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Is there any point having the "meet today' feature available to single male profiles?
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By *k12345 OP Man 8 weeks ago
London/Canterbury |
Im just wondering if there's any use in having this option available to men, are there any guys out there who have used this and its actually brought them a meet? I feel this is a useless feature for guys and probably only works for women and couples lol |
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By *k12345 OP Man 8 weeks ago
London/Canterbury |
"If it was removed for single guys there would be complaints. It's a feature available to everyone but it's use isn't compulsory"
I wouldn't complain if it was removed it does nothing imo and I'm sure there are many others who wouldn't either lol |
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By *k12345 OP Man 8 weeks ago
London/Canterbury |
"It's useful to let people know you are available. Some people use it for socials, impromptu meets or when plans fall through and they need a plan B."
Yes it's good to let ppl know your available but I'd love to hear from any single guy who's used it and it's directly resulted in a lady or a couple dropping him a message saying they want to meet now, I doubt there are many, but if a lady or a couple use it I would think they would get lots of correspondence lol |
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By *k12345 OP Man 8 weeks ago
London/Canterbury |
"Whats thw point op. Youve got a choice of wether to use it or not. It will work for some and not others"
There's no harm in asking to see if this feature has actually worked for others i know i can choose to use it or not lol |
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"Whats thw point op. Youve got a choice of wether to use it or not. It will work for some and not others
There's no harm in asking to see if this feature has actually worked for others i know i can choose to use it or not lol"
Absolutely mate! Single guys should speak to other single guys more, help each other out, and network etc. 👌
You already have guessed this is a feature single ladies and couples use successfully. A sf friend of mine never failed to get meets this way, and usually had to take the ‘meet today’ listing down pretty quickly, as her inbox would be overrun 🫣 It used to depress me when I never got any responses, but hey-ho, that’s just single guy life in Fab 😞 |
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By *ddie1966Man 8 weeks ago
Paper Town Central, Essex. |
I don't know about anyone else, but for me, it kinda says "I'm desperate." for the men folk.
For a lady, it kinda says "God I'm bored"
As I say, it's just my way of looking at this function.
I generally perceive it to be pretty useless. |
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I had a disagreement with a woman on the forums years ago who said that women don't use that feature because they are more selective than men.
I disagreed because from my perspective at the time my local feed was filled with single women using status updates for exactly the same purpose.
I've never used it because I've no interest in meeting random people who might respond. I prefer to get to know people before meeting. |
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"It's a great way to show people you're desperate 👀"
There’s a woman in the South West I follow, who is right now, advertising a “quick suck, fuck, cum and go” meet in a week’s time. If you were local to her, I have no doubts you would be desperate to meet her….😉 |
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"It's a great way to show people you're desperate 👀
Or to show that you're easy going and only here for sex without the blah blah blah"
A couple up here on holiday, posted a dogging meet yesterday. I messaged them, but they’ve not read my message yet, presumably because they had so many responses, and sure enough; they’ve posted a veri from a local guy this morning…. |
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By *agic.MMan 8 weeks ago
Kent/London |
"It's a great way to show people you're desperate 👀
There’s a woman in the South West I follow, who is right now, advertising a “quick suck, fuck, cum and go” meet in a week’s time. If you were local to her, I have no doubts you would be desperate to meet her….😉"
I really wouldn't ...✌️ |
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By *CExeCouple 8 weeks ago
Hong-Kong/Exeter |
We've used it to good effect before when wanting a last minute mmf. Single guys get some stick on here, but having spent a good few years as a single lad on here I'll defend them 🤣. If you deleted the meet now for single men, the meets and events pages would get clogged instead. |
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"Not something I've used or can see me using tbh. This may sound strange all things considered, but I'm not sure I'd want to meet a lady that would like to meet me today"
Great answer. Each to their own but I find them very offputting. |
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"I’ve used it many times over the 14 years I’ve been in here.
It’s never worked for me once, but there’s always a first time! 😁
Let it be OP, and believe…….🤞"
Are you sure that 'used it' is quite the right term?
Sounds more like 'tried it unsuccessfully '!!! |
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"I’ve used it many times over the 14 years I’ve been in here.
It’s never worked for me once, but there’s always a first time! 😁
Let it be OP, and believe…….🤞
Are you sure that 'used it' is quite the right term?
Sounds more like 'tried it unsuccessfully '!!!"
Absolutely! “Tried it unsuccessfully” is completely correct! However; it’s a totally free function of the site, so why not give it a go? You just never know who might be free when you are 🤷♂️ |
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It's potentially useful for you single men, as someone getting a no show, could take a look to see who might be available.
I've used it and met some men on it
I generally think that it's great for single men to use all of the tools here, aiming to increase their success. Always get the profile right fellas |
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By *eliWoman 8 weeks ago
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It can be. Depends on who you're wanting to meet. Why you're wanting to?
If you're straight, I think the likelihood of it resulting in anything sexual is quite low. And it might put some women off.
But if you want to try it out, do so with very little expectations. Best way of approaching most things on Fab. 😊
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 8 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Totally useful for others.
When I go on meet today, I get a load of messages (99%) from outside my area or even bloody country, so often when I'm looking for a meet, I just save myself the admin of a full inbox by looking to see who is currently available.
I'm sure this is the same for couples and single ladies  |
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