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Is it ever 'too much'?
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Hey there,
We're new here. Again. A new profile, but the same name.
We've finally photo verified and can now post videos, and I got to thinking...
Is there such a thing as posting too much, or even too explicit? Can it have a detrimental effect on a profile and others engaging?
Thoughts... |
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Most people will have different views on this.
If you want your profile to be up front and in your face, go for it.
If you want your profile to be a bit more "less is better", that would work too.
Here, in my experience, the more explicit stuff you put out in public, the more attention you'll get. If that's your thing, go for it. |
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"Hey there,
We're new here. Again. A new profile, but the same name.
We've finally photo verified and can now post videos, and I got to thinking...
Is there such a thing as posting too much, or even too explicit? Can it have a detrimental effect on a profile and others engaging?
Thoughts..."
I would say you should do what you feel comfortable with. Some will find it too much. Others won’t. If you like it and it shows who you are, do you |
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"Hey there,
We're new here. Again. A new profile, but the same name.
We've finally photo verified and can now post videos, and I got to thinking...
Send me any vids you make and I'll advise you😜😁
Is there such a thing as posting too much, or even too explicit? Can it have a detrimental effect on a profile and others engaging?
Thoughts..."
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My opinion, post whatever you like. Rather ironically, my opinion is who cares what people’s opinions are, you’re never gonna please everyone so why try to. Post whatever you want and the people you want to impress will be looking |
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Its down to what you are comfortable posting if you think they might be a bit too much for some you can put them in your friends only and just let people know when you add each other so they dont just stumble on them. |
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I think you need to feel comfortable with what you post. If it's a true reflection on you as a couple, then it'll attract those who are interested. You don't want to post to please other people if it does show who you are in general. |
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I think we like the attention in the short term (on our last profile we found the Fab Cams and found we both had an unknown exhibitionist streak  ).
But, I guess, we aren't here paying for the site for attention. We're here to, hopefully, engage with others and plan some fun times. I'm not just wondering if less is more. |
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By *WB85Man 3 days ago
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Different content will attract different types of people.
For me explicit content is a huge turn off, but others will love it.
My pictures are relatively vanilla, because thats the kind of person I'd like to attract. |
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"I think we like the attention in the short term (on our last profile we found the Fab Cams and found we both had an unknown exhibitionist streak ).
But, I guess, we aren't here paying for the site for attention. We're here to, hopefully, engage with others and plan some fun times. I'm not just wondering if less is more."
Try it for a week if you're finding it puts the people you're interested in take it down, people forget very quickly |
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"I think we like the attention in the short term (on our last profile we found the Fab Cams and found we both had an unknown exhibitionist streak ).
But, I guess, we aren't here paying for the site for attention. We're here to, hopefully, engage with others and plan some fun times. I'm not just wondering if less is more.
Try it for a week if you're finding it puts the people you're interested in take it down, people forget very quickly "
Who said that? |
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"I think we like the attention in the short term (on our last profile we found the Fab Cams and found we both had an unknown exhibitionist streak ).
But, I guess, we aren't here paying for the site for attention. We're here to, hopefully, engage with others and plan some fun times. I'm not just wondering if less is more.
Try it for a week if you're finding it puts the people you're interested in take it down, people forget very quickly
Who said that?"
No idea 🤷♀️ |
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Unless it's against site/forum rules
Then just be you. Post however much you want, about what you want in any way you want.
It's going to attract those you want and those you don't regardless.
You will get people that like you, you will get people that don't.
So just be you, and use the forum for you. |
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Oh, were sticking very much to the site rules. We got a temporary message ban the last time, and we were never able to post to the forum. I thought it was a glitch, but it turns out it was probably the naughty step. |
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"Oh, were sticking very much to the site rules. We got a temporary message ban the last time, and we were never able to post to the forum. I thought it was a glitch, but it turns out it was probably the naughty step."
If you tap reply+quote we will know who you're answering  |
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"Hey there,
We're new here. Again. A new profile, but the same name.
We've finally photo verified and can now post videos, and I got to thinking...
Is there such a thing as posting too much, or even too explicit? Can it have a detrimental effect on a profile and others engaging?
Thoughts..."
I’m pretty sure you can’t post too much!  |
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Different people like different things. Personally we like quite restrained photos. We generally find very sexual photos suggest to us that somebody is too full-on for us and we wouldn't be a good match.
But we are probably not your target audience. Just try different things and see if you get the kind of engagement you are looking for from the kind of people you are looking for. |
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By *eliWoman 3 days ago
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"The world would be incredibly dull if we all liked the same things.
Can you even imagine? I think there’s a good psychological horror plot in that idea."
What a shout! I can see it now - an A24 production. Contemporary setting but with a tinge of eeriness and mounting dread. Write it, Rosie. |
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"Oh, were sticking very much to the site rules. We got a temporary message ban the last time, and we were never able to post to the forum. I thought it was a glitch, but it turns out it was probably the naughty step.
If you tap reply+quote we will know who you're answering "
I thought I did that with all the posts... Turns out I was chatting to myself **facepalm** |
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"I can see it now - an A24 production. Contemporary setting but with a tinge of eeriness and mounting dread. Write it, Rosie."
I read a sci-fi novel today with a Lovecraftian sense of existential, hopeless dread. I’m not in the headspace to bring hope to anything. |
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Your pics and videos are tastefully shot but they are still action pics/videos so you’ll get the whole range of FAB’s clientele getting in touch with a whole range of messages 😬
95% of those messages you probably don’t want to read but you’ll get some messages you do and you like their profile.
See what works for you both.
We don’t do graphic - we get enough strange messages without 😋
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"Hey there,
We're new here. Again. A new profile, but the same name.
We've finally photo verified and can now post videos, and I got to thinking...
Is there such a thing as posting too much, or even too explicit? Can it have a detrimental effect on a profile and others engaging?
Thoughts..."
In a place like this yes it can have a detrimental effect.
Here or on fet it will narrow the field of interested or repulsed people, but at least on fet its a much broader and more open minded set of people to begin with.
This is just a swinging site, not a fetish site, so the level of kink is bare minimum compared to what i'm used to, what i've shared in other places, like fet or what would be normal in germany or japan when you say kink.
Paying members might be a bit more open to kinkier things than blidnfolds and spanking or what ever but I can't imagine many of them even would want to see you face fucked after fucking ass after its been pissed in through the 3 inch dilator whilst you're hanging upside down in a double futomomo...
admins probably wouldn't allow it anyway...
Might be wise to ask admins what is allowed and what isn't. |
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It's personal preference but for me, yes.
I'm not a fan of lots of graphic photos on public display, I prefer teasing and seductive.
If a profile *only* has "action shots"/extremely graphic photos it puts me off right away. I don't use this site for wanking or free porn though.
But that's just my opinion. I'm sure there's others that love it. |
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If a profile has lots of really explicit pics, it won't be for me.
I think on couple profiles, if it's all just pics of the lady, it can go against them. Unless they're a straight couple and it's just the woman playing with men.
Any ladies looking to meet a couple, need to see a mix of both people in the pics, as they have to be attracted to both.
However as others have said, it's your profile and your choice what you show. |
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"If a profile has lots of really explicit pics, it won't be for me.
I think on couple profiles, if it's all just pics of the lady, it can go against them. Unless they're a straight couple and it's just the woman playing with men.
Any ladies looking to meet a couple, need to see a mix of both people in the pics, as they have to be attracted to both.
However as others have said, it's your profile and your choice what you show. "
Agree with this. I get lots of messages from couple profiles where the man is messaging me and all the photos are of the woman. I want to see both of you! |
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