. This gets logged if both parties do this, their IP address etc are recorded. The log is accessible by both parties who can later say what happened. Called off by mutual agreement, never arranged, arranged but didn’t show, successful meet etc.
This data can then be shown on profiles to give an indication of how reliable a person may be. Everyone would be free to ignore this or not at their own discretion.
I site with 10,000 serious people is preferable to a site with 50,000 unknowns in my personal opinion.
But I think the site is based on a php script with very limited scope for changes, hence no changes. |
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One matched conversation per day. That means you get matched with someone based on your preferences and theirs, you can have a conversation that lasts two messages each and then you have the option to end the conversation or continue. You can also have the option to change the frequency to bi weekly or monthly. |
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I'd have a beginners forum/Boot camp that you have to pass before progressing to full om access
Appreciate there are restrictions, but they dont go far enough to reduce the flock of new people that are visible. They shouldn't be visible until after passing some sort of test/time restrained ability to engage with newer people themselves |
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"I’d create a system that holds people accountable when they arrange a meet and don’t turn up. Something along the lines of….
If people want to meet they click a “let’s meet” button on someone’s profile. This gets logged if both parties do this, their IP address etc are recorded. The log is accessible by both parties who can later say what happened. Called off by mutual agreement, never arranged, arranged but didn’t show, successful meet etc.
This data can then be shown on profiles to give an indication of how reliable a person may be. Everyone would be free to ignore this or not at their own discretion.
I site with 10,000 serious people is preferable to a site with 50,000 unknowns in my personal opinion.
But I think the site is based on a php script with very limited scope for changes, hence no changes. "
I like this. I'd like to add a rating system that can take positive and negative feedback so everyone gets a score based on the interaction.... |
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"When you block somebody, you dont see their forum threads or posts. Their pics dont show on your updates feeds etc.
Once blocked, they are essentially deleted from "your" Fab
But then you wouldn't see my post on forums 😉😜😂"
I checked my list of the things I want to do to you. Blocking you doesnt feature on it
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By *adyBugsWoman 1 week ago
not local even if it says I am |
"Every time someone new to the forums wants to start a new topic, it diverts them onto the search function for their answers:
Why can’t I get a shag?
How can I improve my profile?
Who’s got the biggest dick on fab?
Who’s got the biggest tits on fab?
Where’s my nearest dogging site?
Why am I such a wrongun?"
I thought this was improving fab thread not self reflection Felix, darling 😈😉 |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"I’d create a system that holds people accountable when they arrange a meet and don’t turn up. Something along the lines of….
If people want to meet they click a “let’s meet” button on someone’s profile. This gets logged if both parties do this, their IP address etc are recorded. The log is accessible by both parties who can later say what happened. Called off by mutual agreement, never arranged, arranged but didn’t show, successful meet etc.
This data can then be shown on profiles to give an indication of how reliable a person may be. Everyone would be free to ignore this or not at their own discretion.
I site with 10,000 serious people is preferable to a site with 50,000 unknowns in my personal opinion.
But I think the site is based on a php script with very limited scope for changes, hence no changes.
I like this. I'd like to add a rating system that can take positive and negative feedback so everyone gets a score based on the interaction.... "
Fucking hell.... |
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By *adyBugsWoman 1 week ago
not local even if it says I am |
I don’t want to change it, I like living in 1996. The internet was better then.
It made me sad when they changed it so we can use phone keyboard emojis 💔 |
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By *oyoteUglyWoman 1 week ago
Somewhere dark and gloomy |
"I don’t want to change it, I like living in 1996. The internet was better then.
It made me sad when they changed it so we can use phone keyboard emojis 💔"
Same! |
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"When you block somebody, you dont see their forum threads or posts. Their pics dont show on your updates feeds etc.
Once blocked, they are essentially deleted from "your" Fab
But then you wouldn't see my post on forums 😉😜😂
I checked my list of the things I want to do to you. Blocking you doesnt feature on it
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When arranging a meet you both agree to it in site , and if someone doesn’t turn up it gets logged and if they are repeat offenders they are suspended from arranging or shows up on their page or even banned |
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"Basic intelligence test.
Below 80% you aren't allowed on.
Or have a fab smart and a fab stupid."
Going by many messages sent on here, this could be linked to post-wank and pre-wank. |
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"On the forum: better quoting
In general: a donut search function to exclude those within a few miles.
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That was my thought.. just didn't have a name for it 😊 |
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Question for the mods, will the site admin take any of these suggestions into account, if yes then does the site have a change log of new features and the date added? |
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By *ugby 123Couple 1 week ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Question for the mods, will the site admin take any of these suggestions into account, if yes then does the site have a change log of new features and the date added?"
Admin see all suggestions, either through the forum or passed to them. how they store the suggestions I don't know sorry.
If they decide to implement any suggestions they normally post a thread in the feedback section.
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I would get rid of the free features and make everyone pay - that would sort out the legitimate profiles from the hoards of dreamers we have to endure on here, who stay as they have no penalty for lurking at zero cost, thinking its a free sex site, with no interest it "swinging" at all. |
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More options to filter what you are looking for.
Better sexual preferences options
Reporting people actually resulting in something.Maybe an outcome email - this dickhead had been banned for 48 hrs
More category sections for threads
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"More options to filter what you are looking for.
Better sexual preferences options
Reporting people actually resulting in something.Maybe an outcome email - this dickhead had been banned for 48 hrs
More category sections for threads
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Oh and picture uploads on threads would be fab! |
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By *oxy-RedWoman 1 week ago
pink panther territory |
"Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned.
Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. "
100 per cent agree |
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Promotion and relegation with prem/championship/div 1 and div 2 with members getting points for to be decided acts |
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"Promotion and relegation with prem/championship/div 1 and div 2 with members getting points for to be decided acts"
No heading the balls though! |
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"Promotion and relegation with prem/championship/div 1 and div 2 with members getting points for to be decided acts
No heading the balls though!"
Minus points unless it’s someone’s fetish |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 1 week ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Fisting be able to differentiate between giving and receiving as I'm sure a couple of people have turned up with lube and a boxing glove only to see the same |
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By *olteMan 1 week ago
Sutton |
The owner has unlimited blow jobs. Otherwise I ban those that say no. 😜🤣😂 |
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Start burning all the pm mail, and introduce random 48 forum bans for all. That should stamp out moral ...
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Make it compulsory all the naughty wives slept with me. Just kidding but horny thought |
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"A blog section on every profile"
Can this became a thing tho, I’m here for the misery of it all
09/04/26 any women that can accommodate at 11pm tonight let me know
10/04/26 today I sent out 353 Hi how R U messages and got no replies
11/04/26 this site is full of fakes and scammers
12/04/26 so boring on here, no one wants to meet I’m deleting my account
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"A blog section on every profile
Can this became a thing tho, I’m here for the misery of it all
09/04/26 any women that can accommodate at 11pm tonight let me know
10/04/26 today I sent out 353 Hi how R U messages and got no replies
11/04/26 this site is full of fakes and scammers
12/04/26 so boring on here, no one wants to meet I’m deleting my account
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I occasionally hotlist people to see them live tweet this process. |
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"A blog section on every profile
Can this became a thing tho, I’m here for the misery of it all
09/04/26 any women that can accommodate at 11pm tonight let me know
10/04/26 today I sent out 353 Hi how R U messages and got no replies
11/04/26 this site is full of fakes and scammers
12/04/26 so boring on here, no one wants to meet I’m deleting my account
I occasionally hotlist people to see them live tweet this process."
Send me some good ones next time 🤣 |
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Tbf someone else could make another swingers site or an app let's say. Does fab swingers have its own app.
I feel like the tech is the easy part these days… the real question is whether you could get enough genuine people on it to make it work. That’s what makes or breaks it. |
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"A blog section on every profile
Can this became a thing tho, I’m here for the misery of it all
09/04/26 any women that can accommodate at 11pm tonight let me know
10/04/26 today I sent out 353 Hi how R U messages and got no replies
11/04/26 this site is full of fakes and scammers
12/04/26 so boring on here, no one wants to meet I’m deleting my account
I occasionally hotlist people to see them live tweet this process."
Rite then I am disabling hotlist for 24 hours ... I won't have anybody having any form of fun ... with that function either |
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"Tbf someone else could make another swingers site or an app let's say. Does fab swingers have its own app.
I feel like the tech is the easy part these days… the real question is whether you could get enough genuine people on it to make it work. That’s what makes or breaks it."
insabordination take a 48.. for that one you can |
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Have to prove you are a couple, not allow single weirdos to hide behind couple profiles! |
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"Have to prove you are a couple, not allow single weirdos to hide behind couple profiles! "
nonsense that's hear say inbox ban for 48 ... |
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Absolute proof for all profiles with a video message required of all parties associated with account., I’d even go as far as saying you can only register and pay with a Debit/Credit card holding real name of account holder/s in a database.
not pay by phone etc.
Website major overhaul, it works well could just do with being better looking and not designed in some Microsoft package from 90s this also applies to forums and cam rooms.
Not that I struggle with it as males are filtered but unsolicited pics result in a ban.
Certain apps on phone can, but not sure about on computers, but will stop you from taking screenshots, I’d implement this on all images and cams.
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Mods get unlimited sex, somehow 
Search ability on every data field
Blank profiles encouraged/hounded to fill in information, after a month, maximum |
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To let me set up “fab school” - sessions for guys on photos, profiles, how to write a bio and ultimately how to write that all important first message! |
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"To let me set up “fab school” - sessions for guys on photos, profiles, how to write a bio and ultimately how to write that all important first message! "
They all know best, just leave them to it  |
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"Have to prove you are a couple, not allow single weirdos to hide behind couple profiles!
nonsense that's hear say inbox ban for 48 ... "
🤣🤣🤣 |
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"To let me set up “fab school” - sessions for guys on photos, profiles, how to write a bio and ultimately how to write that all important first message!
They all know best, just leave them to it "
You knows it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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"Tbf someone else could make another swingers site or an app let's say. Does fab swingers have its own app.
I feel like the tech is the easy part these days… the real question is whether you could get enough genuine people on it to make it work. That’s what makes or breaks it."
Shared hosting won’t usually allow adult sites. Managed VPS is not cheap and a managed dedicated server is seriously expensive.
There are off the shelf scripts for dating sites/apps that you can buy fairly cheaply but would require extensive modifications to work for a swinging site.
But the main stumbling block with any new site is you have to fill it very fast or those that initially join just leave cos there’s not enough people |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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"Ban Rex Holes 🤣"
Yes, that would free up a few dozen single hotties 🙏 |
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"Have to prove you are a couple, not allow single weirdos to hide behind couple profiles! "
Agreed with this. And be an actual couple, not two singles hooking up pretending. |
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Everyone must be photo verified within 2 weeks of singing up
No other people on photos on single profiles
Blocking people on Fab means not being able to see their forum posts |
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By *alm_one4Man 1 week ago
Close To The Edge, Down Bi The River |
Ok, I have two.
When searching, profile results should show next to or under the profile name, sexual orientation.
Also, as I’m an avid reader of stories in that section of the forums, ability to filter out all the replies and just see the OP posts. |
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Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
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I agree with all. I'd also add this. If there's a couple. There needs a ratio expectation of 50:50 pictures of both the Mr and Mrs. Not just the Mrs. Posting only the Mrs defeats the point of a couple profile in my opinion. |
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Charge people for using the site features - no one should be able to look around the site or message without paying for it.
You should not be allowed to screen shot pics.
K |
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"Everyone must be photo verified within 2 weeks of singing up
No other people on photos on single profiles
Blocking people on Fab means not being able to see their forum posts"
I agree with this and also the suggestions of not showing when online. |
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Forum wise
- Being able to see OP only posts when you click on a thread
- It remembering where you were up to on a thread,so you can view newest posts from that point on when you go back to it later
- Notification if you were quoted
- The little green button, when you click the results it takes you to that users post, not just the thread they posted on for you to have to scroll through
Generally:
- Inability to screenshot photos
- I have the problem for this one but not the solution! Some kind of tweak to veris so if the person is one that should be avoided, for legitimate reasons, it can be flagged to other users, without the user being able to choose whether it's displayed or not. How you determine legitimate reasons and police that though, is another matter entirely.
- Similarly, maybe something that shows this person is on X number of block lists.
I appreciate use of this site is down to due diligence, experience, gut feeling etc but I think there are things that could be done to improve bits.
So essentially, improving forum usability and site safety. |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
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Agree with all except the Forum block which I don't think would work in practice and be subject to abuse. I think if people can't scroll past remarks they don't like or are triggering then perhaps the forum is not a good place?🤷
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I'd make it look modern. And I'd be the only guy on the site.  |
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. "
Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist |
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Agree with all except the Forum block which I don't think would work in practice and be subject to abuse. I think if people can't scroll past remarks they don't like or are triggering then perhaps the forum is not a good place?🤷
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You’d hope so but I can imagine there’s been occasions where some people have become targets in forum threads when those they’ve blocked try and use it as their only source of interaction. It hasn’t happened to me but I can imagine it being a thing. How do you feel it would it be subject to abuse? |
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist"
Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha) |
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist
Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha) "
Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it.
Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️)
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Have a function whereby you can block single men from being able to contact you but can still see if they looked at you.
I’d also implement a swipe system as an option like that well-known dating app. |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Agree with all except the Forum block which I don't think would work in practice and be subject to abuse. I think if people can't scroll past remarks they don't like or are triggering then perhaps the forum is not a good place?🤷
You’d hope so but I can imagine there’s been occasions where some people have become targets in forum threads when those they’ve blocked try and use it as their only source of interaction. It hasn’t happened to me but I can imagine it being a thing. How do you feel it would it be subject to abuse? "
Someone could unblock to make a snide remark then block to stop a reply, that kind of thing. I think perhaps stopping direct replies to someone who's blocked you could work.
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"What one thing would you implement on the website that you think would only benefit everyone as a whole?"
An Ai that filters out the first messages that clearly have not read the profile and do not open up with what you have asked for.
98% of them are not whats asked.
I get that men are 100-1 but make an effort and at least pretend you care |
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Better account validation… no duplicate accounts - photo block so the recipient has to open pics in a conversation so no dick pics… auto responses… you cant send multiple messages before receiving a response and a no thanks also prevents any more messages. Like a message lock but not complete block. |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist
Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha)
Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it.
Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️)
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There's a feature to hide all images if you want to browse bumhole free. |
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"Have a function whereby you can block single men from being able to contact you but can still see if they looked at you. "
Equally if I've used the message filters what I've blocked should also not show if they've looked or not. Granted my looked at me list would be sparser than a desert but it'd be people I wanted to look at me. |
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist
Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha)
Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it.
Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️)
There's a feature to hide all images if you want to browse bumhole free."
Oh I did not know this!! Magic, thank you ! |
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Agree with all except the Forum block which I don't think would work in practice and be subject to abuse. I think if people can't scroll past remarks they don't like or are triggering then perhaps the forum is not a good place?🤷
You’d hope so but I can imagine there’s been occasions where some people have become targets in forum threads when those they’ve blocked try and use it as their only source of interaction. It hasn’t happened to me but I can imagine it being a thing. How do you feel it would it be subject to abuse?
Someone could unblock to make a snide remark then block to stop a reply, that kind of thing. I think perhaps stopping direct replies to someone who's blocked you could work. "
Ah I see what you mean - that didn’t even cross my mind. I suppose they could make it a bit like fbook where if you unblock someone, you can’t then re-block them for 48hours (at least I think that was the rule the last time I checked). |
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist
Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha)
Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it.
Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️)
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Yeah I don’t get it either… I don’t understand why anyone thinks pics like that would be alluring - male or female 😂 |
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks.
Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe.
Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal.
Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos.
More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category.
No genitals allowed as profile pics.
If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts.
Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist
Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha)
Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it.
Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️)
Yeah I don’t get it either… I don’t understand why anyone thinks pics like that would be alluring - male or female 😂 "
I’m about one more “why isn’t my inbox full of ravenous naked women desperate for my one in a million magic unstoppable penis” post away from a mega rant about why that might in fact be a slight turn off for a gender of human who more often than not, like a face and some mental stimulation to go with their unsolicited ballbag. |
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Ban men from using the platform who have straight on their profile but tell us privately that they are really bisexual.
It would stop a lot of confusion for people that only play with straight men.
A list of these men is getting longer daily. |
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Most days I’m straight. So far in life I’ve only ever done things irl that would constitute being straight.
Some days I wake up and think, hmm I might try some stuff.
Do I have to amend my profile every time I have a different thought?
Can I not just start a conversation and announce what I’m looking for with the recipient(s)?
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Don’t be silly
Men will always hide the fact that they are really bisexual because a lot of couples and single ladies won’t meet them.
I would say that the majority of single ladies and couples play with bisexual men.
Do you really know who you are having sex with. |
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Don't see threats from people you have banned, notifications on watched threads |
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"What one thing would you implement on the website that you think would only benefit everyone as a whole?"
Fix the chat rooms. When somebody leaves a room show that in chat. Don't have people in 5 or 6 different rooms at once. |
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I'd make it so if you do get banned, you can't create another account using same pics |
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Report those with *ahem* "legal" warnings and they get one chance to remove it or get banned  |
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Couples have to have pics of both. Tits pussy and cock. |
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By *htcMan 1 week ago
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Automatic filters on messages. As soon as one person gets more than 100 messages unread, no one else can message unless they are replying to a message that you have spoken to that person before. People who get no reply can only message 5 times before the profile will automatically hide you from the results this will last one year before you reappear.
Better search filters is another thing |
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Up the age range and cancel the Gen Z’s |
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Dark mode so my eyes aren't blinded late at night |
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"Ban silhouette profiles "
Would you prefer a picture of the tip of my pinky finger? |
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Make filling out a bio with a certain number of characters a mandatory field when signing up.
None of this one word, letter or sentence bios, or “fill in later” nonsense. |
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Automatically ban any men who ask how my day is |
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shuffle ban button..
that way everybody gets a random slice....
I will make this fair 1 hour per shuffle |
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"Automatically ban any men who ask how my day is "
^^ she’s having a bad day |
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By (user no longer on site) 1 week ago
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A ban on woke madness |
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