Let her do the vetting.
There is a great chance that she will get hundreds of men who are willing. The trick will be finding one that has the values and qualities 'she' is looking for.
Even then there is no telling how long he will stick around.
I wish 'her' luck. 'She' has a decision to make and then act on that decision. It's all anyone can do. |
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By *eliWoman 8 weeks ago
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Your wife finding it? It can happen. Like other posters above have said, if she does the active searching, is proactive the likelihood increases. I've met men who fit that description. They've asked if they could be my boyfriend. :D
The only new advice I'd give - it's a lot easier if the person is polyamorous. I've dated men who are ethically non-monogamous but very much romantically monogamous. It can be a headfuck. |
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"Have her do the active searching herself. Don’t rely on the right man to fall into your inbox - it’ll be a long wait "
Thanks for your reply, she has been searching for a long time on her solo profile and solo date sites but it is harder than she had imagined so I thought I’d ask the fab population and see if they have found a way x |
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"Your wife finding it? It can happen. Like other posters above have said, if she does the active searching, is proactive the likelihood increases. I've met men who fit that description. They've asked if they could be my boyfriend. :D
The only new advice I'd give - it's a lot easier if the person is polyamorous. I've dated men who are ethically non-monogamous but very much romantically monogamous. It can be a headfuck."
She has met a couple that became good friends and regular lovers but everyone seems to be working all hours and family commitments to enjoy life |
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